The Couples Therapist Couch

Leanne Campbell discusses Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and trauma, highlighting the benefits of EFT, the traumatizing effects of isolation, gathering information before diving into experiences, focusing on the CARE model in initial sessions, and being cautious when working with trauma.

In a captivating discussion with Patricia Papernow, a leading expert on blended families, they tackle the intricacies of stepfamily dynamics. Patricia shares insights on the importance of authoritative parenting and how to balance discipline between biological and step-parents. They explore the role of ex-spouses and the ongoing impact of gray divorce on family relationships. Additionally, the conversation highlights the significance of open communication in fostering emotional connections among family members, enhancing children's well-being in blended families.

In a riveting discussion, Patricia Papernow, a leading voice on blended families and recent award recipient for her contributions to family therapy, dives into the complexities of stepfamily dynamics. She unveils the unique challenges stepfamilies face, emphasizing why effective communication is crucial. Patricia highlights the impact of adult tensions on children’s well-being and introduces concepts like 'bruise theory.' Additionally, she offers insights on fostering trust in parenting roles and the importance of collaboration between stepparents and biological parents.

Learn more about the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new In this episode, Shane talks with Guy Winch about psychedelics, relationships, and mental health. Guy is a Psychologist, Speaker, and Author who's a leading advocate for integrating the science of emotional health into our daily lives. Hear why society doesn't address mental health as much as physical health, how couples can evaluate and improve their relationships, how long it takes to recover from a divorce or break-up, how psychedelics can help in recovery, and how accepted psychedelics are today. To learn more about Guy, visit GuyWinch.com Check out Guy's latest book, "Emotional First Aid" Check out Guy's podcast, "Dear Therapists" To learn more about ketamine therapy, visit Mindbloom.com

Learn more about the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new In this episode, Shane talks with Alexandra Solomon about her new book, "Love Every Day." Alexandra is a Therapist, Professor, Speaker, and the Author of 3 books. Hear why it's important for kids in college to learn how to have a healthy relationship, how we could improve sex education for teens, core principles helpful for people going into any relationship, the importance of staying curious to maintain connection, and why it's okay to make mistakes as a parent - and tell our kids about those mistakes. To learn more about Alexandra, visit DrAlexandraSolomon.com Check out Alexandra's latest book, "Love Every Day" Check out Alexandra's podcast, "Reimagining Love" Sign up for Alexandra's eCourse Check out Alexandra's previous episode on The Couples Therapist Couch: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/blog/114-alexandra-solomon-on-taking-sexy-back

Peter Levine, developer of Somatic Experiencing and bestselling author, shares powerful insights on trauma and relationships. He discusses how unresolved trauma affects couples and emphasizes that it doesn't have to dictate their lives. Levine highlights the importance of bodily sensations in therapy and the transformational potential of personal storytelling. He also explores the journey from co-regulation to self-regulation in relationships, stressing the necessity of therapists' healing for better client support.

Explore how brain science influences relationships with insights from Juliane Taylor Shore. Learn the importance of setting boundaries, understanding safety, and navigating tough conversations with compassion and empathy. Discover the power of personal imagery in communication and the significance of self-compassion in relationship dynamics. Dive into the challenges of setting boundaries, building trust through effective communication, and the importance of practicing patience for long-lasting change.

Learn more about the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new In this episode, Shane talks with Bill O'Hanlon about his Solution-Oriented Approach to couples therapy. Bill is a world-renowned leader in the fields of brief psychotherapy and clinical hypnosis and is the co-founder of the Solution-Oriented Approach, a therapeutic method that focuses on identifying unrealized possibilities while acknowledging emotional and contextual issues. Hear Bill's own history with mental health, the biggest opportunity for couples therapists, how to help people accept the reality of how their relationships evolve, how hypnosis is connected to his work with couples, and his passion for songwriting. For all things Bill, visit BillOHanlon.org Check out Bill's previous episode on The Couples Therapist Couch: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/blog/025-love-is-a-verb-with-bill-o-hanlon

Learn more about the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new In this episode, Shane talks with Anita Mandley about intergenerational trauma and relationships. Anita is an Integrative Psychotherapist with over 30 years of experience in the field of Mental Health. Hear why she focuses on building relationships first, why intergenerational trauma happens, the things that influence us the most, how to ease into these discussions as a therapist, and the most important thing you can bring to a session.

Learn more about the Couples Therapist Inner Circle: https://www.couplestherapistcouch.com/inner-circle-new In this episode, Shane talks with David Khalili about mental health for men. David is a Sex and Relationship Therapist who is the Founder of Rouse Relational Wellness and Author of the "Mental Health Workbook for Men." Hear why there's so much shame and anxiety around sex for men, the feeling men have of being a burden for other people, why it's important for men to feel compassion for themselves, what David's sessions look like with individuals vs. couples, and his thoughts on toxic masculinity. For David's live and on-demand workshops on sex and relationships, visit RouseAcademy.com