Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
Beatrice Kamau
Clearer, not Louder Podcast (formerly known as the Self Love Fix Podcast) is a podcast about discernment, the power of the voice, and the intersection of how the two impact you and the world around you.
In a world that encourages constant reacting, overexplaining, and performing, this space is about learning to pause, notice what's actually happening, and respond with clarity.
Each episode explores the subtle dynamics that shape our relationships, decisions, and inner lives- the moments when something feels off, when we ignore our God-given wisdom, or when we realize we've been negotiating with things that don't align with our principles.
Through thoughtful reflections and insightful conversations, Clearer, Not Louder helps you develop the kind of clarity and discernment that doesn't require force or volume but rather, honesty, awareness, and the powerful, undiluted version of your voice.
Because the goal isn't to be louder.
It's to be clearer.
In a world that encourages constant reacting, overexplaining, and performing, this space is about learning to pause, notice what's actually happening, and respond with clarity.
Each episode explores the subtle dynamics that shape our relationships, decisions, and inner lives- the moments when something feels off, when we ignore our God-given wisdom, or when we realize we've been negotiating with things that don't align with our principles.
Through thoughtful reflections and insightful conversations, Clearer, Not Louder helps you develop the kind of clarity and discernment that doesn't require force or volume but rather, honesty, awareness, and the powerful, undiluted version of your voice.
Because the goal isn't to be louder.
It's to be clearer.
Episodes
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Oct 24, 2019 • 1h 4min
28. "All the Stars" Astrology, Love, & Purpose with Astrofashionista
Hey girl hey! In this episode, I chat with professional astrologer Astrofashionista (Tamerri Ater) about the role that astrology plays in our ego, identity, how we act in relationships, love, birth charts, where our reactivity lies in our birth/natal chart, relationships, and of course, passion and purpose! If you have been wondering what exactly is astrology all about and how does it apply to your life... look no further because we cover it ALL in this episode. This is your crash course in astrology & your identity through the lens of astrology, you don't want to miss this! Please note: ** The terms natal and birth chart can be used interchangeably** More info about Tameri Ater Tamerri Ater's Instagram: @astrofashionista Tamerri Ater's Facebook: astrofashionista Tamerri Ater's Youtube: astrofashonista Books mentioned by Tamerri Ater: The Only Astrology Book You'll Ever Need Llewellyn's Complete Book of Astrology Self care product mentioned by Tamerri Ater: chakra sprays by Aveda Tamerri Ater's website (where you can also get your free copy of your own birth chart! All you need is your name, birthplace, and birth time to get YOUR own personal chart to follow along with the information in this podcast. Click here for a direct link): Astrofashionista.com Tameri Ater's newest video course Soul Goals: A course on how to manifest a love partner (can also be found on her website) Please don't forget to rate & review the podcast! Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com Click here to get your 5 Daily tips on How to Stop Caring What Other People Think (or visit beatricekamau.com)
Oct 17, 2019 • 25min
27. "Work, Work, Work" Wellness in the Workplace
Hey Girl Hey! In this week's episode, we talk about how important it is to remember to take care of ourselves in the workplace. Part of self-care is remembering to stick to our boundaries in the workplace. Tune in and listen in to find out the sneaky ways we let self-care slip in the workplace and how to be well in the workplace. Please don't forget to leave a rating and review! :) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com Click here to grab your free guide on the 5 Daily Tips on How to Stop Caring What Other People Think
Oct 10, 2019 • 28min
26. "Thank You, Next" Gratitude as a Form of Healing
Hey Girl Hey! In this week's episode we talk about how showing gratitude in the present moment can lead to abundance in your life later. We talk about flipping your perspective from pessimism to optimism, how gratitude can help with depression, and ways to incorporate gratitude into a lifestyle Please don't forget to leave a rating and review! :) Click here to grab your free guide on the 5 Daily Tips on How to Stop Caring What Other People Think Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com Click here to get a free preview for my new e-book the 3 Steps to Radical Self Forgiveness
