Mostly Dating

Carleigh
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Aug 5, 2024 • 43min

214. 11 Common Behaviors That Are Damaging Your Relationship

Welcome back! Today we're talking about behaviors that damage your relationship, create distance, and ultimately cause breakups. what we talk about: the difference between the silent treatment and taking time to think/cool down how to stop assuming your partner's feelings/thoughts/needs & what to do when they assume yours what happens when arguments go unresolved my thoughts on "never go to bed angry" why you need to talk to your partner more about sex (& how to do it) what to do when actions don't match words (or vice versa) when comparison to past relationships is helpful (& when it's not) & more! 👀 the post I reference all episode 📣 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get a custom dating app profile makeover from me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ As always, find us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@⁠⁠mostlydating⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, email hello@wearemostlybalanced.com. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!  Instagram post: https://www.instagram.com/p/CnreDjkuU3Z/
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Jul 29, 2024 • 37min

213. Signs They're Falling In Love With You

Welcome back! Today's episode starts with a few listener questions and then we dive into some subtle and telltale signs someone is in love with you. what we talk about: Timelines for saying I love you Should you slide into someone's DMs if they didn't match you back on a dating app? My new favorite way to write a Bumble bio Questions to ask to see if someone is right for you Signs someone is falling in love with you & more! 📣 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get a custom dating app profile makeover from me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ As always, find us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@⁠mostlydating⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, email hello@wearemostlybalanced.com. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! 
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Jul 22, 2024 • 35min

212. Why You Need To Have Uncomfortable Conversations & How To Do It

Welcome back! Today's episode dives into a few recent viral topics and wraps up with listener questions. what we talk about: Tips for introducing a partner to your family or friends (+ my own experience) Why it's important to have deep conversations in a relationship Deep conversation starters for dates How to bring up uncomfortable conversation topics in a relationship The differences between dating 30+ vs. dating in your 20s The best ways to start a conversation on a dating app & more! 📣 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get a custom dating app profile makeover from me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📣 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Book a 1:1 video or phone call with me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ the posts I referenced: 5 uncomfortable conversations to have before getting engaged 9 deep conversation starters for better dates As always, find us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlydating⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, email hello@wearemostlybalanced.com. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! 
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Jul 16, 2024 • 32min

211. The Lesson We Can All Learn From Work Crushes

Welcome back! Today we're answering rapid-fire listener questions. what we talk about: How to talk to your partner about something they do that's bothering you What to do when you feel "blank" or like you aren't good enough Why we need to stop using our dating lives as a measurement tool for how great we are. How to get over a crush on a married coworker & more! 📣 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get a custom dating app profile makeover from me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📣 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Book a 1:1 video or phone call with me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Sign up for my free newsletter, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Mostly Dating⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📖 Date with intention with my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠digital dating planner⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or ebook (use code IG10 for $10 off) As always, find us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlybalancedpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, email hello@wearemostlybalanced.com. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! 
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Jul 8, 2024 • 35min

210. Your Complete Guide To Defining The Relationship

Welcome back! Today we're talking about all things DTR. what we talk about: Things to do before defining the relationship Things you should know before defining the relationship Signs it's time to define the relationship How to get comfortable talking about sex with your partner & more! Other posts, episodes, & products referenced: Episode with Emily Morse (@sexwithemily) How to DTR Wonderlust Intimacy Deck (use MOSTLYBALANCED for a discount) 📣 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get a custom dating app profile makeover from me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📣 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Book a 1:1 video or phone call with me⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Sign up for my free newsletter, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Mostly Dating⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📖 Date with intention with my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠digital dating planner⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or ebook (use code IG10 for $10 off) As always, find us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlybalancedpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, email hello@wearemostlybalanced.com. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! 
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Jul 1, 2024 • 39min

