

The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Carol and David
Because Great Sex Matters - Listen. Learn. Live Sexy!
Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David—a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging and ethical non-monogamy—this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure.
For Everyone Who "Doesn't Know What They Don't Know"
This podcast is for everyone. Whether you are happily monogamous, lifestyle-curious, or a seasoned swinger, we designed this show for the person who realizes there is always more to learn. We believe that relationships begin and end in the bedroom, and regardless of your current status, it is never too late to start again. We are here to help you achieve better love, better sex, and a deeper, more intimate relationship.
Experience Meets Expertise
Carol and David bring 20 years of real-world lifestyle experience to the table, but they don't stop there. They believe curiosity should be backed by credibility. That is why every episode features expert guests who bring their deep knowledge directly to you. We sit down with renowned sex therapists, health professionals, and relationship coaches to ensure every episode is a masterclass in:
Sex & Sexuality: Exploring your body and your desires without shame.
Sexual Health & Pleasure: Navigating the physical and emotional pillars of vitality.
Relationship Mastery: Learning the tools for a thriving, long-term partnership.
The Foundation: Honest Communication
In our world, communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Carol and David lead by example with an unfiltered honesty you won't find anywhere else. They share their own journey—the highs, the lows, and the "oops" moments—to demonstrate how total transparency about desires, fears, and fantasies creates an unbreakable bond.
What's on the Menu?
The Academy of Intimacy: Pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies to keep things fresh.
Lifestyle Jetsetting: An inside look at clothing-optional resorts, cruises, international takeovers, and global destinations.
Swinging 101: Mastering the etiquette, social dynamics, and the "secret sauce" of the lifestyle community.
The "Big Hugs" Philosophy: Building a judgment-free community that celebrates sexual freedom for everyone.
Why Listen?
Because relationships begin and end in the bedroom. In a world cluttered with myths and misconceptions, Carol and David offer a refreshing, credible, and completely uncensored alternative. We don't just talk about the "what"—we show you the "how." Whether you are looking to breathe new life into a long-term partnership or are ready to dive into the deep end of your own sexuality, we provide a sophisticated, judgment-free space to grow. We combine two decades of lifestyle wisdom with the insights of top-tier experts to help you navigate everything from sexual wellness to international travel. We believe great sex matters… and we ALL deserve it!
Listen. Learn. Live Sexy.
"A great relationship isn't something you find; it's something you build, test, and perfect—one fantasy at a time. Your journey to an extraordinary life starts with a single, honest conversation." -- Carol & David
Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David—a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging and ethical non-monogamy—this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure.
For Everyone Who "Doesn't Know What They Don't Know"
This podcast is for everyone. Whether you are happily monogamous, lifestyle-curious, or a seasoned swinger, we designed this show for the person who realizes there is always more to learn. We believe that relationships begin and end in the bedroom, and regardless of your current status, it is never too late to start again. We are here to help you achieve better love, better sex, and a deeper, more intimate relationship.
Experience Meets Expertise
Carol and David bring 20 years of real-world lifestyle experience to the table, but they don't stop there. They believe curiosity should be backed by credibility. That is why every episode features expert guests who bring their deep knowledge directly to you. We sit down with renowned sex therapists, health professionals, and relationship coaches to ensure every episode is a masterclass in:
Sex & Sexuality: Exploring your body and your desires without shame.
Sexual Health & Pleasure: Navigating the physical and emotional pillars of vitality.
Relationship Mastery: Learning the tools for a thriving, long-term partnership.
The Foundation: Honest Communication
In our world, communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Carol and David lead by example with an unfiltered honesty you won't find anywhere else. They share their own journey—the highs, the lows, and the "oops" moments—to demonstrate how total transparency about desires, fears, and fantasies creates an unbreakable bond.
What's on the Menu?
The Academy of Intimacy: Pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies to keep things fresh.
Lifestyle Jetsetting: An inside look at clothing-optional resorts, cruises, international takeovers, and global destinations.
Swinging 101: Mastering the etiquette, social dynamics, and the "secret sauce" of the lifestyle community.
The "Big Hugs" Philosophy: Building a judgment-free community that celebrates sexual freedom for everyone.
Why Listen?
Because relationships begin and end in the bedroom. In a world cluttered with myths and misconceptions, Carol and David offer a refreshing, credible, and completely uncensored alternative. We don't just talk about the "what"—we show you the "how." Whether you are looking to breathe new life into a long-term partnership or are ready to dive into the deep end of your own sexuality, we provide a sophisticated, judgment-free space to grow. We combine two decades of lifestyle wisdom with the insights of top-tier experts to help you navigate everything from sexual wellness to international travel. We believe great sex matters… and we ALL deserve it!
Listen. Learn. Live Sexy.
"A great relationship isn't something you find; it's something you build, test, and perfect—one fantasy at a time. Your journey to an extraordinary life starts with a single, honest conversation." -- Carol & David
Episodes
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Sep 4, 2020 • 60min
FANTASIES, THREESOMES, PASSION AND ROMANCE
Are you hesitant to ask for what you really want in bed? What are you afraid of? Rejection? Humiliation? Shame? What if you find out that your partner also wants the same thing or something similar? Wouldn't that be nice? Join us with Author and Sex Researcher, Dr Justin Lehmiller, as we discuss sexual fantasies and how they can help you understand what you really want when it comes to sex.

