Defining Hospitality

Arnie Malham is the founder of a number of different companies and organizations, including BetterBookClub.com. He’s also the author of “Worth Doing Wrong,” where he discusses how to build a sustainable business model through company culture. Listen to this week’s episode as he shares #hospitality insights with Dan Ryan today!Takeaways: At work, your team will never treat clients better than how the boss treats the team. That is one of the many forms of hospitality. If you put people in a position and don’t pay them well and they don’t believe in the team then there is a discomfort that grows. Core values start with a team leader. It’s easy for a leader to praise certain values but it’s important that the leader also is willing to help with even the little things and show they are invested and they care.Embrace growth, always be confident, be optimistic, and prepare. These are 4 core values to have going through life. It’s the little things that can make a difference for a guest. Things like certain types of bedsheets and toilet paper can make them feel important and known. As a team, don’t say no to any idea. It’s ok to be wrong, but saying no creates a roadblock and might discourage people from sharing anymore of their ideas.Quote of the Show:6:26 I'm a believer in that the core values and culture start with the leader. And in fact, they start and end with a leader, that leader. The leader of an organization, a team that is the number one thing that sets the tone for culture and core values.And then what that leader does versus what that leader says. It's easy to go down a list and determine if those two things match up. I'll quote Jack Daly again. I'm pretty sure he said, ‘I can tell you your values based on your calendar. I can look at your calendar and tell you your values, because it doesn't matter what you say, the question is, are you doing the things that match your values, that match your priorities?’It's little things. It's where the leader parks, it's where the leaders are willing to participate in and the cleanliness of the environment. It's what he or she accepts and praises, but almost more importantly, what he or she tolerates. What a leader tolerates in their business, in themselves, in their direct reports and in the entire team, I think has as much to do with setting the tone of a culture than anything else.” Links: Arnie’s Profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/arniemalham/Company website:  https://www.worthdoingwrong.com/Twitter: https://twitter.com/amalhamBook: https://www.amazon.com/Worth-Doing-Wrong-Quest-Culture/dp/159932587XShout Outs:  0:18 MIT Entrepreneurial Masters Program3:54 Jack Daley19:13 Andrew Scarlett22:50 Andrew Benioff22:52 Independent Lodging Congress22:57 Nico22:59 Pan Pacific in Seattle34:34 Loren Brill 34:35 Sweet Loren’s43:22 John DiJulius46:05 Verne Harnish58:28 Hilton HotelsWays to Tune In: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0A2XOJvb6mGqEPYJ5bilPXApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/defining-hospitality-podcast/id1573596386Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZGVmaW5pbmdob3NwaXRhbGl0eS5saXZlL2ZlZWQueG1sYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p1mEu_pueA8

When it comes to life changing events, there is nothing quite like travel. Joseph Diaz is the co-founder of AFAR Media, and he has taken it upon himself to use travel as a way to enrich the lives of the younger generation that doesn’t have the same opportunities. There’s a lot to be said about going to a completely new place and truly immersing yourself in the culture, and seeing what you can do to contribute to the community.  Listen to this week’s episode as he shares #hospitality insights with Dan Ryan today!Takeaways: The hospitality world has been flipped upside down. In 2019 it was very guest centric, but today it is a two way street. It is a concept that embraces the idea of mutual benefit, and what the guest can bring to the community.A form of hospitality where you put the guest on a pedestal is limiting and creates a fear of messing up. But what the guest truly craves is connection to the place they are visiting.Travel is the best form of education. Getting young people to travel and explore the world will provide them opportunities they might not have ever had and can change their world.You need to create a message to attract people to come visit your town or location not just during tourist season, but at all times of the year.How do we continue to