The Wholehearted Enneagram Podcast

Send us Fan MailTo contribute to the Bening Family https://gofund.me/81f75f48In this three part series, Tina Webb and I are talking about parenting, social justice and understanding your story. She is a mom of SIX kids, so, Tina has some incredible wisdom and insight to pass along. Tina has been a homeschool mama for twenty years and she loves it! Besides that full-time job, she’s been an associate pastor, a worship ministry director, and director of a church prayer ministry. She is a certified Apprentice Facilitator in Classic Trauma Healing through the American Bible Society and she and her husband, Doug, were licensed and ordained for ministry in 2004.As you listen this is episode go download Tina’s free e-book and her 3-day devotional. Tina has written two other books you will also want to add to your collection:Culture Changers: Understand the Roots of Brokenness and Help Heal Your Family and Community Justice Reframed: How the Cross Confronts our Pursuit of Justice Support the showRESOURCES FOR YOU:Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wickshttps://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicksNot sure about your Enneagram Type? Start here: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramquizEnnea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram(free course + printables)https://bit.ly/Enneagram101GuideConnect with Amy:IGWebsite

Send us Fan MailTo contribute to the Bening Family https://gofund.me/81f75f48The story you are about to hear is powerful and compelling, and I couldn’t think of a better way to celebrate this podcast community's FOURTH anniversary. Keewani Vallejo-Cook was born into abject poverty in the Philippines but can share her story with you because of a Compassion sponsor. I’ve asked her to share because my family has partnered with compassion for over 20 years. Consider this conversation and episode as your invitation to celebrate this momentous milestone of the podcast by making a difference in one child's life today. As you listen to Keewani's (her friends call her Kiwi) story about her devastating childhood experience, please Text  SIMPLY to 83393. Because of Compassion International, God was able to take deep brokenness in Kiwi’s family and support her family as they made one wholehearted decision after another. You won’t want to miss a single moment of this conversation. Once you text the word SIMPLY to 83393, you will meet other children who need someone like you to make a positive impact in their life.Listen all the way to the end to learn more about how you can help me celebrate FOUR years of the Simply Wholehearted Podcast. I  have a goal of finding new sponsors for at least 100 children with this episode. And I have no doubt my faithful wholehearted community can and will meet or exceed this desire for impact. So, while you wait, text SIMPLY to 83393 to learn more about the impact you can make when you partner with Compassion. You can also learn more if you go to compassion.com/SIMPLY. You can choose exactly which boy or girl you want to sponsor.Give Compassion and this podcast a shout-out on the socials after you listen or sponsor a new child! Tag @simplywholehearted and @compassion Learn more about the Enneagram and get your Enneagram for Moms Guidebook! Compassion is paying for some of the costs associated with developing this episode.Support the showRESOURCES FOR YOU:Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wickshttps://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicksNot sure about your Enneagram Type? Start here: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramquizEnnea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram(free course + printables)https://bit.ly/Enneagram101GuideConnect with Amy:IGWebsite

Send us Fan MailWhen you have a minute to yourself how do you spend it? Do you automatically hit the button on your phone and get lost in the scroll? Do you find yourself with your head in the pantry or fridge snacking on a few things hoping they might satisfy or give the boost you are looking for? Or do you stay up after the kids and hubby go to bed to get in a couple of hours of the new binge-worthy show? If you nodded yes, Now, I want to know, how do you feel after you give yourself these self-care habits? Do feel you satisfied? Are you Refreshed and ready to pour out to your people? I ask because These are the exact things I am prone to do when I feel depleted and empty. My automatic response is to turn to my phone, or food, and get lost in another world. And you know what? The social scroll reinforces that these ideas are totally normal and acceptable, it's what my mom friends joke about and it’s the memes that get thousands of likes. BUT, somehow I feel more empty afterward than when I began. The rest I was looking for doesn’t get realized. My ongoing depletion and emptiness led me to evaluate the normal self-care mantra. Perhaps self-care isn’t the answer? And if it’s not- how do you get refreshed, renewed, and refueled? Here’s the truth: What actually satisfies you and what you give your free minutes to, are often at drastic odds.So today, I want to invite you to exchange your ideas of self-care for life-giving soul care. I’ll share the BEST examples of healthy soul-care, I’ll guide you through the basic teachings of contemplative practice and provide practical examples so you can put soul care into practice, today. Support the showRESOURCES FOR YOU:Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wickshttps://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicksNot sure about your Enneagram Type? Start here: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramquizEnnea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram(free course + printables)https://bit.ly/Enneagram101GuideConnect with Amy:IGWebsite

