Calm Parenting Podcast
Kirk Martin
Have a strong-willed child who doesn't respond to consequences, argues like an attorney, and refuses to do things your way? Good! You're in the right place. Celebrate Calm Founder Kirk Martin has given over 1,000,000 parents and teachers around the world practical, life-changing strategies to stop power struggles, yelling, and defiance NOW. Based on work with 1,500 challenging kids (many with AD/HD, OCD, ODD, ASD, etc.) in his home, and years spent in classrooms, Kirk's approach is refreshingly practical, honest, and laugh-out-loud funny! Questions? Visit us at www.CelebrateCalm.com or email us directly at Casey@CelebrateCalm.com
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Sep 10, 2025 • 27min
Stop Fights Over Screens For Toddlers Through Teens #517
Tired of screen time battles? Discover practical scripts to make screen regulations smoother for kids of all ages. Learn how screens impact self-confidence and attention, and explore ways to promote family wellness. Delve into the unique challenges faced by adolescents navigating technology and social media during puberty. Gain insights on fostering healthier habits through compassionate conversations, ensuring kids feel connected while using screens responsibly.
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Sep 7, 2025 • 23min
Kids Who Procrastinate, Touch the Hot Stove, Resist You? 10 Ways to Stop Power Struggles #516
Struggling with a strong-willed child who resists your way? Discover practical strategies to overcome power struggles and encourage responsibility in chores and schoolwork. Learn how embracing your child's independence can foster critical thinking. Delve into the challenges of managing study habits and meal planning for busy families. Explore the importance of trusting your child's abilities while tackling procrastination. Get insights on navigating control issues and building healthier relationships.
Sep 3, 2025 • 25min
Catch Your Child Stealing, Sneaking Screens, Drinking, Vaping, Watching Porn? #515
Learn how to tackle tough topics like sneaking food or screens at night with your kids. Discover strategies to communicate effectively when you find substances like alcohol or vape pens. The discussion emphasizes understanding your child's motivations behind risky behaviors. Gain insights into fostering trust and compassion during these challenging conversations, ensuring you guide them towards healthier choices without judgment.
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Sep 1, 2025 • 8min
Quick Tips for Dads Ep. 1
Navigating the challenges of strong-willed children can be tough for dads. Learn why traditional correction techniques might backfire and how creating a supportive environment is crucial. Discover practical tips to shift from criticism to positive modeling. Highlighting strengths rather than focusing on faults can significantly impact your child's confidence and growth. With relatable anecdotes, the discussion offers ways to connect with kids' interests while celebrating progress over perfection.
Aug 30, 2025 • 25min
When Kids Boss Siblings, Melt Down Over Losing, Prove Their Point or Say, “That’s Not Fair!” #514
Explore the world of childhood behavior as common issues like bossiness and meltdowns are unraveled. Discover strategies to navigate sibling dynamics and foster resilience in the face of competition. Learn how to respond when your child cries, "That's not fair!" and the importance of teaching good sportsmanship. Practical tips on managing anxiety and promoting emotional control are shared, along with ways to embrace both parenting challenges and imperfections. It's a deep dive into understanding and guiding children through their emotional landscapes.
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Aug 27, 2025 • 22min
Get Kids Moving More Quickly: 10 Practical Ideas To Try This Week #513
Struggling to get your kids moving? Discover creative strategies to encourage them to act quickly without the usual battles. Explore how anxiety and neurodivergence affect behavior, and learn practical tips to motivate all ages. Find out how setting clear boundaries empowers children to make choices while enhancing family dynamics. Plus, uncover techniques for stress-free school mornings that foster connection and healthy habits. Transform chaos into cooperation with these actionable insights!
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Aug 24, 2025 • 23min
Are Kids Supposed to Be Immediately Obedient? How Can You Motivate Kids Without Fear? #512
Dive into the challenges of expecting immediate obedience from kids, especially those with strong wills. Explore how these expectations can harm their emotional growth and lead to unnecessary conflict. The conversation emphasizes nurturing responsibility and compassion instead. Discover practical ways to encourage your child's unique traits and foster deeper family relationships, all while balancing societal pressures. Get ready to rethink parenting, focusing on empathy and understanding as essential tools for a harmonious home.
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Aug 20, 2025 • 26min
Unmotivated Child, Won’t Push Through, Avoids Tasks, Always Asks “Why?” #511
Navigating the challenges of raising a strong-willed child can be a journey. Discover how questioning authority can indicate potential and success. Embrace their curiosity and shift your perspective on obedience. Learn to communicate effectively and prioritize your child's independence while nurturing their critical thinking. Celebrate their individuality, creativity, and personal growth. This enlightening discussion offers scripts and strategies to transform family dynamics for the better.
Aug 17, 2025 • 27min
Big Emotions Are Coming: 5 Ways to Prepare #510
Get ready for big emotions as the new school year kicks off! Discover five practical strategies to effectively navigate tantrums and sibling rivalries. Learn how maintaining your well-being is crucial when handling intense emotional reactions. Explore the power of validating feelings and fostering communication during tough moments. Uncover calming techniques that empower both parents and children to manage intense interactions with ease. Prepare to transform emotional upheavals into opportunities for growth!
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Aug 13, 2025 • 21min
Want A Resilient Child? Back Off (& Shut Up) Part II #509
Explore how to cultivate resilience in children by allowing them the freedom to learn and grow independently. Discover the importance of letting kids face challenges and boredom to enhance their problem-solving skills. Learn practical tips for creating supportive environments without hovering, and embrace the significance of silence in fostering self-exploration. Through anecdotes and actionable advice, gain insights into nurturing adaptability while managing parental anxieties. Empower your child to thrive in their own way!
