

Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula
Traci Arieli
Join host Traci Arieli for "Comforting Closure," a podcast where the often silent topics of aging, death, and grieving are explored with compassion and clarity. Each episode features guests who share practical advice, emotional insights, and spiritual perspectives to illuminate these natural yet seldom discussed aspects of life. Dive into tender conversations designed to demystify and destigmatize these experiences, offering solace and understanding to those navigating life's final chapters. Grab a warm drink and find a moment of peace amidst profound transitions with "Comforting Closure."
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Aug 8, 2024 • 52min
Behind the Badge: Grief and Healing for First Responders
I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli discusses the unique challenges that police officers and first responders face when it comes to grieving. Joined by Nicole Junkerman, a retired police officer and founder of Positive Passing, LLC, they explore the emotional toll these high-stress professions can take and the complexities of grief for those in law enforcement. Nicole shares her personal experiences from her time in law enforcement and how they have shaped her approach as a death doula. Key takeaways include the importance of creating supportive environments for officers to express their grief, understanding the societal and institutional barriers they face, and practical advice on how to support first responders dealing with loss. This episode aims to demystify and de-stigmatize the natural yet often unspoken aspects of grief in high-stress professions, offering support to both industry professionals and those unfamiliar with the subject. Links/Resources: Guest: Nicole Junkerman’s Website - https://positive-passing-9s5o5.zensmb.com/#dm Host: Traci Arieli's Website - https://www.comfortingclosure.com Resources: Nicole Junkerman’s book, "Daddy’s Home," available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes! #DeathDoula #EndOfLifeDoula #GriefSupport #FirstResponders #PoliceGrief #ComfortingClosure #PositivePassing

Aug 1, 2024 • 35min
Modernizing End-of-Life Planning: A Discussion with Thanacare
I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli discusses the critical importance of advanced directives and planning for a good quality of life as we age. Joined by Sam Madison, Co-Founder and Chief Operating Officer of Thanacare, they explore how to ensure that doctors and medical staff follow your wishes and the best ways to communicate those wishes to your loved ones. Key takeaways include overcoming the barriers to completing healthcare directives, the benefits of using modern tools like QR codes for accessibility, and the significance of having a healthcare power of attorney. This episode aims to normalize conversations around aging, death, and grief, and is intended for both professionals and those new to these topics. Links/Resources: Guest: Thanacare - https://www.thanacare.com Host: Traci Arieli's Website - https://www.comfortingclosure.com Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes! #DeathDoula #EndOfLifeDoula #AdvancedDirectives #Thanacare #EndOfLifePlanning

Jul 25, 2024 • 52min
Reviving Tradition: Exploring Home Funerals with the National Home Funeral Alliance
I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of "Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula," host Traci Arieli discusses the profound impact of home funerals with Isabel Knight from the National Home Funeral Alliance. Together, they explore the practicalities, benefits, and challenges of home funerals, including navigating hospital and hospice rules, understanding legalities, and the importance of planning ahead. Isabel shares how cultural norms and practices intersect with the home funeral movement, addressing issues of racism and cultural sensitivity within death care. They also discuss the growing role of death doulas, the significant increase in women entering the funeral industry, and the problem of funeral debt. Key takeaways include how families can start thinking about home funerals, the support available from NHFA, and the importance of community in death care. This episode aims to normalize conversations around aging, death, and grief, providing information and support to listeners. Links/Resources: Guest: National Home Funeral Alliance - https://www.homefuneralalliance.org/ Host: Traci Arieli's Website - https://www.comfortingclosure.com NHFA Home Funeral Guidebook (donation-based) - https://www.homefuneralalliance.org/home-funeral-guidebook.html NHFA 2024 Deathcare Conference: https://www.homefuneralalliance.org/conference.html Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes! #DeathDoula #EndOfLifeDoula #HomeFuneral #DeathCare #GriefSupport

Jul 18, 2024 • 35min
Witnessing and Wisdom: Victoria Beelik on Losing Parents
I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli explores the emotional journey of losing both parents within a short span of time. Joined by Victoria Beelik, author of "Watching My Parents Die," they discuss the challenges of navigating differing end-of-life wishes and the personal toll it takes. Victoria shares her story of making difficult medical decisions, coping with the burden of family secrets, and her reasons for writing her book. This episode looks at the complexities of family dynamics, medical ethics in end-of-life care, and the importance of discussing death openly. Links/Resources Guest: Victoria Beelik's Website - deathandlove.net Host: Traci Arieli's Website - https://www.comfortingclosure.com Resources: "Watching My Parents Die" by Victoria Beelik (Available on major book retail platforms) Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes! Join us as we continue to open up crucial conversations about life, death, and everything in between.

Jul 11, 2024 • 55min
Voices of Dementia: Demand Support to Keep Living Your Life Fully
I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Episode Description: In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli discusses the complex and often stigmatized topic of dementia. Joined by Kate Swaffer from Dementia Alliance International, they explore Kate's personal journey with young-onset dementia, the formation of Dementia Alliance International, and the crucial peer-to-peer support it offers. Key takeaways include the importance of demanding support to keep living, the role of grief management, and the need for systemic change in how dementia is perceived and treated. Links/Resources: Guest: Kate Swaffer's Website - http://www.kateswaffer.comDementia Alliance International - www.dementiaallianceinternational.org Join Dementia Alliance International - www.joindai.org Host: Traci Arieli's Website - https://www.comfortingclosure.com Resources: Book: "What the Hell Happened to My Brain?" by Kate Swaffer Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes! #DeathDoula #EndOfLifeDoula #Dementia #Support #Grief #Empowerment

