The Christian Homemaking Podcast: Simply Convivial with Mystie Winckler

Mystie Winckler
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Oct 2, 2017 • 5min

Focused Habits

We are often encouraged to set SMART goals: Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound. It sounds great, and those goals do have a place. But when much of our lives is about developing people (ourselves and our children), we can’t put ourselves or others into such neat little boxes. We must treat people as people instead of as projects. So for many of our hopes for the future, we’d do better to focus on our processes – what we do today and tomorrow and the next day – rather than on reaching a particular outcome.
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Sep 26, 2017 • 10min

The Secret to Sanity

In the first episode of The Scholé Sisters Podcast we talk about how levity – lightheartedness, humor, cheerfulness – is a burnout prevention method. When we sink into seriousness, into get-it-all-done mode, into self-importance, we’re bound to be pulled down, lose our joy, and want to give up.To prevent burnout and also to recover from it, we need to shed our anxieties and pride – and we do that through laughter.
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Sep 25, 2017 • 6min

Productive Habits

What does being productive even mean?It’s not simply getting more done, but getting the right things done, done well, and done cheerfully.
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Sep 19, 2017 • 9min

The Scary Homeschool Mom

You’ve met her. Maybe you’ve been her. Maybe you are her.Some homeschool moms might scare you. Some homeschool moms scare their children. But I think we’ve all experienced another kind of scary homeschool mom: the one who scares herself.Are you scary? Who do you scare?
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Sep 18, 2017 • 5min

Start with Habits

Rather than grandiose goals for a new year, we should be focusing on small habits that we can build upon. These new year habits continue giving, because they become automatic. So we can gain their benefit without expending much energy to do so.A habit is an acquired behavior pattern regularly followed until it has become almost involuntary.
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Sep 12, 2017 • 9min

Beating Homeschool Morning Blahs

Sometimes it’s weather, sometimes it’s illness, sometimes it’s simply fatigue. If you’ve been homeschooling for awhile, you’re probably familiar with the feeling: homeschool morning blah.It’s normal; it’s natural; it’s bound to happen.But it’s also one of a homeschool mom’s most insidious enemies.No, I’m not exaggerating.
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Sep 11, 2017 • 4min

The Habit of Making My Bed

I’ve written before about making my bed and why it is a goal worth pursuing, two and a half years ago, actually, and while I make my bed occasionally (which is a great improvement upon never, by principle), it is hardly a habit.
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Sep 5, 2017 • 6min

Choose Conviviality

Is happiness an emotion reserved for those who have an easy life? Right now I have a child who thinks happiness is a life without math fact drill pages.And, he’s onto something that misery is dragging one’s feet and taking three hours to do what should take one three minutes. However, cause and effect might be different than his perception.
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Sep 4, 2017 • 4min

Focus on Keystone Habits

Keystone habits, according to Charles Duhigg, are habits that give “small wins [that] fuel transformative changes by leveraging tiny advantages into patterns that convince people that bigger achievements are within reach.” Incremental change is the best approach, and keystone habits are the increments that have the biggest impact.
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Aug 29, 2017 • 7min

Mom’s Mood Matters

It was about 5 years ago now that I deleted my old blog and started over from scratch, choosing the name Convivial Home for my new effort. A real estate agent promptly offered me a large sum for that domain, so I sold it and switched my name to Simply Convivial.I did not want to let go of the word convivial – though perhaps it is a more unusual word than I realized. Convivial has been a stake-in-the-sand word for me: it does not come easily, but because my principles and philosophies continually point me back to it, I need to build it in our practices and also in my own attitude.

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