The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Carol and David
Because Great Sex Matters - Listen. Learn. Live Sexy!
Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David—a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging and ethical non-monogamy—this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure.
For Everyone Who "Doesn't Know What They Don't Know"
This podcast is for everyone. Whether you are happily monogamous, lifestyle-curious, or a seasoned swinger, we designed this show for the person who realizes there is always more to learn. We believe that relationships begin and end in the bedroom, and regardless of your current status, it is never too late to start again. We are here to help you achieve better love, better sex, and a deeper, more intimate relationship.
Experience Meets Expertise
Carol and David bring 20 years of real-world lifestyle experience to the table, but they don't stop there. They believe curiosity should be backed by credibility. That is why every episode features expert guests who bring their deep knowledge directly to you. We sit down with renowned sex therapists, health professionals, and relationship coaches to ensure every episode is a masterclass in:
Sex & Sexuality: Exploring your body and your desires without shame.
Sexual Health & Pleasure: Navigating the physical and emotional pillars of vitality.
Relationship Mastery: Learning the tools for a thriving, long-term partnership.
The Foundation: Honest Communication
In our world, communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Carol and David lead by example with an unfiltered honesty you won't find anywhere else. They share their own journey—the highs, the lows, and the "oops" moments—to demonstrate how total transparency about desires, fears, and fantasies creates an unbreakable bond.
What's on the Menu?
The Academy of Intimacy: Pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies to keep things fresh.
Lifestyle Jetsetting: An inside look at clothing-optional resorts, cruises, international takeovers, and global destinations.
Swinging 101: Mastering the etiquette, social dynamics, and the "secret sauce" of the lifestyle community.
The "Big Hugs" Philosophy: Building a judgment-free community that celebrates sexual freedom for everyone.
Why Listen?
Because relationships begin and end in the bedroom. In a world cluttered with myths and misconceptions, Carol and David offer a refreshing, credible, and completely uncensored alternative. We don't just talk about the "what"—we show you the "how." Whether you are looking to breathe new life into a long-term partnership or are ready to dive into the deep end of your own sexuality, we provide a sophisticated, judgment-free space to grow. We combine two decades of lifestyle wisdom with the insights of top-tier experts to help you navigate everything from sexual wellness to international travel. We believe great sex matters… and we ALL deserve it!
Listen. Learn. Live Sexy.
"A great relationship isn't something you find; it's something you build, test, and perfect—one fantasy at a time. Your journey to an extraordinary life starts with a single, honest conversation." -- Carol & David
Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David—a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging and ethical non-monogamy—this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure.
For Everyone Who "Doesn't Know What They Don't Know"
This podcast is for everyone. Whether you are happily monogamous, lifestyle-curious, or a seasoned swinger, we designed this show for the person who realizes there is always more to learn. We believe that relationships begin and end in the bedroom, and regardless of your current status, it is never too late to start again. We are here to help you achieve better love, better sex, and a deeper, more intimate relationship.
Experience Meets Expertise
Carol and David bring 20 years of real-world lifestyle experience to the table, but they don't stop there. They believe curiosity should be backed by credibility. That is why every episode features expert guests who bring their deep knowledge directly to you. We sit down with renowned sex therapists, health professionals, and relationship coaches to ensure every episode is a masterclass in:
Sex & Sexuality: Exploring your body and your desires without shame.
Sexual Health & Pleasure: Navigating the physical and emotional pillars of vitality.
Relationship Mastery: Learning the tools for a thriving, long-term partnership.
The Foundation: Honest Communication
In our world, communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Carol and David lead by example with an unfiltered honesty you won't find anywhere else. They share their own journey—the highs, the lows, and the "oops" moments—to demonstrate how total transparency about desires, fears, and fantasies creates an unbreakable bond.
What's on the Menu?
The Academy of Intimacy: Pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies to keep things fresh.
Lifestyle Jetsetting: An inside look at clothing-optional resorts, cruises, international takeovers, and global destinations.
Swinging 101: Mastering the etiquette, social dynamics, and the "secret sauce" of the lifestyle community.
The "Big Hugs" Philosophy: Building a judgment-free community that celebrates sexual freedom for everyone.
Why Listen?
Because relationships begin and end in the bedroom. In a world cluttered with myths and misconceptions, Carol and David offer a refreshing, credible, and completely uncensored alternative. We don't just talk about the "what"—we show you the "how." Whether you are looking to breathe new life into a long-term partnership or are ready to dive into the deep end of your own sexuality, we provide a sophisticated, judgment-free space to grow. We combine two decades of lifestyle wisdom with the insights of top-tier experts to help you navigate everything from sexual wellness to international travel. We believe great sex matters… and we ALL deserve it!
Listen. Learn. Live Sexy.
