

Feminine as F*ck
Monica Yates
Sometimes the truth is hard to hear. Sometimes it’s a little triggering and very uncomfortable. Yet, we all know that this space is where the true magic happens. Luckily for you, Monica Yates is like the best friend you never had. She gives it to you straight, without all the fluff, so that you can pursue more of what you desire in love, relationships and career. From emotional and energetic trauma/blocks to health, period problems, business and manifestation, Monica helps you get out of your own way to become the version of you that has only been a dream, until now.
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Jan 31, 2022 • 30min
204: Labels limit you and inhibit your sense of freedom
Today I am talking about labels and how they can be really fucking damaging, inhibit your growth and hold you back from your goals and desires.
I chat about:
Different types of labels and how they stop you from searching for the root cause
Social media and how this platform along with labels are impacting our productivity
Why we reach and search for labels and what happens when you get rid of them
Chicken Nugget: When you label yourself, you limit yourself!
How labels allow avoidance an in turn hold you back from your desired reality
⇢ Read the blog: https://monicayates.com.au/204-labels-limit-you-and-inhibit-your-sense-of-freedom/
⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/
⇢ Tickets for my NYC April 2022 event: https://monicayates.com.au/immersion/
⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/
⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/

Jan 17, 2022 • 34min
203: Your addiction to victimhood is what could be holding you back from getting your manifestations
Today we're talking about victimhood and how people are actually addicted to being a victim.
This episode is going to trigger some of you, but I want you to stick with me and know that the next 33 minutes are going to light a fire up your arse to break your victim cycle.
I dive into:
☽ Why people get addicted to their victimhood
☽ The vicious cycle of the high you get from complaining
☽ The truth about talk therapy and trauma
☽ Ask yourself, what are you getting from staying in your victimhood?
For more like this:
⇢ Read the blog version of this ep: https://monicayates.com.au/203-your-addiction-to-victimhood-is-what-could-be-holding-you-back-from-getting-your-manifestations/
⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/
⇢ Tickets for my NYC April 2022 event: https://monicayates.com.au/immersion/
⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/
⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/

Jan 12, 2022 • 9min
202: The 2022 Queen Alchemy Update
I'm here with the down low on the new format of Queen Alchemy and what to expect in this round! So if you want to join and you have questions, chances are they're going to be answered in this 7 minutes.
How the group calls work
Why I've decided to scrap FaceBook and start a Telegram group
Introducing the new additional trauma calls
Why I've replaced the 1:1 call with the additional trauma calls
What to do if you've already joined a previous round of Queen Alchemy and you've got FOMO of the new format
⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/

Jan 12, 2022 • 45min
201: How trauma shows up in your sex life - for both men and women
In this episode, I discuss why trauma can affect your sex life. Your mind and body hold trauma which causes overthinking, stiffness in the body, and insecure thoughts which leads to shitty sex. Trauma is held in the body and until you release that stagnant energy you will not be able to fully relax. In order to feel all the amazing sensations, you must release the negative sensations stemming from the trauma that has been stored in your body.
I dive into:
Men and Women both have sexual trauma -- learn how it affects both genders
Why trauma causes overthinking and insecurities in the bedroom
Clear your trauma to have the ultimate orgasm
Our bodies and minds try to black out the trauma causing us not to feel anything at all.
Replacing the feeling of detached and numb to confident and sexy
⇢ Read the blog: https://monicayates.com.au/201-how-trauma-shows-up-in-your-sex-life-for-both-men-and-women/
⇢ Watch the IGTV: https://www.instagram.com/p/CYkPnriJRjS/
⇢ Watch my IGTV on 'what is trauma' https://www.instagram.com/tv/CKEyW6LAo__/
⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/
⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/
⇢ Join The Man: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/the-man/

Jan 6, 2022 • 18min
200: 2022 is YOUR YEAR
In this episode, we discussed what the new year is really about. We no longer have time for negativity or fake friends. Let’s make this year our b*tch. I discuss how to manifest and how to figure out which tools work best for you. 2022 brings a new sense of self. During this episode, I teach you how to look inward and listen to your true self. Now is the time to be selfish and focus on yourself. Changes do not happen overnight and I will help guide you into a healthy routine in order to manifest your dream life.
Go out and network
Ask, believe, achieve energy
Make a list and set your intentions for 2022
“I can’t” is no longer part of your vocabulary.
Manifestations can happen during your downtime, relax and breathe
Be intentional with manifestations
Focus on which practice feels the best for YOU
⇢ Podcast Directory: https://monicayates.com.au/which-podcast-episodes-should-you-be-listening-to/
⇢ The Man closes Jan 7th https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/the-man/
⇢ Read the blog: https://monicayates.com.au/200-2022-is-your-year/
⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/
⇢ Tickets for my NYC April 2022 event: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/2
⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/
⇢ Join Magic, Money & Manifestation Level 1: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/magic-money-manifestation/
⇢ Join Magic, Money & Manifestation Level 2: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/magic-money-manifestation-level-2/
⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/

