Soul Led Living Podcast with Nikki Novo

Have you ever had a friend call you out on your shit? The kind of friend who reminds you to stop feeling bad for yourself.Veronica Grant had that friend. And this friend reminded her that she was awesome, but had a habit of wanting to be validated by outside sources — aka, a guy. Ultimately, Veronica armed herself with tools to kick the habit of down playing her worth. She found herself a partner who valued her, and then decided to teach other women how to do the same. These days, Veronica is a love-life coach and a dating podcaster helping women everywhere find love in feely kinda way. Veronica joined me today on the podcast to share her wisdom on how to move from dating overwhelm to dating success. We explained how we kick the habit of people pleasing, get over the fear of rejection, and use the feeling of loneliness for good. What we cover:Integrating the spiritual tools you know to change your lifeHow to get over the fear of rejectionDating as a people pleaserTaking a look at why you're attracting what you're attractingResources: Veronica’s WebsiteVeronica’s InstagramVeronica’s PodcastVeronica's free trainingThe Intuitive Dating Method with Nikki Novo

Changing our beliefs in order to get to where we want, isn't a new concept. But I know so many of you are trying to believe good things are coming, or that you're worthy, or that there are still good people out there. I know you're trying, but why doesn't it always stick?In today's episode, we're going to dig into some of the material in Chapter 5 of "The Final Swipe," where I talk about how to change your beliefs in a way that feels good. Get your notebook ready, because you're going to want to remember this one. Resources: High-Vibe Dating Group Coaching The Final Swipe Book Soul Seeker- My course designed to sharpen your intuition Join our free Facebook group The Final Swipe Podcast group to connect with Nikki and other like-minded daters

Have you ever dated someone and thought he or she was the answer to your prayers? Where it all just seemed so perfect, and you really felt heard by the Universe. It felt like…This is it. That happened to me once while I was dating, and nope the guy didn’t turn out to be my now-husband. Shocker?And for someone who really depends on her intuition, thinking this guy was “the one” only to find out later that I was wrong, was a real blow to the ego. Not to mention, the Universe received a few angry letters from me, as well. Here’s the truth: I was seeing this relationship as an answer to my current life’s prayer and not my future life’s prayer. In today’s podcast episode, I share that story with you, so you can see where I went wrong with my own intuition, in hopes that you understand yours a little bit more. Ready? Because you’re about to have a meeting with your soul today. Listen in on today’s episode of The Final Swipe. Resources: High-Vibe Dating Group Coaching Soul Seeker- My course designed to sharpen your intuition Join our free Facebook group The Final Swipe Podcast group to connect with Nikki and other like-minded daters

I recently did readings with the hosts of Mindfully Millennial, and I just had to share their thoughts on their experience. Today, we're running a recording from their podcast where we talk about how I became intuitive, and how I'm able to see people's blocks without ever seeing their faces. I know, guys, it's bizarre. But truth is, we're all energy. If you're a tad bit interested in how reading works and how legit predicting futures can really be, this is a must listen to episode. Resources: High-Vibe Dating Group Coaching Mindfully Millennial Podcast Join our free Facebook group The Final Swipe Podcast group to connect with Nikki and other like-minded daters Nikki will be teaching live in D.C. in February. Grab your tickets below! Intuitive Dating WorkshopTapping into Intuition with Spirit Guides Workshop

Today is our wedding anniversary. Eight years! I can't believe it. For a while there, I really never thought I would have a relationship past two years. Here I am, all grown up!In today's episode, I wanted to share with you my story of how I met my husband. How we came together. What worked. What didn't work. I know it's kind of an old story, but love is a classic story, right? I wanted to share because I think you might find a few nuggets of wisdom that will help you along your path. Plus, aren't we at the stage by now, where you should know my love story?Enjoy! And send me any thoughts or questions.

This is your year for love, right? But haven’t you said that before? Isn’t it super scary to think that you’re in the same place all over again?I got you, my friend. In this episode of The Final Swipe, I discuss your 2020 plan. This is how this year is going to be different. It’s a mix of honesty, inspired action, and mindset. Get your notes ready! Write down what comes up as we talk. 

