The Paul Dermody Podcast

Paul Dermody
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Mar 20, 2026 • 13min

# 223 Shame

My No.1 bestselling book, FULL: THE EMPTINESS OF OVEREATING, is available here. You try to change, you fail, then you beat yourself up. It might be the locks of shame holding bad habits in place. You "should" do better. Know better. But "should" is a psychological dead-end. This episode contains a thought experiment about reducing shame. For coaching inquiries, click here. (https://pauldermody.com/contact/)
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Mar 10, 2026 • 19min

# 222 Lessons From My 1:1 Coaching Clients

My No.1 bestselling book, FULL: THE EMPTINESS OF OVEREATING, is available here. My clients are intelligent, self-aware and hard-working people. They have usually been taught to relate to dieting in self-defeating ways. Allow me to share with you some of the best insights you can learn if you want to live and eat intentionally. These will help you feel less alone and increase your confidence. Some ideas will speak to you more than others. Note: these are not surface-level insights. That's why they create so much change. For coaching inquiries, click here. (https://pauldermody.com/contact/)
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Mar 2, 2026 • 30min

# 221 Designing the Life I Actually Want at 36

My No.1 bestselling book, FULL: THE EMPTINESS OF OVEREATING, is available here. I turned 36 two days ago. I'm now closer to 40 than to 30. Instead of sharing lessons, let me share some key words and themes that I want to run through the next chapter of my life, and see if and how they might apply to you. For coaching inquiries, click here. (https://pauldermody.com/contact/)
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Feb 24, 2026 • 18min

# 220 Client Masterclass on Motivation and Self-sabotage

A client masterclass unpacks why urges to check weight or overeat suddenly return. They explore how motivations form from history and emotions. The conversation contrasts reward and punishment drives with values-based choices. There is focus on soothing anxiety, cultivating self-compassion, and moving forward instead of chasing a past identity.
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Feb 17, 2026 • 22min

# 219 Comfort Eating is Not What You Think It is

My No.1 bestselling book, FULL: THE EMPTINESS OF OVEREATING, is available here. Grab your 20% discount for the EMOTIONAL EATING [UN]PROGRAMME here. Comfort eating isn't what you think it is. It makes more sense than you realise. The key is to understand the role it plays and the reason it happens, and train your mind the same way you train a muscle. For coaching inquiries, click here. (https://pauldermody.com/contact/)
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Feb 12, 2026 • 20min

# 218 8 Things I'm Pretty Certain of

My No.1 bestselling book, FULL: THE EMPTINESS OF OVEREATING, is available here. 8 things I've been thinking about lately, including why your wants aren't in conflict, how all idienties have upsides and downsides, how you don't overcome limiting beliefs; you integrate them... and more. For coaching inquiries, click here. (https://pauldermody.com/contact/)
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Feb 5, 2026 • 15min

#217 Self-compassion and Dieting

My UK and Ireland No.1 bestselling book, FULL: THE EMPTINESS OF OVEREATING, is available here. In this episode, we explore how self-compassion changes the way we diet, relate to food, and care for our bodies. Self-compassion asks more of us, not less. It requires courage to look at our struggles clearly and respond with care and wisdom. For coaching inquiries, click here. (https://pauldermody.com/contact/)
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Jan 27, 2026 • 29min

#216 9 Psychological Ideas That Shape Our Relationship With Food, Fitness, and Ourselves

My UK and Ireland bestselling book, FULL: THE EMPTINESS OF OVEREATING, is available here. This podcast explores nine psychological concepts that shape how we relate to food, fitness, relationships, and ourselves. Everyone should know these. They appear in everyday life. We break down moral masochism, the false self, transference, projection, projective identification, splitting, repetition and enactment, reaction formation, and displacement. These are not abstract ideas. They are everyday psychological patterns that show up in dieting, exercise, self-discipline, relationships, work, and behaviour change. Often, without us realising it. This podcast is for anyone tired of repeating the same cycles, blaming themselves, or being told the problem is willpower. It is about understanding the patterns underneath behaviour so change becomes possible without shame, punishment, or control. For coaching inquiries, click here. (https://pauldermody.com/contact/)
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Jan 21, 2026 • 29min

#215 How My Coaching Actually Works

My UK and Ireland bestselling book, FULL: THE EMPTINESS OF OVEREATING, is available here. This episode is about my 1-1 coaching service, how it works, and the results you can expect to achieve. For coaching inquiries, click here. (https://pauldermody.com/contact/)
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Jan 11, 2026 • 21min

# 214 How Male Coaches Help Female Clients

My new book, FULL: THE EMPTINESS OF OVEREATING, is available here. I recently received an anonymous message that deeply moved me. In it, someone shared that I had been the first example of safe masculinity they had encountered. This episode is not about praise or identity. More so, responsibility. I reflect on what it means to be experienced as safe, how influence actually works in coaching relationships, and why care, boundaries, and humility matter more than intention. We explore how presence can be impactful without becoming controlling, and how male coaches can support clients without stepping outside their role or replacing other forms of care. This conversation is an invitation to look at influence. Not to inflate it. Not to deny it. But to hold it with awareness.

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