Jan 4, 2022 • 36min
199: Energetic blueprints | Love, wealth & career
This episode is a game changer in understanding this world of blueprints and energetics. If you want a deeper insight into anything I mention, Magic, Money & Manifestation: Level 1 is your intro into this world, and Level 2 is that higher level.
In episode 199, I chat about:
☽ The basics of blueprints
☽ Breaking your ceilings and shifting your energy
☽ How a blueprint is made and the questions to ask yourself
☽ Chicken nugget: If you want radical shifts, you have to actually invest
☽ Mismatch of blueprints in relationships and things to consider
☽ The four key things that you must be doing in order to change your financial blueprint
Want more?
⇢ Read the blog version of this ep: https://monicayates.com.au/199-energetic-blueprints-love-wealth-career/
⇢ Watch the IGTV version: https://www.instagram.com/tv/CT0QkCTFfHx/?utm_medium=copy_link
⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/
⇢ Tickets for my NYC April 2022 event: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/2
⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/
⇢ Join Magic, Money & Manifestation Level 1: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/magic-money-manifestation/
⇢ Join Magic, Money & Manifestation Level 2: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/magic-money-manifestation-level-2/
⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/

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Dec 29, 2021 • 53min
198: How sisterhood wounding can inhibit your growth
The podcast discusses sisterhood wounding and its impact on personal growth. It explores behaviors like backstabbing and bullying in female friendships, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and not letting fear of rejection hinder growth. The influence of trauma and biology on women's behavior is also explored, highlighting the need for recognition and support. The chapter touches on setting boundaries, making like-minded friends, and expanding networks. It concludes with an upcoming podcast announcement and a call for Q&A suggestions about setting boundaries.

Dec 15, 2021 • 40min
197: How masculine men actually make society safer, and feminine-men make it unsafe
Today's episode is all about how as a woman you need to understand that if you want to feel safe, you need to feel safe around men. This is also a good episode for men to listening to, as a great permission slip to be in their grounded masculine. I chat about:
☽ The MeToo movement, feminism and how the intention of these movements have shifted, been taken out of context and blown out of proportion, thus creating a manhunt which is causing the opposite of what we want.
☽ How biologically, men will make women feel safer
☽ How the answer to women feeling 'unsafe' is actually in MEN
☽ Understanding that as women we want to feel ravished, loved, cherished and wanted by men.
☽ How society has made men's good dominance to become an unhealthy, toxic, masculine trait when actually it the thing that makes women feel grounded and safe.
☽ Why biologically and energetically, the feminine wants to be devoured by the masculine.
☽ Why we need to give permission for men to be their masculine
Want more?
⇢ Here is the survey I mention (share this with the men in your life!): https://forms.gle/Tj7pgXjhNzu2zdkr5
⇢ Read the blog version of this ep: https://monicayates.com.au/197-how-masculine-men-actually-make-society-safer-and-feminine-men-make-it-unsafe/
⇢ The Man: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/the-man/
⇢ Men's Survey: https://forms.gle/D8A3nBb7prHN4R4j8
⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/
⇢ Tickets for my NYC April 2022 event: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/2
⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/
⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/

Dec 6, 2021 • 21min
196: How to heal your stress of not being "enough of a man"
This is going to be a good episode for my male listeners and also my female listeners, so that you can have more compassion towards men (cc: Be A Lover, Not A Mother) and understand that they have struggles too. I chat about:
- The stress of not being 'enough of a man'
- External factors and what your partner actually deems as being 'a man'
- Looking at the root of feeling not 'enough'
- You saying "I want to be a better man" isn't admitting fault. It's saying that you want more for yourself, which is an attractive trait.
Want more?
⇢ Read the blog version of this episode: https://monicayates.com.au/196-how-to-heal-your-stress-of-not-being-enough-of-a-man/
⇢ The Man: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/the-man/
⇢ Be a Lover, Not a Mother: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/be-a-lover-not-a-mother/
⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/
⇢ Tickets for my NYC April 2022 event are available: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/2
⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/
⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/

Dec 1, 2021 • 46min
195: I stopped drinking alcohol for three months, and this is what happened
I haven't been drinking for about three months now. I didn't start for any particular reason and I didn't intend on keeping it up for a particular length of time either. Until I felt the benefits of not drinking, I wasn't fully aware of how much drinking alcohol was affecting me. In this episode I chat about the benefits I experienced by abstaining from alcohol, including:
☽ Clarity
☽ See things in people and their behaviours
☽ Have higher levels of motivation
☽ Clear skin
☽ Wake up earlier and be less stressed because I have more time
☽ Have less attachment to things and more surrender
Want more?
⇢ Read the blog version of this episode: https://monicayates.com.au/195-i-stopped-drinking-alcohol-for-three-months-and-this-is-what-happened/
⇢ The Man: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/the-man/
⇢ Be a Lover, Not a Mother: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/be-a-lover-not-a-mother/
⇢ BTS Bubble: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/monicas-bts-bubble/
⇢ Tickets for my NYC April 2022 event are available: https://monicayates.activehosted.com/f/2
⇢ Join Queen Alchemy: https://monicayates.com.au/monica_work/queen-alchemy/
⇢ UNEDITED magazine: https://monicayates.com.au/unedited-magazine/


