

The Restorative Man Podcast
Restoration Project
Manhood often feels like navigating through uncharted territory, but you don't have to walk alone. Join us as we guide a conversation about how to live intentionally so that we can join God in reclaiming the masculine restorative presence he designed us to live out. Laugh, cry, and wonder with us as we explore the ins and outs of manhood together.
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Jun 24, 2024 • 20min
Anti-Burnout with Alan Briggs - Part 1
In this episode, hosts Chris and Jesse welcome adventurist and leadership coach Alan Briggs to the Restorative Man Podcast. Alan discusses his new book "Anti-Burnout: A Lighter Way to Live and Lead in a Heavy World," which addresses the epidemic of burnout among leaders and offers insights into aligning one's identity and work. They explore the complexities of voluntary self-exploitation, the impact of modern technology, and the significance of rest and identity in counteracting burnout.Connect with Alan Briggs:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/alan.briggs.940Instagram: @alanbriggsWebsite: www.alanbriggs.coach/home40183763Stay Forth:Website: www.stayforth.comFacebook: Stay ForthInstagram: @stayforthYouTube: @stayforthldTune in Stay Forth Podcast: www.stayforth.com/podcastAnti-Burnout: A Lighter Way to Live and Lead in a Heavy World is available on Amazon, get it here: https://a.co/d/e25y55gAccess the Restoration Project Community and join the Grove Collective!Subscribe here: https://rp-grove.circle.so/To know more about Restoration Project, visit us here:Website: www.restorationproject.netInstagram: @restorationprojectcoFacebook: Restoration ProjectLinkedIn: Restoration Project
Are you ready to move beyond traditional marriage counseling? The Thrive Marriage Lab offers a fresh approach to relationship growth. Get monthly guidance, tools, and support from experienced marriage counselors. Visit www.restory.life/thrive and start your journey today!FREE 12 Months of Dates: How date nights can lead to connectionSubscribe here: www.restory.life/thrive-datesHow healthy is your marriage? Take our FREE marriage assessment!Instagram: @ThriveMarriageLabYouTube: @ThriveMarriageLabLinkedIn: Thrive Marriage Lab

Jun 17, 2024 • 24min
Fathering A Child With A Disability with Robin Erkkila
This episode of the Restorative Man Podcast features a deep and insightful conversation between Jesse French and his guest Robin Erkkila, focusing on the complexities and emotional journey of raising a child with significant disabilities. Robin shares his personal experience with his son, Drew, who has a rare condition that leaves him significantly disabled and requires round-the-clock care, including non-verbal communication and the use of a G-tube for feeding. The discussion covers the challenges and emotional rollercoaster of parenting a child with special needs, the support systems in place, and the lessons in kindness, awareness, and presence that come from living with and loving a child with unique needs.Access the Restoration Project Community and join the Grove Collective!Subscribe here: https://rp-grove.circle.so/To know more about Restoration Project, visit us here:Website: www.restorationproject.netInstagram: @restorationprojectcoFacebook: Restoration ProjectLinkedIn: Restoration Project
Want a thriving marriage? If your relationship feels more like roommates than lovers, or if you're struggling with connection and intimacy, you're not alone. Thrive Marriage Lab is a 12-month guided journey—offering practical tools, live sessions, and expert guidance to help you build a stronger, more connected marriage. Doors open just once a year, so don’t miss out! Use code RP for $20 off and join today at restory.life/thrive.FREE 12 Months of Dates: How date nights can lead to connectionSubscribe here: www.restory.life/thrive-datesHow healthy is your marriage? Take our FREE marriage assessment!Instagram: @ThriveMarriageLabYouTube: @ThriveMarriageLabLinkedIn: Thrive Marriage Lab

