Men, Sex, and Pleasure with Cam Fraser

On this episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Emily Claire. Emily is an erotic embodiment dance teacher and sacred sexuality and embodiment teacher, dedicated to inspiring people on their journeys toward integrating with themselves, their bodies and to the deepest part of themselves, their sexuality. She transitioned careers from a Lawyer to this work after being deeply inspired by the profound impact embodiment and sacred sexuality work had on her own life. Emily has mentored with the leading international and national experts in her field. She holds a wealth of knowledge in sexuality, sacred sexuality and neo Tantra, embodiment and dance as healing and is trauma informed. Emily has created Erotic Temple Dance, A 4 Week erotic embodiment journey into feminine sexuality archetypes which tours across South East Queensland, Australia, she facilitates group work in spiritual sexuality practice for men and women and she privately coaches people. The two of us talked about her offering for men, which she has called “Fuck and Kill to Consciousness.” We discussed our opinions about masculinity and femininity as well as what we think is needed in the world of men’s work. Key Points: - Emily shares about her journey from Law to Tantra - Mentoring with John Wineland - Healing your relationship with men - A woman’s experience working with men - Mix-gendered spaces: Learning from other genders - “Fuck and Kill to Consciousness” - What are men’s natural desires? - Integrating the animal part of ourselves - Masculine and Feminine Energy - Fight, Flight, Freeze, Feed and Fuck - Practical advice for men wanting to begin this work Relevant links: Emily’s Instagram: @an_erotic_heart Emily’s Website: www.deepenembodiment.com

On this episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Johnathan White. Johnathan is an instructor of Sexual Kung Fu, Qigong, and meditation. His mission is to help men gain a conscious connection with their sexual energy and channel it into manifesting their ideal life. Johnathan and I discuss our personal philosophies about sexual energy and semen retention. We also share some practices that men can use to experience non-ejaculatory orgasms. While our work is similar, Johnathan and I discovered some important differences in the way we both present our teachings. Like myself, Johnathan also has a 6-week online course for men. He shares some powerful and potent wisdom in this episode. Key Points: - Johnathan shares about his teachings - Creating your own personal practice - Learning to listen to your body - Your first non-ejaculatory ogasm - Techniques for non-ejaculatory orgasms - Mantak Chia’s “Million Dollar Point” technique - Obsessing over and redefining orgasm - The importance of non-sexual practices - Semen retention and NoFap - The energetics of ejaculation - Conscious ejaculation vs semen retention - Testicle breathing practice Relevant Links: Johnathan’s Instagram: @sexual.kungfu Johhnathan’s YouTube: Sexual Kung Fu

Join Tyran Mowbray, a men's sex and health mentor, as he dives into the complexities of masculinity and sexuality. He shares personal stories and challenges the stigma surrounding men discussing their sexual experiences. The conversation highlights the importance of setting boundaries and embracing emotional vulnerability. Tyran also addresses the misconceptions about male victims of sexual assault, advocating for more open and honest discussions in the realm of men's sexuality. Engage with topics that redefine masculinity and promote healing.

On today’s episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Martha Tara Lee. Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives. She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice for more than nine years, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore. Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed Resident Sexologist for PinkLifestyle.com; as well appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between, Orgasmic Yoga, From Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited. Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. Key Points: - Martha shares about her studies and travels - How Martha’s work is received in Singapore - Singaporean culture and sexuality - Working with “Asian cultural values” in sex therapy - The stigma of being an Asian woman sex therapist - Ancient Eastern sexual practices - Who is teaching Tantra and Neotantra? - Using Asian culture to make money - Exploring cultural teachings and honouring your ancestry Relevant links: Martha’s Website: www.eroscoaching.com Martha’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching Martha’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/drmarthalee Martha’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leemartha/ Martha’s Instagram: @drmarthalee

On this week’s episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I had the pleasure of talking with Georgia Grace. As a Certified Australian Sex Coach, Georgia applies a client-centred approach in supporting individuals, couples and groups to become more aware of their bodies, sex and sexuality. Informed by embodied therapy, mindfulness and neuroscience, Georgia’s comprehensive support allows clients to explore their potential with an approach that is tailored and most suited to them. Georgia aims to bring mindfulness to sex with real, practical and useful tools allowing people to explore their sensuality. She does all this in an open and safe space with the opportunity to ask, share, discuss, feel and relate. Georgia and I talk about her work in the sexuality space and how she manages both the sex-positivity and the sex-negativity inherent to this work. We also discuss some sex toys that are revolutionizing the way we think of men’s pleasure. Key Points: - Georgia shares about her work - Being in a sex-positive bubble - Managing boundaries and online harassment - Innovative sex-tech and new products - The Arcwave Ion and Pleasure Air™ Technology - Changing the way men masturbate - Using sex toys to enhance pleasure - Outdated science about sexuality - Updating understandings about male pleasure - Cultivating your curiosity Relevant links: Georgia’s Instagram: @gspot._ Georgia’s Website: https://www.georgiagraced.com/

