

Girls Gone Deep
Elle and Vee
Two sex-positive ladies in the ethically non-monogamous lifestyle chatting about how we use dating and sex as a space for personal development and growth, and creating the most joyous life possible. A podcast for the open-minded, curious and naughty. @girlsgonedeeppod www.girlsgonedeep.com
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Jun 5, 2025 • 53min
125: Does Penis Size Matter? Top Floor Recap, FOMO and Metamour Triggers
In this episode, Vee and Elle dive into their recent experiences in ENM, sharing naughty stories, recent personal growths and lesson learned. Jewelry Mishaps and Lingerie Inconveniences During Sex. (00:00)Top Floor Play Party Intentions: New Play Partner, New Location, Plus Pushing Exhibitionist Boundaries. (5:48)The Art of the Stacking: Creative Sexual Positions with 4 people (Porn Star Wolf Hudson Inspired). (18:49)Soft Cock: Thank you! (21:41)Advantages of Smaller Dicks: Listener Question Answered. (23:50)FOMO Trigger: Partner Staying Out Later Than You. (33:51)Metamour Challenge. (40:53)Support the show______How to Support the Show: 💰 Donate Here 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly.🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials.🪄 WAANDS™: Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

May 29, 2025 • 1h 2min
124: International Whores Day feat. Kaytlin Bailey and Priestess Francesca
For all our sapiosexuals out there, get ready for this panty-dropper! Elle and Vee chat with comedian and podcast host Kaytlin Bailey and "erotic initiatrix" Priestess Francesca about the history of International Whores Day, sex workers' rights, and our internalized prejudices. What is International Whores Day? (3:58)Decriminalizing vs Legalizing. (9:12)Spirituality and Religion intersecting with sex work. (12:13)Controlling sex workers is a feminist issue. (17:41)Internalized whorephobia in sex positive spaces. (20:23)Ethical non monogamy (ENM) and sex work. (29:39)What does the future of sex work look like and how can we be better allies? (38:47)Vee’s experience hiring a dominatrix with her ex, and how couples can utilize sex workers as educators. (47:25)Kaytlin Bailey Links:-Founder & Executive Director at Old Pros, a nonprofit that uses storytelling to advocate for s * x worker rights. Follow @oldprosonline — Email Newsletter | Instagram The Oldest Profession Podcast Wh*re's Eye View one woman showPriestess Francesca Links:WebsiteInstagramFree Masterclass!Sources:International Whores' Day: You can listen to the whole history of International Whores' Day on this episode of The Oldest Profession Podcast hosted by Kaytlin Bailey and Ceyenne Doroshow and this article in the Daily BeastSESTA/FOSTA: "SESTA/FOSTA refers to a set of laws passed under the Trump administration: The Stop Enabling Sex Traffickers Act (SESTA) and the Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act (Support the show______How to Support the Show: 💰 Donate Here 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly.🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials.🪄 WAANDS™: Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

May 22, 2025 • 57min
123: Masturbation: Early Experiences, How it Affects Your Relationship, and Self Touch Practices
This week, Elle and Vee dive deep into all things masturbation—from silent solo play to sex toy confessions, and the rituals we don’t talk about (but definitely should).What comes to mind when you think of masturbation? (04:42)Masturbating rather than playing in a couple. (06:10)Sexual empowerment through masturbation and sexting. (10:40)Cock stroking. (14:15)Does solo play take away from partner play? (14:58)Shame and a link to Kellogg's cereal. (17:32)How often do you masturbate, what do you use, and how long do you masturbate? (21:11)Making noise while touching yourself. (25:16)Does masturbation compete with intimacy in a couple? (28:33)Formative Experiences: Silent solo play, Elle’s early explorations, first orgasms and toys. (32:36)Wierd vocalization and sounds: have you were whimpered or cried during solo play? (38.28) Self pleasure ritual, and toys for G-spot orgasm and self prostate play. (40:37)Do you have better orgasms solo or with your partner? (44:18) Porn and Masturbation. (46:15)Self Touch Practice. (48:39)Support the show______How to Support the Show: 💰 Donate Here 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly.🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials.🪄 WAANDS™: Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

May 15, 2025 • 1h 1min
122: Kink Talk: Flogging, Whipping, Spanking, Fisting and Bodily Fluid Encounters
This week, Vee and Elle delve into their experiences with vulnerability, impact play, and the emotional complexities that arise during kinky encounters. From flogging techniques, to primal play, to collecting cum, squirt juice, a spit chalice, and even scat play, the girls don’t hold back, in their signature style. Crygasm, Vulnerability and Emotional Releases in Spanking Session (00:00)Flogging, Whipping, and Spanking Techniques (6:16Tantric Intimacy Social and Trance-like Spanking (15:41)Mindful and Intentional Scenes and Connections (22:35)Primal Play Fantasy Exploration (25:21)Ecstatic dance and High Off My Own Supply (31:41)Fisting Experiences, Receiving and Giving (35:59)Collecting Cum in a Jar to Collecting Squirt Juice in a Bowl (44:39)Spit Fetish and Collecting Spit Chalice (52:37)Support the show______How to Support the Show: 💰 Donate Here 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly.🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials.🪄 WAANDS™: Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

May 8, 2025 • 59min
121: Dark Eroticism: Piss Play, Kink Psychology, and Exploring the Taboo feat. Priestess Francesca
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Priestess Francesca about kink, piss, and the juicy world of dark desires. Bring your curiosity and leave your shame at the door.What is Dark Erotiscm? (3:04)Shadow Work: “fill the hole where shame used to be with love and acceptance.” (10:09)Taboo Kinks: Why are we afraid of our kinks and how can we approach them? (13:57)How can you start exploring your dark erotic desires? What to check for before you begin on your kink journey. (17:58)Where do turn-ons come from? The psychology behind why we desire what we do. The eroticsm of our traumatic experiences: recreate or obliterate. (23:40)Vee’s first erotic piss play scene! (28:55)Unpacking Pee Play: How do you find where the pleasure lies? (34:52)Solo Piss Play: drinking your own golden nectar. (39:49)How to spin toilet play differently depending on the energy of the scene (worship, degradation, objectification). (40:56)Psychology behind degradation play, and the power behind Priestess Francesca’s Scat Play Scene. (43:09)Discomfort is not always productive: growth vs guardianship of yourself. (48:26)Freak School. (55:09)Erotic Alchemy. (56:34)Priestess Francesca Links:WebsiteInstagramFree Masterclass!Source Information: Homosexuality in the DSM: While homosexuality was formally removed from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM) of Mental Disorders in 1973, it wasn't until DSM-5 (which mobilized it's task force of 13 work groups in 2007 to focus on various disorder areas) that all diagnostic categories pertaining to sexual orientation were removed. Many scholars and advocacy groups believe that only this can be considered "complete declassification" of non-heterosexual sexual orientations as mental disorders.BDSM in the DSM: Thanks to tremendous efforts by the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) the American Psychiatric Association (APA) announced in 2010 that it would be changing the diagnostic codes for BDSM in the next edition of the DSM (formallSupport the show______How to Support the Show: 💰 Donate Here 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly.🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials.🪄 WAANDS™: Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

