Power of Purity | Helping Men to Honor God with their Sexual Gift

Sex is a wonderful, awesome, and mysterious gift that God has given us to delight in within the context of marital exclusivity. Through sexual intimacy married couples are intended to experience deep and profound relational values such as intimacy, connection, union, trust, caring, and love. In view of this wonderful gift... and these wonderful benefits... you'd think every married person would anticipate... desire... and fully enjoy the pleasures and ecstasy of sexual connection with their spouse on a regular basis. Yet many people... both men and women... struggle deeply with significantly diminished sexual desire or interest... and often do everything they can do to avoid... or at least limit... sexual contact with their spouse. As you can only imagine, this lack of sexual interest and avoidance often leads to significant tension, confusion, misunderstanding, and hurt in the context of the marriage... especially if the other spouse has sexual desire and interest. What if one person in the marriage in interested in sex... and the other person is not? What if one person in the marriage wants and needs sex more than the other person? In this very important series of 5 episodes (43-47), Tony exposes 4 common reasons that contribute to low sexual desire, and then shares 9 principles that will help and encourage those who are interested in increasing their level of sexual interest and desire... so they can become sexually present in their marriage in a healthier way. In this episode Tony shares the 4th reason people often struggle with diminished sexual desire, and the first 2 principles of what to do about it!

In this episode Tony interrupts our current Podcast series - When Your Or Your Spouse Doesn't Like Sex - to present a special Christmas episode on the topic of the Incarnation. The Incarnation is not just a 2,000 year old historical event that we remember during the holiday season - far removed from the reality of our present day lives - but is in fact the very basis of the possibility that we can experience sexual healing and wholeness in our lives today. Would you like to experience healing in the sexual area of your life? Would you like to be a healthier person when it comes to sex? Would you like to control sex instead of being controlled by sex? Would you like to break the power that pornography has been holding in your life? This episode will help you understand what the Incarnation is - and how the Incarnation provides the power and the possibility that all these things can come true for you! Or said another way... It's because of the Incarnation that you can experience sexual healing in your life! It's because of the Incarnation that you can become healthier in the sexual area of your life! It's because of the Incarnation that you can learn to control sex instead of being controlled by sex! It's because of the Incarnation that the power of pornography can be broken from you life! The truth of this episode isn't just for Christmas - it's for every day of the year! So listen to this episode - and celebrate the Incarnation and the true meaning of Christmas - no matter what day of the year you're listening!

Sex is a wonderful, awesome, and mysterious gift that God has given us to delight in within the context of marital exclusivity. Through sexual intimacy married couples are intended to experience deep and profound relational values such as intimacy, connection, union, trust, caring, and love. In view of this wonderful gift... and these wonderful benefits... you'd think every married person would anticipate... desire... and fully enjoy the pleasures and ecstasy of sexual connection with their spouse on a regular basis. Yet many people... both men and women... struggle deeply with significantly diminished sexual desire or interest... and often do everything they can do to avoid... or at least limit... sexual contact with their spouse. As you can only imagine, this lack of sexual interest and avoidance often leads to significant tension, confusion, misunderstanding, and hurt in the context of the marriage... especially if the other spouse has sexual desire and interest. What if one person in the marriage in interested in sex... and the other person is not? What if one person in the marriage wants and needs sex more than the other person? In this very important series of 5 episodes (43-47), Tony exposes 4 common reasons that contribute to low sexual desire, and then shares 9 principles that will help and encourage those who are interested in increasing their level of sexual interest and desire... so they can become sexually present in their marriage in a healthier way. In this episode Tony shares the first 3 reasons people often struggle with diminished sexual desire.

Sex is a wonderful, awesome, and mysterious gift that God has given us to delight in within the context of marital exclusivity. Through sexual intimacy married couples are intended to experience deep and profound relational values such as intimacy, connection, union, trust, caring, and love. In view of this wonderful gift... and these wonderful benefits... you'd think every married person would anticipate... desire... and fully enjoy the pleasures and ecstasy of sexual connection with their spouse on a regular basis. Yet many people... both men and women... struggle deeply with significantly diminished sexual desire or interest... and often do everything they can do to avoid... or at least limit... sexual contact with their spouse. As you can only imagine, this lack of sexual interest and avoidance often leads to significant tension, confusion, misunderstanding, and hurt in the context of the marriage... especially if the other spouse has sexual desire and interest. What if one person in the marriage is interested in sex... and the other person is not? What if one person in the marriage wants and needs sex more than the other person? In this very important series of 5 episodes (43-47), Tony exposes 4 common reasons that contribute to low sexual desire, and then shares 9 principles that will help and encourage those who are interested in increasing their level of sexual interest and desire... so they can become sexually present in their marriage in a healthier way. In this episode Tony shares the INTRODUCTION to this important series... When You Or Your Spouse Doesn't Like Sex.

