Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo

Failure is something that clouds our lives, and the lives of our children. The struggle is real. Dealing with failure is a life skill. We can choose to shelter our children as the infamous helicopter, drone, or law-mower parent. But where will that leave our children? Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://bit.ly/WomenofIMPACT If we are not careful, raising up children who are more fearful of failure increases the inability to recover from adversity. Life is all about adversity. Ask anyone who has succeeded. They will tell you they have had more failures, more "no's" than they care to think about. But they wouldn't give any of that up, because it brought them to where they are today. Creating a field of success only limits our children. They don't know how to respond to failure or when they don't get what they want. All they do is make a fuss, take note of what they did right, and leave the failures to pile up behind them. Eventually, the mountains of failures begin to anchor them to what they never imagined (anxiety, low self-esteem, thoughts of suicide, depression, self-injury). Stuff we don't want our children to think about or experience. You as their parent, you want to protect them. That makes total sense. But protecting them from failure only holds them back. They have to learn how to cope with failure. The struggle is real. However, fields of failure lead to greatness. "Strength and growth come only through continuous effort and struggle." ~ Napoleon Hill You can choose to raise your children sheltered and confined to only what they think they will succeed at, but that will ultimately lend itself to greater failure longterm. So overcome failure with a struggle drill. The K.I.S.S. ~ Overcome failure with your Struggle Drill! Don't settle for mediocrity. Success comes with many failures and an overcomer spirit, a resiliency that leads to greatness. Overcome failure with your struggle drill. STOP & BREATHE Literally stop and take some deep breaths to settle your mind, body, and spirit. Your failure does not have to overcome you. Take a time-out! This gives you space to not overreact. ANALYZE THE SITUATION Take a moment to assess the situation at hand. What was done right? What was done wrong? Failure is part of the process. How can you improve? RESPOND & REDEFINE Formulate your thoughts and actions on what's next to accomplish your goal. Speak your intention. This way you flush out the "reactions" and utilize your goals. Just because you don't get something the first, second, or third time, doesn't mean you will not accomplish what you're after. Dealing with failure is a life skill. CHALLENGE: What can you do to help your child overcome failure? "The struggle is real. Dealing with failure is a life skill. Teach it early. Be a student for a lifetime." ~ Kristianne Wargo "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will be able to discuss your specific situation and gain tools and strategies to move you forward. Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube. Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or need someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose. ANNOUNCEMENT: Ready to shine your light and tell your story. Please click on MY STRENGTH IS MY STORY. Here you can submit yourself to appear on the podcast or make recommendations as who you would like to hear. This is going to be a beautiful series! Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube. Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify. Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here. The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 Contact me at YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com THE NO FUSS MEAL PLAN Instagram @CreateYourNow @Kristianne Wargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow PERISCOPE USERS!!! Click here for ANDROID Users / GOOGLE https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=tv.periscope.android Click here for APPLE Users https://itunes.apple.com/app/id972909677 Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Succes, and She Owns It. https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/ http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/ http://bit.ly/9amHabits https://journal.thriveglobal.com/how-to-configure-a-sleep-pattern-fit-for-you-d8edd3387eaf#.sniv275c3 https://sheownsit.com/when-failure-is-your-middle-name/ DOMESTIC BEAUTIES (Announcements) 1. Come and let's connect on Facebook - Women Of IMPACT http://facebook.com/groups/thewomenofimpact 2. Create Your Now ~ Your Best Selfie can be heard on iHeart Radio, Spotify, and Pandora! 3. Create Your Now Archive 1 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 4. 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Newsletter and Library: If you desire to get weekly emails, be sure to sign up here so you can stay connected. http://createyournow.com/library Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Ann Danilina on Unsplash Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) 9t One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