stay open to new experiences? The good, the bad, the ugly? We have natural tendencies to run away from things we don’t like, but those experiences are just as important.The generation coming up is more in tune with their values and more open to travel and exploring other communities.Quote of the Show: 1:34 “A 2019 definition of hospitality would be one that is extremely guest centric, where it's focused on the desk, doing everything to make the guests feel welcome, feel at home. You know, there's tons of  definitions that are similar to that in our world. And the way that we're thinking about things today, hospitality for us is a two-way street.It is a concept that really embraces the idea of mutual benefit and what the guests can also contribute to the equation. You know, I think JFK, his famous ‘ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country.’ Similarly ask, ‘not what your travels can do for you; ask what your travels can do for the communities where you're traveling and the planet in which we are living.’” Links: Joseph’s Profile: https://linkedin.com/in/josephdiazCompany website: www.afar.comTwitter: @JoeDiazAFARShout Outs: 0:26 Independent Lodging Congress5:09 White Lotus9:01 “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People” by Stephen Covey9:45 Laura Redmond9:49 Ben Pundole 13:42 Teach for America14:13 Rosa Linda Elementary School in South Phoenix, AZ16:10 JFK 16:16 Peace Corps26:08 Reykjavik26:09 Venice30:20 Asheville, North Carolina31:45 Vanuatu36:51: Airbnb1;04:44 Amika Moran1;07:08 Staples Ways to Tune In: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0A2XOJvb6mGqEPYJ5bilPXApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/defining-hospitality-podcast/id1573596386Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZGVmaW5pbmdob3NwaXRhbGl0eS5saXZlL2ZlZWQueG1sPodbean:  https://www.defininghospitality.live/YouTube: https://youtu.be/Bl5TRqnVWiw

Today’s guest has a unique business and with that brings his positive attitude about life and hospitality to everything he does. Dan is joined by Michael Bedner, a partner at SOLi, and part of Hirsch/Bedner Associates. Listen to this week’s episode as he shares #hospitality insights with Dan Ryan today!Takeaways: In the hospitality industry, there are three major rules to live by. One, always do your best job. Two, you better enjoy what you do. And three, you must grow and learn from any mistakes. The best way to describe hospitality is that it is ladies and gentlemen serving ladies and gentlemen.Hospitality is all about making guests feel comfortable and at ease. The replacement of not having people at check in desks has turned it from a place of human gathering to a place where iPhones gather, it’s not as magical as it used to be.Comfort is not just your surroundings, it’s also how you are perceived. You want to make people feel glad they are at the place they chose to be, making sure they don’t feel like a burden. California has 1600 different building area codes, which makes it incredibly difficult to bring in new and innovative projects to the area. Michael is hopeful that in the future there will be enough people that are willing to try new and innovative ideas and change the way that the hospitality industry functions. Quote of the Show: 7:49 “The most important element of hospitality is making someone feel totally comfortable at ease and enjoy the experience. You could do that in an empty room with nothing around. If the service is wonderful and we have a view. Or 98% of the time, you don't always have that amazing view. So you have to provide the atmosphere where you feel where you have, as Howard would say a sense of place.”Links: Michael’s Profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michael-bedner-ab3b23176/Company website: https://www.soli.spaceShout Outs: 5:08 Howard Hirsch5:32 Beverly Rodale Hotel6:39 Porsche6:40 Ritz-Carlton34:18 Tesla41:20 Buckminster Fuller49:30 UC San Diego 51:44 Disneyland  Ways to Tune In: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0A2XOJvb6mGqEPYJ5bilPXApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/defining-hospitality-podcast/id1573596386Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZGVmaW5pbmdob3NwaXRhbGl0eS5saXZlL2ZlZWQueG1sPodbean:  https://www.defininghospitality.live/

