

Mostly Dating
Carleigh
Mostly Dating is a podcast with approachable advice for every stage of dating and relationships. Host Carleigh Ferrante dives into the world of modern dating and relationships with approachable, relatable advice. Tune in weekly for practical tips, listener questions, and conversations that help you build healthier, happier, and more lasting connections—and find us on Instagram @mostlydating.
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Mar 29, 2021 • 46min
53. REMY KASSIMIR on Sex Education & How to Have an Orgasm
Welcome back! This week we’re talking all about the things no one told you about sex, female masturbation, and how to have an orgasm. And who better to have than conversation with than Remy Kassimir! Remy is a comedian and host of hit podcast How Cum, which she started at 27 on a quest to have her first orgasm. Remy opens up about how she felt when she realized she had never had an orgasm, and what eventually helped her (and over 1,000 of her listeners) get there. We talk about why the female orgasm is so complex, how to talk to your partner (and your therapist!) about it, and why we need to all be a little more open when talking about sex and masturbation.
You can find Remy on Instagram @remykassimir and listen to her podcast @howcumpodcast everywhere you can listen to podcasts!
How Cum Episodes we mentioned: Episode 3 with Dr. Helen Fisher and Episode 24 with John Fugelsang & Christian Finnegan
Mostly Balanced Episodes we mentioned: Episode 14 with Kolby & Alex on Holistic Health & the Power of Sex
What we're trying this week:
Carleigh's Pick: Sunday Riley clean, cruelty-free skincare
Mia's Pick: Smart sweets
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our blog. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!
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Mar 26, 2021 • 22min
52. MINISODE on Friendship Breakups
Welcome back! This MINISODE is all about ending friendships. Ending a friendship can be just as painful as (if not not more than) ending a romantic relationship - and just as we have expectations for people we date, we should have expectations for our friendships. We talk about why it’s normal for friendships to shift and change and share our own experiences “breaking up” with or just growing apart from friends.
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our blog. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!
Use code XOBALANCED for 20% off Sakara Life meal programs and clean boutique items.
Try our favorite MindBodyGreen supplements or sign up for one of their expert-led classes on one-off topics like health, nutrition, spirituality, personal growth, relationships, Ayurveda, and so much more! Check out their website to learn about the class packages they offer, or head here if you are interested in becoming a Functional Nutrition Coach where you will learn from world class instructors and be armed with the tools to launch or expand your business.

Mar 22, 2021 • 50min
51. JONAH & ILANA on First Impressions, Dating Rules & Being Friends with your Ex
Welcome back! Today we’re joined by Jonah Feingold & Ilana Dunn, hosts of the Seeing Other People podcast. Jonah and Ilana met on a dating app, went out a few times, and eventually decided not to date - but to start a podcast instead. Today they’re sharing the full story of their first date, why it didn’t work out, and how their impressions of each other have changed since they’d first met.
We also hear their opinions on classic dating rules, if “bad timing” is just an excuse, treating dating as a “game”, and why being self aware is so important in the dating world. Plus, Jonah tells all about a new girl in his life and weighs in on whether or not it’s a good idea to put “all your eggs in one basket”. You can find Jonah & Ilana on Instagram @ilana.dunn @jonahfeingold and @seeingotherpeople where you can actually take out a personal ad on their Instagram if you’re looking to meet someone serious.
What we're trying this week:
Carleigh's Pick: Dimple Dating App
Mia's Pick: Sarah Brooks Pilates
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our blog. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!
Use code XOBALANCED for 20% off Sakara Life meal programs and clean boutique items.
Try our favorite MindBodyGreen supplements or sign up for one of their expert-led classes on one-off topics like health, nutrition, spirituality, personal growth, relationships, Ayurveda, and so much more! Check out their website to learn about the class packages they offer, or head here if you are interested in becoming a Functional Nutrition Coach where you will learn from world class instructors and be armed with the tools to launch or expand your business.