With the holidays around the corner, celebrate joy in your living space with Victoria Duerstock. She shares devotions and holiday decorating tips which will encourage, inspire, and captivate your heart and home for Christmas. Victoria Duerstock: A wife of twenty-three year and mother to three children. Her mission is to intentionally seek to inspire hope and ignite bigger dreams for God's purpose in each of our stories. Victoria has a Master's degree in Music but found herself in the furniture industry. She is a writer, blogger, teacher, speaker, and contributor at Worthy Devotions. Victoria connects the basic principles of Christian living with the basic principles of interior design. "Christmas brings warmth in the middle of a season, because of the way we can decorate, the lighting, all the different things that go into it." ~ Victoria Duerstock CONNECT with Victoria Duerstock BOOK: Heart & Home for Christmas Enjoy the multitude of topics discussed including holiday expectations, Australia, design principles, and navy blue kitchen cabinets, plus so much more. Inspiration Joy Growing Up Love of music First-year of marriage Christmas Memories Australia Overwhelm & stress Holiday expectations Overspending time & money Daily time with the Lord Focus Block your time Design Principles Balance Tabernacle Grace Lights Beyond Christmas Christmas Ornaments Pajamas Contributors Mary's Story Christmas year-round Family time The Design Twins (Julie and Jodie) What's trending? Kitchen update Clutter Coffee Table Encouragement CONNECT with Victoria Duerstock BOOK: Heart & Home for Christmas "Balance is always the hard part, whether we're talking about how we live our daily life or how we're gonna decorate. Balance is always a challenge." ~ Victoria Duerstock #MyStrengthIsMyStory #CreateYourNow #VictoriaDuerstock Quotes and statements within the interview: "It's definitely meant to be inspiring not discouraging." "But my joy is always rooted in the fact that I've been saved by grace, my place is with Jesus Christ alone. And then my family brings me joy here on earth." "My true joy is always present. It's not something that will reverse. And that's what brings me peace." "Growing up was very quiet." "I've actually been told that I would likely never have children." "There's a very real possibility and probability we thought that there may not be children in my future." "I only quit one time." "And so within that first year of marriage, we knocked out not only expecting a new baby, bt also going to work for my husband." "God was working on me early on and taught me a lot of lessons that I'm grateful for." "The memories that we make during that time are so special and they last all year round." "That's one that sticks in my mind with just being so hot at Christmas." "I think we put a lot of pressure on ourselves to perform a certain way or to meet expectations that either we've set up for ourselves or that we think others have for us." "But I find that if I don't spend the time with the Lord, then it's easier to not spend it the next day, and then it's kind of a trickle-down effect." "The second thing I really like to do, especially around the season, is to block off some time." "The principles of balance, of writing and harmony, focal point .... All of those things come into play." "I think that we just tend to put too much pressure on ourselves to do ALL of it." "I need to do something drastic in order to keep my priorities in the right place." "At Christmas time, I love just getting up, plugging in the lights, and just being in that calm and that quiet of the morning, and having those lights." "Christmas lights add to the mood." "The biggest one that we always did and it just so turned out that my husband and his family did it as well. It wasn't totally unique to our family, but we always opened a gift on Christmas Eve." "Her home is just a feast for the eyes when you walk in." "Being able to take joy in His creation and see Him everywhere -- His fingerprints everywhere." "I think that's hard, isn't it? Because tragedy happens all the time." "So at the end of the day, the greatest encouragement I can give is that there's more to the story and the gospel is truth." "If you kind of watch the fashion industry, the home furnishings are gonna kind of follow behind." "If we can get rid of the clutter, get some fresh plants in,I mean, it's just going to change everything." What has your story gifted you? Grace Peace "My story has so many twists and turns." "Even though I don't know how the rest of the story is going to go, I know I can keep walking it and wait for the adventure that's going to unfold." Resources mentioned in the episode: CONNECT with Victoria Duerstock BOOK: Heart & Home for Christmas Twitter: https://twitter.com/vduerstock Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VDuerstock/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vduerstock/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/vduerstock/ "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" Ready to see if coaching and mentorship is for you? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Invest in YOU! You are worth the time!!! ANNOUNCEMENT: Ready to shine your light and tell your story. Please click on MY STRENGTH IS MY STORY. Here you can submit yourself to appear on the podcast or make recommendations as who you would like to hear. This is going to be a beautiful series! Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube. Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or need someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose. ANNOUNCEMENT: Ready to shine your light and tell your story. Please click on MY STRENGTH IS MY STORY. Here you can submit yourself to appear on the podcast or make recommendations as who you would like to hear. This is going to be a beautiful series! Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube. Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify. Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here. The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! 