"A great relationship isn't something you find; it's something you build, test, and perfect—one fantasy at a time. Your journey to an extraordinary life starts with a single, honest conversation." -- Carol & David
Episodes
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Mar 9, 2017 • 58min
NAUGHTY NEWBIES
It's okay to have wild and crazy sexual fantasies that will never come true. But what if you want to turn some of your sexual fantasies into reality? How do you talk to your partner about it… without being kicked out of bed? What if you want to find a third party for a threesome? Or another couple for a foursome? Where do you go? What do you do? Join us for a great discussion with Holli and Michael, from Playboy TV's "SWING" and Playboy Radio's "Modern Love" as we open the floodgate of questions from all you Naughty Newbies out there.
Mar 2, 2017 • 58min
Keeps on Going and Going and Going...
Do you ever wonder why some couples' sex lives seem to get better, and their relationship gets stronger, more fortified, as time goes on... just like a great bottle of scotch… while others struggle with diminishing sexual desire, lubrication, and erectile functions? How do we navigate the hormone changes and other aspects of aging and stay sexually active and satisfied as the years go by? Join us with Dr. Laurie Betito, author of "The Sex Bible for People Over Fifty" to find out how your sex life can keep on going and going and going…
Feb 23, 2017 • 56min
Have It Your Way
Looking for sexual compatibility in your soul mate? You two are destined to be together and that's awesome. But do you ever wonder if your love-life is enough to sustain your sex-life… or is there more to it? If you're stuck in a stale, sexless marriage, we have good news for you… It's never too late to start again and build your dream relationship. Join us, together with Dr Jess O'Reilly, sexologist and relationship expert, as we discuss all the different ways strengthen your couple and spice up your sex life.
Feb 16, 2017 • 57min
50 SHADES OF SPICY
"Fifty Shades Darker" might add some spice to our everyday sex-life, but do you ever wonder what's really going on inside Christian Grey's secret chamber? If the mask and mystery of the sensual seductress have piqued your curiosity and whet your appetite for some real answers, then join us for a session of eyes-wide-open. Our special guests, TV star Sunny Megatron and her husband Ken, sex educators and experts on the BDSM lifestyle, will enlighten and simplify the real world of Christian Grey's fantasies. *Sunny Megatron and Ken Melvoin-Berg are co-producers of Showtime's highly successful original hit series "Sex with Sunny Megatron"
Feb 9, 2017 • 56min
Cupid's Arrow
Valentine's Day is for lovers… however these days, there's so much backlash... from the singles who feel bad about being single, from the couples who feel obligated to conform to traditions, and from the retailers who can never predict how much heart-shaped candy to stock for the one-day event. We say… Skip the candy and the flowers and buy her a new sex toy instead! Let's make Valentine's Day all about spicing up your sex life and enjoying more sexual pleasure, for everyone, singles and couples alike. Join us this week with our special guest experts from Doc Johnson who are going to help you 'get your vibe-on' and celebrate Valentine's Day any lusty way you like!
Feb 2, 2017 • 57min
Good to the Last Drop
Female ejaculations, multiple orgasms, and squirting; the most magical, mystical, and memorable moments of female sexuality all cum together in one place. And NO, it's not about porn. How much is too much? Have you ever wondered about your erotic capacity? Join Carol and David, together with Dragonfly from Pure Orgasmic Love, as they discuss how all vaginas are not created equal. But ahhh… they're ALL good to the last drop!
Jan 26, 2017 • 57min
PUSHING BOUNDARIES
Have you ever considered exploring the dark side? By that I mean the back side… or perhaps the back door. Does it swing both ways? Or… Is your back door 'for exit only'? There is a naughty, yet appealing attraction to anal play, pegging, rimming, even DP. Join Carol and David as they push the boundaries, from the front to the back, and ask some open-ended questions about who's playing with the back door… the real 'in-you-end-o'.
Jan 19, 2017 • 56min
EAT FRESH
The holidays are over. Now it's time to start counting calories again. David suggests a 'vagitarian' diet. It works for him… year-round. Now's a great time to ramp up your sex-life to shed those unwanted pounds. How's that for efficiency? If you've ever experience a 'foodgasm' with a spoonful of triple chocolate mousse… you know what we're talking about… then you're probably hyper-sensitive to oral stimulation. And you might have uttered those words, "That was better than sex". However, the debate is on. Join us as we talk about oral sex and debate who gets the most pleasure, the giver, or the receiver?
Jan 12, 2017 • 56min
SEXY SWINGERS
Happy New Year to all our sexy friends! Let's kick off the new year with a resolution to have more and better sex. Does that sound exciting to you? Now is a great time to start fresh with an open mind, and a new sexy attitude, so you too can spice-up your daily routine and live happy, healthy, and horny. Did you ever wonder why swingers swing? Then join us and Dr. Ziggy, Sexologist and a leading researcher on Swinging and Open Marriages, to get the inside scoop and bust some myths.