Jun 10, 2024 • 21min
The Sex Talk I Never Had with Sam Jolman - Part 2
In the second-part of Chris and Jesse's conversation with Sam Jolman, Sam delves deeper into the exploration of masculine desire, urging listeners to ponder the profound depths of their desires beyond mere surface needs. He highlights the transformative power of engaging with desire, offering a fresh perspective that encourages curiosity rather than shame. Through compelling anecdotes and thoughtful analysis, Sam unpacks the intricate layers of male sexuality, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's emotional landscape and reclaiming the narrative of masculine embodiment.Connect with Sam!Website: https://www.samjolman.com/Facebook: Sam JolmanInstagram: @samjolmanX: @samjolmanGrab a copy of his book The Sex Talk You Never Got on Amazon: https://a.co/d/1DrlDnr!Access the Restoration Project Community and join the Grove Collective!Subscribe here: https://rp-grove.circle.so/To know more about Restoration Project, visit us here:Website: www.restorationproject.netInstagram: @restorationprojectcoFacebook: Restoration ProjectLinkedIn: Restoration Project
Want a thriving marriage? If your relationship feels more like roommates than lovers, or if you're struggling with connection and intimacy, you're not alone. Thrive Marriage Lab is a 12-month guided journey—offering practical tools, live sessions, and expert guidance to help you build a stronger, more connected marriage. Doors open just once a year, so don’t miss out! Use code RP for $20 off and join today at restory.life/thrive.FREE 12 Months of Dates: How date nights can lead to connectionSubscribe here: www.restory.life/thrive-datesHow healthy is your marriage? Take our FREE marriage assessment!Instagram: @ThriveMarriageLabYouTube: @ThriveMarriageLabLinkedIn: Thrive Marriage Lab

Jun 3, 2024 • 21min
The Sex Talk I Never Had with Sam Jolman - Part 1
In this 2-part episode of the The Restorative Man Podcast by Restoration Project, Chris Bruno and Jesse French welcome Sam Jolman, a therapist and author of the upcoming book ''The Sex Talk You Never Got''. Sam discusses the importance of sexual formation, moving beyond the mechanics to explore the poetics of sex, which includes desire, longing, and the stories that shape one's sexuality. He emphasizes that sexual education often neglects this aspect, offering only basic anatomical lessons devoid of deeper emotional and relational context. Sam advocates for a shift from viewing sex as a need or drive to understanding it as a desire rooted in beauty and awe, aiming to transform conversations around masculinity and sexuality.Connect with Sam!Website: https://www.samjolman.com/Facebook: Sam JolmanInstagram: @samjolmanX: @samjolmanGrab a copy of his book The Sex Talk You Never Got on Amazon: https://a.co/d/1DrlDnr!Access the Restoration Project Community and join the Grove Collective!Subscribe here: https://rp-grove.circle.so/To know more about Restoration Project, visit us here:Website: www.restorationproject.netInstagram: @restorationprojectcoFacebook: Restoration ProjectLinkedIn: Restoration Project
Want a thriving marriage? If your relationship feels more like roommates than lovers, or if you're struggling with connection and intimacy, you're not alone. Thrive Marriage Lab is a 12-month guided journey—offering practical tools, live sessions, and expert guidance to help you build a stronger, more connected marriage. Doors open just once a year, so don’t miss out! Use code RP for $20 off and join today at restory.life/thrive.FREE 12 Months of Dates: How date nights can lead to connectionSubscribe here: www.restory.life/thrive-datesHow healthy is your marriage? Take our FREE marriage assessment!Instagram: @ThriveMarriageLabYouTube: @ThriveMarriageLabLinkedIn: Thrive Marriage Lab

May 27, 2024 • 23min
The Call You Don't Want to Get with Rob Bremer
In this episode, Jesse French and Chris Bruno talk with Rob Bremer about enduring career challenges and personal growth. Rob shares his journey of coming to the end of himself, dealing with a significant career disappointment, and learning to depend on God through a period of uncertainty and change. The discussion highlights themes of identity, control, and finding new beginnings in the face of fear and loss.Access the Restoration Project Community and join the Grove Collective!Subscribe here: https://rp-grove.circle.so/To know more about Restoration Project, visit us here:Website: www.restorationproject.netInstagram: @restorationprojectcoFacebook: Restoration ProjectLinkedIn: Restoration Project
Want a thriving marriage? If your relationship feels more like roommates than lovers, or if you're struggling with connection and intimacy, you're not alone. Thrive Marriage Lab is a 12-month guided journey—offering practical tools, live sessions, and expert guidance to help you build a stronger, more connected marriage. Doors open just once a year, so don’t miss out! Use code RP for $20 off and join today at restory.life/thrive.FREE 12 Months of Dates: How date nights can lead to connectionSubscribe here: www.restory.life/thrive-datesHow healthy is your marriage? Take our FREE marriage assessment!Instagram: @ThriveMarriageLabYouTube: @ThriveMarriageLabLinkedIn: Thrive Marriage Lab

