The Sex Doctors

Dr. Marianne Brandon and Dr. Abe Morgentaler
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Jul 10, 2025 • 23min

Tired, Sad, Unmotivated? This Hormone Might Be Why

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how testosterone levels relate to age, weight, vitality, and long-term health—highlighting surprising research, the impact of obesity, and why staying lean may be the secret to aging well. 00:08 Testosterone and Aging: An Overview Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon open the episode with a candid look at how aging affects testosterone—and why it's more complex than most people think. 01:00 Symptoms and Diagnosis of Low Testosterone From low libido to lack of vitality, they explore subtle signs of low testosterone and the importance of testing even when symptoms aren't obvious. 03:42 Research Insights on Testosterone Levels They break down surprising research showing that average testosterone levels may not decline as much with age—but free testosterone tells a different story. 09:39 Impact of Weight and Lifestyle on Testosterone The doctors highlight how obesity is a major driver of low testosterone and explain how weight loss or GLP-1s can help restore healthy levels. 16:48 Concluding Thoughts and Final Tips The episode wraps with key takeaways: stay lean, stay engaged, and don't overlook testosterone—especially in overweight or aging men. Resources: Wu, F. C. W., Tajar, A., Beynon, J. M., Pye, S. R., Silman, A. J., Finn, J. D., ... & Forti, G. (2010). Identification of late-onset hypogonadism in middle-aged and elderly men. New England Journal of Medicine, 363(2), 123–135. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa0911101 Wu, F. C. W., Tajar, A., Pye, S. R., Silman, A. J., Finn, J. D., O'Neill, T. W., ... & EMAS Group. (2008). Hypothalamic-pituitary-testicular axis disruptions in older men are linked to age and modifiable risk factors: The European Male Ageing Study. The Journal of Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism, 93(7), 2737–2745. https://doi.org/10.1210/jc.2007-1972 Huhtaniemi, I., Forti, G., & EMAS Study Group. (2012). Profile of the European Male Ageing Study (EMAS): Background, aims, and study design. Archives of Gerontology and Geriatrics, 54(3), e547–e556. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.archger.2011.11.014 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #MensHealth #TestosteroneLevels #HealthyAging
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Jul 7, 2025 • 23min

This Is What Porn Is Teaching Your Kids (And the Talk They ACTUALLY Need)

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how porn impacts adults and kids differently, why it's becoming the main source of sex education for young people, and why parents need to start having real conversations about it. 00:00 – Introduction and Controversy of Porn In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler open up a real, honest conversation about why porn is still such a hot-button topic. 00:47 – Gender Differences in Porn Consumption They break down how men and women often view porn differently—and how that shows up in therapy sessions. 03:19 – Impact of Porn on Youth and Society The doctors dig into how kids are being exposed to porn too early, and how it's replacing real sex education. 12:19 – The Impact of Aggressive Pornography They discuss the rise of aggressive sexual behaviors like choking—and how porn may be shaping young people's ideas of "normal." 13:57 – Reasons People Watch Porn Turns out, people don't just watch porn because they're horny—it can serve lots of emotional and mental roles, like boredom or stress relief. 18:32 – Concerns About Kids and AI As AI enters the picture, they warn that kids might turn to tech for sexual and emotional connection, with real risks for future relationships. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #PornographyDiscussion #YouthAndPorn #HealthySexEducation
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Jul 3, 2025 • 16min

Everything You Know About Men and Sex Is WRONG (What's Really Going On)

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about what women often misunderstand about men sexually—from emotional vulnerability and stress to how men experience love, arousal, and connection. 00:00 – Introduction to The Sex Doctors Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler kick off the episode by diving into what women may not fully understand about men sexually. 00:10 – Understanding Men's Sexual Experiences They explore how men and women can engage in the same sexual behaviors but experience them in completely different ways. 01:36 – Strip Clubs: A Tale of Two Experiences The doctors compare how men and women behave in strip clubs to highlight the emotional differences in sexual settings. 04:19 – The Powerful Drive of Male Sexuality They discuss the deep biological urge that drives male sexual behavior, often stronger and more constant than in women. 07:09 – Men's Emotional Vulnerability in Sex Sex becomes one of the few spaces where men feel safe showing emotion, affection, and vulnerability. 11:26 – Challenges Men Face in Sexual Performance The episode wraps with insights on how pressure, stress, and performance expectations uniquely impact men's ability to function sexually. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexualBehaviorDifferences #MaleSexualDrive #EmotionalExpressionInMen
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Jun 30, 2025 • 18min