May 1, 2025 • 1h 7min
120: Embracing Your Inner Slut and Making a Gang Bang Fantasy a Reality feat. Athena
This week, Elle and Vee chat with Athena, Vee's metamour and wingwoman in NYC. In this candid chat, the girls hear the details of Athena's first gang bang, chat about how to make your fantasies a reality, being a single woman in the lifestyle, and so much more! Exploring the Abyss of Porn Together (00:00) Introducing Athena: From Fainting to Best Friends (2:19)Embracing Your Inner Slut: Athena's Story (5:23)Visual Vs. Spontaneous Fantasy & Planning a Fantasy Hangups (10:45)Planning the Unplanned: Details of the Hooded, Tied Gang bang (18:05)—How Sensory Deprivation Helped Self-Image and Pleasure —The Dynamics of Trust and Safety Why a Gang bang? Exploring Validation and Attention (33:28)The Complexity of Fantasy Staying in the Mind vs. Making it Reality (38:56)Fuck Around and Find Out: Surrendering to Experience (44:42)Play Party Expectations And Pre Party Text (48:23)Introspection Using Fears, Desires and Boundaries (50:54)Creativity and Playfulness in the Lifestyle (55:28)Creating Security in Unconventional Relationships (58:39)Support the show______How to Support the Show: 💰 Donate Here 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly.🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials.🪄 WAANDS™: Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Apr 24, 2025 • 1h 4min
119: Seek the Risk: Tools for Working Through Challenges and Emotions in Non-Monogamy feat. Author Adam Darrow
In this episode, Elle and Vee go deep with Adam Darrow, the author of Seek the Risk: One Man's Journey Into Non-Monogamy. Described as a "firsthand recounting of a wide-open relationship, told with unflinching candor from the male perspective", Elle and Vee were struck by the relatability of Adam's ENM story in Seek the Risk, from the overthinking and jealousy to the adventurous sex and deep connection in his relationship. His firsthand account of how he worked through the challenging emotional moments of his relationship with "the wrong girl" is FULL of nuggets, many of which are mentioned in this deep, candid, vulnerable conversation. Grab a pen and dig in :) What does Seek the Risk mean? "Experience hunting" rather than "trophy bagging". (2:52)Applying the Seek the Risk philosophy to CNM (consensual non monogamy). (6:49)Misalignment and shame: when one partner is the one who is pushing, and one is being pushed. Being mindful and careful about not shaming the “slower” partner. (9:23)The treasure you seek: when do you know it’s growth vs. self-flagellation? (15:13)Tool #1: Creating a container to hear stories about your partner’s sexual activities so you aren’t blindsided by them. Asking for consent to share information. (18:30)Tool #2: Check-ins/debriefs. (23:37)Being triggered at a sex party and how to work through it. (25:36)Tool #3: “Take the cigarette break.” aka Not reacting in the moment. Notice your own growth! (31:22)Tool #4: Self-hypnosis aka “magical reframing”. (36:01)Tool #5: “Exist in the grey.” Don’t act on emotions when spiraling out: sit with uncomfortable feelings. “Negative outcome fantasy.” (38:50)Imposter syndrome: how our childhood traumas show up in our adult relationships. (43:37)IFS: internal family systems and Aspecting (from ISTA). (49:52)Masculinity: Societal hypocrisies and submissive associations with pegging and anal play. (52:58)Final Nugget! (1:00:34)Support the show______How to Support the Show: 💰 Donate Here 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly.🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials.🪄 WAANDS™: Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Apr 17, 2025 • 1h 14min
118: Tips to Build Confidence Eating Pussy When You're a "Baby Bisexual" feat. Liv Love
In this episode, Vee and Elle go deep with Liv Love: sex writer, sex educator and swinger, and new friend from Hedonism Swing Breakers 2025! They focus on bisexuality, labels, performance anxiety, shame, strap on sex ... and a play-by-play of how to go from zero to orgasm. This is a no-holds-barred conversation about questioning your bisexuality, pussy insecurities, and so much more! Lack of confidence eating going down on women. (00:49)Liv’s story. (5:35)Bisexuality: when do you know you’re bi? (10:05)Performance Anxiety when you’re new to going down on a woman. (12:42)Labels: Hetero-Romantic, Bi-Sexual, etc. (18:14)How our upbringing affects our comfort with being bisexual. (21:20)Kinsey scale: where do the girls feel they fall on it? Female vs. male energy. (27:10)Projections of our pussy insecurities: smell, taste, what it looks like, etc. (34:27)Taste/smell and how the pussy changes over the orgasm cycle. (41:00)How to eat pussy: encouraging full body orgasms, waiting until the vulva is ready to receive oral, and bringing the pussy from dry to orgasm. (44:26)How to have and give multiple orgasms. (52:52)Poll results: women are insecure about their woman on woman skills. (57:08)Tip to build confidence: go down on someone who’s already orgasmed, who’s an easy cummer, and do fears/desires/boundaries. (58:41)Above the waist bisexual: is it okay to just not go down on women? (1:03:10)Strap on sex! (1:05:56)Hang ups around our own vulvas affecting our desire to go down on others. (1:08:56)Final Nugget! (1:10:26)Liv Love is a sex writer, sex educator and swinger. She teaches workshops as a sex expert on the Temptations cruises and writes about the lifestyle, sex and porn on her blog Honeyahh.com. Links:Website: Honey AhhInstagram: @livlove_incBlog Post referenced: Help! Eating Pussy for the First TimeSupport the show______How to Support the Show: 💰 Donate Here 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly.🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials.🪄 WAANDS™: Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Apr 10, 2025 • 1h 12min
117: Hedonism Swing Breakers 2025: Too Horny to Sleep, Too Tired to Care
In this episode, Vee and Elle dive into Elle's Hedonism Swing Breakers 2025 experience, sharing spicy stories, communication hiccups, and the evolution of their desires in the lifestyle. They explore boundaries, consent, group play dynamics, and the rediscovery of feminine energy — all while navigating connection, frustration, and the value of both solo and shared intimacy.Introduction to Hedonism Swing Breakers 2025 (00:00)Fear Desires Boundaries & Intentions for the Trip (04:24)New Connection and Playroom Experience (14:38)Audio note replay and New Nipple Experience (21:13)Oops! I Wanna Cum Soon Micommunication & Guilt (27:01)Turning Down The Sex Suggestion From Your Parter (31:19)Oops Again! A Missed Check-In and A Confusing Mixed Signal (33:00)The Shift in Sexual Preferences From Lots of People to Less (44:00)Elle Practicing Her Taking with Nikki -- Wheel of Consent (46:13)Orgasm Tower, Spanking, Bruises and Expectation of Cumming (63:25)The Difference Between Giving and Taking (01:00:17)Threesome in the Wrong Room (01:02:17)Top Floor: Attending Sex Parties Solo Vs With Friends/Partners (01:04:48)Support the show______How to Support the Show: 💰 Donate Here 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly.🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials.🪄 WAANDS™: Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

