Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo

Far too often, we're caught in a relentless cycle of "putting out fires" — responding to demands, answering endless messages, attending meetings that don't move the needle. Our days are dictated by everyone else's priorities. But what if that didn't have to be your reality? What if you could break free and create margin to do what matters? Imagine this moment as a fork in the road. The old season is burning out, and you're stepping into a new one—one where you call the shots on your calendar and your energy. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Not slacking off on responsibility, but choosing where you invest your time and heart. What if creating margin now was the spark that reignited your capacity to dream big again and see what's truly possible? This is your invitation to pause. To push back on overwhelm. To pause the chaos and make space for something different in your life. Margin isn't just empty space—it's the launchpad for growth, rest, creativity, and impact. The K.I.S.S. ~ Create margin! Here are three powerful moves you can make today to create margin and reclaim the ability to do what matters: Get Ruthless with Your To-Do List Stop letting your to-dos dictate your worth. Review your list and cut out or postpone anything that isn't tied to your core goals or values. Learning to say "no" or "not now" isn't passive; it's a strategic act of self-respect. This purge creates room to focus on your highest priorities instead of juggling every demand tossed your way. Set Non-Negotiable Boundaries on Your Time Block chunks in your calendar that are sacred—no meetings, no calls, no notifications. Treat these blocks like appointments with yourself. Use this time to work on projects that excite you, plan for your future, or simply recharge. When you control your schedule, you control your life. Disconnect to Reconnect Turn off the constant ping of emails, DMs, and social media distractions for set periods every day. This creates mental space to think deeply and innovate. When you're not constantly reacting, you can move from surviving to thriving, from firefighting to forging your own path. This season, give yourself permission to create margin—to clear the clutter holding back your vision. It's not about neglecting responsibilities; it's about choosing which battles deserve your energy. The good news? The more margin you create, the more you'll realize that your goals, your dreams—they're not out of reach. They're waiting on the other side of all that busyness. You owe it to yourself to start now. After all, what's the point of running so hard if you don't make time to do what really counts? "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

As the holiday season unfolds around us, the pull of distractions and pressures can easily divert our mind, body, and spirit from the path God desires. It's a time when expectations run high, and focusing on what truly matters often feels like an uphill battle. But there is one simple yet powerful weapon we can wield to stay grounded: a heart of gratitude. Psalm 118:24 sets the tone perfectly: "This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it." Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Each day is a gift from God, purposefully crafted by His hand. When we choose to recognize this truth, even in the hardest moments, we center ourselves in rejoicing rather than resentment. This doesn't mean ignoring challenges or pretending life is perfect. It means acknowledging God's sovereignty and goodness regardless of circumstances. Being grateful isn't a passive feeling that happens by chance. Colossians 4:2 instructs us to "devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful." Gratitude demands intentionality—setting our hearts and minds to seek God in prayer, staying alert to His presence and provision, and cultivating thankfulness as a spiritual habit. When we dedicate ourselves to this practice, we sharpen our perspective and root ourselves firmly in God's promises. The K.I.S.S. ~ A heart of gratitude! Psalm 89:15–16 reminds us why this matters: "Blessed are those who have learned to acclaim you, who walk in the light of your presence, O Lord. They rejoice in your name all day long; they exult in your righteousness." Walking joyfully in God's light and righteousness flows directly from a heart that knows how to praise and give thanks continually. It's a blessing, not by virtue of perfect circumstances, but through closeness with God and confidence in His goodness. This holiday season, no matter where you find yourself—whether celebrating joyfully or facing struggles—embrace a heart of gratitude. Be grateful for where you are without denying your desire for better. Expect great things because God is greater still. When your thankfulness comes from a place deeply rooted in faith and prayer, your spirit aligns with what God desires: trust, hope, and joy. Remember: gratitude isn't just for good times; it is the key to standing strong through all seasons. Let each day be a new chance to rejoice, to pray, and to walk in the light of the Lord's presence. That is true thanksgiving—a heart that opens wide to receive God's grace and reflect His goodness to the world around you. You don't need to wait for perfect moments to be thankful. Start today. This is the day the Lord has made—let's rejoice and be glad in it. Your heart of gratitude will carry you forward, lighting the way for the holiday season and beyond. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