Erectile Dysfunction Cure? Top Urologist Shares the Truth

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler talks about how testosterone therapy can help treat erectile dysfunction in men with low testosterone—especially when vascular health isn't the main issue. 00:14 – Testosterone and Erectile Dysfunction: Expert Opinions In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler explains why some experts say testosterone shouldn't be used alone to treat ED—but why that's not the whole story. 01:19 – Personal Experience and Treatment Approach Dr. Morgentaler shares how treating low testosterone alone has helped many of his patients improve erections without ED meds. 03:38 – Key Studies on Testosterone Therapy He compares two major studies—Testosterone Trials and TRAVERSE—to show why results differ based on patients' heart health. 08:28 – Understanding Erectile Function and Testosterone's Role He breaks down how erections work and the key roles testosterone, nerves, blood flow, and the brain all play. 15:03 – Practical Treatment Strategies and Conclusion Dr. Morgentaler outlines his go-to treatment method: start with testosterone, then add ED meds if needed. Resources: 1. The Testosterone Trials (2016): Snyder, P. J., Bhasin, S., Cunningham, G. R., Matsumoto, A. M., Stephens-Shields, A. J., Cauley, J. A., ... & Ellenberg, S. S. (2016). Effects of testosterone treatment in older men. The New England Journal of Medicine, 374(7), 611–624. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa1506119 2. The TRAVERSE Trial (2023): Bhattacharya, R. K., Harman, S. M., Coviello, A. D., Snyder, P. J., Swerdloff, R. S., Grobler, A., ... & Ellenberg, S. S. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. The New England Journal of Medicine, 388(15), 1349–1360. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2215025 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TestosteroneTherapy #ErectileDysfunctionTreatment #MensHealth
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Jun 26, 2025 • 27min

Still Want Sex… Just Not With Your Partner? Sex Therapist Explains Why (And What To Do About It)

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about what it means when you still want sex—but not with your partner—and how honesty, biology, and effort can help bring the spark back. 02:21 – The Monogamy Problem Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler explain how our biology craves variety, making lifelong monogamy a challenge for many couples. 06:36 – Revitalizing Desire in Relationships Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler explain that rebuilding desire takes honesty, effort, and a willingness from both partners to grow. 13:26 – Engaging in Relationship Activities They encourage couples to do fun, shared activities together to strengthen their emotional and physical connection. 15:48 – Understanding Mammalian Sexual Behavior Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler explain how human sexuality is driven by primal instincts—and how couples can tap into that to reignite intimacy. 20:30 – Addressing Sexual Disinterest and Jealousy They explore how disinterest can shift when partners communicate clearly—and even how jealousy can help spark desire again. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #SexlessMarriages #RekindlingDesire #CommunicationInRelationships
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Jun 23, 2025 • 8min

2 Ways to Start Feeling Turned On Again (Your Sex Life Will Thank You)

In this episode, Dr. Brandon talks about how women can reconnect with their desire by exploring touch, fantasy, and understanding that female arousal often kicks in even when the brain isn't fully on board. 00:39 – Touch and Self-Discovery Dr. Brandon encourages women to spend time alone, reconnecting with their bodies through gentle, intentional touch. 01:01 – Experimenting with Sex Toys She recommends trying different types of vibrators to explore what feels good and reawaken physical pleasure. 01:55 – The Role of Fantasy in Arousal Dr. Brandon shares that many women lose interest in their usual fantasies, and encourages exploring new ones without judgment. 03:12 – Understanding Female Arousal Research She explains research showing that women's bodies often respond to a wide range of stimuli—even those they don't mentally find sexy. 05:45 – Applying Research to Personal Experience Dr. Brandon suggests focusing on what your body feels—not what your brain thinks—to help rediscover desire. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #FemaleSexualHealth #SelfDiscovery #ExploringFantasy
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Jun 19, 2025 • 22min

The #1 Bedroom Mistake Men Keep Making (And How to Fix It)

