Feminine as F*ck

Monica Yates
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Jun 17, 2021 • 36min

164: Understanding the difference between how men and women date

I’ve been really noticing this lately, as we're all starting to date again coming out of Covid. Dating is fun and I'm enjoying this little bit of time that I have to explore dating different people - I've done some good market research for you all ;) Disclaimer: this is a generalisation for masculine men and feminine women. In this episode I chat about: - Primal differences - How our brains operate - How these differences effect us in the dating world This is a teaser of what you'll be learning in the new module of Be A Lover, Not A Mother (which will be held live on June 22nd 4:30pm EDT). I'm flash opening Be A Lover, Not A Mother on Thursday 17th June for the weekend: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/be-a-lover-not-a-mother/ If need to do this deep inner work and trauma release, join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/ If you want to accelerate your healing, join me in Tulum for my Intimate Immersion: https://monicayates.com.au/immersion Read the blog version of this episode: https://monicayates.com.au/164-understanding-the-differences-between-how-men-and-women-date/ If you want to explore how else we can work together, check out my website: https://monicayates.com.au/work-with-me/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth/ Check out UNEDITED, my online magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/
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Jun 14, 2021 • 39min

163: Has the feminist movement gone too far? How are we suppressing men now?

I was interview by Georgie Stevenson on The Rise & Conquer Podcast. Female empowerment has been such an incredible & important movement, but I believe empowerment should never come from the disempowerment of others. I believe men shouldn’t have to be put down so we can rise up. In this episode we chat about: How we can find an equal balance How we can support men to lead and step into their masculine How this will allow us to step into our feminine energy, receive and be supported Disclaimer: this episode may be triggering for you. Even for Georgie, this topic used to be incredibly triggering for her. I am talking about how we are emasculating men and how the feminist movement gone too far. This is a politically incorrect subject. If you find yourself triggered, I would encourage you to go back and listen to any of my other episodes or IGTV's about this topic. If you're listening through the ears of your trauma, it can be very hard for you to have an open mind. I'm flash opening Be A Lover, Not A Mother on Thursday 17th June for the weekend. (It won't be open again until November 2021). If you want to do some healing around men, understand men, learn how to communicate with them better, this is for you: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/be-a-lover-not-a-mother/ If need to do this deep inner work and trauma release, join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/ If you want to accelerate your healing, join me in Tulum for my Intimate Immersion: https://monicayates.com.au/immersion Read the blog version of this episode: https://monicayates.com.au/163-has-the-feminist-movement-gone-too-far-how-are-we-suppressing-men-now If you want to explore how else we can work together, check out my website: https://monicayates.com.au/work-with-me/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth/ Check out UNEDITED, my online magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/
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Jun 7, 2021 • 1h 18min

162: Let’s talk “vacations” | Shedding, alarming effects on women’s health and shocking statistics

Today we are talking about the ‘vacation’, our periods, and reproductive health. Firstly I’d like to preface, this is not just my interpretation and everything I’m sharing today is all backed by doctors. I’ve provided references in my blog post (linked below) so if you’d like to check these articles out, you can. To be safe in this conversation, I use a bit of code language: vacation = v a c c i n e s I chat about: - What vacation shedding is - My experience with vacation shedding and how my cycle has been affected - How the mass media gaslight women’s period issues - Examples of the hundred’s of DM’s I’ve received - The overbearing amounts of women reporting a change in their cycle - Alarming reports, statistics and facts shared by doctors Read the blog post here: https://monicayates.com.au/162-lets-talk-vacations-shedding-alarming-effects-on-womens-health-shocking-statistics-and-facts/ If you want to join me in Tulum for my Intimate Immersion: https://monicayates.com.au/immersion/ If you want to explore how else we can work together, check out my website: https://monicayates.com.au/work-with-me/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth/ Check out UNEDITED, my online magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/
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May 31, 2021 • 48min

161: Cacao & Convos with Christie Melhorn: How my trauma made me think I wanted to be a man