Today’s guest spent time working in Japan and brings his cultured view to hospitality. Andrew Benioff is the Founder and Managing Partner of the Llenrock Group. He’s also the Founder of the Philadelphia Real Estate Council and the Independent Lodging Congress. Listen to this week’s episode as he shares #hospitality insights with Dan Ryan today!Takeaways: Service is the act of serving, but hospitality is the feeling an empathic employee gives to a customer. It’s difficult to have good hospitality without great service.Japanese culture is a mentality. A big part of it is the wellbeing of a group of people over an individual. In Japan, perfection is expected in your work. While it can be demanding, it brings out the best work in the person and allows them to achieve the highest goals they have.While perfection is expected in Japan, it’s not always a good thing. It’s ok to fail at something that is a new attempt. Failure can be a great teaching moment.Try to be flexible in your thinking. A new approach to a process might be an idea that can turn out to be helpful. Two things that hotels absolutely need to have: a shower with great water pressure and a comfortable bed. If a hotel has those two features all other issues are forgotten.Be patient and have an open mind. Try not to think that things need to go a certain way, it’s almost more important to know what you don’t want rather than to know what you want to do. Quote of the Show: 48:32 “The longer I've done ILC (Independent Lodging Congress), the more I've become interested in indie hospitality in indie hotels. I think that the indie space is fascinating for so many reasons in that it takes so much more attention to detail to work on one of those projects. And it also takes so much more of a connection to the community and the area that the project is in. And so I'm working on a number of different projects that are all indie focused, and I love them because each one of them is so distinct and different. And I love that focus of really digging into the community.”Links: Andrew’s Profile: linkedin.com/in/llenrockgroupbenioffCompany website: https://precouncil.orgTwitter: https://twitter.com/indiecongress?lang=enShout Outs:  3:06 Danny Meyer 4:12 Ritz-Carlton Hotel Company 6:00 Four Seasons  6:10 Rosewood 8:23 The Rock House in the Bahamas 12:38 Team Building ILC 16:18 McDonald’s 19:46 Jiro Dreams of Sushi documentary  24:07 Penn Pacific in San Francisco 24:08 Nico in San Francisco 24:10 Ritz-Carlton in San Francisco 44:44 The Birth of Sake 49:44 Fairfield Inn 49:45 Hampton Inn 50:15 Hortz Schulze, founder of Ritz-Carlton 51:45 Michael BednerWays to Tune In: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0A2XOJvb6mGqEPYJ5bilPXApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/defining-hospitality-podcast/id1573596386Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZGVmaW5pbmdob3NwaXRhbGl0eS5saXZlL2ZlZWQueG1sPodbean:  https://www.defininghospitality.live/

How do you feel when you first step into a hotel or a restaurant? The excitement in the air, the feeling that you have found some place that is truly unique is part of the allure of the hospitality industry.Dan is joined by a renowned designer, innovative thinker and creative Entrepreneur, Marquise Stillwell. Marquise is also the founder of Deem Journal, ArtMatr, Openbox, Opendox, and Urban Ocean Lab. Listen to this week’s episode as he shares #hospitality insights with Dan Ryan today!  Takeaways: Hospitalities, especially hotels, are like tiny little cities. They are open 24 hours, they never stop and there are 24 hours of activity going on. Hotels serve the purpose to be surprised, meaning each time you walk in, you should feel it is a unique experience.  This is also known as Creating the Conditions to be Surprised.Sometimes luck plays a big role. The proximity of luck is when you go out to a restaurant or a hotel and you begin to talk to someone near you, that person could be your next connection.Restaurants and hotels that reflect the community are the ones of the future. When you meet people who are in close proximity to you (ie a hotel) that is called Density of Network.The younger generation is going to get tired quickly of the rapid change in employment and treating employees like they are on a conveyor belt. Quote of the Show:24:31 “Hospitality right now is in a place where we need to rethink our model. Restaurants were already struggling. We need to rethink that model, we need to make it more human and people centered. We need to make sure people can afford to  live and work off their salary. We need to do the same thing in hotels. We need to make sure the front staff is just as respected as the office staff and that they have a livable wage. That’s a larger conversation but it goes to every aspect of what it means to serve. If you're in the service industry, and you’re providing food and you’re serving food and you can’t even afford the food you’re serving, that’s a problem.”  