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Click here for ANDROID Users / GOOGLE https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=tv.periscope.android Click here for APPLE Users https://itunes.apple.com/app/id972909677 Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Succes, and She Owns It. https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/ http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/ http://bit.ly/9amHabits https://journal.thriveglobal.com/how-to-configure-a-sleep-pattern-fit-for-you-d8edd3387eaf#.sniv275c3 https://sheownsit.com/when-failure-is-your-middle-name/ DOMESTIC BEAUTIES (Announcements) 1. Come and let's connect on Facebook - Women Of IMPACT http://facebook.com/groups/thewomenofimpact 2. Create Your Now ~ Your Best Selfie can be heard on iHeart Radio, Spotify, and Pandora! 3. Create Your Now Archive 1 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 4. 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Newsletter and Library: If you desire to get weekly emails, be sure to sign up here so you can stay connected. http://createyournow.com/library Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Toa Heftiba on Unsplash Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) 9t One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Is there something you can do for your health to make it worse? Why ask the obvious question when you already know the answer. Are you playing in the zone; the zone of offense or defense? There is so much being thrown at you when it comes to your health and wellness. Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://bit.ly/WomenofIMPACT Just go to the grocery store. Do we really need all the different types of foods in each category? Non-GMO Gluten-free Sugar-free All natural Fat-free No high fructose corn syrup No nuts No artificial colors or flavors Low sodium Reduce fat No preservatives Good source of Vitamin ____ Then you have all the different ways to exercise (yoga, pilates, strength training, kettlebells, aerobics, barre, etc.). Plus, you can't forget all the various diets to choose from (Paleo, Mediterranean, Whole30, Keto, Atkins, South Beach, etc.). No wonder we are confused, frustrated, and ready to give up more than try. All this to say, you have plenty available to know you won't starve or get bored when it comes to your health and wellness. However, what people don't talk about is how we are living out our health and wellness. Are you living in a state of scarcity or abundance? Now, normally we hear these terms when it comes to mindset. Yet today, it's time to stretch our narrow lens. If you're living in a state of abundance, then why do we have such a hard time changing what we do, because we can get whatever we want when we want. There is an abundance. Instead, I find that people live in the state of scarcity with a fear that this will be the last time I get to fill in the blank. Abundance gets us excited and there is no threat to what we don't have or what we can't do. It's the zone of offense. Scarcity is just that; it scares us out of what we may not have at a later date. There is an end to the pleasure. It's in the zone of defense. Is there something you can do for your health to make it worse? Of course, there is. Keep living in a state of scarcity and you'll keep living in the zone of defense. Defense pushes your goals away. It's time to attract what you desire. The K.I.S.S. ~ Attract what you desire! Life is too short to waste time playing both offense and defense. So attract what you desire. Come at it from the zone of offense. You already know what it's going to take to make it worse. So make it better. What are your goals? What do you want for your health? You need to know what you're after in order to get after it. Make a choice; the hard way or the easy way. The hard way is where you focus on what is most challenging for you. The easy way is the simple most convenient step to add to your daily activities. Take A.I.M. --- Make a plan and execute it. One step at a time leads to miles of greatness. Choose one thing to focus on and do that one thing. Putting yourself in a corner keeps you from taking care of you. "Train for life. Love your journey!" #WellnessWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will be able to discuss your specific situation and gain tools and strategies to move you forward. Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube. Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or need someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose. ANNOUNCEMENT: Ready to shine your light and tell your story. Please click on MY STRENGTH IS MY STORY. Here you can submit yourself to appear on the podcast or make recommendations as who you would like to hear. This is going to be a beautiful series! Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube. Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify. Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here. The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 Contact me at YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com THE NO FUSS MEAL PLAN Instagram @CreateYourNow @Kristianne Wargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow PERISCOPE USERS!!! Click here for ANDROID Users / GOOGLE https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=tv.periscope.android Click here for APPLE Users https://itunes.apple.com/app/id972909677 Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Succes, and She Owns It. https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/ http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/ http://bit.ly/9amHabits https://journal.thriveglobal.com/how-to-configure-a-sleep-pattern-fit-for-you-d8edd3387eaf#.sniv275c3 https://sheownsit.com/when-failure-is-your-middle-name/ DOMESTIC BEAUTIES (Announcements) 1. Come and let's connect on Facebook - Women Of IMPACT http://facebook.com/groups/thewomenofimpact 2. Create Your Now ~ Your Best Selfie can be heard on iHeart Radio, Spotify, and Pandora! 3. Create Your Now Archive 1 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 4. 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Newsletter and Library: If you desire to get weekly emails, be sure to sign up here so you can stay connected. http://createyournow.com/library Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Toa Heftiba on Unsplash Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) 9t One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