Mar 19, 2021 • 26min
50. MINISODE on 50 Episodes of Mostly Balanced
Welcome to Episode 50 of Mostly Balanced! In today’s Minisode we are taking a quick trip down MB lane, talking about how we met, how the podcast came to be, and touching on a few episodes that stand out to us today.
If you’re new here and want to check out the episodes we talk about…
Episode 1 Dino Malvone on Finding Group Fitness & Founding the Salt Drop
Episode 3 Sara Choi on Self Care & Reiki Healing
Episode 4 Pete Athans on Mental Toughness & Behavior Change
Episode 5 Kira West on Making Wellness Inclusive
Episode 6 SOLO on Relationship Advice to our Younger Selves
Episode 15 Gideon Akande on Getting Fit & Staying Motivated
Episode 17 Bret & Jason on Finding your Passion & Living Better
Episode 40 Dr Gary Lewandowski on How Often Couples Should Really be Having Sex, Love at First Sight, & Other Relationship Myths
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our blog. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!
Use code XOBALANCED for 20% off Sakara Life meal programs and clean boutique items.
Try our favorite MindBodyGreen supplements or sign up for one of their expert-led classes on one-off topics like health, nutrition, spirituality, personal growth, relationships, Ayurveda, and so much more! Check out their website to learn about the class packages they offer, or head here if you are interested in becoming a Functional Nutrition Coach where you will learn from world class instructors and be armed with the tools to launch or expand your business.

Mar 15, 2021 • 47min
49. GABRIELLE BOLIN on Eating Disorder Awareness & Reframing the Language of Fitness Instructors
Welcome back! This week we're joined by Gabrielle Bolin, actress turned fitness instructor who is dedicated to helping people discover confidence through fitness. Gab opens up about her experience struggling with an eating disorder, how she overcame it, and how she continues to prioritize self-love. We dive deep into our thoughts on the fitness industry today and the impact fitness instructors and influencers have on their community. Gab talks about how the pandemic effected her lifestyle and how she worked to reframe her mindset to stop herself from slipping into negative self-talk. We are so grateful to have had this conversation with Gab and for the work she is doing to change the fitness industry.
What we're trying this week:
Carleigh's Pick: Sweat with Sav
Mia's Pick: Seed Daily Synbiotic
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our blog. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!
Shop our Favs:
Sakara Life - use code XOBALANCED for 20% off meal programs and clean boutique items
Copina Collagen Booster - Code MOSTLYBALANCED
Sourse Vitamin-infused Dark Chocolate - Code MOSTLYBALANCED
MindBodyGreen Supplements
Sprout Living Protein Powders - Code MOSTLYBALANCED
Recess Hemp-Infused Sparkling Waters - Code MOSTLYBALANCED

Mar 12, 2021 • 18min
48. MINISODE: Mia on Breaking Up vs. Taking a Break
Welcome back! In this week’s minisode Mia is talking about breakups vs taking a break. She talks a little about her own experience and shares her views on when/why couples might take a break, if they “work”, what defines a break, and how she would react to a SO wanting fo take a break.
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our blog. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!
Use code XOBALANCED for 20% off Sakara Life meal programs and clean boutique items.
Try our favorite MindBodyGreen supplements or sign up for one of their expert-led classes on one-off topics like health, nutrition, spirituality, personal growth, relationships, Ayurveda, and so much more! Check out their website to learn about the class packages they offer, or head here if you are interested in becoming a Functional Nutrition Coach where you will learn from world class instructors and be armed with the tools to launch or expand your business.

Mar 8, 2021 • 54min
47. KATIE SANDS on Building Confidence with Fashion & Using her Platform for Good
Welcome back! Today we are joined by Katie Sands, Amazon On-Air Style Host and the face behind Instagram account @honestlykate. Katie opens up about how she started her Instagram as a way to share her favorite outfits with her friends and family, and how it eventually grew to a lifestyle destination for over 285 thousand people. What began as a fashion-only account now encompasses so many areas of her life: from mental health to workouts, and other pieces of her day-to-day routine. Katie is breaking the mold by continuously partnering only with brands who's values align with her own.
Since the start of COVID, she has made it a point that each of her partnerships have a charitable aspect, and she is mindful to create content that will resonate with people from all different financial backgrounds. As her name states, her brand is honest and authentic and chatting with her truly feels like catching up with a friend.
As someone who is constantly in the public eye, Katie typically keeps her family life and her relationships pretty separate, as a way to hold boundaries for herself and to respect the boundaries of the people in her life. We were lucky to hear some backstory of her current relationship - how they met, why she didn't want him to follow her account in the beginning, and a bit about what it was like dating in NYC with such a public career on social media. She also shares her advice on how to meet someone, what outfit to wear on a first date, and what her must-have quality is in a significant other.
You can find Katie on Instagram @honestlykate or head over to her blog iamhonestlykate.com where you can shop her favorite looks, including her capsule collection she created with Phat Buddha - keep an eye out for Spring styles soon!
What we're trying this week:
Carleigh's Pick: One Might Mill Bagels
Mia's Pick: Ted Lasso on AppleTV+
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our blog. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!
Shop our Favs:
Sakara Life - use code XOBALANCED for 20% off meal programs and clean boutique items
Copina Collagen Booster - Code MOSTLYBALANCED
Sourse Vitamin-infused Dark Chocolate - Code MOSTLYBALANCED
MindBodyGreen Supplements
Sprout Living Protein Powders - Code MOSTLYBALANCED
Recess Hemp-Infused Sparkling Waters - Code MOSTLYBALANCED