Links: Marquise’s Profile - https://www.linkedin.com/in/quise/Websiteshttps://www.opnbx.com/team/marquise-stillwell Twitterhttps://twitter.com/quise7?lang=en Shout Outs: 3:54 Ramada Inn and Hotel12:38 Ramada Inn University and Hotel in Columbus, Ohio31:15 Westin Hotels31:30 Equinox Hotels32:38 Scent Dawn and Samantha Goldworm49:19 Hoffman Process  Ways to Tune In: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0A2XOJvb6mGqEPYJ5bilPXApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/defining-hospitality-podcast/id1573596386Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZGVmaW5pbmdob3NwaXRhbGl0eS5saXZlL2ZlZWQueG1s

The hospitality industry has roots in all sorts of other lines of work, even in journalism. Dan is joined by the author of the Moon Boston Travel guide and world traveler, Cameron Sperance! Cameron is also a hospitality beat reporter at Skift. Listen to this week’s episode as he shares #hospitality insights with Dan Ryan today! Takeaways: Hospitality boils down to providing that home away from home experience. It’s all about providing caring service with a smile and making a pleasant stay for the guests. You can tell if people are being treated well at the hotel they work at by the way they treat their guests, and a positive attitude creates a better experience.In Cameron’s experience reporting about hospitality, you have to build genuine connections with people.During the pandemic, many industries have tried to replicate how the hospitality industry makes their guests feel, showing that hospitality has its roots in many industries.The concept of doing some self isolation and meditation has taken off in recent years, and it’s a great way to recharge with a busy life. There is a lot of tension around who will stick in the hospitality industry in terms of the labor level employees, the ones who work long hours and demanding schedules. A struggle some hotels face is finding the balance between being exclusive while also being fair to your clients and guests.  Quote of the Show:28:33 “There was always a hospitality element to how we work that I think that's why it made it so successful and popular,  pre pandemic.And I mean, it just kind of runs the gamut. There's so many different, Industries out there that are trying to get a little bit more hospitable that I think this has been a wake-up call of just like how the tentacles of hospitality span out into so many different industries.”  Links: Cameron’s Profile - linkedin.com/in/cameron-sperance-988505aCompany website: skift.comTwitter: https://twitter.com/cameronsperanceBook: https://www.amazon.com/Boston-Travel-Guide-Cameron-Sperance/dp/1631218859 Shout Outs:  2:41 Boston Bureau 2:51 Ghelfi and Laura Posa3:04 Skift4:16 Alice conference 8:01 Daily Planet from Superman8:01 J. Jonah Jameson from Spider-Man8:41 Boston Herald11:14 Wall Street Journal11:15 The Real Deal11:16 The New York Times12:01 Boston University School of Hospitality12:02 Pinnacle Advisory17:20 Hilton17:21 Marriott21:18 Soho House21:19 Rosewood in Hong Kong32:54 Walden Pond33:04 Henry David Thoreau32:20 Parker Torres35:39 The Lorraine Motel 37:06 Dubrovnik, Croatia37:30 Daenerys Targaryen from Game of Thrones41:46 Russian River52:16 SoulCycle52:22 Equinox56:46 Michael  Lastoria  Ways to Tune In: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0A2XOJvb6mGqEPYJ5bilPXApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/defining-hospitality-podcast/id1573596386Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZGVmaW5pbmdob3NwaXRhbGl0eS5saXZlL2ZlZWQueG1sPodbean:  https://www.defininghospitality.live/

When you design your space, are you thinking about the next generation? In this week’s episode, Dan Ryan is joined by Glen Coben, President of Glen & Company, and his daughter Maya Coben of Rialto Capital for our first ever double guest episode! Listen in as they share their combined, multi-generational perspective on the future of hospitality, nurturing growth, developing intuition, and more great insights! Check out some takeaways from this episode below:Hospitality is about creating a community. We can build community by having empathy and listening to others, and pivoting to whatever the guest needs to feel like they’re most important.Work for the people instead of yourself. Identify the unique aspects of your client’s