Jul 4, 2024 • 40min
(Repeat) Art as a Path for Healing
I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.(Originally aired on September 12, 2023.)In this thoughtful conversation, Traci Arieli, the founder of Comforting Closure, sits down with therapist and author Bradie Hansen to explore the transformative power of art in the grieving process. Bradie, a prominent voice in the therapy community and a co-author of the book "The Long Grief Journey," shares insights drawn from both personal experiences and professional observations.Together, we dive deep into the nuances of grief, discussing its various forms and the often underestimated healing potential of art - with a special focus on fiber arts like knitting, weaving, and spinning. Bradie opens up about her personal journey of finding solace and expression through these mediums, offering a comforting perspective for those navigating their own paths of loss and healing.Whether you are experiencing grief personally or supporting others through their journey, we invite you to join our discussion and perhaps discover new avenues for healing and connection. Please watch, share, and engage with this discussion as we explore 'Art as a Path to Healing.' Your likes, shares, and subscriptions help us to bring these important conversations to a wider audience. Thank you for being a part of this community.To reach Bradie Hansen, go to https://healinghandcrafting.com/.To reach Traci Arieli, go to https://www.comfortingclosure.com.#Grief #ArtTherapy #ComfortingClosure #EndOfLifeDoula #DeathDoula

Jun 27, 2024 • 50min
Dignity in Departure: Understanding Self-Deliverance with Final Exit Network
I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.Trigger Warning: This episode discusses end-of-life choices and self-deliverance, which might be sensitive or triggering for some listeners. Please ensure you're in a space that feels safe and consider what's best for you as you listen. In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' host Traci Arieli discusses end-of-life autonomy and self-deliverance with Lowrey Brown, the Exit Guide Program Director at Final Exit Network. Together, they explore how individuals can shape their final chapters even in the face of debilitating diseases like ALS, MS, and dementia. Key takeaways from our discussion include understanding self-deliverance, navigating legal landscapes around assisted dying, and the importance of preparing advanced directives. This episode aims to normalize the conversation about death and provide insights into maintaining dignity at life's end. We hope to offer understanding, support, and comfort to anyone navigating these profound decisions. Links/Resources Guest: Lowrey Brown's & Final Exit Network - https://finalexitnetwork.org/ Please support Final Exit via https://finalexitnetwork.org/donate/make-a-donation/. Host: Traci Arieli's Website - https://www.comfortingclosure.com Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes!

Jun 20, 2024 • 54min
A Call for Kindness: The Humane Approach to End-of-Life Care in Prisons
I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' Traci Arieli discusses the profound impact of providing end-of-life care within the prison system. Joined by Laura Musselman, Outreach & Events Manager, and Fernando Murillo, Program Manager of the Humane Prison Hospice Project, they explore how the project brings dignity and compassionate care to incarcerated individuals nearing the end of their lives. Key takeaways include the innovative training of the incarcerated as palliative care workers, the unique challenges of providing hospice care in a correctional setting, and the emotional and practical support systems in place. This episode aims to normalize conversations around aging, death, and grief, even in the most unexpected environments. Links/Resources Guest: Humane Prison Hospice Project - humaneprisonhospiceproject.org Host: Traci Arieli's Website - comfortingclosure.com Resources: Humane Prison Hospice Project on Instagram - instagram.com/humaneprisonhospiceproject Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes! #DeathDoula #EndOfLifeDoula #PrisonReform #SocialJustice #CompassionInCare #HumanePrisonHospiceProject

Jun 20, 2024 • 54min
A Call for Kindness: The Humane Approach to End-of-Life Care in Prisons
I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' Traci Arieli discusses the profound impact of providing end-of-life care within the prison system. Joined by Laura Musselman, Outreach & Events Manager, and Fernando Murillo, Program Manager of the Humane Prison Hospice Project, they explore how the project brings dignity and compassionate care to incarcerated individuals nearing the end of their lives. Key takeaways include the innovative training of the incarcerated as palliative care workers, the unique challenges of providing hospice care in a correctional setting, and the emotional and practical support systems in place. This episode aims to normalize conversations around aging, death, and grief, even in the most unexpected environments. Links/Resources Guest: Humane Prison Hospice Project - humaneprisonhospiceproject.org Host: Traci Arieli's Website - comfortingclosure.com Resources: Humane Prison Hospice Project on Instagram - instagram.com/humaneprisonhospiceproject Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes! #DeathDoula #EndOfLifeDoula #PrisonReform #SocialJustice #CompassionInCare #HumanePrisonHospiceProject

Jun 13, 2024 • 44min
Inside the Funeral Industry: The Modern Mortician's Perspective
I'd love to hear from you! Send me a text message.In this episode of 'Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula,' Traci Arieli discusses the evolving landscape of the funeral industry with Melissa Meadow, known as the Modern Mortician. Together, they explore the concept of green funerals and how they can provide a more sustainable and ethical approach to honoring our loved ones. Melissa shares her journey into the death care industry, the challenges she faced, and her passion for transparency and education in funeral practices. Key takeaways include understanding the various eco-friendly options available, such as Alkaline Hydrolysis and conservation burials, and the importance of making informed decisions in an industry that can often be profit-driven. This episode aims to destigmatize conversations around death and dying, providing valuable insights for both professionals and those new to the topic. Links/Resources: Guest: The Modern Mortician Website - https://www.themodernmortician.com Host: Traci Arieli's Website - https://www.comfortingclosure.com Resources: Titan Casket for affordable, biodegradable caskets - https://titancasket.com/ Eloise Woods Natural Burial Park for conservation burials - https://www.eloisewoods.com/ Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe to stay updated with our latest episodes! #DeathDoula #EndOfLifeDoula #GreenFunerals #EcoFriendly #SustainableLiving #FuneralIndustry #ComfortingClosure


