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John Siracusa and Merlin Mann try to figure out exactly how they got this way. Hosted by Merlin Mann and John Siracusa.
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Jun 24, 2020 • 1h 21min
133: Shave Daddy
Someone has tampered with Merlin's bell, and John is looking forward to his "vacation."
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Links and Show Notes: This leads to an exploration of seemingly hippie-dippie workplace policies and how they actually get applied in practice. Especially for everyone who's not the boss.
In follow-up, John has an update on a recent addition to his home. Boy, they really wanna push those extra "features" on you, don’t they? No one should have to worry this much about water.
In further follow-up, Merlin has a huge update on something he finally persuaded his family to do for him. 🐱✂️
John has never seen Shark Tank.
Merlin is confused about the buttons on his keyboard, and John has thoughts on what’s in the actual code.
Merlin hates his clock. You can really tell when the people who make something don’t love it as much as you do.
John gets yet another free dingus, and Merlin loves him some surprise baby photos.
(Recorded on Tuesday, June 16, 2020)
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Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
Support Reconcilable Differences with a Relay FM Membership How to use clippers on men's hair - YouTube"This guide shows you how to use clippers on men's hair"
"Shark Tank" Episode #3.11 (TV Episode 2012) - IMDb Mark Sullivan Research YayText: A text styling tool for Facebook, Twitter, etc. Merlin Mann on Twitter: "@patbits Crazy part is the man WENT FOR IT. Took over an hour. What a Mensch. "So…you…uh…get many…customers…like me?" "No. This is the first time I've ever tried to cut a white person's hair." "Oh. Cool!" "Mmmm."" / Twitter Netflix "vacation policy" Reviews | Glassdoor The Downsides Of Unlimited Time Off That Netflix Won’t Tell You About – ThinkProgress Why We Ditched Our Unlimited Vacation Policy | Facet Ethics Explainer: The Panopticon - What is the panopticon effect?

Jun 10, 2020 • 1h 26min
132: Bigger in Three Dimensions Than I’ve Ever Been
In America, you are not allowed to hit back.
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Links and Show Notes: Black Lives Matter.
(Recorded on Tuesday, June 2, 2020)
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Support Reconcilable Differences with a Relay FM Membership Amazon.com Help: Timers Aren't Displaying on Echo Wall ClockIs your paired Echo device playing music in a Multi-Room Music group? If the paired device is playing music in a Multi-Room Music group, Echo Wall Clock alarms and timers don't work. To use alarms and timers with your clock, turn off Multi-Room Music playback.
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And if they are not confused, I would hate to think what they were doing."
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LBJ Orders Some New Haggar Pants | Miller Center The Technium: 68 Bits of Unsolicited Advice"If you are looking for something in your house, and you finally find it, when you’re done with it, don’t put it back where you found it. Put it back where you first looked for it."

May 28, 2020 • 1h 59min
131: The Past is a Grotesque Animal
For a main topic, John wants to talk about regrets, lost loves, and things that could have been different.
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Links and Show Notes: Things kick off with a review of recent household paper cuts. Breaking the AirPods Rule, not using the hand rail, and barely surviving the chute into the kill zone.
John hears the case of Merlin's exploding plumbing in order to adjudicate whether it constitutes an actual emergency. Service people are all about lead generation, but, John appreciates the input.
The consequent verdict leads to exploration of minimizing COVID attack vectors. Speaking of riding things out, again with John's toe. Just the one. Descript is also discussed.
John wants Merlin to talk about this, so he does. Witness his confessions.
(Recorded on Tuesday, May 19, 2020)
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Support Reconcilable Differences with a Relay FM Membership Ep. 381: "Slots in Some Imaginary Future" - Roderick on the Line - Merlin Mann of Montreal – The Past Is a Grotesque Animal Lyrics | Genius Lyrics Of Montreal - The Past Is A Grotesque Animal - YouTube Friends (1979 TV series) - Wikipedia A.I. Artificial Intelligence with David Rees — Blank Check with Griffin & David — Overcast Mortal coil - WikipediaTo "shuffle off this mortal coil" is to die, exemplified in the "To be, or not to be" soliloquy in Shakespeare's Hamlet.
Reconcilable Differences #20: Stove Vigilance - Relay FMThe main topic is trust your mechanic. How to survive working with the experts who diagnose and fix your problems. John's not a Dead Kennedys fan, and Merlin's just so irrationally mad about the state of his oven.
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Merlin Mann on Twitter: "A compilation from The Earliest Show: "Mouth Noises and What?!" https://t.co/iQ5kwg732u" / TwitterA compilation from The Earliest Show:
"Mouth Noises and What?!"
Merlin Mann on Twitter: "Found another awesome use for @DescriptApp: finding all the instances of a beloved catchphrase. https://t.co/LwxpuzDRox" / TwitterBlank Check catchphrases!
Merlin Mann on Twitter: "Okay, @MBMBaM-inos. I ran all ten "Bro's Better…" episodes (plus "The Sauce Doctor's Blessing") through my powerful new Boy Filter. Boy, oh, boy! https://t.co/9uAkfuLf3m" / TwitterMBMBaM boys compilation
Merlin Mann on Twitter: "I officially have a new hobby, I guess. https://t.co/DeRcGhAK31" / Twitter"He's from Maryland."
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May 13, 2020 • 1h 33min
130: Good Quorn
John asks Merlin to talk about why he loves improv comedy so much.
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Links and Show Notes: Quarantine updates, Banana Results, follow-up on John's sleep heat needs, and home improvement is also sheltered-in-place for now.
What part of your brain do you want scratched?
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Support Reconcilable Differences with a Relay FM Membership "Yes, and..." — EDMUND MITCHELL'"I want a divorce." Joan said. "Honey, what about the children!" Del said. "We don't have any children!" Joan replies.'
Harold (improvisation) - WikipediaThe form was further developed by improv teachers Del Close and Charna Halpern, as well as the Upright Citizens Brigade.
Improvisational theatre - Wikipedia'Well, you are about to start the greatest improvisation of all. With no script. No idea what's going to happen, often with people and places you have never seen before. And you are not in control. So say "yes." And if you're lucky, you'll find people who will say "yes" back.'
—Stephen Colbert
Status | improv, improvisational theater, comedy'Johnstone's "status", on the other hand, comes from the behavior of the characters in a specific encounter. He stresses that there is no neutral status.'
improv theater and comedyIn this wiki you will find games and exercises, but also other interesting things about improv. You can participate and bring in your own ideas.
Keith Johnstone | Improv Interviews | Status - YouTube Improv - The Office US - YouTube Out-of-band data - Wikipedia"An out-of-band data mechanism provides a conceptually independent channel, which allows any data sent via that mechanism to be kept separate from in-band data."
What is the difference between sketch comedy and improv? - Quora'Some groups (Second City, most notably) will use improv as a basis for their sketch. They will present a show of improv for the purpose of gleaning material which can be worked up into viable sketches. It should be noted that this is not "sketch-based improv," but "improv-derived sketch." While the improv is used as a launching point for the sketch, it does not make the sketch improv.'
Quote by Christopher Marlowe: “Mephistopheles: Why, this is hell, nor am I out...”"Why, this is hell, nor am I out of it."
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Apr 29, 2020 • 1h 35min
129: Chocolate and Toy Story
How do you get your family to watch really good movies?
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Links and Show Notes: Things kick off with Merlin bemoaning John's emerging role as his primary existential creditor. John reminds Merlin that all that grinding is just continually sharpening him.
In follow-up, your hosts thank the many, many listeners who remembered the movie that John and Merlin clearly could not. Turns out, it was not "Batman." Or "The Notebook."
This leads naturally into a main topic that pulls together a bunch of previously discussed topics: how do you get your family to watch really good movies? Like, high-quality movies. Not bad movies, but good movies. As we all know, John is a tough rater, but his diligence has paid off. Merlin's kid hasn't shown much interest in The Godfather.
We learn that John has given Merlin his pasta sauce recipe, but Merlin hasn't tried to make it yet, and, when he does, he'll probably do it wrong. Related: do not ask for John's pasta sauce recipe, because it is not supported.
Finally, John may have discovered a Secret Weird Thing about bananas, which—you guessed it—leads to more homework for Merlin.
(Recorded on Tuesday, April 21, 2020)
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Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
Support Reconcilable Differences with a Relay FM Membership Good Will Hunting | ‘The Best Part of My Day’ (HD) - Ben Affleck, Matt Damon | MIRAMAX - YouTube Conan The Barbarian: What is best in life...? - YouTube Scott Simpson on Twitter: "Rotten Tomatoes Decoder" A Man's Life: The Complete Instructions: Boyles, Denis: 9780060951412: AmazonSmile: Books Amazon.com: Deceptively Delicious: Simple Secrets to Get Your Kids Eating Good Food (9780061767937): Seinfeld, Jessica: Books 5by5 | The Talk Show #57: The Banana Window"On this special episode recorded while Dan was still on paternity leave, John is joined by guest host Merlin Mann. Merlin and John discuss Vegas, Disney, Pixar and more!"

Apr 17, 2020 • 1h 5min
128: Ciao, Francesco Rinaldi!
The guys end up talking about the confusingly-titled resurrection of Merlin's old podcast. John has questions, and Merlin does his best to respond.
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Links and Show Notes: Things kick off with John describing an unknown movie in bullets and Merlin thinking it sounds a little like Batman. Of course, this just ends up leading to John chiding Merlin for not utilizing his quarantine time to finish his long-overdue homework.
Sometimes, you wanna give yourself a blue ocean, even if you never end up changing very much. Much like Neil Peart said.
This leads to a nostalgic stroll through the before times of the internet. Back when you had to buy all the misspellings and just hope you came up high on AltaVista. Also, what comes after Google? Man, the web used to be such a primitive, ugly affair. Time was, putting a field and two buttons on a web page was some pretty radical stuff. Brand names and regional fizzy drink appellations are briefly debated.
Finally, the baked ziti topic somehow also rises from the dead. And, John is still affronted that Merlin feeds his family that execrable swill from a jar.