Mar 5, 2021 • 19min
46. MINISODE: Carleigh on What to Ask (& Not to Ask) on a First Date
Do first dates make you nervous? On today's MINISODE, Carleigh is breaking down all the questions she loves to ask on first dates. We chat about how to rephrase common questions to keep the conversation flowing, and to dig a little bit deeper and find out if this person is someone you want to go on a second date with. We also share our thoughts on questions that we think should be saved for later dates, or maybe not asked at all. We give advice on how to ask questions about things you might not even realize you're looking for in a relationship.
Some common questions we answer:
Is asking about previous relationships ok on a first date?
Is it bad if we talk about work the whole time?
How early on should we ask about their intentions for the relationship?
When should you bring up if you've been married and/or have kids?
How do I keep the conversation flowing but also keep the topics light and fun?
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our blog. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!
Use code XOBALANCED for 20% off Sakara Life meal programs and clean boutique items.
Try our favorite MindBodyGreen supplements or sign up for one of their expert-led classes on one-off topics like health, nutrition, spirituality, personal growth, relationships, Ayurveda, and so much more! Check out their website to learn about the class packages they offer, or head here if you are interested in becoming a Functional Nutrition Coach where you will learn from world class instructors and be armed with the tools to launch or expand your business.

Mar 1, 2021 • 46min
45. ALEXA CAWLEY on the Evolution of the Wellness Industry & the Rise of Boutique Fitness
Welcome back! This week we are joined by Alexa Cawley, Founder & CEO of Forever Friday Consulting and Host of The Friday Society podcast. Alexa shares how her career with companies like Lululemon and SoulCycle helped her see a gap when it came to marketing representation of small, boutique companies within the wellness industry. She ultimately decided to fill this gap with the launch of Forever Friday, where she takes on clients of all sizes, from business owners to fitness instructors - she helps her clients create content, navigate social media, etc., and arms then with the tools to get their business where they want it to be.
This episode goes deep into how we've seen the fitness industry change over the last 10 years, specifically in NYC, first gradually and then abruptly in 2020 with the COVID19 pandemic. Alexa shares her favorite and least favorite wellness trends, her favorite way to sweat, what made her successful in the launch of her company, and what she thinks are the most important qualities in a fitness instructor today. We also talk about the importance of how bigger fitness companies like Peloton treat their employees, and how dating has changed in NYC during the same time period we've seen the fitness industry change.
This episode is part of a swap with did with Alexa, and you can head to The Friday Society to listen to our episode and to check out her other amazing episodes with guests like Elizabeth & Dale of Sweats and the City, Alexandra Bonetti of TalentHack, and so many more!
You can find Alexa on Instagram @foreverfriday.co and to learn more about her consulting services head to www.foreverfridayconsulting.com.
What we're trying this week:
Carleigh's Pick: Copina Co. Vanilla Collagen Booster - use code MOSTLYBALANCED for 10% off your order
Mia's Pick: Sakara Life Energy Super Bar - use code XOBALANCED for 20% off all Sakara items and meal plans
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our blog. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Feb 26, 2021 • 24min
44. MINISODE: Mia on Relationship Envy...Dealbreaker or Opportunity?
Welcome back! On today's minisode we are talking all about jealousy of other peoples' relationships, specifically when you are in a relationship yourself. Mia is breaking down which instances she thinks are dealbreakers for your own relationship and when she thinks envy could be used more as an opportunity.
A few topics we talk about:
Timelines
Trust
Friendship
Couples who workout together
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our blog. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!
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