

Mostly Dating
Carleigh
Mostly Dating is a podcast with approachable advice for every stage of dating and relationships. Host Carleigh Ferrante dives into the world of modern dating and relationships with approachable, relatable advice. Tune in weekly for practical tips, listener questions, and conversations that help you build healthier, happier, and more lasting connections—and find us on Instagram @mostlydating.
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Nov 21, 2022 • 58min
143. KRISTA RAUSCHENBERG on The Akashic Records & How To Trust Your Intuition
Welcome back! Today we're joined by returning guest, Krista Rauschenberg, Akashic reader and breath work practitioner. A few months ago, Krista guided Mia and Carleigh through a workshop about accessing your Akashic records. Today, we discuss what happened in the session, and learn more about Krista's background, how to connect to your own intuition, and why we have such a difficult time trusting our gut.
We dive right into today's conversation, so if you aren't familiar with what the Akashic records are or haven't heard our first episode with Krista, head back and listen to Episode 24 with Krista or Episode 65 with Nikki Novo to learn more of the basics.
what we talk about:
How accessing the Akashic records can help you identify blocks in your life
How breath work can help you work through that trauma
What it means to trust your intuition
Why human beings have such a difficult time getting out of their own heads
How to access your own Akashic records
What it feels like when Krista takes on other peoples' energy
Krista's favorite ways to practice self care
& more
To learn more about how to sign up for Krista's next workshop or how to get a reading with her, head to her Instagram @akashicglow or visit her website www.akashicglow.com.
In today's intro, we share what we're loving lately:
Carleigh: Quip water flosser on sale 20% off!
Mia: Seven Sundays cereal
+ we answer a listener question about what you should know about someone by date 3.
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Nov 14, 2022 • 1h 13min
142. EMILY MORSE on Ways To Have Better Sex & How To Actually Tell Your Partner What You Want
Welcome back! Today we’re joined by Dr. Emily Morse, sex therapist, author, and host of the *first* dating podcast we ever listened to, Sex With Emily.
What we talk about:
how Emily became a sex expert
how to talk to a new partner about sex
whether or not sex can get better with time
why people are afraid to talk to their partners about sex
the most common fantasies
ways to bring up your fantasies with your partner
how to start sexting
why everyone should be using lube
finding other people attractive when you’re in a relationship (+ when it can become a problem)
how to discover what you like sexually
& more!
You can find Emily on Instagram @sexwithemily or head to her website sexwithemily.com where she has a ton of resources and guides to help you improve your sex life.
+ we start the episode by answering a listener question about dating someone at work.
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Nov 7, 2022 • 1h
141. ALI BONAR on Working With Who You're Sleeping With
Welcome back! Today we're joined by Ali Bonar, co-founder of Oat Haus granola butter, one of our favorite healthier treats. Ali is open, honest, and down to earth—and we loved chatting with her.
TW: Sexual assault & eating disorders.
what we talk about:
Ali's experience overcoming orthorexia (+ what that is)
How her eating disorder led her to the idea for Oat Haus
Founding the company with her boyfriend & how they found their third co-founder
The work that goes into developing recipes, picking flavors, etc.
How Oat Haus has built such a close community
Ali's (amazing) advice for working with someone you're also dating
Her experience with different forms of therapy (talk, somatic, psychedelic)
How she opened up to her boyfriend about a previous sexual assault + advice she has for anyone going through something similar
Different types of trauma
& a lot more!
You can find Ali on Instagram @alibonar and head to @oathaus to stock up on some granola butter for yourself (we promise, you won't regret it!)
what we talk about in the intro:
Mia's final countdown to the wedding
Carleigh's apartment search
Why everyone feels so stressed and busy right now
Carleigh's obsession with Ora acupuncture
Seven Sundays cereal & muesli
Mia's alcohol-free month (& what she's drinking instead)
Tell Me Lies finale
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Oct 31, 2022 • 57min
140. ELIZABETH ENDRES & DALE STABLER on How To Develop Healthy Habits You'll Actually Stick With
Welcome back! Today we're joined by Elizabeth Endres and Dale Stabler, founders of Sweats and The City and ORRO, an online fitness and wellness platform that houses all different instructors and techniques including pilates, dance cardio, sculpt, beat-based classes, yoga, barre, strength training, meditations, breath work, and more. To learn more about how they met (as roommates in NYC!) and created their business, listen to our previous episode with them. Today's episode is all about daily routines, building healthy habits, and how to make small changes for a healthier, happier life.
What we talk about:
What's been new since they last came on in January 2021
How ORRO came to be
Their process when selecting instructors for ORRO
Why low impact exercises make them feel their best (& why variety is important)
How to develop a morning and evening routine
Tips for being more organized in your day to day life
Small steps they take to develop healthier habits
Wellness products that are worth the hype
How they set boundaries with work and life
How to maintain your wellness routines when dating someone new (or someone with different habits)
You can find Elizabeth & Dale on Instagram @sweatsandthecity or on their website, and learn more about the ORRO app here.
& if you're trying ORRO, here are a few classes/methods we love...
Total Body Tone with Sonia Hare
Barre/Pilates Sculpt with Karen Medina
Pilates Sculpt with Jackie Aitken
Legs + Booty with A Sculpt Body
Sculpt with Meghan McFerran
Barre with Christie Horan
Reiki Inflused Sound Bath with Nicole Rutsch
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Oct 24, 2022 • 58min
139. MEGAN ROUP on Mindful Movement, Becoming A Mom, & Making Friends As An Adult
Welcome back! Today we're joined by one of our favorite fitness instructors and motivation queens, Megan Roup. Megan is the founder of The Sculpt Society—and if you've been listening for a while you know how much we love her workouts! It was such an honor to have her on the podcast, and we can't wait for you to hear this episode.
what we talk about:
Megan's fitness journey and her experience as a professional dancer
How she decided to create The Sculpt Society, and how it has evolved since then
The thought process behind the design of each TSS class
How mindfulness plays into exercise
Finding movement you love vs. exercising as punishment
The importance of the language fitness instructors use
Megan's experience with dating apps in NYC (+how she met her husband!)