Oct 3, 2019 • 38min
25. "I Don't Need You, But I Want You" 10 Signs You May Be Codependent
Hey Girl Hey! This week we get deep into the world of codependency. We talk about what codependency is, what are some of the signs of codependency, how codependency and narcissism are two sides of the same coin, how codependency affects self-esteem, codependency and the ego, and the steps to take to get a handle on your codependency. Please don't forget to leave a rating and review! :) Click here to grab your free guide on the 5 Daily Tips on How to Stop Caring What Other People Think Name of the book of the month for October: Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving by Pete Walker Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com
Sep 26, 2019 • 21min
24. "Go Ahead and Free Yourself" Overcoming Abandonment Issues
Hey Girl Hey! This week's topic is overcoming abandonment issues! In this episode we get into deep topics like: the origins of abandonment issues, what abandonment looks like, how abandonment affects our habits, and how abandonment affects our self esteem. Head on over here to my website (www.beatricekamau.com if the link is not clickable for you) to get your FREE downloadable PDF guide on the 5 Daily Tips on How to Stop Caring What Other People Think. Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com
Sep 19, 2019 • 17min
23. "I Said What I Said" You are Not Responsible for Other People's Feelings
Hey Girl Hey! This week's topic is the importance of understanding why you are not responsible for other people's feelings, understanding how to navigate people who make you feel guilty for the way they feel and/or stonewall or give you the silent treatment, and much more! Head on over here to my website (www.beatricekamau.com if the link is not clickable for you) to get your FREE downloadable PDF guide on the 5 Daily Tips on How to Stop Caring What Other People Think. Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com
Sep 12, 2019 • 12min
22 "Love Me or Hate Me" How to Stop Caring What Other People Think
Hey Girl Hey! This episode is all about getting to the ROOT of 1. Why we care what other people think about us 2. What exactly it looks like in our minds when we panic and worry about what others say about us and 3. Some tips and tricks to start letting go of that mentality TODAY. Head on over here to my website (www.beatricekamau.com if the link is not clickable for you) to get your FREE downloadable PDF guide on the 5 Daily Tips on How to Stop Caring What Other People Think. Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com
Sep 5, 2019 • 20min
21 "You Hate to See It" On Cognitive Dissonance & Being Humbled on this Journey
In this episode, we dig into why exactly it is that we think we view ourselves one way one moment but demonstrate behaviors that show otherwise the next. We get into things like why we it's easy for us to learn about and understand principles of self love but difficult for us to center it into our core being. Tune in for the tea! Click here to get my new e-book the 3 Steps to Radical Self Forgiveness ...or click here to get a preview first :) Please don't forget to rate & review! Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com Book of the Month mentioned in this podcast: Heart & Hustle by Patricia Bright
Aug 14, 2019 • 32min
19. "Moment 4 Life" How Staying Present can be Transformational for Your Life
Last time we talked about the highest self. This time we are talking about channelling the highest self to help you stay present, to help you worry less about the things of old and the things that are yet to come, and as always to help you live a more expansive life. Tune in! I'll see you on the other side! Click here to get my new e-book the 3 Steps to Radical Self Forgiveness ...or click here to get a preview first :) Book of the Month mentioned: The Untethered Soul by Michael A. Singer Please don't forget to rate & review! Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com
Aug 7, 2019 • 29min
18. "I am the Soul that Lives Within"- An Intro to the Highest Self
Last time we talked about the ego. This time we are talking about the true self, the Highest self. In this episode we dive into an intro to who you truly are. We dive deeper into how you are the observer of your thoughts, desires, and emotions and trust me you don't want to miss this! Click here to get my new e-book the 3 Steps to Radical Self Forgiveness ...or click here to get a preview first :) Book mentioned in the podcast: The Untethered Soul by Michael A. Singer Please don't forget to rate & review! Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com
