The Rachel Hollis Podcast

Upgrade to the Ad Free Premium Podcast Experience - https://rachelhollis.supercast.com Rachel Hollis gives a tough-love talk on self-deception—how people perform a version of their lives (especially through social media) to feel significant, but end up emptier because they avoid facing what’s real. She breaks down three common lies (performing growth instead of doing it, living in “someday,” and performing for an audience) and offers steps to get honest: a reality-check person, a calendar/bank audit, and saying the true thing out loud. Get your copy of Rachel's Book Here: Audible, Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Books-A-Millon, Bookshop.org, or wherever books are sold! 00:00 Scarcity Mindset & Why “Faking Abundance” Feels Empty 01:09 Meet Rachel Hollis + Why This Episode Is Tough Love 03:36 The Pattern: Performing Your Life Instead of Living It 06:10 Rachel’s Vertigo Story: When Emotions Show Up in the Body 08:55 You Can’t Fix What You Refuse to Face (Fake It Till You Make It?) 11:13 What Self-Deception Is—and Why Your Brain Does It 14:22 Sawyer, Mirrors, and the Cost of Not Seeing Reality Clearly 19:21 The Quest for Significance: Social Media, Scarcity, and “Looking Successful” 28:10 3 Types of Self-Deception (Type #1: Performing Growth vs. Real Growth) 30:05 When Self-Help Becomes a Trap: Consuming vs. Actually Growing 32:01 ‘Eat Pray Love’ Syndrome: Changing Scenery Without Changing Patterns 33:26 Real Work Isn’t Cute: The Uncomfortable, Unseen Healing Process 35:39 Self-Deception #2: Living in ‘Someday’ Instead of Facing Today 38:35 Self-Deception #3: Performing Your Life for an Audience (Social + AI) 44:07 The Way Through: Ego Deaths, Radical Honesty, and Letting Go of the Facade 46:06 Her Biggest Ego Check: Why ‘Girl, Wash Your Face’ Was Mostly Luck 50:14 3 Practical Steps to Get Real: Accountability, Audits, and Saying It Out Loud 54:37 Closing Reminder: You’re Human—Choose Truth in One Area This Week Sign up for Rachel’s weekly email: https://msrachelhollis.com/insider/ Call the podcast hotline and leave a voicemail! Call (737) 400-4626 Watch the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/RachelHollisMotivation/videos Follow along on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/MsRachelHollis   To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

A deep dive into why people quit their dreams and the hidden obstacles that stop progress. Conversation covers the power of tenacity, dealing with authority figures who say no, and why trends should not dictate your path. Practical focus on handling unsolicited opinions, surviving setbacks, and finding a strong why to keep going.

A live webinar challenges the idea that motivation is the answer and explains why routines, habits, and rituals win longterm. Stories about diet culture, binge cycles, and business stop-start patterns illustrate fleeting fixes. Practical tools appear: a North Star exercise, habit-stacking, and a four-part framework to make progress automatic on good, middle, and hard days.

Advice on overcoming feeling stuck by rediscovering play and small creative joys. Practical options for handling college costs without taking on parental debt. How to spot competitive, mean-girl dynamics in friendships and when to walk away. Tips for finding authentic friends through shared hobbies and lowering pressure to perform.

Rise is Back! Get your tickets - Live Events!!Upgrade to the Premium Podcast Experience - https://rachelhollis.supercast.comDive even Deeper in the Coaching Community - Rachel Hollis CoachingJoin Rachel for a Free Live Virtual Masterclass!! - February 10 @ 12 pm EST - Why Motivation Wears Off & What Actually Works!In this episode of The Rachel Hollis Podcast, Rachel Hollis offers a wealth of practical advice for small business owners on how to increase profitability and scale their ventures. Addressing common challenges such as overworking without increasing profits, and the importance of focusing on profit rather than just revenue, Rachel dives deep into key business concepts.Get your copy of Rachel's New Book Here: Audible, Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Books-A-Millon, Bookshop.org, or wherever books are sold!00:00 Introduction to Profit Strategies01:05 Meet Rachel Hollis01:35 Common Struggles of Business Owners05:28 The Importance of Profit Over Revenue06:57 Understanding Gross and Net Revenue14:45 Real-Life Business Examples20:32 Maximizing Customer Transactions29:54 Maximizing Customer Spend32:00 The Importance of Upselling33:52 Leadership and Mindset39:20 Direct Access to Customers46:51 Financial Clarity for Business GrowthSign up for Rachel’s weekly email: https://msrachelhollis.com/insider/Call the podcast hotline and leave a voicemail! Call (737) 400-4626Watch the podcast on YouTube: http://youtube.com/@MsRachelHollisFollow along on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/MsRachelHollisTo learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

A candid look at why comparing ourselves steals joy and how using the wrong metrics misleads us. Personal childhood and fitness class stories highlight how visible success hides costs. Conversation reframes jealousy as a compass toward what you really want. Encourages choosing internal measures like peace and fulfillment instead of borrowed standards.

The conversation contrasts goal-setting with designing repeatable systems that work even on bad days. It covers building habits tailored to different goals, stacking small routines, and experimenting instead of chasing perfection. Personal health stories illustrate why fad fixes fail. A practical framework for mapping daily life to long-term vision is presented.

Tough relationship dilemmas are unpacked, including whether to stay with a narcissistic partner and long-term co-parenting realities. A friendship that turned cold gets practical boundary advice and energy-matching strategies. Overwhelmed parents hear encouragement to find small joys, drop perfection, and build realistic routines for more self-compassion.

A deep look at why high achievers stall despite working hard. She names patterns like deferred courage and goal avoidance as respectable detours. The discussion covers being addicted to potential, mistaking preparation for progress, and the fear of failure that keeps people playing small. Practical attention is given to building a community of doers and testing whether tasks truly move you toward your North Star.

Upgrade to the Premium Podcast Experience - https://rachelhollis.supercast.comDive even Deeper in the Coaching Community - Rachel Hollis CoachingCheck out Upcoming Live Events!!Original Airdate - July 11th 2025In this episode, Rachel Hollis discusses her personal journey of losing weight during perimenopause. She shares the frustration and challenges she faced, including a major shift in hormones that made her usual fitness and nutrition routines ineffective. Rachel emphasizes the importance of experimentation and finding what works specifically for your body.Get your copy of Rachel's New Book Here: Audible, Amazon, Barnes & Noble, Books-A-Millon, Bookshop.org, or wherever books are sold!01:18 Personal Struggles and Realizations01:46 The Turning Point: Getting Real with Myself02:37 Detailed Breakdown of My Weight Loss Journey03:04 Podcast Introduction and Disclaimer04:02 Understanding Perimenopause and Weight Gain07:51 The Frustration of Unexplained Weight Gain12:12 Experimenting with Diet and Exercise22:05 Family Support and Nutritional Guidance28:18 The Frustration of Dietary Changes31:46 Introduction to the Slow Carb Diet33:07 Morning Protein Routine36:27 Calorie Counting Realizations40:06 Adjusting to a Strict Nutrition Plan46:35 The Impact of Anti-Inflammatory Diet51:42 Experimenting with Nutrition55:12 Final Thoughts and EncouragementSign up for Rachel’s weekly email: https://msrachelhollis.com/insider/Call the podcast hotline and leave a voicemail! Call (737) 400-4626Watch the podcast on YouTube: http://youtube.com/@MsRachelHollisFollow along on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/MsRachelHollisTo learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.