Modern Anarchy
Dr. Nicole Thompson
Modern Anarchy is your weekly invitation to reclaim pleasure, sex, and desire as radical acts of collective liberation. Hosted by Queer Sex and Relationship Psychotherapist and Researcher trained in Psychedelic-Assisted Psychotherapy, Dr. Nicole. She is the leading academic voice on non-monogamy and embodied pleasure. Modern Anarchy explores intimacy, erotic sovereignty, and healing through raw conversations with pleasure activists, artists, therapists, and rebels from around the world. Are you ready to dive in?
Learn more: www.modernanarchypodcast.com
Learn more: www.modernanarchypodcast.com
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Apr 1, 2026 • 1h 26min
257. The Voice of a Liberated Orgasm with Dr. Jen Gunsaullus, Ph. D
On today’s episode, we have Dr. Jen (she/her) join us for a conversation about building the courage and skills needed to talk about sexual pleasure. Together we talk about expanding our comfort zone, habituation in long term relationships, and cross cultural sex education. 💙Free Queering Psychedelics: Set, Setting, and Sacred Joy in Queer Community Workshop https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/event-details/queering-psychedelics-set-setting-sacred-joy-in-queer-community-1🧡 Download Free Pleasure-Based Worksheets and Tools Here: www.modernanarchypodcast.com💙 Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384🧡 Looking to work with Dr. Nicole? Learn More Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice💙 Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/257-the-voice-of-a-liberated-orgasm-with-dr-jen✨Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith🔥Modern Anarchy Community:Website :www.modernanarchypodcast.comInstagram :https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast💫Dr. Jen 's Community:Website : https://www.drjennsden.com/Center for Courageous Intimacy : https://www.courageous-intimacy.com/about
Mar 25, 2026 • 1h 32min
256. Radical Relating and Relationship Anarchy with Mel Cassidy
On today’s episode, we have Mel (they/them) join us for a conversation about building anarchoqueer communities. Together we talk about having an orgy with the universe, joy as a form of resistance, and releasing demons one orgasm at a time.💙Free Queering Psychedelics: Set, Setting, and Sacred Joy in Queer Community Workshop https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/event-details/queering-psychedelics-set-setting-sacred-joy-in-queer-community-1🧡 Download Free Pleasure-Based Worksheets and Tools Here: www.modernanarchypodcast.com💙 Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384🧡 Looking to work with Dr. Nicole? Learn More Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice💙 Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/256-radical-relating-with-mel-cassidy✨Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith🔥Modern Anarchy Community:Website :www.modernanarchypodcast.comInstagram :https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast💫Mel's Community:Website : https://radicalrelating.ca/
Mar 18, 2026 • 1h 39min
255. Embracing Authentic Queer Sexual Pleasure with Dr. Melissa Fabello, Ph.D
On today’s episode, we have Melissa (she/her) join us for a conversation about aligning your sex life and your politics. Together we talk about decentering men, being witnessed in peak orgasm, and burning down the word foreplay. 💙Queering Psychedelics: Set, Setting, and Sacred Joy in Queer Community Free Workshop: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/event-details/queering-psychedelics-set-setting-sacred-joy-in-queer-community-1🧡 Download Free Pleasure-Based Worksheets and Tools Here: www.modernanarchypodcast.com💙 Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384🧡 Looking to work with Dr. Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice💙 Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/255-embracing-authentic-queer-sexual-pleasure-with-melissa-fabello-ph-d✨Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith🔥Modern Anarchy Community:Website :www.modernanarchypodcast.comInstagram :https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast💫Melissa's Community:Website : https://www.melissafabello.com/Insta : https://www.instagram.com/fyeahmfabello/Substack : fyeahmfabello.substack.com
Mar 11, 2026 • 1h 34min
254. Queer Joy as Collective Resistance with Dr. JJ Wright
On today’s episode, we have JJ (she/they) join us for a conversation about building joyful queer sexual cultures. Together we talk about eroticism beyond sexuality, embracing the feels, and pleasure liberation consciousness raising. 🧡 Download Free Pleasure-Based Worksheets and Tools Here: www.modernanarchypodcast.com💙 Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384🧡 Looking to work with Dr. Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice💙 Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/254-queer-joy-as-collective-resistance-with-dr-jj-wright✨Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith🔥Modern Anarchy Community:Website :www.modernanarchypodcast.comInstagram :https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast💙JJ's Community: Website: https://www.drjjwright.ca/
Mar 4, 2026 • 1h 40min
253. Chill Polyamory and Intentional Community Building with Genevieve
