Sons of Patriarchy
Peter Bell & Sarah Bader
What happens when biblical patriarchy, christian nationalism, and a theology of authority and submission become the pillars of a movement? Scores of abuse stories in marriages, schools, churches, families, and more. Though these ideas have filtered throughout the United States for decades, they found a home in Moscow, Idaho, through the ministry and work of Doug Wilson. From there, they have influenced churches across the United States, and across the world.
In this series, you'll hear from experts on all aspects of these movements, and the stories of abuse from those who survived. Some are Christian, some are not, but one thing they've got in common?
They're finally speaking out.
This is their story.
In this series, you'll hear from experts on all aspects of these movements, and the stories of abuse from those who survived. Some are Christian, some are not, but one thing they've got in common?
They're finally speaking out.
This is their story.
Episodes
Mentioned books
Apr 10, 2025 • 55min
The Reformed Church and Abuse
The guest, a pastor's daughter and abuse survivor from a Reformed community, shares her harrowing personal story of sexual abuse and the challenges of recovery. She critiques the damaging responses of churches and emphasizes the importance of trauma-informed care. Discussing the pervasive culture of silence within her community, she calls for churches to prioritize victim support over institutional reputation. Highlighting the need for trained professionals and proper reporting, she champions a movement towards creating safer spaces for healing and accountability.
Apr 3, 2025 • 42min
The Gospel against Christian Nationalism
Mihai Corcea, a URCNA minister planting a church in Bucharest and a Westminster California graduate, dives into the complexities of Romanian church life. He critiques the rise of Christian nationalism, especially the influence of Doug Wilson in Romania. Mihai discusses the historical context of Christendom, the pitfalls of pursuing a Christian state, and the appeal of patriarchal teachings rooted in Romania's cultural legacy. He offers pastoral guidance for those drawn to these movements, emphasizing a return to confessional standards and gospel-centered ministry.
Mar 27, 2025 • 52min
Doug Wilson in New Zealand
A New Zealand-based church member and parent shares her thoughts on Doug Wilson's writings and theology. She reflects on her initial encounters with Wilson, discussing the varied influence of his ideas in New Zealand churches. Key topics include her shifting views on women's roles, critiques of Wilson's public behavior, and troubling allegations related to community responses to abuse. The conversation emphasizes a need for nurturing pastoral care and highlights healthier resources for women, aiming for a more supportive church environment.
Mar 22, 2025 • 1h 20min
Cinematic Doctrine: Welcome to Leith
Peter Bell, a producer and host focused on church abuse and authority, discusses the documentary 'Welcome to Leith.' He draws intriguing parallels between its themes of radicalism and his work. Peter critiques weaponized theology and highlights the importance of survivor bravery in truth-telling. He examines the impact of trauma on communities and the internet's role in radicalization. The conversation delves into the ongoing effects of extremist ideologies, urging proactive support for survivors in rebuilding safe spaces and communal trust.
Mar 20, 2025 • 40min
The Signs Your Church Might Be A Cult
Bethany Yancey, an expert in the Psychology of Coercive Control and founder of Free From Control Consulting, dives deep into the signs that a church may be a cult. She defines coercive control and highlights its subtle tactics, like isolation and psychological manipulation. Bethany discusses how individuals can be lured into high-control groups and the impact of patriarchal frameworks on recruitment. She also explores the psychological effects on both men and women, emphasizing the importance of support for those leaving such environments.
Mar 15, 2025 • 1h 6min
Preacher Boys
Eric Skwarczynski, host of the Preacher Boys podcast, delves into the harrowing realities of abuse within the Independent Fundamental Baptist movement. He shares his personal experiences that sparked his journey into exposing these issues, including the alarming moment he discovered an accused abuser at his youth church. Discussing the emotional toll of survivor stories, Eric emphasizes the need for empathy while navigating skepticism toward anti-abuse advocacy within church leadership. His powerful message to survivors encourages them that they are not alone in their struggles.
Mar 13, 2025 • 49min
The Idolatry of Politics
David Koyzis, a political theorist and author, dives into the interplay between faith and politics. He argues that political ideologies can become modern-day idols, urging Christians to examine their own beliefs critically. Koyzis dissects the strengths and weaknesses of conservatism, nationalism, and socialism, emphasizing the risks of partisanship. He advocates for a rethinking of political engagement, urging local involvement and a pluralistic perspective to foster healthier civic and religious lives.
Mar 6, 2025 • 38min
Trauma and Healing in the Church
In this thought-provoking discussion, Chuck DeGroat, a professor and counselor specializing in spiritual abuse, explores the complex issues surrounding trauma and healing within the church. He defines spiritual and emotional abuse, highlighting the often invisible harm caused by misused power. Chuck shares insights on why women are particularly vulnerable and addresses the stigma men face when discussing their experiences. He outlines practical steps for those in abusive systems and emphasizes the importance of healthy church cultures, concluding with a focus on generational healing.
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Mar 3, 2025 • 1h 9min
Season 1 Post-Mortem with Sarah Stankorb, Kristen Kobes Du Mez, and Russell Moore
Kristen Kobes Du Mez, historian and author known for her insights on evangelicalism, joins investigative reporter Sarah Stankorb and public theologian Russell Moore. They dive deep into the troubling intertwining of church, politics, and abuse in evangelical spaces. Topics include the impact of Christian nationalism, the necessity of supporting survivors of abuse, and the alarming trends of women leaving churches. They discuss the church's future, warning against moral complacency and the importance of speaking truth in a landscape rife with power dynamics.
Feb 27, 2025 • 2h 58min
Christ Church Santa Clarita
In this compelling discussion, an anonymous woman shares her traumatic experiences of abuse within her marriage and at Christ Church Santa Clarita, emphasizing the need for her daughter's safety. Her son adds depth, revealing the toxic church culture and its impact on their family. Retired pastor Ray Davis offers insights into the inadequacies of church leadership in addressing these serious concerns. They tackle themes of institutional neglect, the struggle for accountability, and the isolation faced by victims seeking help in a community that prioritizes appearances over care.