May 20, 2024 • 22min
Story and Fantasy with Drew Boa
In this episode of the Restorative Man Podcast, Chris Bruno and Jesse French are joined by Drew Boa from Husband Material to discuss the journey of sexual and emotional maturity for men, focusing on the early exposure to pornography and its long-lasting effects. Drew shares his insights on how pornography acts as a ''sexualized solution to our pain,'' and emphasizes the importance of awareness, understanding, and healing from these early experiences to achieve true freedom. The conversation also delves into the detrimental effects of silence and toxic shame around sexuality, as well as the need to ''befriend our sexuality'' and heal the inner child within for lasting change.Discover more about Drew Boa and Husband Material! Connect with Drew Boa:Website: drewboa.comFacebook: facebook.com/drew.boaInstagram: @drew_boaExplore Husband Material:Website: husbandmaterial.comFacebook: Husband Material MinistriesInstagram: @husbandmaterialmenYouTube: Husband MaterialTikTok: @husbandmaterialmenDon't miss out on the Husband Material Podcast, available on your favorite streaming platforms!Access the Restoration Project Community and join the Grove Collective!Subscribe here: https://rp-grove.circle.so/To know more about Restoration Project, visit us here:Website: www.restorationproject.netInstagram: @restorationprojectcoFacebook: Restoration ProjectLinkedIn: Restoration Project
Want a thriving marriage? If your relationship feels more like roommates than lovers, or if you're struggling with connection and intimacy, you're not alone. Thrive Marriage Lab is a 12-month guided journey—offering practical tools, live sessions, and expert guidance to help you build a stronger, more connected marriage. Doors open just once a year, so don’t miss out! Use code RP for $20 off and join today at restory.life/thrive.FREE 12 Months of Dates: How date nights can lead to connectionSubscribe here: www.restory.life/thrive-datesHow healthy is your marriage? Take our FREE marriage assessment!Instagram: @ThriveMarriageLabYouTube: @ThriveMarriageLabLinkedIn: Thrive Marriage Lab

May 13, 2024 • 23min
Becoming a Father After Losing A Father with Nic Howe
In this episode of the Restorative Man Podcast by Restoration Project, Chris Bruno and Jesse French delve into Nic Howe's experiences of becoming a father after losing his own. Nic shares his journey as a mental health therapist in Minnesota, the profound impact of his daughter Scout's birth, and coping with the grief of his father's tragic death. The discussion explores the complexities of grief, the pursuit of connection with lost loved ones, and the transformative process of becoming a father.If you want to know more about Nic Howe and True Mythos Counseling, visit their page at:Website: www.truemythos.comInstagram: @truemythoscounselingFacebook: True Mythos CounselingAccess the Restoration Project Community and join the Grove Collective!Subscribe here: https://rp-grove.circle.so/To know more about Restoration Project, visit us here:Website: www.restorationproject.netInstagram: @restorationprojectcoFacebook: Restoration ProjectLinkedIn: Restoration Project
Want a thriving marriage? If your relationship feels more like roommates than lovers, or if you're struggling with connection and intimacy, you're not alone. Thrive Marriage Lab is a 12-month guided journey—offering practical tools, live sessions, and expert guidance to help you build a stronger, more connected marriage. Doors open just once a year, so don’t miss out! Use code RP for $20 off and join today at restory.life/thrive.FREE 12 Months of Dates: How date nights can lead to connectionSubscribe here: www.restory.life/thrive-datesHow healthy is your marriage? Take our FREE marriage assessment!Instagram: @ThriveMarriageLabYouTube: @ThriveMarriageLabLinkedIn: Thrive Marriage Lab

