This Is Actually Happening

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Jul 23, 2024 • 59min

329: The 82 Percent #6: What if you became your husband’s guardian?

Kris Amstrong shares her story of marrying her high school sweetheart, Brandon, who suffered a severe brain injury. She discusses restructuring her family and finding love again. The episode highlights the challenges, joys, and lessons of caregiving and blending families in the face of trauma and loss.
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Jul 16, 2024 • 58min

328: The 82 Percent #5: What if you were a seahorse dad?

Kayden Coleman shares his journey as a trans parent, reflecting on family history, childhood struggles, transitioning, and navigating pregnancy as a transgender man. He discusses traumatic childbirth, postpartum struggles, and empowerment as a black trans man, highlighting the complexities of identity, resilience, and parenthood.
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Jul 9, 2024 • 54min

327: The 82 Percent #4: What if you found your family on the path of celibacy?

Art Pereira, from Revoice, shares his journey of grappling with faith, celibacy, and sexual orientation, finding acceptance in a chosen family. Topics include navigating identity, coming out to unsupportive parents, and reconciling faith with sexuality in a supportive LGBTQ+ community.
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Jul 4, 2024 • 39min

The 82 Percent: Bonus Conversation with Jessica Fern

Renowned psychotherapist Jessica Fern discusses consensual non-monogamy, attachment styles, and challenges in open relationships. She explores transformative experiences, the impact of comparison, and the benefits of therapy. The conversation delves into perspectives on polyamory, societal influences, legal protections, and the importance of finding a supportive community in navigating non-monogamous relationships.
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Jul 2, 2024 • 52min

326: The 82 Percent #3: What if you discovered a new way to love?

Adrian McCoy shares his journey from a past of abuse and infidelity to finding a new path of love and openness after a family tragedy. He discusses growing up amidst gang violence, exploring polyamory, and embracing a new way of loving.
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Jun 25, 2024 • 56min

325: The 82 Percent #2: What if you grew up in a polyamorous family?

Koe Creation, raised in a polyamorous family, shares the complexities and beauty of their upbringing. They discuss navigating non-monogamous relationships, family bonds, and societal challenges. The episode explores their journey of self-discovery, embracing identity, and dealing with online harassment. A thought-provoking glimpse into modern love and family dynamics.
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Jun 20, 2024 • 53min

The 82 Percent: Bonus Conversation with Heath Schechinger and Lily Lamboy

Heath Schechinger and Lily Lamboy discuss the evolution of family structures and norms, the history of monogamy, societal expectations in relationships, and the importance of embracing diversity in relationships. They highlight the mission of the Modern Family Institute to redefine families based on function, not form, advocating for open conversations and legal protections for diverse families.
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Jun 18, 2024 • 52min

324: The 82 Percent #1: What if you were asexual?

Founder of asexuality.org, David Jay shares his journey as an asexual individual, challenging societal norms and redefining intimacy, commitment, and parenthood. The episode delves into modern stories of love and family outside traditional norms, highlighting a collaboration with the Modern Family Institute.
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Jun 11, 2024 • 1h 1min

323: What if you were suddenly a blank slate?

Ingrid Rojas-Contreras shares her journey from war-torn Colombia to the US, losing her sense of self in a freak accident. Topics include escaping kidnapping, navigating amnesia, and embracing ancestral stories through amnesia.
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Jun 4, 2024 • 51min

322: What if you kept hitting rock bottom?

After a childhood feeling unworthy of love and belonging, a man finds his path to the Coast Guard and a solid marriage, but after a minor back injury, he’s prescribed painkillers that send him on a tragic spiral of addiction. Today’s episode featured Jamie. If you’d like to reach out to him, you can email at japo081@gmail.com.Listen to exclusive episodes of This is Actually Happening ad-free by joining Wondery+ in the Wondery App, Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Start your free trial by visiting wondery.com/links/this-is-actually-happening/ now.Producers: Whit Missildine, Andrew WaitsContent/Trigger Warnings: drug use, addiction, suicidal ideation, suicide attempt, drunk driving, explicit language Social Media:Instagram: @actuallyhappeningTwitter: @TIAHPodcastWebsite: thisisactuallyhappening.comWebsite for Andrew Waits: andrdewwaits.comSupport the Show: Support The Show on Patreon: patreon.com/happening Shop at the Store: The This Is Actually Happening online store is now officially open. Follow this link: thisisactuallyhappening.com/shop to access branded t-shirts, posters, stickers and more from the shop. Transcripts: Full transcripts of each episode are now available on the website, thisisactuallyhappening.comIntro Music: "Illabye" – TipperMusic Bed: “Union Flow” - Spuntic ServicesIf you or someone you know is struggling with the effects of trauma or mental illness, please refer to the following resources:National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: Text or Call 988 National Alliance on Mental Illness: 1-800-950-6264National Sexual Assault Hotline (RAINN): 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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