On this week’s episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dominick Quartuccio. Dominick is the host of “The Great Man Within Podcast,” a show for high performing men covering the subjects of purpose, masculinity and sex. He is the author of two books, “Design Your Future” and “On Purpose Leadership,” which both focus on living the best version of yourself. He also runs The Great Man Mastermind, a global community of men doing inner work and living their best selves. Dominick and I talk about his journey through Sex Addicts Anonymous and how he has reframed his relationship with sex. Key Points: - Dominick shares some of this story - The final straw before rehab - Sex Addicts Anonymous - Is sex addiction real? - Defining addiction and relapse - Religion and negative attitudes towards sex - Reframing your relationship with sex - Talking to men about sex Relevant links: Dominick’s Instagram: @DominickQ Dominick’s Website: https://www.dominickq.com/

On this episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Jeff Bennett. Jeff is the founder and CEO of Morari Medical, an innovative sexual health and wellness company. A proven medical device industry leader, Jeff has more than 20 years of sales and marketing experience, with the level of his role and responsibilities increasing over the course of his career. After two decades in the medical device industry, Jeff sees a world where all beings can enjoy their sexuality freely with confidence, curiosity and control. Morari Medical’s mission is to restore confidence in sexual health. The start-up is a pioneer of wearable tech that enables all to create the climactic journey and sexual experience they desire. Jeff and I talk about his company and the technology they’re using for their new device that aims to treat premature ejaculation. We also discuss the problem with the label of premature ejaculaion. Key Points: - Jeff’s shares Morari Medical’s mission statement - Current treatments for premature ejaculation - Sex-tech and a burgeoning industry - The Taint Bandaid - Neurostimulation and the ejaculatory response - The problem with premature ejacultion - Marketing sexual products and devices - Future directions for Morari Medical Relevant Links: Morari Medical’s website: https://www.morarimedical.com/

On this episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Kristopher Lovestone. Kristopher is a sex educator and couples counsellor who survived six divorces in his childhood, and then went on to rewrite the rules of the relationship game so that people can actually win. He now teaches people how to succeed through communication, modern sex education and innovative relationship strategies. His techniques have yielded him a wildly successful 15-year marriage that gets hotter every year, and he published his teachings in his new book Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual For Men. He has been called the “Einstein of relationships” and is endorsed by many of the top sex educators in the world. Kristopher and I talk about the teachings in his book and dive deeper into what being a conscious man looks like. Key Points: - Kristopher shares some of his story - Systematizing sex and relationship education - Creating a 101 style course - Wash your dick and start with the basics - Reframing “pussy whipped” - Take responsibility for your sperm - Communicating and connecting with a woman  - Practical advice for men Relevant links: Kristopher’s Instagram: @theconsciouscock Kristopher’s Website: https://consciouscock.com/

Today on the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Jeff Abraham, the CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, the manufacturer of Promescent. Born in Pittsburgh Pennsylvania, Jeff moved to California chasing the burgeoning semiconductor industry, where he opened a successful staffing agency and retired early to focus on his role as a single father after winning a $9.5M lawsuit against Hyundai for their illegal hiring practices. When family friend Dr. Ronald Gilbert asked for Jeff's business advice on his new product Promescent, Jeff immediately invested in the company after trying the product once. Brought on as Promescent CEO in early 2012, Jeff was charged with taking Promescent from a boutique brand one could purchase from a Doctor’s website to a global wellness company. Today, Jeff has placed the fan-favorite male delay spray in Target and consistently maintains the spot as one of Amazon’s highest-selling sexual wellness products. We talk about Promescent, men’s expectations of sex and the technology behind male genital desinsitizers, known as “delay sprays.” Key Points - Jeff shares about his journey with Promescent - Talking openly about sex as an older man - Men’s warped expectations about sex - The need for sexual enhancement products - Brief history of male genital desensitizers - What sets Promescent apart from the competition? - How does a “delay spray” work? - What are the adverse effects? - Emphasizing communication and pleasure - The future of Promescent Relevant links: Jeff’s Twitter: @jeffabraham111 Jeff’s Instagram: @jeffabraham111

Today on the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Karis Topkin. Karis is a mother, a lover, and a healer, helping people to reclaim their pleasure and heal their traumas, allowing them to follow their own heart-led path and create a life that feels deliciously good, connected, and rooted in pleasure and wholeness. Karis and I talk about her work with men in South Africa and the hands-off sexual healing modalities that she uses in her conservative community. We also discuss strategies for holding space for men, allowing them to open up and release emotions by embodying the Mother Archetype. We close with a brief discussion about sexual energy and pleasure across the lifespan. Key Points: - Karis’ journey reclaiming pleasure - Masculinity in South Africa - Male gratification vs female pleasure - Karis’ work with men - The Mother Archetype vs mothering - Feeling comfortable holding space for men - Energy work vs body work - Healing inner child wounds - Sexual energy and pleasure Relevant links: Karis’ Instagram: @karistopkin Karis’ TikTok: @karis_healing