Send us Fan MailTo contribute to the Bening Family https://gofund.me/81f75f48 During this season of Lent, I wanted to introduce you to a new friend with a beautiful resource for your heart and the whole family to prepare for the celebration of Easter. Quina Aragon was born in the Philippines but raised in FL where she became friends with a family who introduced her to Christ. It’s this relationship with her Savior that freed her from the exhausting pursuit of significance- and has been the motivation behind her work as a spoken word artist, children’s author, and poet. She’s also the mama of an adorable five year old and she and her husband serve in their local church ministry. In this episode, we dive right into a conversation about the Enneagram and her two books Love Made and Love Gave. Download the free Enneagram for Moms Guidebook. Say "hi" on IG and check out the Enneagram conversation. Be sure and hear more from Quina ( @Quina_Aragon) on IG and thank her for sharing on the podcast. Support the showRESOURCES FOR YOU:Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wickshttps://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicksNot sure about your Enneagram Type? Start here: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramquizEnnea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram(free course + printables)https://bit.ly/Enneagram101GuideConnect with Amy:IGWebsite

Send us Fan MailTo contribute to the Bening Family https://gofund.me/81f75f48Do you struggle with low self-esteem? Are you burned out- all the time? Are your decisions and choices Guilt driven? These are all just a few manifestations of what you might do when you think you have to do mom life in your own strength and when you feel like you have to raise yourself. Ultimately you feel alone and the behaviors I listed are things you don’t want to do- but your default behavior is often hindering you from flourishing and thriving in your season of life. Here’s the deal. Most likely these behavior patterns may not be your fault, but it is your responsibility going forward. So today I’m going to show you how to no longer mom alone.Even if you are in a brand new city, without family, no church, and your husband works overtime. I’ll be sharing: What the orphan spirit looks like.Whose fault it is that you struggle with these mindsets. And how you can get unstuck.If you listen to this episode and still want more help, I am here for you. Download my free Enneagram for Moms Guidebook and then book a 15-minute Zoom call and together we can discover your next step. Support the showRESOURCES FOR YOU:Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wickshttps://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicksNot sure about your Enneagram Type? Start here: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramquizEnnea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram(free course + printables)https://bit.ly/Enneagram101GuideConnect with Amy:IGWebsite

Send us Fan MailTo contribute to the Bening Family https://gofund.me/81f75f48Do you often wonder what you are really good at? You know the thing you want to be known for? Have you ever wished you had superpowers, like Wonder Woman, Captain Marvel or Super Girl? What if I said that you do have superpowers. For real! Okay, so you may not be able to leap from building to building or have a truth telling lasso, but you do possess a God-given superpower. Your superpower might just be collecting dust underneath the layers of stress motherhood has placed on you or even the demands of life that have caused you to forget the superpowers you’ve been equipped with. While I may not be Wonder Woman’s mom- the proud Amazon queen Hippolyta, and we can’t spend years training in no-man’s land,  I thought I would spend just a few minutes reminding you who you were created to be- the unique gifts and strengths you have available for you to use in motherhood. So, this episode is dedicated to all my wannabe cape wearing mamas- when you need a breath of fresh air and a quick reminder of who you were created to be, I hope you will listen for encouragement whenever you need it. Support the showRESOURCES FOR YOU:Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wickshttps://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicksNot sure about your Enneagram Type? Start here: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramquizEnnea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram(free course + printables)https://bit.ly/Enneagram101GuideConnect with Amy:IGWebsite

