

The Non-Anxious Leader Podcast
Jack Shitama
The Non-Anxious Leader Podcast uses a family systems theory approach to increase your spiritual, emotional and physical well-being so you can be the best leader possible. Each episode explores research and practical tips to help you be a personal and professional non-anxious presence.
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May 6, 2024 • 12min
Episode 277: 10 Steps to Effectively Deal with Resistance (Part 2 of 2)
Leading change inevitably involves dealing with resistance. Non-anxious leaders create healthy emotional space for difficult conversations. Here’s how.
Show Notes:
Calling People Forward Instead of Out: Ten Essential Steps by Justin Michael Williams and Shelly Tygielski
How We Ended Racism: Realizing a New Possibility in One Generation by Justin Michael Williams and Shelly Tygielski
Episode 264: 3 Ways Avoidance Increases Anxiety and 3 Things You Can Do About It
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Apr 29, 2024 • 12min
Episode 276: 10 Steps to Effectively Deal with Resistance (Part 1 of 2)
Leading change inevitably involves dealing with resistance. Non-anxious leaders create healthy emotional space for difficult conversations. Here's how.
Show Notes:
Calling People Forward Instead of Out: Ten Essential Steps by Justin Michael Williams and Shelly Tygielski
Find out more about the FREE Jenny Brown Book Study.
How to be a non anxious person in this political season w/Jack Shitama - Minding the Gap | Podcast on Spotify
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Apr 22, 2024 • 13min
Episode 275: A Family Systems Take on Daniel Goleman's 6 Leadership Styles
Daniel Goleman is known for his Emotional Intelligence work. He described six leadership styles and when to use them. This episode interprets them from a family systems perspective.
Show Notes:
Leadership That Gets Results by Daniel Goleman
6 Common Leadership Styles — and How to Decide Which to Use When by Rebecca Knight
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Apr 15, 2024 • 12min
Episode 274: 4 Things You Can Do to Be a Non-Anxious Presence this Election Year
The polarized presidential election is a major source of anxiety this year. Here's how you can buck the trend.
Show Notes:
How to survive another Trump-Biden election by Amanda Ripley
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Apr 8, 2024 • 11min
Episode 273: 5 Reasons You Have Trouble Setting Boundaries
Non-anxious leaders know how to take a healthy stand with those who make them anxious. Understanding non-violent communication can help.
Show Notes:
Cup of Empathy - Marianne van Dijk
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Apr 1, 2024 • 12min
Episode 272: 6 Things You Need to Do to Be a Non-Anxious Leader (Rebroadcast)
They unpack the four components of emotional intelligence and how they relate to calm leadership. You hear practical moves like a six-second pause, testing your optimism, and focusing on what you can control. The conversation also covers tapping into kindness with strangers and asking for feedback with genuine curiosity.

Mar 25, 2024 • 12min
Episode 271: 6 Ways to Avoid Choking in Anxious Situations
Learning to self-differentiate in anxious situations doesn't come naturally. Understanding the science of performing under pressure can help.
Show Notes:
Thinking About the Consequences in the Moment of Decision from Admired Leadership Field Notes
The science of performing under pressure with Sian Beilock from the Re-Thinking Podcast with Adam Grant
The Science of Choking Under Pressure by Alyson Meister and Maude Lavanchy
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Mar 18, 2024 • 10min
Episode 270: The Problem with Diagnosis (and How to Avoid It)
When we diagnose others, we avoid taking responsibility for self. Here's what that looks like and how we can do things better.
Show Notes:
Here's What Happens When We Stop Diagnosing Each Other by Kathleen Smith
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Mar 11, 2024 • 11min
Episode 269: 5 Ways to Stop People Pleasing
Many leaders who want to make an impact are people pleasers. Yet, this leads to over commitment and overwhelm. Here's how to stop.
Show Notes:
Cup of Empathy - Marianne van Dijk
Podcast Episode 230: How to Say "No" as a Non-Anxious Presence
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Mar 4, 2024 • 13min
Episode 268: How Self-Differentiation Breeds Self-Confidence (rebroadcast)
Non-anxious leaders have a confidence that is based in knowing their goals and values, as well as embracing humility, curiousity and courage. This is both attractive and influential. Here’s how it works.
Show Notes:
5 habits of confident people by Stephanie Vozza
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