Be There in Five

This week, Kate answers listener voicemails ranging from a variety of light and heavy topics, such as: Kaylor Purity culture affecting marriage Favorite celebrity rumor/folklore Deux Moi Experiences with Tarot card readers Friendship fallouts on Instagram Kate's current obsession: QuakerTok Best roller rink tunes What to do if a friend joins an MLM And much more! When you're finished, go to patreon.com/bethereinfive where she answers more questions! SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! Allform is offering 20% off all orders for our listeners at Allform.com/bethereinfive Get 20% off your first mani system when you go to oliveandjune.com/bethereinfive and use promo code BETHEREINFIVE Start fueling your adventures today at LIQUIDIV.COM, promo code BETHEREINFIVE for 25% off ANYTHING you order. As a listener, you'll get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/bethereinfive

This week, Kate snorkels through a variety of topics, with the core theme being overlooked and/or forgotten internet drama. She discusses Cinnamon Toast Crunch gate, sexism in Consumer Packaged Goods, talks about the role of cancel culture in the Bible, meanders through music with her favorite SAT words, talks about how you know influencers have 'made it,' then dives into one of her favorite internet communities: Candle Culture. From funny/forgotten candle rant youtubers, to her perceptions of Bath & Body Works vs. Yankee Candle vs. Dyptique, to the impact of COVID on the candle industry, aggressive reviews, pretentious descriptions and more -- it's safe to say Kate spends a lot of time *waxing* poetic in this candle-forward episode. She also talks about one of her favorite stories that yielded an exciting period of internet mystery and drama surrounding an epic pop star catfish. Overall, fun, lighthearted, and hopefully fast moving-- Enjoy! Apt tour & Taylor Swift trilogy theories new on Patreon: patreon .com/bethereinfive SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS To receive 20% off your first order, go to SKOUTSHONOR.com/BETHEREINFIVE Enter promo code BETHEREINFIVE at nutrafol.com to save twenty percent off your first month's subscription. Check out all the amazing shoes, bags and masks available right now at Rothys.com/BETHEREINFIVE. As a listener, you'll get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp dot com slash bethereinfive

This week, Kate has the pleasure of being joined by one of her favorite microinfluencers and women's health advocates, Ailsa Emmel from @_happygocurly_. Ailsa and Kate talk about so many topics, from the ups and downs of instagram, to how she got started, to women's health Wednesday, cancel culture, Kate's fears about childbirth, sex ed, and more. Since Ailsa is a Certified Nurse Midwife, a large majority of this conversation is dedicated to discussing women's health, being open about our bodies, and learning more about Ailsa's experience spending her days with different women in some of their most vulnerable moments. Kate loved this episode and conversation and hopes you do too! GetTWO pounds of ground beef in every box for the life of their subscription. Just go to ButcherBox.com/BETHEREINFIVE Get 20% off your first mani system when you go to oliveandjune.com/bethereinfive and use promo code BETHEREINFIVE Ritual is offering my listeners 10% off during your first 3 months. Visit ritual.com/BETHEREINFIVE to start your Ritual today Explore your creativity at Skillshare.com/BETHEREINFIVE and get a free trial of Premium Membership. Other resources: APISAA Therapist Directory @asianmentalhealthproject @asiansformentalhealth Shop merch at bethereinfive.com! Bonus eps and patreon at patreon.com/bethereinfive!

Kate recaps Meghan Markle & Prince Harry's bombshell interview with Oprah from last Sunday. The intro is new, with recent updates from Buckingham Palace and Kate discussing the British press' reaction, and the remainder of the episode is Kate's raw take from Sunday night right after it aired. If you already listened on Patreon, the first 30 mins or so are new! You can also listen to last night's live show Bar Cart Sports on demand through the end of the weekend - onlocationlive.com/bethereinfive TW: Suicide Description:Visit Audible.com/bethereinfive or text bethereinfive to 500-500. Go to Feals.com/bethereinfive and you'll get 50% off your first order with free shipping. Go to HelloFresh.com/bethereinfive12 and use code bethereinfive12 for 12 free meals, including free shipping! Enjoy 20% off your first order by going to minted.com/BETHEREINFIVE

This week, Kate salutes one of the most iconic magazine series of our time: Seventeen's Trauma-rama. First, she discusses Meghan & Harry's upcoming interview, then does a brief Are You Afraid of the Dark detour, followed by reading from old Seventeen & YM magazines she bought off of eBay from their juiciest embarrassing stories sections. Following that, she reads crowd-sourced 'things that are embarrassing for no reason' anecdotes from listeners and discusses the discomfort of, well, just generally existing. Enjoy! BAR CART SPORTS: This Thursday 3/11 at 9:05 EST! Buy tickets for my virtual live show at onlocationlive.com/bethereinfive Patreon bonus episodes: patreon.com/bethereinfive Support our sponsors! Helix is offering up to 200 dollars off ALL mattress orders AND 2 free pillows for our listeners at HelixSleep.com/BETHEREINFIVE As a listener, you'll get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/bethereinfive. Start fueling your adventures today at LIQUIDIV.COM, promo code BETHEREINFIVE for 25% off ANYTHING you order. Right now, ButcherBox is offering new members ground beef for life. That's TWO pounds of ground beef in every box for the life of their subscription. Just go to ButcherBox.com/BETHEREINFIVE.

