

The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast
Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini
Does your marriage feel like a war of unmet wants?
We know how this feels.
Follow our conversation in The He Wants She Wants Marriage Podcast. We’ll help you both get what you want in marriage so you never have to feel at war again.
Hosted by relationship coaches, and husband and wife, Mark Usher and Matilde Crocini.
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Aug 22, 2024 • 29min
201: What Uncommonly Wise Husbands Do When Their Queens Seek Praise and Validation
Husbands are meant to be solid oak trees.Husbands need to treat their wives as sublimely beautiful flowers. Your understanding of this energetic distinction is tested every time your wife seeks your praise and validation. Get it right, marriage is easy. Get it wrong, marriage is hard. Don’t skip this episode! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Aug 15, 2024 • 39min
200: The Little Known Most Important Masculine Rule In Masculine-Feminine Relating
The main reason us husbands are unnecessarily suffering in marriage is that nobody taught us the most important rule of the game of masculine-feminine attraction.Without Knowing the #1 Most Important Masculine Rule in Marriage, you will never enjoy the experience of marriage. If you're ready to become a legendary player in the game of marriage, this episode's for you.Let's begin.... Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Aug 8, 2024 • 51min
199: The 1 Surprising Strategy For Evoking A River of Her Praise and Validation
As humans, we have a deep psychological need to feel validation.Husbands subconsciously try to get this need met by their wives in ways that unwittingly repulses their feminine core.This episode simplifies the battle-field with the one strategy every husband needs to know.Let's begin.Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jul 31, 2024 • 1h 14min
198: The 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Wives Need, Love and Trust
There is a secret code to becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship. It involves embodying three simple to understand and integrate leadership characteristics. If you want to eliminate stress, struggle and stagnation and start winning BIG in married life, then buckle up and enjoy! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jul 25, 2024 • 57min
197: Without Doing Shadow Work She’ll Never Trust You As Her King
Your Queen can only trust you when you are an embodied Mountain in the Storm. Shadow Work is where boys become men, and men become Kings. If you are in the octagon of marriage and desire to live and die without regret, this episode is a must. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jul 18, 2024 • 59min
196: 3 Essential Steps To Rebuilding Your Marriage After Your Wife’s Infidelity
A wife cheating can be a brutal blow for any man. The fog of hurt, blame and shame blinds the path forward. This episode brings radical no-BS clarity as to how you must approach this challenge if you desire to rebuild an awesome marriage built on rock solid trust and unshakeable respect. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jul 10, 2024 • 1h 5min
195: 3 Rules To Stop Resenting Your Wife And Confidently Master The Infinite Game of Marriage
Us magnificent men have been wrongly conditioned into believing marriage is a finite game. This leads to men relating to their wife as a ball on chain and marriage becomes Same-Sh1t-Different-Day. Yet, when men realise the rules of transforming marriage into an infinite game, everything changes for the better…forever! Married life becomes a blank canvass where life just keeps getting better with both of you knowing the best has yet to come. Get ready for your marriage mindset to be rocked to it’s core for the better! Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jul 4, 2024 • 49min
194: This Uncommon Insight Helps Husbands Enjoy Unlimited Radical Authentic Freedom in Marriage and Life
Being authentic and real is the heart essence of mans search in life. But WTF does being authentic actually mean? Until you have radical clarity on what a term means, your brain has no idea how to bring it to life. This episode simplifies authenticity in a way that will become the master key to creating the most amazing marriage and life you ever dreamed of. Let’s begin….. Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jul 3, 2024 • 1h 16min
193: "Marriage Transformation Hero" Special Series with Jak Houghton
Jak Houghton is our latest Marriage Transformation Hero from Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles. Jak leads with radical transparency on overcoming his initial intense emotional struggles to surfacing as a masculine force to be reckoned with in marriage and parenting. He drops practical wisdom bombs throughout that will inspire you to your next level. Enjoy a humorous and emotional rollercoaster conversation that will have you exit with radical hope in your capacity to transform your marriage too! Let’s begin… Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan? Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOWWant the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?Coaching - Heroic HusbandsDon’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:Community Platform - Heroic HusbandsI want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover. Send Mark voice message NowTo connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work: Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

10 snips
Jun 27, 2024 • 40min
192: 10 Super Simple To Implement Romantic Gestures Rational Minded Men Can Light Up Their Queens Hearts With
Explore ten simple romantic gestures that can reignite passion in your marriage without taking much time. Discover the power of small acts like love notes and appreciation messages that deepen emotional intimacy. Learn how everyday actions can strengthen connections and transform your relationship. Dive into the importance of prioritizing your partner and embracing vulnerability to foster a thriving, joyful home life. These quick, impactful ideas promise a genuine return on investment in love!