Why do some people from our past just feel sticky? Energetic cords, my friend. I see these often on people. They look like little ropes coming from one person to the other.Sometimes, we're the person holding on, and sometimes they're holding on. Who care who is the doing the holding. What's important is that we release them. If we don't, they become littler energy leaks in our aura. Don't be afraid to let go of people. It doesn't mean we'll never see them again. This healing just helps us not feel attached to them. We no longer need their validation or love to be feel whole. We are calling back all our energy to ourselves, so we can be our most powerful self. Warning, do this practice when not driving. And let me know how it goes!

When we think "boundaries" we tend to think about setting them for people we don't really like. Or for people who we have to keep at an arms length. We rarely think of setting boundaries for people we do like. In this episode, author and master coach Nancy Levin schools us on the magic of boundaries, and how they make us look sexy while dating. She also shares her story of being in a controlling relationship, how she was able to get out, heal, and move forward. So many of us can see ourselves in her story, so it's one to listen to. I also have a funny situation in the recording, where I'm trying to please Nancy, while she's teaching us about how not to please others. It's funny, and very eye-opening. Get ready to open your heart by expanding it towards yourself first. Give this episode a listen and let me know your thoughts. What we cover:What are boundaries?How do we set them?How can we stop people pleasing in dating and in life?How to stop being perfectResources: Nancy's new book: "Setting Boundaries Will Set You Free" Nancy's site: https://www.nancylevin.com/Levin Life Coaching: https://www.nancylevin.com/vip/Updates:Join our free Facebook group The Final Swipe Podcast group to connect with Nikki and other like-minded daters Nikki will be teaching live in D.C. in February. Grab your tickets below! Intuitive Dating WorkshopTapping into Intuition with Spirit Guides Workshop

The reason so many of us hate dating is because many times it feels very far from romantic. The swiping, meeting strangers... it can all feel really transactional. Which is really just another word for masculine. Let's change that, shall we?In today's episode of The Final Swipe podcast, feminine energy coach Anya Grace is here to school us on how we can make the process more feminine, flowy and joyful.I really enjoyed this conversation, because Anya explains so well how we can tap into our own inner strength even when our tendency is feel scared, pain, grief, etc. She's shifting energy in this episode, no doubt.What we cover: What is the Divine Feminine? How can we date from that place?How to access our inner power Reprogramming our instinct to give away our power What is the Divine Masculine and the balanced way to use it in our lives What is surrender and how can we do it when we like to make things happen How to not be so hard on ourselvesThe difference between yearning and actually working with the law of attractionResources: Anya's site: https://elevatedwomantraining.com/-Anya's programs: https://elevatedwomantraining.com/collections/allUpdates: Join our free Facebook group The Final Swipe Podcast group to connect with Nikki and other like-minded daters https://www.facebook.com/groups/315515769244846/?ref=bookmarks Nikki will be teaching live in Miami alongside her sisters Krista and Lindsey of Almost 30. Grab your tickets https://www.universe.com/events/almost-30-in-miami-with-nikki-novo-tickets-miami-2QB1LM

We all love to hear stories of how couples meet. For one, it gives us hope.But also, because we feel like we're listening to a magical story that actually occurred. It's like a real-life romantic comedy.Finding love seems like magic, because it often feels like we have no say in the matter. We think it happens by chance, by luck, by fate.And it doesn't help that most people will tell you these crazy stories of how they met their partner by chance. They're beautiful stories, but they also feel really disempowering.I recommend you ask someone who has actually spent the time to analyze what brought them to find their partner.You guys, it does not happen out of pure magic. Anyone who has found love, has found it because there was energy and focus behind that desire. Most people don't like to admit that they were "looking for love," but they were.I know I was on a mission to find love every time I found it. My clients who are successful in dating have all put an energy behind dating that eliminates fear. They have strategy!In today's episode, I chat with my friend and love expert, Coach Cass, who agrees with me — finding love isn't magic!She shares with us some tips and tricks that have worked for so many of her clients, which really help to take the mystery out of dating.If you're ready to eliminate that fear and doubt surrounded around your love life, this episode is for you.Resources:Coach Cass' Site: https://inspiremany.com/Cass’ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/inspiremany/ The Love Deck: https://zq255.infusionsoft.app/app/storeFront/showProductDetail?productId=280Updates:Join our free Facebook group The Final Swipe Podcast group to connect with Nikki and other like-minded daters Nikki will be teaching live in Miami alongside her soul sisters Krista and Lindsey of Almost 30. Grab your tickets!