In this episode, Christie shares her story, her relationship with the feminine and masculine and why her trauma made her think she wanted to be a man. Essentially, this was a trauma response to Christie holding shit around the feminine, putting the masculine on a pedestal and wanting to feel safe. In this episode, we go deep. Trigger warning, we touch on suicide, as well as: - Christie’s story - Why she wanted to become a man - How her idolisation of men and the masculine effected her in her adolescences - How this effected the dynamic of her future relationships - How Christie feels about being a women now, versus being a man - Her advice to other women who have a similar story, or think men have it ‘easier’ If need to do this deep inner work and trauma release, join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/ If you want to accelerate your healing, join me in Tulum for my Intimate Immersion: https://monicayates.com.au/immersion/ If you want to explore how else we can work together, check out my website: https://monicayates.com.au/work-with-me/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth/ Check out UNEDITED, my online magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/
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May 19, 2021 • 15min

160: Do you need to be overly concerned about abnormal pap smears?

This episode is all about abnormal pap smears. I was inspired to record this episode after one of my clients was told there was nothing she could do to clear her HPV and she messaged me saying FUCK THAT, because OF COURSE there are things she can be doing and AMEN to taking control of and supporting your body. Disclaimer: this is not a diagnosis or me telling you not to have pap smears. This is simply my personal take and reasons of why I choose not to have pap smears. In this episode I share: - Reassurance that abnormal pap smears are SO COMMON. - The things you can do to support your body in healing. - The areas of your life you should be looking at, including stress, diet, removing toxic products and being au naturel. If you are experiencing any other symptoms including headaches, heavy bleeding, sore boobs, etc, it definitely could be linked to your abnormal pap smear result. Your body could be telling you something. If you’re not already in Your Perfect Period, I'd definitely consider joining so you can get to know your symptoms and how to heal them. Ultimately, this program will help you get to the root of your period problems and fix them (for life). https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/your-perfect-period-program/ If you need to do this deep inner work and trauma release, join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/ If you want to accelerate your healing, join me in Tulum for my Intimate Immersion: https://monicayates.com.au/immersion/ If you want to explore how else we can work together, check out my website: https://monicayates.com.au/work-with-me/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth/ Check out UNEDITED, my online magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/
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May 17, 2021 • 36min

159: The reasons behind your skin issues for men and women (energetic reasons included)

This episode is all about how stress, energetic and your physical body can impact your skin health. Unless your exceptionally lucky, bad skin is something we’ve all experienced and I want you all to have clear, beautiful skin. Because let’s face it, how fucking good does it feel to have good skin? You feel so confident, abundant and happy. So this episode is all about what you can do to fix your skin issues! I talk about: - A variety of skin issues which affect men and women, including acne. - How hormones affect your skin. - What are the energetic reasons behind breakouts? - What else you should be paying attention to including gut health, your liver and healthy fats. - And as always, some serious chicken nuggets, skincare tips and my favourite products! If you haven’t joined Your Perfect Period yet, this is going to help support your hormones and as a result improve your skin health: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/your-perfect-period-program/ If you need to do this deep inner work and trauma release, join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/ If you want to accelerate your healing, join me in Tulum for my Intimate Immersion: https://monicayates.com.au/immersion/ If you want to explore how else we can work together, check out my website: https://monicayates.com.au/work-with-me/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth/ Check out UNEDITED, my online magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/
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May 13, 2021 • 38min

158: Cacao & Convos with Georgie Stevenson | Her Journey with Breast Implant Illness Disease

