Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
Beatrice Kamau
Clearer, not Louder Podcast (formerly known as the Self Love Fix Podcast) is a podcast about discernment, the power of the voice, and the intersection of how the two impact you and the world around you.
In a world that encourages constant reacting, overexplaining, and performing, this space is about learning to pause, notice what's actually happening, and respond with clarity.
Each episode explores the subtle dynamics that shape our relationships, decisions, and inner lives- the moments when something feels off, when we ignore our God-given wisdom, or when we realize we've been negotiating with things that don't align with our principles.
Through thoughtful reflections and insightful conversations, Clearer, Not Louder helps you develop the kind of clarity and discernment that doesn't require force or volume but rather, honesty, awareness, and the powerful, undiluted version of your voice.
Because the goal isn't to be louder.
It's to be clearer.
In a world that encourages constant reacting, overexplaining, and performing, this space is about learning to pause, notice what's actually happening, and respond with clarity.
Each episode explores the subtle dynamics that shape our relationships, decisions, and inner lives- the moments when something feels off, when we ignore our God-given wisdom, or when we realize we've been negotiating with things that don't align with our principles.
Through thoughtful reflections and insightful conversations, Clearer, Not Louder helps you develop the kind of clarity and discernment that doesn't require force or volume but rather, honesty, awareness, and the powerful, undiluted version of your voice.
Because the goal isn't to be louder.
It's to be clearer.
Episodes
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Apr 1, 2021 • 16min
98. Abandonment, Re-parenting, & Relationships
Hey sis! This week we are talking all about the importance of re-parenting and the role it plays in abandonment wounds/trauma. If you struggle with handling break-ups/ghosting/people leaving without notice, you'll WANT to hear this. Make sure to register for Nothing Was the Same Week here, a week of *free* live events (hosted by me!) designed to help you. Reclaim. Who. TF. You. Are. Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com
Mar 25, 2021 • 16min
Episode 97: [Ex Files] I'll never find someone like them
Hey sis! This week we are diving into part 3 of the Ex-files series where we talk about why the story "I'll never find someone like them" is COMPLETELY untrue. Save $1300 by joining the waitlist to pre-enroll in Embodied, my 4 month group coaching program here Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com
Mar 18, 2021 • 13min
96. [Ex Files Pt 2] But they were SO great in the beginning
Hey sis! This week we are diving into part 2 of the ex-files series where we talk about love bombing, reminiscing on the "good times" with our previous partners, and getting honest with our experiences with them. You can find Heart Healing 101 the mini course here. Save $1300 by joining the waitlist to pre-enroll in Embodied, my 4 month group coaching program here Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com
Mar 11, 2021 • 13min
94. [Ex Files] Trauma Bonds & Security in Relationships
Hey sis! This week we are kicking off the ex-files series where we explore how our trauma, limiting beliefs, and feelings of lack may be contributing to the types of relationship patterns we have been unknowingly welcoming in. This episode is a clip taken from a bonus video "Trauma, Security, & Prioritizing Your Needs" in my mini course, Heart Healing 101 which you can find here. Tune in to listen now! Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com
Mar 4, 2021 • 16min
93. Love, Dating, and Accountability
Hey sis! In this episode we're talking alllll about dating, and taking accountability for our dating patterns. Get into this tea & this healing! Enjoy! To snag your free mini-coaching video on what to do when you CAN'T stop thinking about them go to beatricekamau.com/healingfromhurt Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com
Feb 25, 2021 • 20min
92. My 5 Uncomfortable Truths
Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com
Feb 10, 2021 • 12min
91. "Releasing Blockages to Abundance"
Hey sis! In this episode, we are talking all about blockages to abundance. What might be blocking your abundance? How is your childhood related to your money beliefs? Tune into this episode to find out more about how to move from scarcity mindset to abundance mindset and how to invite abundance into your life with ease. The bundle is BACK! Click here to get 111 self-love & self-improvement courses at a 99% discount price of only $75.90. This is only going to be available for a limited time so snag it while you can! (or visit bit.ly/beatriceslink) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com
Feb 8, 2021 • 18min
90. (Part 1) Money Triggers & Feeling Unworthy to Spend
Hey sis! In this episode, we are talking all about triggers around money, triggers around spending money, and feelings of unworthiness tied to spending money. If you feel icky about conversations about money but also know that you have desires and needs that can only be met by spending money and feel conflicted by your opposing beliefs, check out this episode! The bundle is BACK! Click here to get 111 self-love & self-improvement courses at a 99% discount price of only $75.90. This is only going to be available for a limited time so snag it while you can! (or visit bit.ly/beatriceslink) Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com
Feb 4, 2021 • 18min
89. Why You Need A Morning Routine + My Morning Routine
Hey sis! In this episode, we are talking all about the morning routine. Are you the type of person that wakes up, rolls over to check your phone, and rushing to make it to work on time? If so, I think you will VERY much appreciate this episode. How we treat our mornings lays the foundation for what our days will look like. If you care about your energy and your daily interactions, you won't want to miss this one! Click here to get free tips in on transforming your old limiting beliefs around money straight to your inbox. (or visit https://www.beatricekamau.com/moneymindsettips) Abundance journal reference Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com
Jan 28, 2021 • 52min
88. "Why Do I Keep Chasing Them?" with Michelle Panning
Hey sis! In this episode, we are talking all about "chasing". Why do we do it? Why do we chase the people who don't want us and what does this have to do with our trauma and our emotional needs? Join me and special guest, intimacy alchemist, Michelle Panning as we chat about codependency, inner child wounds, and chasing what doesn't want us. ***Disclaimer: in this podcast episode we talk about masculine and feminine energies. These are not to be confused with gender. You can also think of these energies as yang and yin or Shiva and Shakti- whichever you prefer.**** Click here to get free tips on transforming your old limiting beliefs around money straight to your inbox. (or visit https://www.beatricekamau.com/moneymindsettips) Michelle's info: Website for the Connected Woman: connectedwomanprogram.com Code for $200 off the Connected Woman: SELFLOVEFIX for pay in full or SELFLOVE6 for payment plan IG: @michellepanning Business Inquiries? Email the team: hi@beatricekamau.com IG: @theselflovefix. Website: www.beatricekamau.com