209. The Best Date Spots In NYC For Every Relationship Phase with The Carboholic

Welcome back! Today we’re joined by Rachel Brotman, creator and founder of @thecarboholic. This episode is a little different, we're doing a deep dive into all the best dating spots in NYC. Don't live in New York? Save this for your next visit! what we talk about: How Rachel became a food content creator & eventually quit her full time job How to find out about all the best new restaurants & how to get the hard-to-get reservations Where to go for: a first date, second/third date, affordable date, non-drinking date, double date, group date, meeting the parents date, special occasion date, & more Our thoughts on who should pay & how to offer What to do when you don't like the date location they suggest How to approach someone IRL in a restaurant/bar setting & more! Find Rachel on Instagram or TikTok or head to her website where she has a ton of free guides and resources. 📣 ⁠⁠⁠Get a custom dating app profile makeover from me⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Sign up for my free newsletter, ⁠⁠⁠Mostly Dating⁠⁠⁠ As always, find us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlydating⁠⁠⁠⁠. To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, email ⁠hello@wearemostlybalanced.com⁠. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!
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Jun 24, 2024 • 39min

208. Send Help: I'm Anxious & I'm Dating An Avoidant

Explore the complexities of dating as the hosts question common advice like "if they wanted to, they would" and tackle how to manage today’s expectations. Learn to navigate relationships with anxious and avoidant partners while finding out how to communicate effectively. They also dive into personal boundaries and what it means to date with intention, plus tips to move on from a situationship. It's an engaging mix of insight and relatable listener questions!
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Jun 17, 2024 • 37min

207. How To Motivate Your Partner To Be Healthier + Do Men Always Come Back?

Welcome back! Today we're chatting about staying healthy in a new relationship, encouraging your partner to be healthier, and answering more listener questions. what we talk about: Staying in your health/fitness/wellness routine in a relationship How to motivate your partner to be healthier Who should pay for early dates? What to message someone who doesn't have good prompts Should you share feedback after a bad date? Breakups within a friend group Why I hate the phrase "men always come back" & more! 📣 ⁠⁠⁠⁠Get a custom dating app profile makeover from me⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📣 ⁠⁠⁠⁠Book a 1:1 video or phone call with me⁠⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Sign up for my free newsletter, ⁠⁠⁠⁠Mostly Dating⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📖 Date with intention with my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠digital dating planner⁠⁠⁠⁠ or ebook (use code IG10 for $10 off) As always, find us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlybalancedpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, email hello@wearemostlybalanced.com. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! 
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Jun 10, 2024 • 44min

205. How To Avoid Future Tripping & What To Do If You Were Too Clingy

Welcome back! Today we're chatting about future tripping in early dating & answering a few listener questions. what we talk about: what is future tripping? how to avoid creating a false sense of intimacy early on how much messaging is too much before a date & in the early dating stages how to voice boundaries around texting early in dating how soon to sleep together what to do when you were clingy and then they ghosted is it a red flag if you rarely argue? & more! 📣 ⁠⁠⁠Get a custom dating app profile makeover from me⁠⁠⁠ 📣 ⁠⁠⁠Book a 1:1 video or phone call with me⁠⁠⁠ 💌 Sign up for my free newsletter, ⁠⁠⁠Mostly Dating⁠⁠⁠ 📖 Date with intention with my ⁠⁠⁠⁠digital dating planner⁠⁠⁠ or ebook (use code IG10 for $10 off) As always, find us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlybalancedpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, email hello@wearemostlybalanced.com. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! 
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Jun 3, 2024 • 48min

204. How Dating Changes After 30 & Our Best Tips For Manifesting with Elizabeth Endres

Welcome back! Today we’re joined by Elizabeth Endres, creator and co-founder of @sweatsandthecity and host of The Wellness Process podcast. what we talk about: Elizabeth’s favorite wellness practices Dating in your 20s vs dating in your 30s+ How to get in a good mindset before a date Our thoughts on “dating is a numbers game” Being friends with exes How to manifest the right relationship (& what to do once you get it) Approaching someone IRL & more! 📣 ⁠⁠Get a custom dating app profile makeover from me⁠⁠ 📣 ⁠⁠Book a 1:1 video or phone call with me⁠⁠ 💌 Sign up for my free newsletter, ⁠⁠Mostly Dating⁠⁠ 📖 Date with intention with my ⁠⁠⁠digital dating planner⁠⁠ or ebook (use code IG10 for $10 off) As always, find us on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlydating⁠⁠⁠. To have your question answered on an upcoming episode, email hello@wearemostlybalanced.com. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review!

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