The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast

The cultural shaming of desire has created one of the most destructive unspoken forces poisoning marriages in the modern era.  Our primal body loves the radically alive feeling that desire in it’s broadest sense affords us, including but not limited to it’s expression in sexual intimacy. Yet, the culturally conditioned collective mindset of humanity has been indoctrinated into believing desire is somehow wrong. It's time to open our minds up to a spiritually centred perspective on desire that allows us show up as the love liberating beings we were born to be. Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

A sad tragedy of modern living is that 99% of husbands are feeling lonely in marriage and life. We men are missing the spiritual nourishment of genuine deep connection with other men and often our marriages are unwittingly taking a destructive hit because of this. The subconscious boy energy patterns of neediness see our wives as the only source of love. This breeds the common catchphrase, “can’t live with her, can’t live without her”. Almost all men suffer feelings of resentment and rejection when their wives don’t meet their attachment needs in the moment.  This episode introduces a simple but profound exercise you can do immediately to deepen your emotional resiliency in life and marriage.   By deepening your roots of brotherly love and support around you, you become the unfuckwithable mountain of love and presence your Queen has only fantasised about! Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

The great feminine emotional wound is fearing abandonment in love. Unwittingly most husbands trigger this wound in deeply emotional moments with their wives by trying to suggest a fix or solution to the problem. The counter-intuitive trick to fixing a shitty feeling emotional moment your wife is experiencing is by meeting her there fully in that moment. In this episode I share a list of high leverage words to say that will be medicine for your Queen’s soul to relax into knowing her Conscious King is on duty. Let’s begin…. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

This episode comes off the back of an intimate relationship wisdom bomb dropped by Duey Freeman during my recent conversation with him. In these four simple words, you will have access to a high-leverage means to meet your Queen’s core feminine desire for union in love and sooth the core feminine emotional wound of abandonment. I’ve played with this four-word phrase with my Queen for weeks to extraordinary effect, having her chuckle in delight in light moments to softening into tears from feeling seen in tough moments. If you want a marriage experience that’s infinitely more fun to navigate, listen, and listen well ; )Let’s begin…. The episode with Duey:Be The Husband She Brags About / The 3 Most Important Words In Intimate Relationships with Duey Freeman (audioboom.com) Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

In this episode we welcome back in Shea Fairbanks. Emerging from a childhood of immensely traumatising events, for years Shea would use alcohol to help numb the pain. Out of the ashes he would rise up to break free not only from alcoholism, but to create a life of epic freedom and uncommonly high levels of radical health and vitality. Shea is an Alcohol Free Performance Coach and passionate advocate for a sober lifestyle. With a background in human performance and a large focus on performance breathwork, Shea is guiding clients to radically elevate their health by focusing on vitality and longevity. A core part of his work is aligning men with their purpose and highest potential.To connect with Shea:Shea Fairbanks (@shea.fairbanks) • Instagram photos and videosAlcohol Free Performance Coach (@shea.fairbanks) | TikTokBlack Sheep Masterminds Black Sheep Masterminds (@blacksheepmasterminds) • Instagram photos and videos Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

I ate humble pie recently when parenting expert Dan Peterson came on the show. Entering the interview with Dan, I felt I had the parenting game in the bag. Dan’s reflections ripped this hood of arrogance off my eyes leaving me staring at major blind spots I had been unable to see.  In today’s episode I share personal experiences in breaking up my arrogant ass parenting style immediately after I interviewed Dan. Dan’s three steps to consciously parent challenging kids has changed the game for me since speaking with him just three weeks ago.   To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here: Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.meI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Few men have lived with such radical masculine inner and outer freedom of expression than Alex McAfee. Enjoy this rip-roaring ride through his inner and outer world adventures as he details his process of navigating life’s chapters while remaining true to his authentic self.  It's the type of radical challenge we need set down to us as husbands to make sure we empty our fullest spiritual music into the arena of life while we are still here. Are you ready to pay the price to own your fullest, unapologetic freedom as a man? Hell YES! Of course you are, you’re a King!!! Let’s begin….  To connect with Alex: Conrad Cushions - Meditation Cushions for Modern WorldFast & Light - Los Angeles Digital Agency (fastandlight.agency)Alex McAfee (@mcafeeme) • Instagram photos and videos To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here: Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.meI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

How you look is how you see.  Marriage transformation can only happen when you bring into direct question how your mind looks on at your marriage. From one habitual perspective, it creates a loop of only seeing one possible reality, thus recreating the same reality. This is only an issue if you don’t like the reality that’s showing up for you in marriage. Most guys don’t like their married life reality so we all need to take a deeper look at our perspective. The simple-to-grasp paradigm shift presented within this episode changes everything for the better…..but only if you have the spiritual balls to go with it’s radical simplicity. Let’s begin….  Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic Husbands

The experience of depression in marriage makes it a brutally painful and connection eroding experience for the couples involved. Yet, like every aspect of modern life, the experience we live out is determined by the social story we've been conditioned to believe. What if the story we've been told about our human experience of profound unrelenting sadness is the source of our cycle of disempowerment and hopelessness?And what if there's a fresh perspective that can support us liberating our hearts from this blackness and the hearts of those around us? There is such a fresh and new perspective.Let's begin....To connect with Mark: Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here. Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here: Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.meI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast