

Dr Tom LaHue, Enneagram
TOM LAHUE
Dr Tom LaHue helps you understand more about yourself and others so that you can be more "present to life."
Check out His Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/twlahue/videos
Check out His Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/twlahue/videos
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May 5, 2025 • 12min
You Are Not A Failure, Even If You Feel Like It
Are you feeling like a failure — at work, in your relationships, or just in life overall? You’re not alone. In this video, I’m here to remind you: feelings aren’t facts, and your current struggle doesn’t define your story.💥 You are not a failure — you’re in the middle of a comeback.This episode is all about how to start again, find encouragement, and grow through what feels like defeat.🔹 Whether you’re discouraged, overwhelmed, or just tired of trying — this is your sign to begin again.🔹 Learn how to shift your mindset, take small steps, and silence the lies that say you’re not enough.🔹 Remember: your story isn't over, and you’re not disqualified from a meaningful life.👇 Comment below: “I’m not done yet” — if this video speaks to you.✅ Subscribe for weekly encouragement, Enneagram insights, and personal growth tools.🎯 Keywords: feeling like a failure, how to start again, discouraged in life, personal growth after failure, bounce back, emotional resetTransformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching More info at https://www.tomlahue.com/Social Media Links: https://linktr.ee/drtomlahueFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/twlahueTwitter: https://twitter.com/twlahueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/twlahue/Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahueAlso available on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyPatreon Supporters: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=20899026It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure! Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.#enneagram, EnneagramTypes, CliftonStrengthsFinder, PersonalityAssessment, self-discovery, Strengths-Based Development, Understanding Personality, Personal Growth, Enneagram Test Results, Unlock Your Potential, Mindfulness, SelfAwareness, SelfImprovement, LifeCoach, UnlockPotential, Motivation, strength, Relationships, love, soulmate, self-love, love yourself, intimacy, emotional connections, dating, communication, healthy relationships, true love, power of love, relationships, marriage, love language, love quotes, love tips, love and happiness, trust, love and relationships, love advice, unconditional love, happy, love, Myers-Briggs,

May 5, 2025 • 3min
Common Misconceptions About Introverts
Transformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching More info at https://www.tomlahue.com/Social Media Links: https://linktr.ee/drtomlahueFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/twlahueTwitter: https://twitter.com/twlahueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/twlahue/Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahueAlso available on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyPatreon Supporters: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=20899026It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure! Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.#enneagram, EnneagramTypes, CliftonStrengthsFinder, PersonalityAssessment, self-discovery, Strengths-Based Development, Understanding Personality, Personal Growth, Enneagram Test Results, Unlock Your Potential, Mindfulness, SelfAwareness, SelfImprovement, LifeCoach, UnlockPotential, Motivation, strength, Relationships, love, soulmate, self-love, love yourself, intimacy, emotional connections, dating, communication, healthy relationships, true love, power of love, relationships, marriage, love language, love quotes, love tips, love and happiness, trust, love and relationships, love advice, unconditional love, happy, love, Myers-Briggs,

May 3, 2025 • 3min
Being Shy Doesn't Have To Stop You
Transformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching More info at https://www.tomlahue.com/Social Media Links: https://linktr.ee/drtomlahueFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/twlahueTwitter: https://twitter.com/twlahueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/twlahue/Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahueAlso available on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyPatreon Supporters: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=20899026It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure! Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.#enneagram, EnneagramTypes, CliftonStrengthsFinder, PersonalityAssessment, self-discovery, Strengths-Based Development, Understanding Personality, Personal Growth, Enneagram Test Results, Unlock Your Potential, Mindfulness, SelfAwareness, SelfImprovement, LifeCoach, UnlockPotential, Motivation, strength, Relationships, love, soulmate, self-love, love yourself, intimacy, emotional connections, dating, communication, healthy relationships, true love, power of love, relationships, marriage, love language, love quotes, love tips, love and happiness, trust, love and relationships, love advice, unconditional love, happy, love, Myers-Briggs,

May 2, 2025 • 3min
Understanding Shyness & Introversion
Transformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching More info at https://www.tomlahue.com/Social Media Links: https://linktr.ee/drtomlahueFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/twlahueTwitter: https://twitter.com/twlahueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/twlahue/Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahueAlso available on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyPatreon Supporters: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=20899026It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure! Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.#enneagram, EnneagramTypes, CliftonStrengthsFinder, PersonalityAssessment, self-discovery, Strengths-Based Development, Understanding Personality, Personal Growth, Enneagram Test Results, Unlock Your Potential, Mindfulness, SelfAwareness, SelfImprovement, LifeCoach, UnlockPotential, Motivation, strength, Relationships, love, soulmate, self-love, love yourself, intimacy, emotional connections, dating, communication, healthy relationships, true love, power of love, relationships, marriage, love language, love quotes, love tips, love and happiness, trust, love and relationships, love advice, unconditional love, happy, love, Myers-Briggs,

May 2, 2025 • 13min
Morning Mindset Reset: The Most Important 5 Minutes Of The Day!
What if just 5 minutes in the morning could completely change the direction of your day — and your life?In this video, I’ll walk you through a simple, powerful morning mindset reset that can help you start your day with clarity, purpose, and peace.You don’t need a long, complicated routine.You just need to start your day intentionally — before the noise of the world takes over.✅ A simple 5-minute morning mindset routine that really works✅ How to take control of your thoughts before the day controls you✅ Why your first few minutes each day matter more than you think✅ How small habits lead to big life change over timeYour day is shaped by how you start it — and five intentional minutes can set the tone for everything that follows.👉 What’s one thing you can add to your morning tomorrow to help you start strong? Drop it in the comments — I’d love to hear your routine!🔔 Like, comment, and subscribe for more videos on personal growth, daily mindset, motivation, and building habits that make a difference.#morningmindset #mindsetreset #startyourdayright #dailyhabits #selfhelp #morningroutine #personaldevelopmentTransformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching More info at https://www.tomlahue.com/Social Media Links: https://linktr.ee/drtomlahueFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/twlahueTwitter: https://twitter.com/twlahueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/twlahue/Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahueAlso available on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyPatreon Supporters: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=20899026It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure! Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.#enneagram, EnneagramTypes, CliftonStrengthsFinder, PersonalityAssessment, self-discovery, Strengths-Based Development, Understanding Personality, Personal Growth, Enneagram Test Results, Unlock Your Potential, Mindfulness, SelfAwareness, SelfImprovement, LifeCoach, UnlockPotential, Motivation, strength, Relationships, love, soulmate, self-love, love yourself, intimacy, emotional connections, dating, communication, healthy relationships, true love, power of love, relationships, marriage, love language, love quotes, love tips, love and happiness, trust, love and relationships, love advice, unconditional love, happy, love, Myers-Briggs,

May 1, 2025 • 12min
Think You're Falling Behind in Life? Maybe, You Are Right On Time!
Do you ever feel like you're falling behind in life? Like you should be further along by now?In today’s video, I want to encourage you with this truth: you are not behind — you’re right on time.In a world that constantly pushes hustle, pressure, and comparison, it’s easy to feel like you’re missing out or messing up. But the truth is, your journey has a pace and purpose all its own.This video is all about how to trust the timing of your life, silence the noise of comparison, and stay faithful to your own path.✅ Why comparison creates false pressure and fake timelines✅ How to find peace in seasons of preparation and waiting✅ Why your pace is perfect for your unique purpose✅ The mindset shift that helps you stop rushing and start trustingYou don’t have to rush what God is building. Your slow season is not a wasted season.👉 What’s one area of your life where you need to stop hurrying and start trusting? Drop it in the comments — I’d love to hear what part of your story you’re surrendering to God’s timing.🔔 Like, comment, and subscribe for more encouragement on mindset, personal growth, and learning to trust the process.#youarenotbehind #trusttheprocess #trustGodstiming #personalgrowth #selfhelp #comparisontrap #faithoverfearTransformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching More info at https://www.tomlahue.com/Social Media Links: https://linktr.ee/drtomlahueFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/twlahueTwitter: https://twitter.com/twlahueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/twlahue/Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahueAlso available on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyPatreon Supporters: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=20899026It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure! Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.#enneagram, EnneagramTypes, CliftonStrengthsFinder, PersonalityAssessment, self-discovery, Strengths-Based Development, Understanding Personality, Personal Growth, Enneagram Test Results, Unlock Your Potential, Mindfulness, SelfAwareness, SelfImprovement, LifeCoach, UnlockPotential, Motivation, strength, Relationships, love, soulmate, self-love, love yourself, intimacy, emotional connections, dating, communication, healthy relationships, true love, power of love, relationships, marriage, love language, love quotes, love tips, love and happiness, trust, love and relationships, love advice, unconditional love, happy, love, Myers-Briggs,

Apr 30, 2025 • 17min
The Secret to Staying Motivated (Even When You Don't Feel Like It)
Struggling to stay motivated? You’re not alone.In this video, we’ll explore the real secret to staying motivated even when you don’t feel like it — and it’s not what you think.Most people believe motivation comes first and action follows — but the truth is, action creates motivation.If you're feeling stuck, unmotivated, or inconsistent, this video will give you practical tools to get back on track and build unstoppable momentum.✅ Learn why motivation follows action, not the other way around✅ How discipline can carry you through when you don’t feel like it✅ Why imperfect progress matters more than perfection✅ A mindset shift that will help you push through low-energy daysYou don’t need to feel motivated to take action — you just need to take one small step.👉 What’s one small action you can take today — even if you’re not feeling it? Drop it in the comments and let’s cheer each other on!🔔 Like, comment, and subscribe for more videos on personal growth, daily motivation, and building habits that lead to real transformation.#motivation #selfdiscipline #staymotivated #takeaction #buildmomentum #selfhelpTransformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching More info at https://www.tomlahue.com/Social Media Links: https://linktr.ee/drtomlahueFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/twlahueTwitter: https://twitter.com/twlahueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/twlahue/Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahueAlso available on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyPatreon Supporters: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=20899026It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure! Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.#enneagram, EnneagramTypes, CliftonStrengthsFinder, PersonalityAssessment, self-discovery, Strengths-Based Development, Understanding Personality, Personal Growth, Enneagram Test Results, Unlock Your Potential, Mindfulness, SelfAwareness, SelfImprovement, LifeCoach, UnlockPotential, Motivation, strength, Relationships, love, soulmate, self-love, love yourself, intimacy, emotional connections, dating, communication, healthy relationships, true love, power of love, relationships, marriage, love language, love quotes, love tips, love and happiness, trust, love and relationships, love advice, unconditional love, happy, love, Myers-Briggs,

