

Coping with Ghosting
Gretta Perlmutter, MA, Certified Post Betrayal Transformation® Coach
Discover the Vogue-featured top mental health podcast, Coping with Ghosting.This show provides hope, healing, and understanding for anyone betrayed or ghosted in business, love, family, or friendship. If somebody's broken your trust, this show is for you. It covers:- Ghosting, betrayal, and broken trust in relationships- Emotional recovery from betrayal - Relationships, attachment styles, and personality disorders- How to build confidence, self-worth, and trust- Transform betrayal into a catalyst for changeCoping with Ghosting is hosted by Gretta Perlmutter, Certified Post Betrayal Transformation® Coach, and a sensitive soul who's been ghosted one too many times. Visit www.copingwithghosting.com for more info.Disclaimer: This show is not a substitute for professional mental help or therapy. Ghosting, noun: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication. - Oxford Dictionary. Note: Ghosting is different from leaving an abusive situation without a goodbye or disappearing after a boundary has been violated.
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Oct 24, 2021 • 10min
How to Respond to Being Ghosted with Erin Fisher, Certified Mediator
This episode is all about what to say to somebody who is ghosting you. Ghosted? Many people say, "let the dead Rest In Peace," or, "Ignore people who are ignoring you." But the truth is, ghosts often don't stay dead in our minds - we often continue to think about them - even when we don't want to. But how should we respond to the sound of silence? Erin Fisher, a certified mediator, relationship coach, and founder of Atlantic Mediation Services, collaborated with me to create 6- scripts to send to your ghost. These copy-and-paste messages are for anyone who has been ghosted in love and romance. We cover many scenarios, from being ignored in a dating app conversation to if your partner ghosted you.Each message will guide you and give you a voice in the situation. DOWNLOAD THE FREE GUIDE Connect with Erin:atlanticmediationservices.com Instagram Facebook Connect with Gretta:Free Coping With Ghosting GuidePrivate Coaching with GrettaInstagramFacebookhttps://www.copingwithghosting.com/Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer: This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

Oct 3, 2021 • 22min
Special Episode: A Conversation with The Ghost Podcast
Join Gretta as she talks about ghosting and the silent treatment with Clover & Rosemary from The Ghost Podcast. Their show was created to share stories about the experiences of ghosting. Learn More about The Ghost Podcast:https://theghostpodcast.comInstagramEmail: theghostpodcaststories@gmail.comListen to Gretta from Coping With Ghosting on The Ghost PodcastConnect with Gretta:Free Coping With Ghosting GuidePrivate Coaching with GrettaInstagramFacebookhttps://www.copingwithghosting.com/Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer: This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

Sep 5, 2021 • 12min
Why Do People Ghost? Featuring Dr. April E. House
Why do people ghost? So many people want to know, "Why was I ghosted, abandoned, or given the silent treatment?" Dr. April E. House is in the house to shed light on this topic. She is a Los Angeles, California-based marriage and family therapist and mindset coach specializing in helping clients free themselves from perfectionism so they feel empowered to transform their lives.Discover why it's unhelpful to blame yourself for being ghosted, why it's important not to take ghosting personally, and many reasons why people ghost. This podcast is a MUST listen for anyone who wondering why they were ghosted!Connect with Dr. April House:Dr. April is available for virtual therapy. Learn more here.InstagramTwitterFacebookConnect with Gretta:Free Coping With Ghosting GuideInstagramFacebookhttps://www.copingwithghosting.com/Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer: This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

Aug 14, 2021 • 23min
Relationships, Boundaries, Communication, and Ghosting with Amy Fiedler
Have you been ghosted, received the silent treatment, or been suddenly abandoned by somebody you care about? If so, join Gretta and Amy Fiedler, CHLC, CTSS, and Reiki Master for a conversation covering a wide range of topics, including boundary setting, ghosting, relationships, and more. Learn about the difference between ghosting and self-respect, why Amy considers ghosting a covert form of abuse, and why people who ghost may struggle with low self-worth. This podcast will help you better understand your ghosting situation and learn all about healthy communication skills. Connect with Amy:Instagramamyfiedler.comConnect the Dots B*tch PodcastConnect with Gretta:Free Coping With Ghosting GuideInstagramFacebookhttps://www.copingwithghosting.com/Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer: This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

Jul 18, 2021 • 19min
9 Gentle Reminders as You Heal From Being Ghosted
If you are struggling with the pain of being ghosted, this soothing and reassuring episode is for you! Mayra Rodriguez, M.A., AMFT, shares important reminders as you heal from the shock, frustration and loss of your ghost. Her wise insights will help you cope with ghosting and feel better and more optimistic about days ahead. Connect with Mayra Rodriguez, M.A., AMFT@thelosangelestherapist on Instagram @thelosangelestherapist on TikTok Connect with Gretta:Free Coping With Ghosting GuideInstagramFacebookhttps://www.copingwithghosting.com/Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer: This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

