The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast

The masculine essence is the search for ultimate embodied freedom. No constraints, no limitations, no BS. Yet, until a man has the courage to embrace the reality of death, no such freedom will ever enter his lived experience. Embracing death reveals an urgency to engage with warrior intensity and courage in your life leaving no regret behind you as you move forward.You are invited into a deeply intimate episode where Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher reveals deep insights and reflections from his own personal journey in sharing space with a loved one as they return home to their spiritual essence nearing the end of their physical life. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic Husbands

The inner hell of suppressed fears and unspoken shame is revealed in the mirror of sickness, old age and death where we cannot escape any longer. You can run but you cannot hide, catches up with every man alive. The greatest opportunity to living and dying without regret is embracing the great mission you were born to lead, the message you are here to spread, or mark you desire to make in the world. Following the dictates of your heart will however reveal all undealt with fears you have imprisoned in the recesses of your mind. Yet, man’s greatest freedom lies beyond the gauntlet of his worst inner fears. Kings of Freedom, embrace the storm of inner hell face on, stride forward valiantly into the unknown and exit victorious the far side. Then, tomorrow morning they jump out of bed to start again.Reach out to JC and find out about his amazing Vegan Safari revolution at Air Safaris - Homepage (jcdeklerk.com)Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic Husbands

There is no escaping the bondage of mediocrity without receiving direct feedback as a man. Powerful men seek and receive direct feedback from their military commander, their CEO, their Black Belt instructor, their fitness or sports coach. Yet, it is only a true King who dares to seek and receive direct, ferocious feedback from his Queen. This episode is a direct masculine challenge to step into true Kingship in your deep intimate relationship with your Queen. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic Husbands

We have grown up in a society conditioning us to become pseudo-authentic men arguing for our truth when in reality we are mere social sheep unconsciously submitting to external authorities. Authority and Authentic have the same root as AUTHOR. To write your own true magnificent hero's story on your way to living and dying without regret, you must have total clarity on what Radical Authenticity is and how to embody it in an ocean of pseudo-authentic men.  Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic Husbands

The first twelve years of my marriage were characterised by arguments circling around one topic: I wasn't emotionally available as a man. I had no idea what being emotionally available meant, what it was to "feel into my woman" and understand what lay underneath her words. Deep down I felt broken, like emotionality was missing in my nervous system.It would take me staring down the cliff face of marital breakdown to finally transform my inner world and reawaken my Kingly emotionality and sensitivity.This episode details my journey, what I've learned, and how you can show up fearlessly in intimacy too. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic Husbands

In a world that traps us in the role of being professional to climb the career ladder and be accepted within our work culture, men's profound Kingly truth is being eroded. Covering up your profound truth has an enormous cost on limiting your fearless freedom of expression and authenticity. One unspoken cost of becoming hyper professional is that this overly rational state becomes deeply repulsive for your Queen or fellow King in deep intimacy.  Let's dig in deeper.....Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic Husbands

The mediocre man has a long list of rituals he does whenever the busyness of his life opens up time to do so.The King has a short list of high leverage habits he structured his entire life around.To access your capacity to live and die without regret as a man, you must first understand the distinction between rituals and habit. Enjoy #1 in special Habit Formation Mastery series.Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic Husbands

One of the most common shadow sides to modern married men is the Mr Nice Guy persona. Continually wanting to please the feminine for fear of feeling rejected by her, he has unwittingly lost contact with his masculine core. As a result he has become untrustworthy to his woman and to other men. So often saying Yes externally when he is suppressing an inner growling No, he ends up harbouring unspoken resentment. Let's begin the unmasking....    Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic Husbands

One of the universally conditioned roles put upon modern men is that of being the "serious man". A man who honourably navigates the inherently stressful storms and complexities of modern life to daily victory, by gritting his teeth and getting to hell on with the serious work of living. Humour, joy, bliss, playfulness, unbridled laughter and any other socially unacceptable emotional states incongruent with being a serious man are relics of the by-gone era of youth. Yet this role, assassinates the Wild essence of the man; the badass Kingly intuitive wisdom that knows the illusory BS nature of all this seriousness dies in the silence.Bring back the Fearless Freedom of your essence by leaning into this ancient Taoist wisdom to reconnect with the sweet spot of flow in your life! Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic Husbands

HINAS: Hope Is Not A Strategy, has become a popular term within peak performance and business mindset circles. It points to a truth yet, it remains incomplete. The "I Hope" words spoken by most people does cut them off from their greatest power to create. However, there is a radically different view that by consciously creating what I call Strategic Heroic Hope you can unleash x240 to 1M+ times your energy of engagement on your path to your manifesting your highest vision as reality. It involves three simple steps. Let's begin... Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic Husbands