(Recorded on Tuesday, April 7, 2020)
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Music: Merlin Mann
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Apr 2, 2020 • 1h 43min
127: Advice Nurse
In a main topic, your hosts try to share some ideas on sustainably working remotely from home
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Links and Show Notes: On top of all the sheltering-in-place, John is nursing a new injury, and Merlin doesn't love hearing it described at all. This leads to some medical technology discussion plus an on-air debriding agent demo.
History and experience can be pretty good teachers, but working yourself to a damaged nub is a terrible game for the young and should be considered harmful.
And, then there's the technology we use to stay connected and the managers who need to manage. Were you aware that Tom totally knows Craig Chaquico?
Listen, team, there are going to be a lot of adjustments, but also some great opportunities. We swear.
Hang in there, stay inside, and please take care of yourselves.
(Recorded on Tuesday, March 24, 2020)
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Support Reconcilable Differences with a Relay FM Membership Craig Chaquico - Wikipedia Dr. Pascarelli's Complete Guide to Repetitive Strain Injury: What You Need to Know About RSI and Carpal Tunnel Syndrome: Pascarelli M.D., Emil: 9780471388432: Amazon.com: Books Accidental Clicking"John Siracusa joins me to discuss RSI in depth, drawing on both of our experiences we look at what works, what doesn’t and why you should care. Keyboards, trackpads, trackballs, mice, chairs, we cover it all."

Mar 20, 2020 • 1h 55min
126: Social Distancing
What makes for a good car movie?
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Links and Show Notes: Things kick off with some soap talk, and then there's a deep dive into the current state of…things. Stay home, friends.
There's some follow-up on Billy Joel Results.
John thinks it's different for car people, and Merlin saw a Tesla. Sometimes, it can be difficult to enjoy media that gets details you care about wrong.
For homework, please watch FX on Hulu's Devs.
(Recorded on Tuesday, March 10, 2020)
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Mar 5, 2020 • 1h 42min
125: You Can't Hang a Graduation on the Wall
The main topic is the career and oeuvre of New York resident, William Martin Joel.
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Links and Show Notes: This week kicks off with some virus talk. Merlin is worried that we've lost the recipe for ice, and John is feeling very cynical. Don't worry about the giant barrel full of explosives; the water will cushion that. John remembers chicken pox parties, but Merlin is confused about exactly how a quarantine works.
In follow-up, your hosts wrap up their (mostly spoiler-free) discussion of Cheer. As it turns out, cheerleaders are kind of a lot like soldiers, and you really wanna be on the lookout for those entrepreneurial dads. Merlin dreams of typewriters. John requests an update on Millennium Actress progress.
When John was growing up, Billy Joel was everywhere and was a lot like Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer. Then, John left Long Island.
There is some disagreement about whether Billy ever technically got "big," but you gotta know that the man is a very gifted melodicist. John wonders how he would function in a Beatles-like band, and Merlin just really loves those bridges. John seems to kind of envy Billy's helicopter lifestyle.
(Recorded on Sunday, March 1, 2020)
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Support Reconcilable Differences with a Relay FM Membership Yesterday's Enterprise (episode) | Memory Alpha | FandomWhile investigating a temporal rift, the Enterprise encounters a ghost from its own past - the USS Enterprise-C, which travels twenty two years into the future and changes the course of history.
Billy Joel discography - Wikipedia Billy Joel Lyrics, Songs, and Albums | Genius Billy Joel Biography | Billy Joel Official SiteHaving sold more than 150 million records, Billy Joel ranks as one of most popular recording artists and respected entertainers in the world. Throughout the years, Joel’s songs have acted as personal and cultural touchstones for millions of people, mirroring his own goal of writing songs that “meant something during the time in which I lived … and transcended that time.”
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Feb 19, 2020 • 1h 41min
124: Figures of Action
Some back-door Secret Weird Things People Do about the cadences that trigger stuff in your head.
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Links and Show Notes: Merlin is healing just as John is getting sick. Merlin has chained several bad decisions, and John has concerns about Merlin's office wall. John has moved some things around in the doc.
In follow-up, John has acquired some Studio Ghibli from iTunes and reports back. This leads to further discussion of the beauty of Miyazaki films and a consideration of what makes them so special. Are the roles of filmmakers similar to the work of comics artists? What if you're just not a fan of currently fashionable inking techniques?
Hollow bones.
Your hosts talk about the new Netflix show, Cheer. They could have gone a lot of directions, but we can all agree that there are many, many injuries to be had.
Next up, a recent Roderick on the Line conversation leads to a consideration of the voice in your head alongside the ability to visualize. Consciousness is very difficult to discuss.
John thinks Merlin definitely doesn't have an actual photographic memory. And she's loving him with that body, I just know it.
(Recorded on Tuesday, February 10, 2020)
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Music: Merlin Mann
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Support Reconcilable Differences with a Relay FM Membership The Incomparable | A Real Imaginary Friend (Episode 194)Grab your black cat and portable radio, climb on your mom’s broomstick, and join us for a king-sized discussion of Hayao Miyazaki’s classic animated film “Kiki’s Delivery Service.” This film features a climactic scene featuring an out-of-control dirigible, so you know we love it.
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