All Out in the Open
All Out in the Open, Questions from the Closet
All Out in the Open is a resource for LGBTQ Latter-day Saints and those who love them. Our goal is to help listeners connect with themselves, with their families, with their community, and with God. Hosts Charlie Bird and Ben Schilaty help listeners open up to themselves and those around them. Clare Dalton digs into the scriptures and teaches how they can be a catalyst for personal revelation. Iese Wilson takes listeners on a tour of LGBTQ Latter-day Saints all over the Church and introduces us to modern day pioneers. Michael Soto and Liz Macdonald highlight the amazing work of those who are building and strengthening their communities. Learn more at www.alloutintheopen.org.
Episodes
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Oct 3, 2023 • 1h 7min
What do I do if listening to Conference hurts?
The hosts discuss their reflections and emotions while watching general conference, their struggles with church leaders' statements, the pain caused by certain messages, their discomfort with the concept of exaltation, conflicting emotions triggered by President Nelson's talk, doubts about feeling misunderstood by the church, and finding healing and comfort in family and personal revelation.
Sep 19, 2023 • 1h 3min
Season 6 Opener - Live Event
Join us as we kick of Season 6 - with a live event from the gather conference! As always Ben and Charlie kick off the next season with a Q&A session.
Aug 29, 2023 • 52sec
Bonus: Season 6 Is Coming!
Come join us for the live Sseason 6 Premier on September 15th! It will be at the Utah Valley Convention Center at 7PM.
Aug 15, 2023 • 1h 2min
Classic Episode: Do you think the Church will change?
Ben and Charlie discuss whether or not they expect changes in Church doctrine and policy regarding same-sex couples.
Aug 1, 2023 • 1h 9min
Classic Episode: What are the Pros and Cons of Coming Out?
Ben and Charlie are joined by Stacey Harkey for a discussion of the pros and cons of coming out.
Jul 25, 2023 • 52min
Classic Episode: What are the Stages of Coming Out?
Ben teaches Cass's 6 Stages of Coming Out. Scott Christofferson joins Ben and Charlie to talk about their experiences in each stage, as well as give advice for how friends and family can support LGBTQ+ loved ones throughout the process.
Jul 11, 2023 • 1h 6min
Classic Episode: Am I Being Deceived?
This is one you don't want to miss! Ben and Charlie are joined by David Butler for a conversation on how to recognize which thoughts come from the Spirit.
Jul 4, 2023 • 53min
Classic Episode: Why do You Stay in the Church?
Charlie and Ben talk about why they decide to move forward in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
Jun 29, 2023 • 46min
Classic Episode: Is There a Place for Me at Church?
Ben, Charlie, and McKay Bryson have a raw conversation about what it's like to be a gay member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
Jun 20, 2023 • 38min
Classic Episode: How Can We Prevent LGBTQ Suicide?
Suicidal ideation is very common and can surface in unexpected ways. This week we are joined by Taryn Hiatt, the Area Director for the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. We talk about myths surrounding suicide, warning signs, and practical steps anyone can take when life feels overwhelming. Please do not miss this important episode. For further education, extra resources, and advice on how to change our culture around suicide and mental health, you can visit Utah's suicide prevention coalition at liveonutah.org.