This week, Kate does a continuation of last week's episode (Pussycat Dull) since more listeners submitted their tales of cringeworthy attempts to make their crush jealous. They somehow keep getting better. In between stories many of Kate's own anecdotes and insights are shared, from her being cast as a Valley Girl to a broader discussion of sexism in how women are judged for the way they speak. There's also discussions of things like the 00s 'mean girl' culture, a revisiting of Why Men Love Bitches, an argument for not striving for effortlessness, and an update on Childless Millennial, to name a few. Enjoy! BAR CART SPORTS: March 11 Virtual Live Show Tickets! onlocationlive.com/bethereinfive Bonus episodes: patreon.com/bethereinfive SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS To receive 20% off your first order, go to SKOUTSHONOR.com/BETHEREINFIVE for Natural and preventative grooming solutions for pets. As a listener, you'll get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/bethereinfive. Join over 1 million people taking charge of their mental health. Go to HelloFresh.com/10bethereinfive and use code 10bethereinfive for 10 free meals, including free shipping! Check out all the amazing shoes, bags and masks available right now at Rothys.com/BETHEREINFIVE

This week, Kate reads from listener-submitted stories about the embarrassing (and now hilarious) ways in our youth that we tried to make people jealous and/or acutely aware of how well we're doing following a romantic rejection. From the classic "sorry wrong IM" all the way to a full John Tucker Must Die reenactment, these stories represent the good, the bad, and the delightfully cringy of Livin La Vida Four Loko in the mid-2000s. But first, Kate discusses some broader thoughts on mid-aughts media & pop culture and how it influenced her 'hot girl' days, then her sister Kelly joins her to discuss her participation in an MLM, Valentine's stories, myspace, and more; followed by the two peppering in their bad dating stories as they listen through listeners' quests to go from dull to Pussycat Doll in peak "Don't Cha" culture. MARCH 11 LIVE SHOW TICKETS: onlocationlive.com/bethereinfive PATREON: patreon.com/bethereinfive (access to powerpoint parties, t swift bonus episodes, and more!) INSTAGRAM: instagram.com/bethereinfive LINK FOR LIST OF RESOURCES AND WAYS TO HELP IN TEXAS: https://www.instagram.com/p/CLZ_dAIHZLk/?igshid=1pbpqdq0d7xm2 SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! For a limited time, ButcherBox is offering new members 2 New York strip steaks and 1 pack of bacon for free in your first box. Just go to ButcherBox.com/BETHEREINFIVE . Get key nutrients–without the B.S. Ritual is offering my listeners 10% off during your first 3 months. Visit ritual.com/BETHEREINFIVE to start your Ritual today. Support our show by going to Nutrafol.com and using promo code BETHEREINFIVE and new customers will get twenty-percent off Plus FREE shipping on EVERY order. Download Best Fiends FREE today on the Apple App Store or Google Play. That's FRIENDS without the R – Best Fiends!

TW: Mention of EDs, body image discussion This week, Kate has a conversation with Erin Heatherton, a former Victoria's Secret Angel and Sports Illustrated model (among other things) who now lives in Chicago after having stepped back from the spotlight. She's now crushing it as an entrepreneur and somehow befriended Kate along the way, so they recorded a heart to heart about not only Erin's life and career but also about body image, problematic beauty standards, doing Ayahuasca, being in VS shows, dealing with depression, getting back to her roots, and so much more. instagram.com/bethereinfive Go to patreon.com/bethereinfive for over 100 bonus episodes & access to PowerPoint parties. Start crafting your unique Save the Dates or Invitations with Minted, made custom for you. Enjoy 20% off your first order by going to minted.com/BETHEREINFIVE As a listener, you'll get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/bethereinfive. Join over 1 million people taking charge of their mental health. Explore your creativity at Skillshare.com/BETHEREINFIVE and get a free trial of Premium Membership.

Kate answers listener voicemail questions on a variety of topics, e.g. music videos, her mom, fading friendships, city living, Dixie D'Amelio, societal pressures and more! Hotline: 312.379.9676 patreon.com/bethereinfive Right now, you can get a FREE rack of St. Louis Ribs, 1 pack of bacon and 1 pack of pulled pork for free in your first box. Just go to ButcherBox.com/BETHEREINFIVE Go Feals.com/bethereinfive and you'll get 50% off your first order with free shipping. Grab your Energy Liquid I.V. in bulk nationwide at Costco or you can get 25% off ANYTHING you order when you use promo code BETHEREINFIVE at LIQUIDIV.COM.

It's been one year since Kate begged her listeners to start talking the 'Tok, and on this episode, Kate follows up on her original TikTok deep dive to update everyone on what's happened in the past year. She broadly discusses the big trends, cringy dance moves, obscure subcultures, roller coaster legislation, favorite follows, etc., but also dives into specifics about some of the app's biggest stars. She discusses the trajectory of the D'Amelios, Addison Rae, The Hype House, Sway House, and even does an accidental (and kinda successful?) deep dive into Bella Poarch's mysterious background, among other things. Enjoy! Bonus episodes and guide to accounts mentioned: patreon.com/bethereinfive Follow @bethereinfive @bethereinfivepodcast Support our sponsors Go to HelloFresh.com/10bethereinfive and use code 10bethereinfive for 10 free meals, including free shipping! You deserve to know what's in your multivitamin. That's why Ritual is offering my listeners 10% off during your first 3 months. Visit ritual.com/BETHEREINFIVE to start your Ritual today. Download Best Fiends FREE today on the Apple App Store or Google Play. That's FRIENDS without the R – Best Fiends!