May 6, 2024 • 25min
Shut Downs and Melt Downs
In this episode of the Restorative Man Podcast, Jesse French and Chris Bruno discuss the detrimental effects of men shutting down or melting down in response to life's challenges. They explore the importance of presence, sharing personal stories and the impact of men's actions on their families and themselves. The conversation emphasizes the need for men to modulate their responses to avoid both extremes, aiming for a balanced presence that brings warmth and light rather than cold and darkness.Access the Restoration Project Community and join the Grove Collective!Subscribe here: https://rp-grove.circle.so/To know more about Restoration Project, visit us here:Website: www.restorationproject.netInstagram: @restorationprojectcoFacebook: Restoration ProjectLinkedIn: Restoration Project
Want a thriving marriage? If your relationship feels more like roommates than lovers, or if you're struggling with connection and intimacy, you're not alone. Thrive Marriage Lab is a 12-month guided journey—offering practical tools, live sessions, and expert guidance to help you build a stronger, more connected marriage. Doors open just once a year, so don’t miss out! Use code RP for $20 off and join today at restory.life/thrive.FREE 12 Months of Dates: How date nights can lead to connectionSubscribe here: www.restory.life/thrive-datesHow healthy is your marriage? Take our FREE marriage assessment!Instagram: @ThriveMarriageLabYouTube: @ThriveMarriageLabLinkedIn: Thrive Marriage Lab

Apr 29, 2024 • 27min
Three Unlikely Fathers
Today's episode delves into non-traditional aspects of fatherhood through personal stories from Chris and Jesse, along with their experiences and insights on how men can embody fathering qualities beyond biological connections. They discuss the impactful stories of Buken from Nairobi, Cecil the rancher, and Aidan, Chris's son, who all serve as 'unlikely fathers' by offering strength, tenderness, and presence. The episode emphasizes the importance of male presence in lives, challenging the conventional definitions of fatherhood and encouraging all men to embrace their inherent ability to nurture and guide.Access the Restoration Project Community and join the Grove Collective!Subscribe here: https://rp-grove.circle.so/To know more about Restoration Project, visit us here:Website: www.restorationproject.netInstagram: @restorationprojectcoFacebook: Restoration ProjectLinkedIn: Restoration Project
Want a thriving marriage? If your relationship feels more like roommates than lovers, or if you're struggling with connection and intimacy, you're not alone. Thrive Marriage Lab is a 12-month guided journey—offering practical tools, live sessions, and expert guidance to help you build a stronger, more connected marriage. Doors open just once a year, so don’t miss out! Use code RP for $20 off and join today at restory.life/thrive.FREE 12 Months of Dates: How date nights can lead to connectionSubscribe here: www.restory.life/thrive-datesHow healthy is your marriage? Take our FREE marriage assessment!Instagram: @ThriveMarriageLabYouTube: @ThriveMarriageLabLinkedIn: Thrive Marriage Lab

Apr 22, 2024 • 21min
The Hammer Throwing Medical Professional
In this episode of the Restorative Man Podcast, Chris Bruno and Jesse French welcome Drew Loftin, a medical professional and the Grove chaplain for the Restoration Project. Drew shares his unique journey from being a professional hammer and discus thrower to pursuing a career in medicine, specializing in nephrology, hospital medicine, and psychiatric care. He discusses the transition from the medical field to becoming a chaplain and leading the Grove Initiative. Lofton opens up about his own journey of dealing with personal trauma, the importance of brotherhood and safe spaces, and how these experiences have enhanced his empathy and presence in providing care for patients in psychiatric and rehab settings. Through sharing his story, Drew highlights the transformative power of vulnerability, community, and understanding one's own trauma in order to bring healing presence to others.Access the Restoration Project Community and join the Grove Collective!Subscribe here: https://rp-grove.circle.so/To know more about Restoration Project, visit us here:Website: www.restorationproject.netInstagram: @restorationprojectcoFacebook: Restoration ProjectLinkedIn: Restoration Project
Want a thriving marriage? If your relationship feels more like roommates than lovers, or if you're struggling with connection and intimacy, you're not alone. Thrive Marriage Lab is a 12-month guided journey—offering practical tools, live sessions, and expert guidance to help you build a stronger, more connected marriage. Doors open just once a year, so don’t miss out! Use code RP for $20 off and join today at restory.life/thrive.FREE 12 Months of Dates: How date nights can lead to connectionSubscribe here: www.restory.life/thrive-datesHow healthy is your marriage? Take our FREE marriage assessment!Instagram: @ThriveMarriageLabYouTube: @ThriveMarriageLabLinkedIn: Thrive Marriage Lab