Tony's guest on this episode is Keelie Reason... who is known as "The Sex Talk Lady"... and authors the website lovehopeadventure.com Keelie noticed that so many women around her were struggling with sex within the context of their marriages, and were often reduced to "duty sex" as a kind of responsibility to their husbands. Keelie's passion is to encourage women to enjoy sex with their husbands instead of just enduring sex, and through her ministry she provides the practical information, resources, and tools that equip women for the journey toward greater sexual wholeness and health. In these episodes (41 & 42) Tony and Keelie discuss important topics such as... * What to do about the challenge when one spouse is low desire and one spouse is high desire * How to "get in the mood" when you're not in the mood * Dealing with the sexual baggage of your past * How to initiate sex with your spouse * The importance of communicating about sex * Becoming adventurous in the bedroom * Keeping sex from becoming routine * Using sex games in the bedroom * And Much Much More... Join Tony and Keelie as they discuss tips, strategies, ideas, and suggestions that will help you be healthier sexually in the context of your marriage! Visit lovehopeadventure.com for more resources and information.

Tony's guest on this episode is Keelie Reason... who is known as "The Sex Talk Lady"... and authors the website lovehopeadventure.com Keelie noticed that so many women around her were struggling with sex within the context of their marriages, and were often reduced to "duty sex" as a kind of responsibility to their husbands. Keelie's passion is to encourage women to enjoy sex with their husbands instead of just enduring sex, and through her ministry she provides the practical information, resources, and tools that equip women for the journey toward greater sexual wholeness and health. In these episodes (41 & 42) Tony and Keelie discuss important topics such as... * What to do about the challenge when one spouse is low desire and one spouse is high desire * How to "get in the mood" when you're not in the mood * Dealing with the sexual baggage of your past * How to initiate sex with your spouse * The importance of communicating about sex * Becoming adventurous in the bedroom * Keeping sex from becoming routine * Using sex games in the bedroom * And Much Much More... Join Tony and Keelie as they discuss tips, strategies, ideas, and suggestions that will help you be healthier sexually in the context of your marriage! Visit lovehopeadventure.com for more resources and information.

It's God's will, plan, and design that a married couple have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another. There are 3 primary components of the SEXUAL ALLIANCE... 1. They understand that their sexual gifts belong exclusively to one another. 2. They express their sexual gifts exclusively with one another. 3. They are sexually available to one another on a frequent and recurring basis. This means that your bodies... your thoughts... your hands... your eyes... your tongues... your penis... your vagina... your breasts... your orgasms... belong exclusively... completely... totally... 100% to one another as a married couple! Did you know that most couples think they have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... but in reality many couples do NOT have a true SEXUAL ALLIANCE? The SEXUAL ALLIANCE is incredibly important to the health and welfare of every marriage... and it's the SEXUAL ALLIANCE that will empower... and put purity within your reach as a married person. In this 6-part series - THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE - Tony shares 19 principles that will help married couples establish a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another that really works... and in this session Tony covers principles 17 - 19. Welcome to THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE!

It's God's will, plan, and design that a married couple have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another. There are 3 primary components of the SEXUAL ALLIANCE... 1. They understand that their sexual gifts belong exclusively to one another. 2. They express their sexual gifts exclusively with one another. 3. They are sexually available to one another on a frequent and recurring basis. This means that your bodies... your thoughts... your hands... your eyes... your tongues... your penis... your vagina... your breasts... your orgasms... belong exclusively... completely... totally... 100% to one another as a married couple! Did you know that most couples think they have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... but in reality many couples do NOT have a true SEXUAL ALLIANCE? The SEXUAL ALLIANCE is incredibly important to the health and welfare of every marriage... and it's the SEXUAL ALLIANCE that will empower... and put purity within your reach as a married person. In this 6-part series - THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE - Tony shares 19 principles that will help married couples establish a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another that really works... and in this session Tony covers principles 15 and 16. Welcome to THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE!

It's God's will, plan, and design that a married couple have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another. There are 3 primary components of the SEXUAL ALLIANCE... 1. They understand that their sexual gifts belong exclusively to one another. 2. They express their sexual gifts exclusively with one another. 3. They are sexually available to one another on a frequent and recurring basis. This means that your bodies... your thoughts... your hands... your eyes... your tongues... your penis... your vagina... your breasts... your orgasms... belong exclusively... completely... totally... 100% to one another as a married couple! Did you know that most couples think they have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... but in reality many couples do NOT have a true SEXUAL ALLIANCE? The SEXUAL ALLIANCE is incredibly important to the health and welfare of every marriage... and it's the SEXUAL ALLIANCE that will empower... and put purity within your reach as a married person. In this 6-part series - THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE - Tony shares 19 principles that will help married couples establish a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another that really works... and in this session Tony covers principles 13 and 14. Welcome to THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE!

It's God's will, plan, and design that a married couple have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... which means they limit any and all expressions of their corresponding sexualities exclusively to one another. This means that your bodies... your thoughts... your hands... your eyes... your tongues... your penis... your vagina... your breasts... your orgasms... belong exclusively... completely... totally... 100% to one another as a married couple! Did you know that most couples think they have a SEXUAL ALLIANCE... but in reality many couples do NOT have a true SEXUAL ALLIANCE? The SEXUAL ALLIANCE is incredibly important to the health and welfare of every marriage... and it's the SEXUAL ALLIANCE that will empower... and put purity within your reach as a married person. In this 6-part series - THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE - Tony shares 19 principles that will help married couples establish a SEXUAL ALLIANCE with one another that really works... and in this session Tony covers principles 10 through 12. Welcome to THE SEXUAL ALLIANCE!