vision by approaching them with empathy and understanding.When you design a space, it’s not just for the current generation. You’re designing for the next generation as well. “The best way to stay relevant is to make sure that your 12-year-old child is teaching you” - Glen Coben Nurture growth within your own company by giving people opportunities to learn and develop. The mutual desire for success can lead to more than just satisfied clients. Negative feedback can be an opportunity to delight a client on the next revision, but success doesn’t have to be based on fear and intimidation. Hospitality and empathy drive successful students and future industry leaders. Glen’s most important question when taking on new clients; Who is going to be making the decisions? The best answers to that question are the honest answers. If the whole family is going to review and approve a presentation, they should be in the room so they have all the information. Intuition is built not just by listening and learning, but by asking questions. Be a sponge.Don’t be afraid to say “I don’t know the answer.” Asking for more information is a sign of strength, not weakness. Be okay with feeling that nervous energy, because it’s a sign that growth is coming!One positive change from the pandemic: taking non local projects becomes easier. Collaboration tools will always be better in person, but our ability to adapt to remote working enables us to think more globally about new opportunities.  Quote of the Show:22:46 - You remember those days when we were talking about “how do you design for the millennial?” That bothered me because the millennial is going to no longer want that cool hip thing. So we have to figure out a way to strike a balance through our design skills, that there are Instagram moments, there is technology, but there's also, we're designing across a broader spectrum. - Glen Coben53:07 -  I think that asking questions is the most important thing. And whenever I ask at the end of an interview, or just any conversation I have with anyone, a mentor, a friend, what advice do you have for me? Ask questions, be a sponge. Those are the two main things that I've heard time and time again. How can you learn as much as humanly possible in your career and through each experience that you're a part of? - Maya Coben  Links: Guest’s infoLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/glen-coben-bb298a1/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/maya-coben/Twitter: https://twitter.com/GlenCobenCompany website: https://glenandcompany.com/Architect's Cookbook: A Culinary Journey Through Design Shout Outs: 4:20 - Danney Meyer of Union Square Hospitality Group - “Hospitality is a Team Sport”7:19 - Stacey Shoemaker’s HD Summit 8:50 - The Architect’s Cookbook, Max & The Magic Mushroom10:10 - Grey Kunz 11:53 - The French Laundry 16:13 - Gabriel Kreuther35:36 - William Grimes of the New York Times, Moda59:59 - Nervous Energy by Dr. Chloe Carmichael   Ways to Tune In: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0A2XOJvb6mGqEPYJ5bilPXApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/defining-hospitality-podcast/id1573596386Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZGVmaW5pbmdob3NwaXRhbGl0eS5saXZlL2ZlZWQueG1sPodbean: https://www.defininghospitality.live/Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jBOU_S-CF0Y

For the last year and a half, people have holed up in their rooms, unable to go anywhere. Now more than ever is when people are craving the need to explore, travel and interact with other people. Dan is joined by thought leader in the industry, SVP and global director of Wimberly Interiors, Margaret McMahon! Margaret has seen the world and is a travel enthusiast, and she’s here to share why she thinks travel can really lift someone’s spirits. Listen to this week’s episode as she shares #hospitality insights with Dan Ryan today!  