Jun 20, 2021 • 16min
Special Episode: Coping With Ghosting in Business
Have you ever been ghosted in business? Have your sales leads, prospective clients, or customers suddenly stopped responding ? If so, you are not alone, and this podcast is for you! In this bonus episode, Gretta interviews Stephanie Mitchell, a Certified Yoga Teacher, Corporate Wellness Provider, International Yoga Coach, and founder of the Rolling Mat Mobile Yoga Studio. She is also the host of The Corporate Yogi Podcast- The Rolling Mat. Stephanie shares her three strikes rule, why not to take being ghosted personally, and other great strategies for dealing with ghosts.Connect with Stephanie@rollinyogi on Instagram Corporate Yogi PodcastStephanie's WebsiteMastering the Corporate Yoga Biz: The Rolling Mat Community Facebook GroupConnect with Gretta:Private Coaching with GrettaFree Coping With Ghosting GuideInstagramFacebookhttps://www.copingwithghosting.com/Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer: This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

May 23, 2021 • 20min
Why Ghosting is an Ambiguous Loss with Gabriela Vazquez, AMFT, APCC
In this episode of Coping With Ghosting, Gabriela Vazquez, AMFT, APCC, and Gretta discuss why ghosting is an ambiguous loss that causes frozen grief. If you have been rejected, led on, or abandoned in a relationship - you are not alone. In this episode, we cover why it's healthy and essential to grieve the loss of your ghost. Connect with Gaby@therapycongaby on Instagram Connect with Gretta:Free Coping With Ghosting GuideInstagramFacebookhttps://www.copingwithghosting.com/Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer: This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

May 9, 2021 • 19min
Why Ghosting is Hazardous and How Not to Ghost with Dr. Josh Mirmelli
In this episode of Coping With Ghosting, Dr. Josh Mirmelli and Gretta discuss the following: How ghosting impacts all people involvedWhy it's better not to ghostWhat to say instead of ghosting in different phases of dating and romantic relationshipsDr. Josh also shares insights about how lack of closure creates pain and why it's essential to build a strong muscle for discomfort. Connect with Dr. Josh Mirmelli:https://therapywithdrjosh.com/InstagramFacebook YouTubeConnect with Gretta:Free Coping With Ghosting GuideInstagramFacebookhttps://www.copingwithghosting.com/Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer: This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

Apr 26, 2021 • 28min
What to Do If You Are Being Ghosted and How To Handle The Return of Your Ghost with Dr. Natalie Jones
What do you do if somebody ghosts you? What happens if the ghost returns? Is it possible to reunite with your ghost? The brilliant Dr. Natalie Jones, PSYD, LPCC, Lifetime Counseling and Consulting owner, and the creator of A Date With Darkness Podcast, answers these questions and more in this episode. Dr. Jones unpacks how to respond to ghosting and advises what to do if your ghost comes back to haunt you. Connect with Dr. Natalie Jones: https://www.drnataliejones.com/ https://www.instagram.com/dr.nataliejones/ https://www.instagram.com/adatewithdarknesspodcast/https://www.facebook.com/drnataliejones/Connect with Gretta:Download Gretta's Free Coping With Ghosting GuideInstagramFacebookhttps://www.copingwithghosting.com/Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo RamosDisclaimer: This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."

Apr 18, 2021 • 23min
5 Ways To Have a Healthy Mindset After Being Ghosted
Mindset is everything, and it plays a critical role in the path to recovery after being ghosted. In this episode, Josh from Mindset With Josh discusses his five top tips to maintain a healthy mindset after being ghosted. Learn why it's important to practice self-love, know your worth, put yourself first, accept and forgive, and learn how to enjoy your own company after being ghosted. Josh's tips are practical, helpful, and insightful- and will help lead you down the road to inner peace.Connect with Josh:https://www.instagram.com/mindsetwithjosh/https://www.facebook.com/MindsetWithJoshhttps://www.youtube.com/c/MindsetWithJosh/featuredConnect with Gretta:Private Coaching with GrettaDownload Gretta's Free Coping With Ghosting GuideInstagramFacebookhttps://www.copingwithghosting.com/Music: "Ghosted" by Gustavo Ramos Disclaimer: This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. This episode of Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services; and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy, or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. Support the showNote to All Listeners: Ghosting is defined as: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication (Oxford Languages). When you leave an abusive situation without saying "goodbye," it's not ghosting, it's "self-protection." When you quietly exit a relationship after a boundary has been violated, it's not ghosting, it's "self-respect."