Today we welcome the beautiful Georgie Stevenson onto the podcast. Get ready, because this is a seriously enlightening conversation that EVERY woman needs to listen to, whether that be someone who's had implants, is thinking about it, or is post-surgery. This episode is going to help so many women which I'm thrilled about, because so many of us have been in the dark about BII (breast implant illness) for far too long. Georgie shares: - Her first hand experience and journey with breast implants - What influenced her decision to have them - Why women feel the need to alter their natural bodies - The complications she experienced - Harmful effects of breast implants - The moment she was like ‘get these fuckers out of me’ - Why she is so glad she made the decision to remove them - Her advice for anyone who’s considering getting them If you need to do this deep inner work and trauma release, join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/ If you want to accelerate your healing, join me in Tulum for my Intimate Immersion: https://monicayates.com.au/immersion/ If you want to explore how else we can work together, check out my website: https://monicayates.com.au/work-with-me/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth/ Check out UNEDITED, my online magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/
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May 10, 2021 • 17min

157: Hitting rock bottom, conscious choices and honouring your fear

Why do we wait to hit rock fucking bottom? This goes for men and women. In this episode I cover: - Truth bomb: you always have a choice. - Why it’s common for people to put their mental, emotional and physical health on the back burner. - How to reach your higher self. - TRIGGER WARNING: why people are addicted to their trauma. Watch the IGTV I mentioned: https://www.instagram.com/tv/CKRugPfAVlk/?igshid=1uhe4pfx8fwvq Read my blog post on this episode: https://monicayates.com.au/157-hitting-rock-bottom-conscious-choices-and-honouring-your-fear/ If you haven’t joined Your Perfect Period yet, I hope this episode has helped you realise FUCK waiting to do something about your period problems. FUCK waiting until I hit rock bottom, have to get surgery or I'm in screaming pain on the floor: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/your-perfect-period-program/ If you need to do this deep inner work and trauma release, join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/ If you want to accelerate your healing, join me in Tulum for my Intimate Immersion: https://monicayates.com.au/immersion/ If you want to explore how else we can work together, check out my website: https://monicayates.com.au/work-with-me/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth/ Check out UNEDITED, my online magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/
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May 4, 2021 • 37min

156: Is your social life burning you out? (Especially post-Covid)

Many of us are experiencing post-Covid social fatigue.  After spending months in lockdown, we are adjusting to socializing and interacting with others more than we are used to. Spending time with friends and loved ones can be very exciting, but also may put a lot of stress on our bodies physically and mentally. In this episode I will talk about the reason behind post-covid social burnout, and what you can do to put less stress on your body while maintaining a fun and healthy social life. Other topics mentioned in this episode: Excessive social interactions leading to burnout. Understanding the effects of a loss of serotonin, dopamine, and oxytocin Why you feel 'low' after a super fun weekend  How to manage your hormones when you are having the time of your life  Drinking and socializing  The negative effect of phones on your social life Your Perfect Period: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/your-perfect-period-program/ Period Masterclass that I mentioned: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/4  Tulum Immersion: https://monicayates.com.au/immersion/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/monicayateshealth/
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Apr 26, 2021 • 23min

155: Spiritual bypassing: human reality and when spirituality can become detrimental

Spiritual bypassing. This word gives me goosebumps. If you don’t know the meaning of spiritual bypassing, it’s when people are using spiritual ideas, practises or conscious words to avoid facing unresolved emotional issues, shit going in their lives, human reality and experiences. In this episode I cover: - What is spiritual bypassing? - Examples I've seen of this recently, particularly on social media. - Why people spiritual bypass. - Seeing everything as a 'sign from the universe'. - When spirituality becomes detrimental. - Some important questions to ask yourself. - And as always, some serious chicken nuggets! If you want a taste of my work, join the Feminine As F*ck Beginner Bundle: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/feminine-as-fck-beginner-bundle/ If you're in need of deep healing and trauma release, email hello@monicayates.com.au: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/ If you want to accelerate your healing, join me in Tulum for my Intimate Immersion: https://monicayates.com.au/immersion/ If you want to improve your relationship and communication, get your sexy ass into Be A Lover Not A Mother: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/be-a-lover-not-a-mother/ For all the other ways we can work together, head to my website or get in touch: https://monicayates.com.au/work-with-me/

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