Apr 3, 2025 • 1h 11min
116: Talk Tantra to Me: Sex Magic and Shadow Work with Sacred Sex Ed Author Leola Watkins
This week the girls go deep with Leola Watkins, Pleasure Priestess and the best-selling author of Sacred Sex Ed. Answering listeners' questions, they dig into a number of concepts under the tantric umbrella from shadow work and Golden Shadows, to sex magic and creating through orgasm, to yoni and lingum gazing. They also cover how all of this applies to men, when often tantric conversations can feel very feminine-energy-focused, AND how we can apply living tantrically to everyday life! This is a conversation for people who are new to the concepts of tantra, as well as people who have done 15 retreats. Get ready to get turned on by life! Leola's story. Tantra and overcoming sexual shame. (3:51)How to apply tantra to the real world: how can I be librated and expansive in this work environment and my home environment? (8:27)What it means to be a Pleasure Priestess. (13:29)What is shadow, and shadow work? Analyzing an old trigger of male-male play. (18:37)What does sexual liberation mean when it comes to shadow work? (26:28)Analyzing one of Vee’s triggers: Sex without condoms. (28:27)Golden Shadow, and Elle’s integrated shadow. (33:28)What’s in it for men? (38:07)Eye Gazing: Tantra 101. What’s the point of this exercise? (42:36)Vulnerability: “the cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.” (46:19)Sex magic: what is it? Manifesting through orgasm. (48:00)Making your life juicier: the tantric principle that every moment is sacred. (53:25)How to stay grounded at Hedonism Swing Breakers. (58:07)Leola’s offerings and the final nugget: yoni and lingum gazing with your partner! (1:02:20)Connect with Leola:Website: talktantratome.comInstagram: @talktantratomeLadies! Tantra Retreat August 8-11 : Pleasure Portal (mention GGD)Support the show______How to Support the Show: 💰 Donate Here 💋Linktree: https://linktr.ee/girlsgonedeep 🎧 Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod🛍️ Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop — wear your kinks proudly.🍑 Woo More Play: Shop with our affiliate link — support the pod while you stock up on your favorite pleasure essentials.🪄 WAANDS™: Crystal Pleasure Products HERE. Get 15% off with code GIRLSGONEDEEP🔮 WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your game deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com IG: @wlthegame🔥 Naughty Disco’s Sexy NYC Dance Party: code GONEDEEP69 for 15% off any event ticket IG: @naughtydisco💌 Contact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com© 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.