Send us Fan MailTo contribute to the Bening Family https://gofund.me/81f75f48Have you ever felt lonely? I know I have and more than once. Because not long ago I had three little babies, in a city where I still felt like a stranger, and I was downright lonely.And what was already a lonely road is even more lonely because, over the last year, you and I have found ourselves more isolated and more divided than ever. So, what is a mama to do? Especially if you face intense physical limitations and ongoing lockdowns?Well, today I have a few ideas to help pull you out of that lonely place and empower you to take the next step out of your loneliness.  And I'm sharing how I found a connection in one of the most surprising places….If you want to connect over zoom for a 15-minute consult to talk about discovering your Enneagram Type or how my Wholehearted Coaching Sessions can help you overcome your frustration, overwhelm, and self-doubt in motherhood- schedule an appointment today!Looking for the Motherhood and Enneagram Guidebook? Download your free copy. Support the showRESOURCES FOR YOU:Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wickshttps://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicksNot sure about your Enneagram Type? Start here: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramquizEnnea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram(free course + printables)https://bit.ly/Enneagram101GuideConnect with Amy:IGWebsite

Send us Fan MailTo contribute to the Bening Family https://gofund.me/81f75f48Do you love helping people? Do you want others to like you and think well of you? But, then you feel trapped in an exhausting and debilitating cycle of pleasing people? Often people-pleasers like you and me get stuck giving without thanks and without receiving in the end. That’s why I’ve invited Dr. Mike Bechtle, an author, and teacher who has written several books to show us how to stop letting our fears of rejection, criticism, and inadequacy dictate our actions. This conversation and his books are full of helpful advice and wisdom so you can turn these struggles into a superpower and you know I’m always down for that. We are going to jump right into the conversation about Enneagram, raising kids and rebuilding our sense of worth from the inside out. Get Dr. Mike Bechtle's books here on Amazon.Say "hi" on Instagram And, get your FREE Enneagram and Motherhood GuidebookSupport the showRESOURCES FOR YOU:Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wickshttps://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicksNot sure about your Enneagram Type? Start here: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramquizEnnea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram(free course + printables)https://bit.ly/Enneagram101GuideConnect with Amy:IGWebsite

Send us Fan MailTo contribute to the Bening Family https://gofund.me/81f75f48Today, I am going to continue the conversation we started last week and I’m going to shine a light on the ideal self. In today’s episode, I am going to just scratch the surface, but I believe the content today is going to provide the empathy you’ve been craving and the practical help to flourish in motherhood. First, we are going to talk about the core issue behind your limiting beliefs. I’m going to share the Top 9 Lies Moms BelieveAnd I’ll give you the next step you can take today. But first, I realize that this content may hit some of you at a vulnerable time. And I want you to know I’m here for you. As a certified faith-based Enneagram coach, I help moms like you overcome the frustration, overwhelm, and self-hatred you might be struggling with. I’d love to chat with you on a zoom call free of charge. Learn more here!New to Simply Wholehearted? Come say "hi" on Instagram. Support the showRESOURCES FOR YOU:Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wickshttps://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicksNot sure about your Enneagram Type? Start here: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramquizEnnea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram(free course + printables)https://bit.ly/Enneagram101GuideConnect with Amy:IGWebsite

Send us Fan MailTo contribute to the Bening Family https://gofund.me/81f75f48Are you a mom? Do you struggle with frustration, anxiety, and self-doubt?Is your day-to-day mundane sometimes overwhelming? You are not alone!Welcome to the first episode of a special series specifically created with you in mind to champion you to overcome the overwhelm of motherhood through faith, Enneagram, and simple plans.I want to invite you to follow this new series to learn how your personality weaknesses can become strengths and go from surviving to thriving in life and motherhood. In this first episode of the series I’ll explain the  #1 way the Enneagram empowers you to be the Mom Your Kids need. I’ll dive into the three ways the Enneagram provides spiritual growth. And, why the Enneagram can be dangerous. Let’s discover how to love your mothering style-  because You are the Mom your kids’ need.By the way, I don’t want you to miss out on the Enneagram Guidebook for Moms that I created to help guide you to better understand your personality Type.You’ll Learn more about your superpowers, overcome your weaknesses and get simple steps to better connect with those you love. Get your copy here!Learn more about the origins of the Enneagram and if it's a resource Christians should use in epsiodes #158, #159, & #160 - listen on your favorite app or watch my IGTV series. Support the showRESOURCES FOR YOU:Join the Waitlist for 1:1 Coaching with Amy Wickshttps://www.simplywholehearted.com/callamywicksNot sure about your Enneagram Type? Start here: https://www.simplywholehearted.com/enneagramquizEnnea-what? The Beginners Guide to the Enneagram(free course + printables)https://bit.ly/Enneagram101GuideConnect with Amy:IGWebsite