Takeaways: You can go and get anything you set your mind to. Using phrases like “call me back if you want” won’t do you any favors. Visualisations of what you want to achieve are incredibly important. Creating a vision board can often help you focus your goals and terms and make them achievable. Travel is incredibly important. It doesn’t matter whether you are down the street or going across to another country, seeing the beauty in this world is something that can provide a whole new outlook on life. Hospitality is all about service and whatever that means. It’s not just delivering room service but it’s a service that is provided to give an experience. You have to be able to read a room and understand what is appropriate and what isn’t. Not only do other cultures view actions in a certain way, but even other co-workers might not think like you do.We all have to want each other to succeed. In this day and age, everything is extremely competitive but we still need to be human and hope for the best for everyone, including the competition. Residential projects have skyrocketed lately. With people moving away from the cities, the need for residential projects and houses has really exploded since the start of the pandemic. Margaret’s advice to her younger self: Lighten up. We all do a million different things each day but we should try to lighten up. Quote of the Show:11:05 “Whether you're driving down the road to a Holiday Inn Express, or you’re hopping on a plane, or you’re taking a road trip or you’re glamping, whatever it is, I think that brings joy to everyone. I bet that if you were to survey people that have been holed up in their houses for a year and half, everyone is really craving not only travel but interaction. I think that what’s really about is all us giving service to create a memorable experience and bring joy to people. I know that sounds super lofty, you’re not finding the cure for cancer, you’re not splitting the atom or anything like that. Whether you're staying in an AirBnB, whether you’re staying in a pension, whether you’re staying in a tent, traveling our planet to be able to see it is a really beautiful thing.”Links: Margaret’s Profile - https://www.linkedin.com/in/margaret-mcmahon-02403b12/Company website: https://www.watg.com/wimberly/Shout Outs:  3:33 The Power of Intention by Wayne Dyer 5:38 Slaughterhouse 5  by Kurt Vonnegut 6:10 Rodney Dangerfield’s film, “Back to School” 7:26 Margo House 8:43 Charian Cerilo  8:54 Hotelier of the year award 9:13 Four Seasons 9:14 Ian Schrager 9:20 Forbes Travel 11:05 Holiday Inn Express 12:27 AirBnB 17:06 Pan-Am 23:03 Wimberly Interiors 25:11 Trishia Wilson 25:52 Entenmann’s Donuts 32:30 Soho House 39:34 Starbucks 42:35 Boca Raton Resort 44:34 Laws of Attraction book 55:52 Dr. Faucci 1;01:11 Balthazar Restaurant 1;02:03 Bill Murray in StripesWays to Tune In: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0A2XOJvb6mGqEPYJ5bilPXApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/defining-hospitality-podcast/id1573596386Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZGVmaW5pbmdob3NwaXRhbGl0eS5saXZlL2ZlZWQueG1sPodbean:  https://www.defininghospitality.live/Youtube : https://youtu.be/0kjGr4s7uUM

Having a positive outlook on life is the key to success. Dan is joined by industry thought leader, former adjunct at NYU and host of the “No Vacancy” podcast, Glenn Haussman. Glenn is also the board member at the Long Island Hospitality Association and the president of Rouse Media.  Listen to this week’s episode as he shares #hospitality insights with Dan Ryan today! Takeaways: The true spirit of hospitality is the notion of giving without expecting anything in return. If you show interest in what people are saying, are genuine and positive, people will feel comfortable with you and that can create great connections. As times change, it’s always good to try and adapt to what the new times bring.Always push harder than the next person, the hard work will pay off in the long run.All the old rules that hospitality used to follow are out the window and now is the time to challenge yourself and try new business strategies.You can use technology to understand your guests. Find out what your guests like and try to connect with them on that level.Mass customization is the notion of creating individualized experiences for the masses of people. Don’t let the fear of rejection hold you back. The only thing holding you back is yourself and how you feel about yourself.  Quote of the Show: 7:34 “Back in the 1990’s as I was starting my career in hospitality, my buddy happened to be an extremely successful video editor. He was like the guy cutting every single hip hop video you would see on MTV, BET and those networks. I went with him to go run the business side of it for him as I was building my writing career.  Every single person I met in that Hollywood music universe, and I met a lot of people, 99% of them were not people I want to have anything to do within my life. Nasty, negative, not the right type of human beings.  