The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
Civility Media
Communicate with confidence so you can argue less and talk more.Every episode of The Jefferson Fisher Podcast is packed with actionable strategies you can implement today to improve the way you communicate.Make your next conversation the one that changes everything.New episodes every Tuesday.The Jefferson Fisher Podcast on YoutubeListen on Apple PodcastsListen or watch on SpotifyOrder my book The Next ConversationJoin my School of CommunicationSubscribe to my NewsletterFollow me on InstagramFollow me on TikTokFollow me on LinkedIn
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Nov 5, 2024 • 15min
How to Respond to Gaslighting
Gaslighting can warp your perception and leave you questioning your own reality. The discussion offers three practical strategies to regain control and assert your truth. Learn how to identify manipulative behaviors and respond effectively in personal relationships. There’s also valuable insight on maintaining open communication and fostering healthier interactions. Plus, a listener Q&A segment addresses real-life scenarios, providing tailored advice on navigating these challenging dynamics.
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Oct 29, 2024 • 16min
How to Handle Liars
Ever wonder how to deal with someone who isn’t being truthful? Discover three subtle strategies to navigate tricky conversations without direct confrontation. Learn the power of pause and silence as tools for uncovering the truth. Dive into the balance of honesty and clarity in communication, and find out how to effectively address untruths while maintaining your cool. These practical tips can help you discern the honesty of those around you without getting tangled in their webs.
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Oct 22, 2024 • 16min
How to Handle Inappropriate Questions
Ever been blindsided by a nosy question? Learn how to tackle those awkward moments with poise. Discover three effective strategies to regain control and respond with confidence. Whether it's in a professional setting, family gathering, or casual chat, you’ll be equipped to handle uncomfortable inquiries seamlessly. You'll find out how silence and boundary-setting can empower your responses, keeping conversations on your terms.
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Oct 15, 2024 • 17min
How to Respond with Confidence
Struggling with filler words like 'um' or 'uh'? Discover three powerful techniques to enhance your confidence in conversations. Learn how to manage your tone of voice to assert yourself effectively. Gain tips on responding with clarity, especially during high-pressure situations. These strategies will help you eliminate uncertainty and sound more assertive, allowing you to navigate any dialogue with ease.
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Oct 8, 2024 • 13min
How to Argue with Strong Personalities
Ever feel overwhelmed in a debate with a strong personality? Discover effective strategies to maintain control during tough conversations. Learn how to focus on underlying needs rather than getting lost in minor disputes. Gain practical tips to keep discussions productive and respectful, whether at work or around family. These insights are especially useful for navigating dynamics with overbearing individuals. Stay calm and confident, and transform high-stakes discussions into valuable dialogues.
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Oct 1, 2024 • 14min
How to Handle Unwanted Conversations
Tired of being stuck in unwanted conversations? Discover three effective strategies for gracefully escaping chats that drag on. Learn how to disengage calmly and acknowledge others while setting clear boundaries. Dive into the art of handling tricky topics, especially sensitive ones like politics and religion, without coming off as rude. Plus, there's a sneak peek into an upcoming book that promises to improve your communication skills even further!
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Sep 24, 2024 • 17min
What to Say When Someone Belittles You
Ever felt put down and struggled to respond? Discover three empowering strategies to handle belittling comments calmly and confidently. Learn how to maintain your integrity and avoid escalating conflicts. This insightful discussion emphasizes self-respect and emotional maturity, providing practical examples to guide your reactions in tough situations.
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Sep 17, 2024 • 13min
My Top 3 Argument Responses
Ever struggle with defensiveness in arguments? Discover three phrases to calm tensions and foster productive discussions. Learn how small changes in your approach can transform conflicts. Explore effective communication techniques that promote understanding in high-stakes situations. Finally, tackle workplace challenges by connecting with colleagues and acknowledging their feelings, making every tough conversation a chance for growth.
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Sep 10, 2024 • 17min
How to Talk to a Narcissist
Discover the tricky dynamics of talking to narcissists, where praise and provocation reign supreme. Learn three key strategies to maintain your cool and steer the conversation effectively. Find out how to flip the script to ensure discussions remain productive and conflict-free. This insightful guide will empower you to navigate challenging interactions without losing your peace.
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Sep 3, 2024 • 13min
How to Stand Up for Yourself
Feeling unheard? Discover three effective strategies to advocate for yourself confidently. Learn the art of choosing your battles wisely and the importance of saying 'no' without justifying your choices. Master self-advocacy to assert your worth, set clear boundaries, and navigate tough conversations with ease. Empower yourself and embrace the power of self-expression!