Apr 29, 2025 • 13min
How To Stop Overthinking and Start Taking Action
Are you tired of feeling stuck in overthinking?Today’s video is all about how to stop overthinking and start taking action — even when you don’t feel ready.Overthinking keeps you trapped. It convinces you that you need more time, more research, or more planning. But the truth is, clarity comes from movement, not more thinking.If you're ready to beat procrastination, get unstuck, and take real steps forward, this message is for you.✅ Learn why overthinking feels productive but keeps you stuck✅ How to create clarity through simple action✅ Why imperfect action is better than perfect inaction✅ How to break the cycle of procrastination and fearYou’ll figure it out faster by moving than by sitting still.👉 What’s one action you can take today that you've been overthinking for too long? Drop it in the comments — I’d love to hear what step you're taking!🔔 Like, comment, and subscribe for more encouragement on personal growth, beating procrastination, building confidence, and creating real momentum in your life.#stopoverthinking #takeaction #beatprocrastination #getunstuck #selfhelpTransformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching More info at https://www.tomlahue.com/Social Media Links: https://linktr.ee/drtomlahueFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/twlahueTwitter: https://twitter.com/twlahueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/twlahue/Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahueAlso available on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyPatreon Supporters: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=20899026It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure! Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.#enneagram, EnneagramTypes, CliftonStrengthsFinder, PersonalityAssessment, self-discovery, Strengths-Based Development, Understanding Personality, Personal Growth, Enneagram Test Results, Unlock Your Potential, Mindfulness, SelfAwareness, SelfImprovement, LifeCoach, UnlockPotential, Motivation, strength, Relationships, love, soulmate, self-love, love yourself, intimacy, emotional connections, dating, communication, healthy relationships, true love, power of love, relationships, marriage, love language, love quotes, love tips, love and happiness, trust, love and relationships, love advice, unconditional love, happy, love, Myers-Briggs,

Apr 28, 2025 • 13min
Why Your Small Daily Choices Matter More Than Big Dreams
Are you chasing big dreams but feeling stuck? The secret to real success isn’t found in giant leaps — it’s built in the small daily choices you make. In this video, we’ll talk about why small daily wins matter more than big dreams and how you can start creating real momentum in your life right now.Your future isn’t built in one big moment — it’s built one small decision at a time.Today’s the perfect day to take the next right step!✅ Learn how small habits shape your future✅ Why consistency beats motivation✅ How to stop feeling overwhelmed and start making progress✅ How to stay motivated even when no one else noticesIf you’re ready to build a stronger, better future one small win at a time, this video is for you!👉 What’s one small win you’re committing to today? Drop it in the comments — I’d love to hear from you!🔔 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more weekly encouragement and practical tips on personal growth, motivation, and mindset.#smallwins #motivation #dailyhabits #selfhelp #personaldevelopment #successmindsetTransformational Enneagram & Relationship Coaching More info at https://www.tomlahue.com/Social Media Links: https://linktr.ee/drtomlahueFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/twlahueTwitter: https://twitter.com/twlahueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/twlahue/Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tom-lahueAlso available on Apple Podcasts and SpotifyPatreon Supporters: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=20899026It's simple, Give if you want to and are able to...no pressure! Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College. He holds 3 Master's Degrees including an MDiv from Liberty Univ. His Doctoral degree is from Grace College and Seminary. He is also a certified Marriage Coach. He and his wife Traci have been married since 1991. They are the proud parents of 5 children and 5 grandchildren.#enneagram, EnneagramTypes, CliftonStrengthsFinder, PersonalityAssessment, self-discovery, Strengths-Based Development, Understanding Personality, Personal Growth, Enneagram Test Results, Unlock Your Potential, Mindfulness, SelfAwareness, SelfImprovement, LifeCoach, UnlockPotential, Motivation, strength, Relationships, love, soulmate, self-love, love yourself, intimacy, emotional connections, dating, communication, healthy relationships, true love, power of love, relationships, marriage, love language, love quotes, love tips, love and happiness, trust, love and relationships, love advice, unconditional love, happy, love, Myers-Briggs,

Apr 23, 2025 • 34min
The Unfiltered Enneagram: Type 9
Dive into the world of the Peacemaker personality type, where common traits like agreeability and passivity can mask deeper struggles. Explore how Type Nines often prioritize harmony at the expense of their own needs, leading to internal conflict and feelings of self-erasure. Discover the importance of asserting one’s presence and learning to say no, as well as the dangers of numbing emotions. Finally, gain practical steps for fostering self-awareness and engaging more authentically in relationships!