Aug 28, 2020 • 1h
HEDONISM - REOPENING, PLAYROOM SEX STORIES AND AMATEUR PORN
Curious about the evolution of The Swinging Lifestyle -- how couples get started and how they navigate the ins and outs (pun intended) of having multiple sex partners over the years? Join us with a long-time Swinger Couple who have been to Hedo II more times that they can count, as we discuss their journey into the swinging lifestyle and how their relationship has evolved as they explored their sexuality and push their boundaries through consensual non-monogamy.

Aug 22, 2020 • 20min
TALK NAKED - DAYMON LAWNER FORMER OWNER OF THE WORLD'S MOST EXCLUSIVE SEX CLUB
Carol and David's selected episode of the Talk Naked Podcast hosted by Laura Desiree. On this episode, Laura chats with Daymon Lawner, former owner of SNCTM, the super-exclusive, super-hot, members-only sex club in New York City, as she finds out everything she can about this elite and sexy secret society.

Aug 21, 2020 • 1h 4min
REAL SEX AND SWINGING STORIES WITH CAROL AND DAVID
Have you ever wanted to hear about some of OUR best and uncensored sex and swinging stories? Well, on this episode you get it all: our first, our best, our worst, and our craziest sex and swinger stories as we get down and dirty being interviewed by Florence and Reed from Come Curious, Hosts of The F**ks Given Podcast. We get into a 20-person orgy, a surprise fuck and the fuck that changed us forever. AND, as a bonus you will hear all about some hot and sexy fun that Carol has had with some huge cocks. This is one of those shows that you need to listen right to the end.

Aug 14, 2020 • 59min
SEXUAL ENGERGY, INTIMACY AND MULTIPLE ORGASMS
Do you ever feel like you've had enough of other people's influence on your life? Are you looking for ways of taking control and guiding your own destiny… wherever it may take you? Join us with Speaker and Educator, Jennelle Gordon, who has been through a great deal of trauma including being a victim of sex trafficking, as she shares her insight into how she developed transformational techniques that will help you manifest the best version of yourself by harnessing your own sexual energy to create more in your life.

Aug 7, 2020 • 1h 2min
REAL SEX EDUCATION FOR TEACHERS, PARENTS AND CHILDREN
Where are you getting your sex education? Is it relatable, reliable and relevant? The importance of finding credible information about sex and sexuality is key to our personal growth throughout our life span and it changes as we grow, mature and age passionately. Join us in with Sex Educator, Stephanie Mitelman, as we gear up for back to school with an important discussion about how the sex educators stay informed about sex education and prepare the appropriate curriculum to get the right messages out there in a frank and meaningful manner.

Jul 31, 2020 • 58min
HEDONISM - THREESOMES AND GREAT SEX WITH TWO SINGLE WOMEN
Florence and Reed are two friends in their late 20's who share a passion for SEX. They love talking about SEX, but also, they love learning about SEX and even more so, they love trying out everything they learn… well almost everything. They, like us, believe that being open and talking about sex will spread valuable and credible information and knowledge and relieve some anxieties that surround the subject, and are always happy to share their experiences and opinions on sex, sexuality, naked bodies and basically anything else related to and about sexuality. Join us as we find out about their recent adventures at Hedo 2 in Jamaica.

Jul 24, 2020 • 1h 3min
OUR REAL KINKY EROTIC BDSM MASSAGE STORY
Do you have a kinky side that fantasizes about being tied-up and blindfolded? Maybe you'd like to experiment with sensation play with your partner -- or even go one step further -- perhaps you'd like to explore your submissive desires, to let go and completely surrender? Join us with Professional Dominatrix, Jaeleen Bennis, as we discuss the Art of Bondassage, a unique and innovative style of sensual bodywork, and share our first-hand experience with her lessons guiding our journey into light bondage, sensory deprivation, sensation play, submission, exploration and pleasure.

Jul 17, 2020 • 1h 1min
EROTIC PLEASURE POINTS AND PURE ORGASMIC LOVE
Are you looking to discover what lights you up sexually? Perhaps, you want to increase your level of passion and experience deeper intimacy with your partner in order to stay connected and solidify your couple. Join us with Somatic Sexologist, Dragonfly, from Pure Orgasmic Love, and her husband, E, who looks at human health from an evolutionary perspective, as we discuss arousal styles, erotic pleasure points and all the ways to be naughty and nice while at home during quarantine… and beyond.

Jul 16, 2020 • 32min
THE SWINGER CRUISE - COCKS, PUSSIES AND PORN WITH DR RHODA
Are you looking for a better understanding of how to optimize your pleasure center? Are you ready to learn more about the functionality of your genitals and dismiss some of the misconceptions propagated by porn? Join us with Sex Therapist, Dr Rhoda Lipscomb, as we talk openly about how to make the most of what you've got and stay sexually healthy with regards to erections and pelvic floor strength.