How Megan and her husband decided he would join TSS full time
Feeling like you aren't ready to be a mom
How motherhood has impacted her life and her career
Making friends as an adult (and as a new mom)
& more!
You can find Megan on Instagram @meganroup and head to @thesculptsociety to join the TSS community! + code MB25 will get you a free trial and a discount on your first month.
what we're loving:
Carleigh: Kerafactor Combo System
Mia: The Solawave
+ we answer a question from our favorite Actually Curious deck about how we'd spend a technology-free day.
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Oct 17, 2022 • 37min
138. How To Stop Overthinking In Relationships
Welcome back! In today's solo episode we're diving deep into four listener questions.
what we talk about:
Ebbs & flows of affection in relationships
How to stop overthinking
Our advice on the best ways to bring up getting engaged
What to do when you don't know if they want to be more than friends
Rebuilding trust in a relationship
Our experiences with gaslighting
When you and your partner have different sex drives
& more
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Oct 10, 2022 • 1h 3min
137. ALY & COLETTE on The Physical & Mental Benefits Of Movement + Why It's Okay For Friendships To End
Welcome back! Today we are joined by Aly Giampolo and Colette Dong, female-founder duo of the ness—a celeb-approved trampoline-based fitness class. Aly and Colette have cultivated a deeper & more meaningful fitness method and a space and that celebrates community, self-love, mental engagement, and movement (both physical and spiritual).
What we talk about:
✨each of their relationships with fitness growing up and in their early 20s
✨how they decided to start the ness, what makes it different, and how it’s grown and evolved
✨the physical and mental benefits of a trampoline workout
✨advice for starting a business with a friend
✨why it’s ok for friendships and relationships to evolve or end, and how to handle it if that does happen
✨balancing work and relationships, and the obstacles of dating as an entrepreneur
✨what advice they’d give to their younger selves
You can find more about the ness on Instagram @thenessnyc and use code MOSTLYBALANCED for 20% off your first month of the ness digital platform.
In today’s intro, we answer three questions from our favorite actually curious deck, + share what we’ve been living (or missing) lately:
Mia: false lashes
Carleigh: Seed, Sakara metabolism powder (XOBALANCED for discount), & Athletic Greens
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Oct 3, 2022 • 1h 3min
136. MORGAN RAPHAEL on Cosmic Love, Relationships That Hold You Back, & How To Actually Handle Rejection
Welcome back! Today we are joined by Morgan Raphael, creator and founder of Bun Undone and The Self Care Society. You may know Morgan from her recent appearance on Amazon Prime's Cosmic Love, OR from our previous episode with her (E85 on Self Love, Manifestation, and How to Heal from a Breakup). Today, we're catching up on all things Cosmic Love, and chatting about what's been new in Morgan's dating life.
what we talk about:
Morgan's casting process for Cosmic Love
Astrological compatability
What you didn't see on TV
What it was live behind the scenes (with no phones, internet, etc. for two months)
What Morgan's most recent breakup taught her about what she's looking for
How to handle rejection
Why we should sometimes let the other person initiate in dating
Toxic and controlling relationships
Relationships that hold you back
& more
You can find Morgan on Instagram @morganraphael or on her website bunundone.com. + stream Cosmic Love on APV.
Today's intro is short & sweet because Carleigh is traveling, but we chat about what we did this weekend & our favorite parts of the episode.
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Sep 26, 2022 • 59min
135. EXCUSE MY GRANDMA on The Pros & Cons Of Modern Dating
Welcome back! Today we are joined by Kim Murstein and her grandma, Gail, of the Excuse My Grandma podcast.
what we talk about:
what dating was like when Grandma Gail was in her 20s
Kim & Grandma Gail's thoughts on dating apps
how their relationship with each other has evolved since starting the podcast
what they both think we are getting wrong about modern dating
+ what we're doing right
sex on the first date
dinner on the first date
living together before marriage
couple's therapy before marriage
the three things couples argue about the most
& more!
You can find Kim & Grandma Gail on Instagram @excusemygrandma & TikTok @excusemygrandma.
what we're loving:
Chubby Snacks
+ we answer a listener's question about how to approach a crush on a coworker
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!

Sep 19, 2022 • 1h 4min
134. CALYN BROOKE on Developing a Fitness Routine, How To Get What You Want From Your Partner, & Why Everyone Should Experience Living In New York City
Welcome back!
Today we are joined by certified fitness instructor and lifestyle creator, Calyn Brooke.
what we talk about:
Calyn’s fitness/wellness journey
The stigma behind talking about weight loss
How to start your own fitness/wellness routine
Instagram vs. reality
How Calyn became a successful full time fitness instructor
Her decision to get married in college
How her relationship has evolved as they’ve both grown and changed
How to tell your partner what you want from them in the relationship (ie. birthday gifts/celebrations, soup when you're sick, etc.)
Advice for anyone moving to New York City
Her recent experience with IVF and freezing her embryos
& more!
You can find Calyn on Instagram @calynbrooke.
what we're loving this week:
Carleigh: belliwelli snack bars + the mindbodygreen podcast episodes with Troy Aikman & Ryan Holiday
Mia catches us up on her week in LA
+ we answer a listener's question about fish pictures on dating apps
As always, find us on Instagram @mostlybalancedpodcast and on our website. Thanks for joining us and please leave a rating or review if you enjoyed the episode!


