The Sex Doctors

In this episode, Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler discuss how the definition of cheating is shifting in the digital age, from porn and OnlyFans to chatbots and sexting, and why clear boundaries matter more than ever. 00:26 Exploring Modern Cheating: Survey Insights – Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler break down new survey data on how people define cheating in today's digital age. 09:06 Debating Digital and Emotional Cheating – They discuss the blurred lines between sexual red lines, emotional intimacy, and partner expectations. 16:56 Exploring Sexting with Chatbots – The conversation turns to whether sexual exchanges with AI cross the boundary of infidelity. 20:54 The Ethics of Subscribing to OnlyFans – They examine how money, real human interaction, and online platforms complicate trust in relationships. 25:49 The Complexity of Digital Cheating – The episode closes on how technology, from avatars to VR, makes defining cheating more difficult than ever. Resources: Cadet, L., Brooks, A., & Castro, L. (2025, August 26). Digital affairs are here: 61% of singles say sexting or falling in love with AI crosses the line [Survey, DatingAdvice.com & Kinsey Institute]. DatingAdvice.com. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #DigitalCheating #RelationshipBoundaries #OnlineInfidelity

In this episode of The Sex Doctors, Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler talk about how AI chatbots are rapidly transforming therapy, potentially replacing many jobs, and why therapists must focus on uniquely human skills to stay relevant. 00:00 Introduction and Article Overview – Dr. Brandon shares a bold new article warning that AI chatbots could soon dominate psychotherapy. 00:35 AI's Impact on Jobs and Therapy – The doctors discuss how AI is already taking over jobs and may soon replace many therapists. 02:12 Concerns About AI Dependency – They explore fears that people are becoming too dependent on chatbots for decisions and emotional support. 04:04 Real-Time AI Demonstration – A live demo shows how empathetic and human-like AI therapy responses have already become. 08:32 Future of AI in Various Fields – The conversation expands to AI in medicine, law, and other jobs, predicting massive workforce changes. 16:23 Concluding Thoughts and Advice – They encourage therapists to focus on work AI can't do, using human connection as their edge. Resources: Frances, A. (2025). Warning: AI chatbots will soon dominate psychotherapy. The British Journal of Psychiatry. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #AIinPsychotherapy #FutureOfWork #HumanVsAI

In this episode, Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler talk about the off-label use of bremelanotide (Vyleesi/PT-141) in men—its potential benefits for libido/erections, origins, side effects (notably nausea), and how patients often access it via compounding pharmacies. 00:05 – Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler dive into Bremelanotide and share how the Goldsteins have been pioneering its research. 02:08 – They laugh about the iconic Katz's Deli "When Harry Met Sally" scene and its connection to sexual medicine history. 03:06 – The doctors explain how Bremelanotide works, how it's used by both women and men, and why refills tell an important story. 08:43 – They tackle the criticism that women take these meds "for men," pushing back and stressing women's right to pleasure. 19:48 – Wrapping up, they encourage listeners to talk with their doctors or compounding pharmacies if they want to explore this option. Resources: Goldstein, I., & Goldstein, S. (n.d.). [Abstract on off-label use of Bremelanotide (PT-141) in men: Refill rates and sexual function outcomes]. The Journal of Sexual Medicine. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #BremelanotideForMen #SexualHealthTreatment #OffLabelUse

In this episode, Dr. Brandon & Dr Morgentaler talk about how affairs can make a couple's sex life better, worse, or just different—and simple ways to heal and reconnect. 00:16 Understanding the Impact of Affairs: They explain how cheating can change desire and closeness in different ways. 01:12 Nuances in Post-Affair Sexuality: Sex may drop, rise, get more adventurous, or face issues—it depends on the couple. 02:49 Addressing Sexual Dysfunction: They cover anxiety, erection problems, low desire, and using mindfulness or medicine to help. 05:00 Rebuilding Intimacy and Trust: Start slow—talk, apologize, slow dance, gentle touch—and add steps over time. 08:38 Therapeutic Approaches and Conclusion: Therapists help couples heal, try new ways to connect, and keep working together. Resources: Timm, T. M. (2024). The effects of infidelity on the sexual relationship. Sexual and Relationship Therapy, 39(4), 1372–1388. https://doi.org/10.1080/14681994.2023.2283504 Lehmiller, J. J. (2023, June 23). When partners cheat, who do they do it with? Psychology Today. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-myths-of-sex/202304/when-people-cheat-who-do-they-do-it-with With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #PostAffairSexuality #RelationshipRebuilding #SexualDysfunctionTherapy