On today’s episode, we have Genevieve (she/her) join us for a conversation about transformational interdependence. Together we talk about taking a break from edging your reality, learning how to swim in non-monogamy, and the nuance of hierarchy.🧡 Download Free Pleasure-Based Worksheets and Tools Here: www.modernanarchypodcast.com💙 Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384🧡 Looking to work with Dr. Nicole? Learn More Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice💙 Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/253-chill-polyamory-and-intentional-community-building-with-genevieve✨Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith🔥Modern Anarchy Community:Website :www.modernanarchypodcast.comInstagram :https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcastGenevieve's Community:Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/chillpolyamoryYouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@chillpolyamory2nd YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@chillpolyamorytoo IG - https://www.instagram.com/chillpolyamory/ TT - https://www.tiktok.com/@chillpolyamory Podcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/5gPrlX25ihuHN8f19ZDakpWebsite - https://www.chillpolyamory.com/
Feb 25, 2026 • 1h 27min
252. Exploring Your Sexual Pleasure with Dr. Frankie
On today’s episode, we have Dr. Frankie (she/her) join us for a conversation all about releasing shame and embodying your erotic power. Together we talk about stretching into your zone of the erotic, learning to tap back into play, and the importance of lube. 🧡 Download Free Pleasure-Based Worksheets and Tools Here: www.modernanarchypodcast.com💙 Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384🧡 Looking to work with Dr. Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice💙 Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/252-exploring-your-sexual-pleasure-with-dr-frankie✨Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith🔥Modern Anarchy Community:Website :www.modernanarchypodcast.comInstagram :https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcast💫Dr. Frankie's Community:Website : https://littlegaybook.com/
Feb 18, 2026 • 1h 39min
251. The Heroic Dose of Polyamory and Sexual Communication with Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers
On today’s episode, we have Evita (they/them) join us for a conversation about being turned on by more things. Together we talk about sex that feels good before, during, and after, an ethic of compersion, and navigating NRE.🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website: www.modernanarchypodcast.com💙 Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384🧡 Looking to work with Dr. Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice💙 Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/251-the-heroic-dose-of-polyamory-and-sexual-communication-with-evita-lavitaloca-sawyers✨Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith🔥Modern Anarchy Community:Website :www.modernanarchypodcast.comInstagram :https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcastPatreon :https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384Evita's Community:Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/lavitaloca34/?hl=en
Feb 11, 2026 • 1h 40min
250. Jealousy Orgasms and Sexual Individuation with Dr. Joli Hamilton
On today’s episode, we have Dr. Joli Hamilton (she/her) join us for a conversation all about rewriting the narratives of sexual pleasure. Together we talk about the grief of an amazing dick, how mothers like good sex too, and the evolution of sex in long term relationships. 🧡 Download free resources and Dr. Nicole's book here: www.modernanarchypodcast.com💙 Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384🧡 Looking to work with Dr. Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice💙 Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/250-jealousy-orgasms-and-sexual-individuation-with-dr-joli-hamilton✨Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith🔥Modern Anarchy Community:Website :www.modernanarchypodcast.comInstagram :https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcastPatreon :https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384💫Dr. Joli's Community:Website: https://www.jolihamilton.com/
Feb 4, 2026 • 1h 38min
249. Relationship Anarchist: Stephen Symington
On today’s episode, we have Stephen Symington (he/they) join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about finding security in community, slowing down intimacy, and anarchists’ calisthenics.🧡 Download free resources and Dr. Nicole's book here: www.modernanarchypodcast.com💙 Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384🧡 Looking to work with Dr. Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice💙 Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/249-relationship-anarchist-stephen-symington✨Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith🔥Modern Anarchy Community:Website :www.modernanarchypodcast.comInstagram :https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcastPatreon :https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384
Jan 28, 2026 • 1h 23min
248: Liberating your Sexual and Relational Play with Dr. Liz Powell
On today’s episode, we have Dr. Liz (they/them) join us for a conversation about learning to embrace your full erotic play. Together we talk about the orgies at ren fairs, developing healthy interdependence, and betrayal vs cheating in non-monogamy. 🧡 If you enjoyed today's podcast, then please subscribe, leave a review, or share this podcast with a friend! To learn more, head over to the website: www.modernanarchypodcast.com💙 Looking to connect with the Modern Anarchy community, join our patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384🧡 Looking to work with Dr. Nicole? Apply Here: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/pleasure-practice💙 Transcript: https://www.modernanarchypodcast.com/post/248-liberating-your-sexual-and-relational-play-with-dr-liz-powell✨Intro and Outro Song: Wild Wild Woman by Your Smith🔥Modern Anarchy Community:Website :www.modernanarchypodcast.comInstagram :https://www.instagram.com/modernanarchypodcastPatreon :https://www.patreon.com/user?u=54121384💫Dr. Liz's Community:Website : https://drlizpowell.com/