"Whoever loves much, performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well." ~ Vincent Van Gogh With Thanksgiving only a week away, it's critical to realize the importance of the work you do on a daily basis. Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://bit.ly/WomenofIMPACT Yes, this is all about you! We are quick to acknowledge everyone else's attributes and their contributions to the world. But very rarely do we take the time to remember the importance of our own work. What you do matters; whether it's in the home, in the corporate world, on Wallstreet, in the government, on the streets, or in the church. You matter!!! You wake up with a heart ready to love, serving those without a question of where they came from or who they are. You treat others with kindness and generosity. You show up for your best friend in the middle of the night. You drive out of your way to help a stranger in need. You put others first, loving them right where they're at. Your neighbors know they can count of you. You matter!!! The K.I.S.S. ~ What is done in love is done well! Life may get a little stressful at times. In fact, maybe more than you care to admit. Don't let the negativity of the world drown out the beauty of your heart. Shine brightly and love when you feel like you can't give anymore. And yes, that means loving your spouse even when he makes you mad. Even when she doesn't pay the bill on time. What is done in love is done well. If we would just stop long enough and realize that life is better together. We don't need to outdo or overcompensate for what we see others accomplishing. When you lead with your heart, you accomplish much. It's not about looking side to side as tempting as that may be. Focus your efforts on impacting the world you touch by extending your heart. You were created on purpose for a purpose. When the lights dim faster because of the struggles and troubles in your life, know that you have much more beyond the trials and tribulations you face. "Whoever loves much, performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well." ~ Vincent Van Gogh As Jesus said, "My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you." ~ John 15:12 What are you painting on your heart today? Negativity or positivity Comparison or compassion Pain or purpose Hatred or love You are a delightful person with a heart of gold. Don't worry about what you can't control. Focus on the beauty of your heart. "Live. Love. IMPACT!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will be able to discuss your specific situation and gain tools and strategies to move you forward. Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube. Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or need someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose. ANNOUNCEMENT: Ready to shine your light and tell your story. Please click on MY STRENGTH IS MY STORY. Here you can submit yourself to appear on the podcast or make recommendations as who you would like to hear. This is going to be a beautiful series! Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube. Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify. Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here. The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 Contact me at YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com THE NO FUSS MEAL PLAN Instagram @CreateYourNow @Kristianne Wargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow PERISCOPE USERS!!! Click here for ANDROID Users / GOOGLE https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=tv.periscope.android Click here for APPLE Users https://itunes.apple.com/app/id972909677 Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Succes, and She Owns It. https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/ http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/ http://bit.ly/9amHabits https://journal.thriveglobal.com/how-to-configure-a-sleep-pattern-fit-for-you-d8edd3387eaf#.sniv275c3 https://sheownsit.com/when-failure-is-your-middle-name/ DOMESTIC BEAUTIES (Announcements) 1. Come and let's connect on Facebook - Women Of IMPACT http://facebook.com/groups/thewomenofimpact 2. Create Your Now ~ Your Best Selfie can be heard on iHeart Radio, Spotify, and Pandora! 3. Create Your Now Archive 1 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 4. 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Everybody dreams! What is your most recent dream that you're chasing? Like with anything, dreams come with responsibility. But dreaming shouldn't include work. It's more fun to dream. It's even more fun to expand your dreams and build on them. Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://bit.ly/WomenofIMPACT However, dreams come and go. And when dreams change, so do plans. Have you ever been able to see it but not reach it? Dreams come with responsibility. When the dream changes, are you willing to adjust the plan in order to live out your dream? Or are you too stubborn to make the changes with what is required of you? Have you ever noticed that it's easier to dream when it's within our own parameters? We set the rules and make alterations as we see fit. But what if you are making changes only to stay stuck in your own dreams? Have you ever thought about what might be expected from you looking at it from God's perspective? You might only see "Plan A", and then make adjustments for "Plan B". Ultimately, they are still very similar. Yet with God's perspective, your plans might be misguided by yourself. God's plan might be your only "Plan A", it's just that you aren't willing to look beyond what only you can see. In addition, your schedule is so wrapped up in your tangible plans, you forget that you have to make space for God's plan. Maybe you need to get better at saying "No", or maybe saying "Yes" to the right things. Dreams come with responsibility. Let's put a twist on the term "dream" and change it to "purpose". You were created on purpose for a purpose. Would this make you look at dreams differently if it was defined more as your purpose? Dreams and purpose are used interchangeably. Or we tend to connect them. Some people think of their dreams as something so great they may not be able to reach them. Once again, boundaries are set ---- by YOU!! If you know you have a life's purpose, then are you doing what is required of you to live it out? Most of us are hiding behind what we know. It's less complicated to work in our comfort, than to press beyond the unknown. Yet there you stay hunkered down in the corner you know too well. "Here I will stay and make little adjustments with the hope of making a way for my dreams, my purpose." Are you trying to control every move or are you surrendering your dream, your purpose? Dreams come with responsibility. If you are trying to control every move, orchestrating the outcome, maybe your "BUTs" are getting in the way. You have to be willing to go the extra mile to get to greatness, seeing your dreams come true. Dreams come with responsibility. All this means that you have to be willing to expect the unexpected. The K.I.S.S. ~ Expect the unexpected! When you say "Yes", you have no idea what you're saying "Yes" to. In fact, you might be planted in a situation where you wish you were not experiencing it. Yet, this might be exactly where you need to grow and be stretch into your dream, your purpose. "Am I being tested?" You very well might be. So you feel you're trapped in a dead-end. You have a divine purpose, a heavenly dream. Dreams come with responsibility where you expect the unexpected. Say "YES" with no expectations. You can't place conditions on God. You may want to define exactly the path you will travel, but remember, God's got you! You have to be willing to say "YES" even when you question it. Trust the process. There are some things in life that require you to work through a system. And believe it or not, that could be an "earthly" system (what you know) and a "heavenly" system (what is unknown). What you can see verse what God sees. Walk by faith. This is where you are willing to take the next step. Yes, you can question God. He invites you into conversation. But you have to live out your dream, your purpose as God plans out the path. Your head and heart have to connect. Your disconnect could be between the 16-18 inch drop. Don't get stuck in only what you see, in only what you want. Your messes are your blesses in disguise. Don't try so hard. Let God show you the way. You need to be willing to live out your dreams. "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness." ~ Kristianne Wargo You may have your "Raggedy Ann" days. But those days yield Heavenly treasures when you say Yes, and when you say no! Dreams come with responsibility. Expect the unexpected. Make today count with a yes! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will be able to discuss your specific situation and gain tools and strategies to move you forward. Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube. Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or need someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose. ANNOUNCEMENT: Ready to shine your light and tell your story. Please click on MY STRENGTH IS MY STORY. Here you can submit yourself to appear on the podcast or make recommendations as who you would like to hear. This is going to be a beautiful series! Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube. Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify. Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here. The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! 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When life is out of control, you have to be willing to do what you haven't been doing before. Don't rely on your own strength. God's got you! It's time for your heart's comeback. Too often we are relying on our own strength. We think we can do it all. We push ourselves by saying "YES" to everything because we've said "NO" to whom really matters. Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://bit.ly/WomenofIMPACT I think about how jam-packed my schedule can get during the day. I get caught in the swamp of busyness. Just when I think I have it all under control, something else happens. Watching college football yesterday, there were some good games on. But one that stood out to me was from the Big XII Conference between Oklahoma (10) and Baylor (13). Baylor started the game with a 3 and out. No progress on the field. Oklahoma gets the ball, but Baylor has something else planned; a 3 and out. I can't remember all the details, but understand Baylor was up 28 to 3 at the half. If you looked at a glance, not even knowing anything about football, you would think Baylor's got this! Oklahoma had another plan. They trusted the process and what was practiced throughout their season. Long story short, Oklahoma came back to win the game 34 to 31! The K.I.S.S. ~ Time for a heart's comeback! Oklahoma had an awakening. They never counted themselves out. The fans might have. The announcers didn't know how to respond with this initial shut-out. But Oklahoma was not going to break even in the face of adversity. Why is it that sometimes we need to be slapped around in order to wake-up? Are you living your life by habits, reactions, and busyness? Are you leaving little room, if at all, for God? We may feel that God has abandoned us. But He says that He will never leave you nor forsake you. (Hebrew 13:5) REFLECTION: So why do you leave Him? Why do we abandon God? He doesn't abandon us. You are loved! You matter! Don't pre-judge based on how the world sees. Clean your lenses, look into your heart. It's time for your heart's comeback! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will be able to discuss your specific situation and gain tools and strategies to move you forward. Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube. Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or need someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose. ANNOUNCEMENT: Ready to shine your light and tell your story. Please click on MY STRENGTH IS MY STORY. Here you can submit yourself to appear on the podcast or make recommendations as who you would like to hear. This is going to be a beautiful series! Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube. Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify. Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here. The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 Contact me at YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com THE NO FUSS MEAL PLAN Instagram @CreateYourNow @Kristianne Wargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow PERISCOPE USERS!!! 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Life moves faster than a heartbeat. There's never a good time to work on your marriage, to take a vacation as a couple, or to even snuggle on the weekend. All we worry about is what's next on the activity schedule, how fast do we need to rush something to school for the children, or what's for dinner. Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://bit.ly/WomenofIMPACT Sounds so silly when I say it out loud. Are we seriously worried about everything but our most important relationship, our marriages? What if we were to look at things through a different lens? Yesterday, I had plans to work on the AIM Academy along with scheduling interviews for the "My Strength is My Story" series. But instead, I was met with a screw in my husband's tire. There's never a good time! So after dropping off the boys at school, I preceded to figure out where I should take the truck for a tire repair. It was important I get it done sooner rather than later, because my hubby was off to the airport early that afternoon. If you want an incredible marriage, you have to make the time! The K.I.S.S. ~ Make the time! When something matters, you make the time. You don't wait around for the perfect time or for all the stars to align. It's not going to happen. You'll be left out in the dark. So you have to make the time for what matters. And since it's relationship builders, then obviously your marriage matters. How do you make the time so you can drop the excuse that there's never a good time? Schedule flexibility. Leave room for changes. Be present in your day. Don't let your emotions overtake your reactions. You want to respond to the matter at hand, not react. There is a difference. Carve out non-negotiable time for each other. You must spend time together as a couple. This is the time you set apart for only the two of you. You must be intentional with your time. Otherwise, your time will slip away. And then you'll catch yourself saying, "There's never a good time." There is plenty of time in the day to do what matters. You have to decide what matters most and align your schedule to your relationship priorities. Honor your spouse. Honor your marriage. YOU matter! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will be able to discuss your specific situation and gain tools and strategies to move you forward. Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube. Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or need someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose. ANNOUNCEMENT: Ready to shine your light and tell your story. Please click on MY STRENGTH IS MY STORY. Here you can submit yourself to appear on the podcast or make recommendations as who you would like to hear. This is going to be a beautiful series! Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube. Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify. Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here. The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 Contact me at YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com THE NO FUSS MEAL PLAN Instagram @CreateYourNow @Kristianne Wargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow PERISCOPE USERS!!! 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What can you give your son when raising him to become a man? This stumps many parents. But it all comes down to if you see the man in your son. Most parents are quick to think that children do not know anything. They dismiss the maturation of their child. But children are very knowledgeable at a young age. Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://bit.ly/WomenofIMPACT NO! They don't know everything. But they are smarter than we give credit. So why wait to teach real-life skills until they are older? We as mothers, as parents, need to be the role model in more ways than one. Your child looks up to you. He watches your every move. He hears your every word. He tastes the sweetness of kindness from you. He repeats what is modeled. One thing I believe that is lacking in our boys is respect, and that's respect that goes for him as a boy and in turn, respect for you as his mother. Men respond to respect. Some would call it their ultimate love language. So if men respond to respect, don't you think our boys would do the same? Yes! Men are hard-wired for respect. And that respect is wanted deeply. If we are to raise a man from a boy, then we must have respect for our boys so we can see the man in the mirror. Mamas --- It's easy to get caught up in the snuggles and the cuddles. But that doesn't last long. Your son is a man trapped in a small body. So raise him up with love and respect! The K.I.S.S. ~ Raise up with love and respect! Your son needs love and respect. And that respect must come from the mother. It's important from the father, but it has a greater impact from mom. Moms, your strength needs to be giving respect, which in turn translates to unconditional love in your son's eyes. It is what it is. When we question our boys or have a disagreement, they interpret it as questioning their abilities, qualities, or achievements. Sometimes, we will be questioning their abilities or decisions. But we can teach our sons through love and most importantly respect. Think back to when you and your son disagreed on something. Most of the time, we react with an accusatory statement reinforced by an action or a motion. This does little teaching and actually pushes your son further away from you. Draw your son close when you raise up with love and respect. Love unconditionally. Be careful not to impose your dreams and desires on your son. Respect his perspective. Listen to what he has to say. Acknowledge how he views the situation. Share your perspective. "Another way to look at this is..." Don't make it about you know more and he knows less. You want to leave the door open. If you keep slamming the door in his face, you will begin to isolate your son. That will continue to drive him away. You show up respecting him. I promise, over time, he will show up respecting you. And with anything in parenting, be consistent. Consistency builds trust. That trust adds to the love and respect. Don't run when parenting gets tough. You got this! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will be able to discuss your specific situation and gain tools and strategies to move you forward. Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube. Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or need someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose. ANNOUNCEMENT: Ready to shine your light and tell your story. Please click on MY STRENGTH IS MY STORY. 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Life is what you make of it. Your focus determines your response. Forget the mistake, remember the lesson. We have to be very careful how often we replay the mistakes in our heads. Replaying negative thoughts are much easier than replaying positive thoughts. Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://bit.ly/WomenofIMPACT For one reason, most can think of more negative thoughts than positive thoughts. And if you are cautious about your ego or pride, then you probably have the tendency not to boast about your accomplishments. You should celebrate your accomplishments. In fact, you probably under-celebrate yourself. So today is a moment in time when you celebrate how far you have come regardless of where you're headed. You are incredible! YOU matter!!! The K.I.S.S. ~ Forget the mistake, remember the lesson! "It's time to stop letting your history control your destiny." ~ Andy Andrews Life is a matter of perspective. If you continue to look at the mistake, that is all you will see. But look at what came from the mistake; remember the lesson. History is not wasted when you choose to learn from the past. What set of glasses are you wearing today? Are you fumbling around looking for the specks that draw you closer to all the mistakes; the ones that magnify those you wish you couldn't see? Put those away. Better yet, stomp on them. Grab the glasses that enhance the details of what you learned from your failure. "Your fall gives you the opportunity to stand up." ~ Kristianne Wargo Forget the mistake, remember the lesson. "You are not defined by your failures. You are not defined by your successes. You are defined by your presence." ~ Kristianne Wargo Life is full of hope! Forget the mistake, remember the lesson! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will be able to discuss your specific situation and gain tools and strategies to move you forward. Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube. Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or need someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose. ANNOUNCEMENT: Ready to shine your light and tell your story. Please click on MY STRENGTH IS MY STORY. Here you can submit yourself to appear on the podcast or make recommendations as who you would like to hear. This is going to be a beautiful series! Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube. Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify. Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here. The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! 