In this episode, Dr. Brandon & Dr. Morgentaler talk about why some women cheat through an evolutionary lens, how parenting can dull desire, and simple ways couples can rekindle passion while staying connected. 00:09 Discussing the Article: Why Women Cheat: They talk about a study on why some women cheat. 00:49 Evolutionary Perspective on Cheating: From a science view, some marry "good dads" but seek excitement elsewhere. 02:47 Parenting and Sexual Dynamics: Raising kids can make life less romantic and lower desire. 05:33 Rekindling Passion in Long-Term Relationships: Make space, try new things, and rebuild closeness step by step. 15:29 Conclusion and Recommendations: Most women still prefer their partner; talk openly and try the tips. Resources: Murphy, M., Phillips, C. A., & Blake, K. R. (2024). Why women cheat: Testing evolutionary hypotheses for female infidelity in a multinational sample. Evolution and Human Behavior, 45(5), 106595. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.evolhumbehav.2024.106595 Brandon, M. (2014). Unlocking the sexy in surrender: Using the neuroscience of power to recharge your sex life [Kindle eBook]. Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00HS9FNMQ With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #EvolutionaryPsychology #RelationshipPassion #InfidelityStudies

In this episode Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about the Match.com Singles in America survey with the Kinsey Institute, exploring how modern singles view sex, porn, love, and relationships across generations. 00:14 Match.com Survey Insights — Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon discuss key findings from the Singles in America survey with over 75,000 participants. 06:02 Singles' Beliefs and Relationship Expectations — They explore statistics on porn use, emotional disconnects, and the belief in "one true love." 12:49 Rising Trends in Marriage and Singlehood — The doctors highlight how rates of never-married adults and sexless marriages are reshaping social norms. 17:21 The Role of Sexual Chemistry and Cultural Shifts — They reflect on why 90% of singles prioritize chemistry and how media and porn influence expectations. 20:12 Gen Z's Unique Perspectives on Relationships — They unpack Gen Z's conservative stance on sex, intentional celibacy, and uncertainty about long-term commitments. Resources: Match and The Kinsey Institute (2025). Singles in America: 14th annual study. Match Group. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #DatingTrends #RelationshipInsights #SexualBehaviorSurvey

In this episode Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about whether the time of day really matters for testosterone testing, challenging the old "only in the morning" rule and showing how real-world evidence proves it makes little difference. 00:43 Debating Testosterone Testing Times – The doctors question the long-standing rule that testosterone must be tested in the morning. 04:56 Research Findings and Implications – A large study shows no real difference between morning and afternoon testosterone levels. 14:36 Understanding Testosterone Levels and Libido – They explain that libido doesn't rise and fall with small shifts in testosterone throughout the day. 15:20 Challenges with Testosterone Testing Protocols – Insurance rules forcing two morning tests create unnecessary hurdles for patients. 18:02 Debunking Myths and Practical Advice – The doctors stress that symptoms and context matter more than rigid numbers on a lab sheet. Resources: Novaes, L. F., Flores, J. M., Benfante, N., Schofield, E., Katz, D. J., Nelson, C. J., & Mulhall, J. P. (2024). Analysis of diurnal variation in serum testosterone levels in men with symptoms of testosterone deficiency. The Journal of Sexual Medicine, 21(5), 408–413. https://doi.org/10.1093/jsxmed/qdae026 Crawford, E. D. (1997). Prostate Cancer Awareness Week: September 22 to 28, 1997. CA: A Cancer Journal for Clinicians, 47(5), 288–296. https://doi.org/10.3322/canjclin.47.5.288 Mulhall, J. P., Trost, L. W., Brannigan, R. E., Kurtz, E. G., Redmon, J. B., Chiles, K. A., Lightner, D. J., Miner, M. M., Murad, M. H., Nelson, C. J., Platz, E. A., Ramanathan, L. V., & Lewis, R. W. (2018; valid through 2024). Evaluation and management of testosterone deficiency: AUA guideline. The Journal of Urology, 200, 423. https://www.auanet.org/guidelines-and-quality/guidelines/testosterone-deficiency-guideline Morgentaler, A., et al. (2015). Fundamental concepts regarding testosterone deficiency and treatment: International expert consensus. Mayo Clinic Proceedings. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TestosteroneTesting #DiurnalVariation #HealthInsuranceRules