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler discuss the emotional and physical misunderstandings men often have about women's sexuality, and how clearer communication, confidence, and slowing down can lead to deeper connection and better sex. 00:49 Understanding the Double Binds in Sexual Dynamics Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler unpack the mixed messages men receive when asked to lead, yet told they're doing it wrong. 03:23 The Importance of Nonverbal Communication They explain how tone, touch, and subtle cues often speak louder than words during intimacy. 06:06 Empowering Men in the Bedroom They highlight how confidence, posture, and emotional presence help men reconnect with their sexual power. 09:12 Sexual Rules and Boundaries They explore how sexual "rules" can reflect disconnection and frustration—and how couples can work through them. 18:10 Practical Tips for Improving Sexual Relationships Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler offer actionable advice to slow down, build safety, and foster deeper intimacy between partners. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #UnderstandingFemaleSexuality #ImprovingIntimacy #ModernDatingChallenges
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Jun 16, 2025 • 7min

These 3 Books TRANSFORMED How My Clients Connect in Bed (And Out)

In this episode, Dr. Brandon discusses three powerful books that help you grow emotionally, deepen connection, and ultimately become a better lover—because great sex starts with self-awareness. 00:07 The Importance of Emotional Self-Awareness Dr. Brandon explains how understanding your own emotions helps you connect more deeply with your partner. 01:18 Book 1: On Self-Hatred by The School of Life A short, powerful read that explores self-criticism, people-pleasing, and how it impacts intimacy. 03:00 Book 2: Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life by James Hollis A thoughtful guide full of wisdom and journaling prompts to help navigate personal growth at any age. 04:06 Book 3: A Billion Wicked Thoughts A fascinating look at sexual desires and fantasies, showing just how diverse and normal they really are. 06:05 Conclusion and Final Thoughts Dr. Brandon encourages listeners to read, reflect, and share these books as tools for better relationships and self-understanding. Resources On Self-Hatred – The School of Life Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Life – James Hollis A Billion Wicked Thoughts – Ogi Ogas & Sai Gaddam With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfUnderstanding #PersonalGrowth
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Jun 12, 2025 • 18min

Does Testosterone REALLY Cause Blood Clots? Here's the Truth No One Talks About

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler break down the myth that testosterone therapy causes blood clots and explain why the science says it doesn't. 00:05 Media Interaction on Testosterone Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about reviewing a media graphic on testosterone benefits and risks. 00:47 Understanding Erythrocytosis and Clots They explain how high red blood cell counts don't always mean higher risk for clots. 02:10 Testosterone Therapy and Red Blood Cell Count Testosterone can raise red blood cells—but that doesn't mean it causes harm. 03:26 Debating the Risks of Testosterone They share how major studies show testosterone does not raise clot or heart risks. 16:51 Conclusion and Takeaways The big takeaway: testosterone therapy does not cause blood clots. Resources: Mayo Clinic Proceedings Article: Lincoff, A. M., Bhasin, S., Flevaris, P., Mitchell, L. M., Basaria, S., Boden, W. E., Cunningham, G. R., Granger, C. B., Khera, M., Thompson, I. M., Wang, Q., Wolski, K., Davey, D., Kalahasti, V., Khan, N., Miller, M. G., Snabes, M. C., Chan, A., Dubcenco, E., ... Nissen, S. E. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. The New England Journal of Medicine, 389(2), 107–117. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2215025 TRAVERSE Study (NEJM): Lincoff, A. M., Bhasin, S., Flevaris, P., Mitchell, L. M., Basaria, S., Boden, W. E., Cunningham, G. R., Granger, C. B., Khera, M., Thompson, I. M., Wang, Q., Wolski, K., Davey, D., Kalahasti, V., Khan, N., Miller, M. G., Snabes, M. C., Chan, A., Dubcenco, E., ... Nissen, S. E. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. The New England Journal of Medicine, 389(2), 107–117. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2215025 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TestosteroneTherapy #BloodClotMyths #HealthMisunderstandings
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Jun 9, 2025 • 35min

The One CRUCIAL Relationship Question Everyone Avoids (But Shouldn't)

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler discuss how self-reflection, emotional honesty, and open conversations about sex and respect can help partners improve their relationships and deepen intimacy. 00:10 Self-Reflection in Relationships Dr. Brandon talks about the importance of asking yourself what kind of partner you really are. 04:08 Challenges and Solutions in Partner Dynamics They explain how trying too hard to please your partner can lead to loss of respect and problems in the relationship. 18:33 Addressing Relationship Dynamics The discussion shows how small issues grow when partners don't speak up about feeling ignored or undervalued. 20:02 Sexual Intimacy in Relationships They break down how to bring up sexual wants in a respectful way that opens the door for better connection. 24:10 Effective Communication in Relationships Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler stress that real progress comes from ongoing, honest, and kind conversations. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #RelationshipAdvice #SexualHealth #EmotionalIntimacy

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