In hospitality, it’s completely flipped on its head. Nearly everybody is universally amazing, open and terrific.”Links: Glenn’s Profile - https://www.linkedin.com/in/glennhaussman/Twitter: https://twitter.com/TravelingGlenn?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5EauthorPodcast: https://novacancy.libsyn.comBook: https://www.amazon.com/Adapters-Hospitality-industry-adapting-innovating/dp/1662905408Shout Outs:  0:30 NYU 1:01 BDNY Trade Show 5:56 No Vacancy live podcast 7:44 MTV, BET 27:54 The Adapters book 28:12  Seán Worker 29:14 The Adaptors.net 32:12 Phish 41:08 Hunter Conference  44:44 Jon Stewart, Remote Control TV show 44:56 Jimmy Kimmel, Win Ben Stein's Money TV show 47:19 The Big Cypress Indian Reservation, FloridaWays to Tune In: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0A2XOJvb6mGqEPYJ5bilPXApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/defining-hospitality-podcast/id1573596386Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZGVmaW5pbmdob3NwaXRhbGl0eS5saXZlL2ZlZWQueG1sPodbean:  https://www.defininghospitality.live/YouTube: https://youtu.be/C1oO0ydL8l8

How do you stay positive when you’re emotionally drained?Sarah Dandashy of AskAConcierge likes to remember that every guest interaction is a chance to be a part of someone’s positive memory. Listen to this week’s episode as she shares #hospitality insights with Dan Ryan today! Check out some takeaways from this episode below:Though she first found success on Instagram, Sarah finds LinkedIn is a powerful way to grow her network. It’s not just a great way to connect with others in #hospitality and #travel, it’s a platform that values substance. The concierge is the original influencer. They take their first hand experiences in travel and introduce others to new opportunities.“Sometimes thoughtful things don’t cost that much. It could be a handwritten note or a cocktail.” - Sarah Dandashy. It’s the time invested that’s meaningful to your customer. Anticipation is a powerful tool for great guest experiences, but presentation matters. Too much personalization can be creepy, so aim for thoughtfulness. The most impactful ways to provide hospitality are often simple. Most of the time, people just want to feel listened to. “If you change your mindset and just get creative about it, it’s amazing what you can do.” - Sarah DandashyRecommendations are better when you take the time to understand the guest. Talk with them to find out more about their desired experience. We need to take care of the frontlines of our industry. If you want people to treat this as a profession, you need to treat them like professionals.“if we just always keep our mind open and we just have these real conversations with our colleagues in whatever field they're in, it's amazing what we can learn from each other.” - Sarah DandashySarah’s advice to her younger self: always remember you get to be a part of somebody’s positive memory Quote of the Show:13:15 - “But it was this intersection between human connection and thoughtful experience because really when you, when you look at it, hospitality, it is all about the human connection. Yes. There might be a digital aspect, but it's all about connecting on that human level. That's where hospitality comes from, you know, way back when, where people inviting people to their homes, like they're breaking bread over, over a meal, that's all hospitality and that's a human connection.And then the thoughtful experiences. Are what make it unique and make it special? You know, it's more than just inviting somebody into your home or having somebody over for dinner. It's having those conversations and, and it is finding those thoughtful experiences, whether it's playing on something like, oh, I know . That you really love XYZ and tying that into it.So all of that kind of ties in into really what I think makes hospitality that. The good stuff that we love.” - Sarah DandashyLinks: Sarah’s Profile - linkedin.com/in/sarahdandashyWebsiteswww.askaconcierge.tv  (Company Website) www.sarahdandashy.com (Personal Website) TwitterSarahdandashy AskAConcierge  Shout Outs: 18:14 - Le Clefs d’Or Concierge13:58 - Ritz Carlton in Berlin43:19 - Christian Giordano (from Defining Hospitality Episode 7)   Ways to Tune In: Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0A2XOJvb6mGqEPYJ5bilPXApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/defining-hospitality-podcast/id1573596386Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZGVmaW5pbmdob3NwaXRhbGl0eS5saXZlL2ZlZWQueG1sPodbean: https://www.defininghospitality.live/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrpt8C461L_9n_6vezzZtkQ