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how technology is reshaping intimacy, friendships, and sex, warning that without mindful effort to connect in person, future generations may default to tech over human relationships. 00:07 The Impact of Technology on Human Interaction – They explore how our shift from face-to-face contact to device time is changing the way we relate to each other. 01:07 Screen Time and Human Connection – They share personal stories about shocking screen-time stats and how constant device use is eroding real-life connection. 03:53 Intimacy with Technology – They explain how people are forming emotional and sexual bonds with chatbots and other tech, often feeling lonelier in the long run. 05:30 The Rise of Non-Human Romance – They discuss younger generations' growing preference for fantasy and non-human partners in porn and romance media. 12:55 The Future of Human Relationships – They predict that without mindful action, more people will choose tech-based intimacy over real partners, altering human connection as we know it. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TechImpactOnIntimacy #ShiftInRomanticPreferences #PreservingHumanInteraction

In this episode, Dr. Morgentaler and Dr. Brandon talk about how testosterone can, in the right patients, be an effective solo treatment for erectile dysfunction despite common medical guidelines saying otherwise. 00:06 Testosterone and Erectile Dysfunction: The Debate – They kick things off by questioning the common belief that testosterone alone can't fix ED. 00:54 Understanding the Traverse Study – They break down why a big study seemed to show testosterone doesn't help erections—and why its results are misleading. 03:20 The Role of Testosterone in Erections – They explain how testosterone, nerves, and blood flow all have to work together for healthy erections. 08:59 Clinical Insights and Patient Experiences – Dr. Morgentaler shares real-world stories of men whose ED improved dramatically once their testosterone levels were restored. 19:43 Conclusion and Final Thoughts – They wrap up by stressing that while guidelines matter, treating each patient as an individual is the real key. Resources - TRAVERSE Study Bhasin, S., Snyder, P. J., Cunningham, G. R., Matsumoto, A. M., Stephens-Shields, A. J., Cauley, J. A., Gill, T. M., Barrett-Connor, E., Swerdloff, R. S., Wang, C., Ensrud, K. E., Lewis, C. E., Budoff, M. J., Cohen, B., Pahor, M., Kenny, A. M., & Ellenberg, S. S. (2023). Cardiovascular safety of testosterone-replacement therapy. The New England Journal of Medicine, 389(2), 107–117. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa2215025 The Testosterone Trials (2016) Snyder, P. J., Bhasin, S., Cunningham, G. R., Matsumoto, A. M., Stephens-Shields, A. J., Cauley, J. A., Gill, T. M., Barrett-Connor, E., Swerdloff, R. S., Wang, C., Ensrud, K. E., Lewis, C. E., Hou, X., Hou, X., Budoff, M. J., Ellenberg, S. S., & The Testosterone Trials Investigators. (2016). Effects of testosterone treatment in older men. The New England Journal of Medicine, 374(7), 611–624. https://doi.org/10.1056/NEJMoa1506119 2018 American Urological Association Guidelines on Erectile Dysfunction Burnett, A. L., Nehra, A., Breau, R. H., Culkin, D. J., Faraday, M. M., Hakim, L. S., Heidelbaugh, J. J., Khera, M., Kirkby, E., McVary, K. T., Miner, M. M., Nelson, C. J., Sadovsky, R., Seftel, A. D., Shindel, A. W., & SOP Committee. (2018). Erectile dysfunction: AUA guideline. The Journal of Urology, 200(3), 633–641. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.juro.2018.05.004 With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #TestosteroneAndED #TestosteroneTherapy #UnderstandingED

In this episode, Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler talk about how keeping both tender lovemaking and raw, passionate sex in a relationship is essential for long-term intimacy, excitement, and connection. 00:18 Discussing Creative Sex Life Dr. Brandon and Dr. Morgentaler explore why variety and creativity keep intimacy exciting over time. 01:23 The Importance of Language in Sex They explain how specific words shape understanding and emotional impact in intimacy. 02:38 Defining Different Types of Sex They break down the differences between lovemaking, sex, and raw, passionate encounters. 08:03 Challenges in Modern Relationships They address how porn and technology can pull primal energy away from partnerships. 15:57 Conclusion and Final Thoughts They emphasize that balancing tenderness and passion is key to lasting connection. With Dr. Abraham Morgentaler and Dr. Marianne Brandon Listen to the podcast on all of your favorite platforms: Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/ec/podcast/the-sex-doctors/id1761813985?l=en-GB Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0apSFzquJXKoOGnmI6ndgT?si=e5a1e482c7ca46c7 Find us on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesexdoctors?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thesexdoctors YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thesexdoctorspod TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesexdoctor LinkedIn (Dr. Abraham): https://www.linkedin.com/in/abraham-morgentaler-md-81628b6 LinkedIn (Dr. Marianne): https://www.linkedin.com/in/mariannebrandon-59224513 X (Dr. Abraham): https://x.com/DrMorgentaler X (Dr. Marianne): https://x.com/drbrandon #HealthyIntimacy #RelationshipDynamics #SexualExpression