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The holidays are quickly approaching. Why not do something for yourself? You are worth it! When it comes to your health and wellness, instead of restricting your actions, look to add something that will multiply the result you are after. Too often we decide to make changes that require us to take away something or agree to restrictions. That places us in a defensive mode. Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://bit.ly/WomenofIMPACT If we are battling "people-pleasing" actions or "I'm not good enough" self-talk, restriction limits what we can do. It puts us in a box. Plus, with restrictions and limitations, we are setting ourselves up for failure. Why start if the chance of failure is higher than the chance of success? Oh, but you do start because you want a change. However, when you fall short, then you accept the failure and wait for another opportunity. This is a cycle that is repeated over and over again when it comes to health and wellness. So why not do something for yourself? Something that will compliment the results that you are after. You are worth it! Instead of running away from your failures, strike what you want with what you can add. The K.I.S.S. ~ Add something to multiply the result! You have been told "NO" your entire life, or at least enough times that "NO" is a sticking point for you. You get STUCK. And that leaves you dangling in the failure box. You want success especially since you're talking about your health and wellness. You don't want to fail yourself. So why not do something for yourself and add something to multiply the result. Know your goal/result. You need to know where you are going in order to chart a course. So your first stop (your goal/result) is the focus (i.e., losing weight, getting stronger, eating more greens, walking more consistently, etc.). Choose ONE action you can add to your day/week that will help you multiply your result. For example: drinking more water (add a glass at every meal), walking more consistently (taking the stairs at work), getting stronger (adding push-ups to your daily wake-up routine), eating more greens (add an additional vegetable to every meal). Build consistency -- take AIM on that ONE action. You want to build consistency to the point of creating an action where you don't have to consciously pay attention to it. Your consistency is what forms good habits. When you add value to your health, you multiply your wealth. It's your life! You matter!!! So what have you been trying to accomplish this year where you haven't quite reached your desired goal? Don't look at this where you have failed. I want you to consider ONE thing you can add to multiply your result. What is that going to be for you this week? Start today. Don't wait until Monday. There are no rules that say you have to start on Monday. Today is the day! "Train for life. Love your journey!" #WellnessWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will be able to discuss your specific situation and gain tools and strategies to move you forward. Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube. Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or need someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose. ANNOUNCEMENT: Ready to shine your light and tell your story. Please click on MY STRENGTH IS MY STORY. Here you can submit yourself to appear on the podcast or make recommendations as who you would like to hear. This is going to be a beautiful series! Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube. Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify. Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here. The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 Contact me at YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com THE NO FUSS MEAL PLAN Instagram @CreateYourNow @Kristianne Wargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow PERISCOPE USERS!!! Click here for ANDROID Users / GOOGLE https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=tv.periscope.android Click here for APPLE Users https://itunes.apple.com/app/id972909677 Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Succes, and She Owns It. https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/ http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/ http://bit.ly/9amHabits https://journal.thriveglobal.com/how-to-configure-a-sleep-pattern-fit-for-you-d8edd3387eaf#.sniv275c3 https://sheownsit.com/when-failure-is-your-middle-name/ DOMESTIC BEAUTIES (Announcements) 1. Come and let's connect on Facebook - Women Of IMPACT http://facebook.com/groups/thewomenofimpact 2. Create Your Now ~ Your Best Selfie can be heard on iHeart Radio, Spotify, and Pandora! 3. Create Your Now Archive 1 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 4. Create Your Now Archive 2 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 5. Create Your Now Archive 3 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 6. Create Your Now Archive 4 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 7. Create Your Now Archive 5 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 8. NEW Website! Go check it out and tell me what you think. http://www.createyournow.com 9. Sign Up for The A.I.M. Academy! You will be the first to learn all about it. http://createyournow.com/m-academy-2 10. Schedule a Discovery Call. This is a free 30-45 minute call for those serious about coaching with me. 11. Newsletter and Library: If you desire to get weekly emails, be sure to sign up here so you can stay connected. http://createyournow.com/library Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Fitsum Admasu on Unsplash Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) 9t One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.