Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled
JLML Press
In the 25+ years Janet Lansbury has worked with children and parents, she's learned a lot. She's here to share it with you. Each episode of Unruffled addresses a reader's parenting issue through the lens of Janet's respectful parenting approach, consistently offering a perspective shift that ultimately frees parents of the need for scripts, strategies, tricks, and tactics.
Janet is a parenting author and consultant whose website (JanetLansbury.com) is visited by millions of readers annually. Her work informs, inspires, and supports caregivers of infants and toddlers across the globe, helping to create authentic relationships of respect, trust, and love.
Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at NoBadKidsCourse and JanetLansbury. Her best-selling books “No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline without Shame” and "Elevating Child Care: A Guide to Respectful Parenting" are available in all formats at Amazon, Barnes & Noble, or wherever you buy your books.
Featured in The New Yorker, recommended 'Best Parenting Podcast' by The Washington Post, The New York Times, USA Today, The Cut, Fatherly, Today's Parent, and many, many more.
Please note: This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The views and advice presented on this podcast by Janet Lansbury and her guests are based on their training and experience. Opinions are offered in good faith but do not constitute professional, psychiatric, or medical advice, neither are they intended to be. You do not have to use this information, and it should not be substituted for qualified medical expertise.
Copyright JLML Press (2026) All Rights Reserved
Janet is a parenting author and consultant whose website (JanetLansbury.com) is visited by millions of readers annually. Her work informs, inspires, and supports caregivers of infants and toddlers across the globe, helping to create authentic relationships of respect, trust, and love.
Janet's "No Bad Kids Master Course" is available at NoBadKidsCourse and JanetLansbury. Her best-selling books “No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline without Shame” and "Elevating Child Care: A Guide to Respectful Parenting" are available in all formats at Amazon, Barnes & Noble, or wherever you buy your books.
Featured in The New Yorker, recommended 'Best Parenting Podcast' by The Washington Post, The New York Times, USA Today, The Cut, Fatherly, Today's Parent, and many, many more.
Please note: This podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. The views and advice presented on this podcast by Janet Lansbury and her guests are based on their training and experience. Opinions are offered in good faith but do not constitute professional, psychiatric, or medical advice, neither are they intended to be. You do not have to use this information, and it should not be substituted for qualified medical expertise.
Copyright JLML Press (2026) All Rights Reserved
Episodes
Mentioned books
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Dec 3, 2024 • 44min
How to Calm Ourselves (With Mr. Chazz)
Join Mr. Chazz, a passionate educator and expert in conscious discipline, as he shares invaluable insights on self-calming techniques crucial for parents. He emphasizes the importance of mastering emotional regulation to improve family dynamics. Discover how accepting emotions, rather than resisting them, can pave the way for healthier interactions with children. Mr. Chazz also discusses empathy's role in understanding children's behaviors, fostering an environment that promotes healing and emotional safety. Perfect for navigating the holiday season!
Nov 26, 2024 • 23min
When Our Kids Seem Troubled by Our Emotions and Moods
A parent expresses concern that their toddler feels responsible for family emotions, asking repeatedly if mom is happy. The discussion explores how children can be sensitive to parental moods while finding the right balance between teaching empathy and preventing emotional burdens. Tips focus on open communication and guiding kids through complex feelings. Lastly, the importance of recognizing children's emotional needs during tough times is emphasized, highlighting a resource aimed at fostering healthy family relationships.
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Nov 19, 2024 • 29min
Erratic, Unreasonable Behavior
A mother grapples with her spirited three-year-old's recent erratic behavior, including anger and impulsivity. Compassionate parenting is emphasized as a key approach to address these challenges. The discussion highlights the emotional struggles children face, particularly during activities like music class. Tips for creating a nurturing environment and understanding the roots of impulsive behavior are shared, fostering empathy and emotional growth in kids.
Nov 12, 2024 • 42min
Less Stress, More Joy This Holiday Season (With Ashlee Eiland)
Join Ashlee Eiland, an inspiring pastor, community leader, and author, as she shares her wisdom on navigating the often overwhelming holiday season. Discover practical tips for prioritizing joy over stress and the importance of open communication within families. Ashlee discusses mindful gift-giving and creating meaningful traditions while setting healthy boundaries amidst familial pressures. She emphasizes valuing authentic communication and the necessity of scheduled downtime, ensuring the holidays are not just busy, but truly enjoyable.
Nov 5, 2024 • 23min
My Life With Adult Kids
Explore the evolution of parenting as children transition into adulthood. Discover the joys and challenges of redefining boundaries and fostering independence. Hear personal stories about nurturing unique paths and celebrating individual aspirations. Dive into the importance of empathy, communication, and emotional support in maintaining close relationships. Learn how early parenting principles can transform as kids grow, resulting in unexpected insights and deeper admiration for their journeys.
Oct 29, 2024 • 35min
When Kids Don't Seem Motivated (to Potty, Crawl, or Create)
What do you do when your child isn't engaging in key developmental milestones? Discover how to navigate concerns about a toddler's reluctance to crawl or a preschooler's aversion to drawing. Learn tips to support creativity and independence without imposing pressure. Delve into strategies for tackling potty training resistance while fostering trust in your child's journey. Gain insights on creating an environment that encourages authentic self-expression and nurtures natural abilities. It's all about understanding and supporting each child's unique rhythm!
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Oct 22, 2024 • 32min
"Earlier Is Better" And Other Child Development Myths (with Rae Pica)
Rae Pica, an early childhood education expert and author of 20 books, joins the discussion to unravel the truth about child development. She challenges common myths, emphasizing that earlier milestones don't guarantee success and that play is essential for learning. Rae advocates for creativity, healthily embracing risk, and prioritizing the learning process over perfection. She encourages parents to allow children the freedom to explore, highlighting critical insights that can reshape parenting approaches.
Oct 15, 2024 • 34min
Kids Don't Need Intensive Parenting (and Neither do We!)
Parents today face overwhelming stress from the pressures of intensive parenting, which often leads to burnout. The conversation shifts to embracing trust over control, advocating for children's independence, and fostering a balanced approach to parenting. Attentive caregiving is highlighted as crucial for child development, encouraging parents to let go and allow kids to lead. Lastly, the podcast delves into teaching resilience and empathy by letting children learn from their experiences, steering clear of the need for constant oversight.
Oct 8, 2024 • 32min
Is Disrespect a Tantrum in Disguise?
A frustrated parent grapples with their 7-year-old's rude behavior, raising questions about underlying emotions. The discussion highlights how older children's tantrums resemble those of toddlers, emphasizing empathy and connection. Strategies for addressing feelings of overwhelm and maintaining boundaries are explored. The importance of a compassionate response to emotional outbursts is stressed, helping parents navigate these challenging dynamics.
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Oct 1, 2024 • 34min
What's Too Strict? What's Not Strict Enough?
Parenting can feel like walking a tightrope. The podcast dives into the tricky balance between being too strict and too permissive. It emphasizes building trust and understanding with children while fostering their emotional needs. Strategies for discipline without punishment are highlighted, focusing on teaching life skills. The conversation also touches on navigating interactions with pets and peers, ensuring safety with preventative boundaries. Expect practical advice to create a peaceful family dynamic and support children’s emotional growth.
