

Reconcilable Differences
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John Siracusa and Merlin Mann try to figure out exactly how they got this way. Hosted by Merlin Mann and John Siracusa.
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Mar 27, 2026 • 1h 46min
283: Famous in My Head
They unpack a memorable shooting-star scene and what it reveals about luck and character. They hunt down elusive behind‑the‑scenes YouTube gems and explain how those clips dodge takedowns. They riff on wordy names that read like sentences and gripe about cringy Oscars audio. They finish with a deep dive into R.E.M.: punctuation, ambiguous lyrics, mixtape rituals, and favorite records.

Mar 13, 2026 • 1h 42min
282: Sadness Accrues
They riff on wordplay and linguistic curiosities like contronyms and retronyms. John breaks down dishwasher air gaps and plumbing alternatives. Merlin unveils a DIY trash-crushing apparatus, covering design, prototyping, and clever chute ideas. They also geek out about laminar flow, Epcot fountains, and playful Rube Goldberg-style extensions.

Feb 27, 2026 • 1h 36min
281: I’m the Hero
They debate what counts as a sink hole and compare designs, drain boards, and weird soap dispenser setups. They troubleshoot pumping tube hacks, 3D-print adapter ideas, and air-switch disposal concerns. They tinker with tiny working Mac projects and muse about scale versus authenticity. They swap contact-naming systems, voice assistant gripes, and kitchen timer rituals while riffing on language and productivity satire.

Feb 12, 2026 • 1h 47min
280: How Dangerous I Can Be
They geek out over RFCs, machine-naming rituals, and the early web tools that shaped their curiosity. They argue about agents that write code, prompt engineering, and how half-baked skills can be dangerous. Practical tinkering appears in a long dive into sink holes, soap dispensers, and clever repurposing ideas. Side threads touch on passkeys, tiny sites, and the Australian Open 1 Point Slam.

Jan 30, 2026 • 2h 21min
279: I Promised Myself I Wasn't Going to Be Excited
They riff on air fryers: choices, cooking tips, what to avoid, cleanup, and kitchen fit. They dive into Claude Code and LLM tooling, installing CLI tools, and using agents to prototype web tools. Automation and workflows get attention: transcription, media renaming, home server integrations, and using text-file project rules to make repeatable automations.

Jan 16, 2026 • 1h 38min
278: You’re a Dingleberry
Subtitle: “I am the oven now.”Merlin shares his Large Appliance Results.
(Recorded on Tuesday, January 6, 2026)
Links and Show Notes: Credits
Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
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10 Apple TV Tips from Stephen Robles - YouTube Princess telephone - Wikipedia Trimline telephone - Wikipedia Five products so over-engineered, they're actually kinda worse, by Zack Freedman - YouTube Zack Freedman’s 3D Filament Tier List - YouTube Jumperless V5The next generation jumperless breadboard.
Colin M. Ford's screenshot of the “Writing Direction” menu items’ icons in iPadOS “The Staten Island of San Francisco” - jwz.org Merlin’s big toaster oven: the Breville BOV900BSSUSC John’s favorite toaster over: the Breville BOV650XL The smallest Breville toaster over: the BOV450XL Lawn Darts from the 1980s - Reddit Aerobie - Wikipedia Raclette - Wikipedia Raclette grill mistakenly placed in the wrong orientation Old Trapper beef jerky Fight Club (1999) Demotivators from despair.com Meetings: None of us is as dumb as all of us Merlin Mann: Who moved my brain? - YouTube Midnight Commander Tautulli for Plex Blu Lights (2023) season 1 - Wikipedia Downstream #107: A Thanksgiving Visit from Alan Sepinwall The Wire - Wikipedia Nicola Coughlan - Wikipedia Nicola Coughlan on The Graham Norton Show - YouTube Richard Dormer - Wikipedia Merlin’s Trakt.tv list: The Troubles & Northern Ireland Siân Brooke - Wikipedia Taylor Tomlinson - Wikipedia Kelsey Cook - Wikipedia The Troubles, by U2 - YouTube Watching TV Makes You Smarter - The New York Times"The total number of active threads equals the multiple plots of "Hill Street," but here each thread is more substantial. The show doesn't offer a clear distinction between dominant and minor plots; each story line carries its weight in the mix."
7 - WikipediaMost people in Continental Europe, Indonesia, and some in Britain, Ireland, Israel, Canada, and Latin America, write 7 with a line through the middle (7), sometimes with the top line crooked
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Jan 2, 2026 • 1h 21min
277: A Comma for Christmas
John showcases a unique MacLock clock, igniting a debate on the build quality and accuracy of collectible toys. They delve into why enthusiasts are willing to spend big for perfectly scaled replicas. The duo discusses the charm of LEGO, contrasting open-ended play with structured builds, while reminiscing about creating memories with their kids. Laughter ensues as they explore the quirks of mass-produced figures and the joy of classic pixel art. A blend of nostalgia, craftsmanship, and parenting tales keeps the conversation lively and engaging.

Dec 19, 2025 • 1h 38min
276: Fact Bobby
The hosts dive into accents and unique regional terms, exploring how language evolves. They compare their internal dialogues and discuss how musicality influences their thoughts. Childhood memories of swing physics lead to playful reminiscing. A deep dive into Google's Gemini reveals mixed results in email searches, highlighting AI's limitations and misinterpretations. The conversation circles back to the importance of trust in technology, underscoring the need for reliable AI continuity and understanding.

Dec 5, 2025 • 1h 3min
275: Horse Magician League
This conversation dives into the curious case of a dog allegedly causing a shooting, sparking a witty critique of media narratives. The hosts discuss the pitfalls of ambiguous police language and debate the shooter’s accountability. They explore innovative dog-training tech and potential uses for a wireless button designed for pets. In gaming, the dynamics of cooperation versus competition in Arc Raiders are examined, along with personal achievements and the mechanics driving gameplay. Expect plenty of banter on billionaires and cultural quirks!

Nov 21, 2025 • 1h 26min
274: The Floor for People
The hosts dive into the unusual social mechanics of a video game, exploring how scarcity and risk shape player behavior. They discuss the emergence of cooperation over conflict in gaming and share personal anecdotes about parenting through outdated technologies. A humorous recounting of naked swimming in '21 Jump Street' adds a nostalgic touch. They also compare different gaming economies, revealing how mechanics influence player interactions and highlight a unique approach to designing game cultures.


