

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo
Is your marriage everything that you want it to be? Are you ready to make a change? Join Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo to create a strong marriage so you can have mind blowing intimacy inside and outside the bedroom. Marriage is not always easy but it's so worth it. Come and make your marriage EXTRAORDINARY!
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Mar 24, 2026 • 31min
904: Weekly Rhythms That Keep Marriages Strong
They break down three weekly rhythms that protect connection and keep marriages strong. The conversation spotlights small consistent habits, scheduling intentional time, and making weekly check-ins feel different. They tackle common barriers like busy calendars and offer simple ways to pick and keep one rhythm this week.

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Mar 17, 2026 • 30min
903: Change Your Environment, Change Your Marriage
They explore how changing surroundings can reset relationship rhythms and revive connection. Practical ideas include full getaways, day trips, and at-home micro-retreats. Strategies cover planning ahead, setting phone boundaries, and creative childcare solutions. The conversation focuses on simple shifts that create space for emotional and sexual reconnection.

Mar 10, 2026 • 32min
902: Why Midlife Sex Feels Different
They explore why desire, energy, and bodies shift during midlife and what commonly causes those changes. They compare reactive versus spontaneous desire and share how routines like pelvic floor work can change performance. They talk about reframing expectations, trying new rhythms, communicating intentionally, and modeling healthy intimacy for your family.

Mar 3, 2026 • 29min
901: If It’s Not Working, Fix It
Learn about what happens when something is not working in your marriage, but it hasn’t been addressed. | "The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” —Anonymous
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!
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Feb 24, 2026 • 30min
900: The Truth About Marriage Today
Learn about the truth about marriage today, not the filtered version, not the highlight reel, and not the crisis headlines, but what’s actually happening inside real marriages right now. | “Love doesn’t die from a lack of affection. It dies from a lack of attention.” —Anonymous
Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?
Yes it is!
In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.
Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!
Links from today’s episode:
Join Intimacy Mastery Today
Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Feb 17, 2026 • 31min
899: Oooh That Underwear Drawer
They explore how small, intentional changes—like updating underwear—can act as simple novelties that revive attraction. They classify common drawer types and offer playful shopping ideas. They map tiny efforts to broader pillars of intimacy and challenge listeners to inspect, talk, and add a few flirty pieces to spark connection.

Feb 10, 2026 • 30min
898: How to Say What You Actually Need
Practical tips for saying what you actually need in marriage. Common fears and why people stay silent are explored. Simple methods like writing, taking small steps, and separating needs from criticism are discussed. Guidance on how to respond calmly when needs are shared. Encouragement to start expressing needs to rebuild connection and intimacy.

Feb 3, 2026 • 33min
897: Connection Is a Skill
They argue connection is a set of learnable skills, not luck. They list common skill gaps like listening, communicating needs, repair after conflict, and talking about sex. They stress intentional practice, repetition, and small daily habits like phone-free presence. They recommend curiosity over shame and treating disagreements as chances to learn and rebuild closeness.

Jan 27, 2026 • 27min
896: More Than Roses and Romance
They explore how Valentine's Day can trigger pressure, disappointment, and comparison in relationships. They discuss shifting from tests to invitations and planning ahead to make connection intentional. The conversation highlights listening skills, asking what makes your partner feel loved, and taking small, imperfect actions to build lasting intimacy.

Jan 20, 2026 • 32min
895: The Real Reason Sex Fades
Discover why sexual desire fades in long-term marriages and how to reignite that spark. It’s not about shame; it’s about emotional safety and communication. Individual actions can transform a relationship dramatically. Say goodbye to myths around age and chemistry—intimacy can last for decades! Learn how stress and unresolved conflicts erode connection, and why rekindling intimacy starts with nonsexual conversations and shared projects. Small, intentional steps can rebuild both emotional and physical closeness.