The holiday season — a time when most expect joy and togetherness — often arrives wrapped in stress, tension, and expectations that feel impossible to meet. It's no surprise that fights flare more frequently during this time, as couples get caught in a tug-of-war between family demands, unmet hopes, and sheer exhaustion. The mountain looks too huge to climb. But it doesn't have to break you or your marriage. Because whatever happens, choose us. What have your holidays looked like before? Are you someone who wants to control everything to minimize the possible chaos? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Choosing each other in the midst of holiday chaos is the secret that keeps couples sticky when everything else seems to pull them apart. How do you do that? The K.I.S.S. ~ Choose each other! Here are three ways couples can hold tight, even when the holidays feel like a battlefield. 1. Communicate Honestly and Early Waiting until frustration boils over is a fast track to conflict. Instead, talk openly about expectations before the holidays begin. What feels doable? What's a hard no? When you set the stage with honesty, you reduce surprises and resentments. It's not about scripting a perfect plan but about being realistic and considerate—this way, you face the season as a team, not opponents. 2. Create Your Own Traditions Too often, couples get stuck in a loop of doing what "has to be done" to appease others, which drains joy and fuels resentment. Instead, carve out moments that belong only to you two. Maybe it's a quiet morning coffee before the chaos, a walk after a big meal, or a small gift exchange just between you. Those rituals build connection anchors amid the noise—and remind you why you're in this together. 3. Choose Compassion Over Perfection Nothing will go exactly as planned. Someone will snap, the turkey might burn, or the living room won't be "perfect enough." When that happens, pause and give each other grace instead of blame. Remember the bigger picture: you're not just managing a holiday but building a lifelong partnership. Choosing kindness breaks down walls; rigidity only builds them higher. When you learn how to stick together through pressure, you discover how much better you are as a couple. Life will never be flawless — that burnt turkey or the messy house won't define your marriage. What will define it is the decision you make every day—to face challenges side by side, to choose each other over frustration, and to build memories worth more than any perfect holiday postcard. So this season, whatever happens—choose us. Choose your love, your team, your forever. Because you are better together. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

When life takes over, it has a way of swallowing your heart and demanding your head show up instead. We're wired to want control—to have everything in order, to anticipate and prevent the unexpected. It feels safer that way. But as a parent, the more you chase perfection, the more you miss the raw, imperfect, priceless moments that really define your relationship with your child. Capture the moment, not perfection. Let's be honest: no family runs on a flawless schedule. Kids don't come with a manual or a "perfect moment" alert. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com And messing up or missing a beat isn't a sign of failure—it's an invitation to something deeper. So instead of trying to capture every perfect snapshot, how about capturing the moment itself—the unfiltered laughter, the messy hugs, the chaos that, years later, you'll realize was the real picture of love. Parents, here's the truth: you don't have to be overwhelmed by trying to raise a "perfect" child perfectly. You can step out of that prison of expectation by choosing unconditional love and presence instead. The K.I.S.S. ~ Capture the moments: be present! Here are three actionable ways to be present so you can truly capture the moments that matter. 1. Put the Phone Down—Fully When your mind or your thumbs are scrolling, your heart is elsewhere. Being present means actually showing up—no distractions, no multitasking. It's about looking your child in the eyes during dinner, listening to their stories without planning your next response, and just being there. Yes, the world demands attention, but your child's moment deserves more. 2. Accept Imperfection as the New Normal Stop fighting the inevitable chaos, noise, and mess. When you relax your grip on "perfect," you make room for what's real. That spilled juice, the missed bedtime, the unplanned tantrum? They're not failures; they're the flavor of life you'll one day miss. Remember, presence doesn't require perfection—it requires acceptance. 3. Create Small Rituals That Anchor You Together Rituals don't have to be big or Instagram-worthy. It can be a bedtime story, a five-minute hug before school, or a silly dance in the kitchen. Rituals signal "I'm here, you're not alone," and root both of you in the now instead of the "what if." These simple acts invite connection and make moments unforgettable. Capturing the moment is about choosing love and presence over pressure and plans. It's about being messy, human, and fully engaged—even when life feels anything but perfect. Parents who make this choice don't just survive the chaos—they create the memories that last a lifetime. You've got a choice today: chase an impossible ideal or lean into the beautifully imperfect life you're living. I know which one will fill you up. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Chaos feels like a storm that drowns out everything else — your dreams, your confidence, your clarity. When life tosses curveballs, it's easy to fixate on what you can't do, what slipped through your fingers, or what's falling apart. But what you can't do doesn't define you. Holding on to those failures or limitations only keeps you stuck in the mud, blinding you to where your power really lies. Action detangles chaos. So stop. Drop the weight of what's beyond your control. That's not where your focus belongs. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Your energy should go to what you can do—today, right now, in this moment. It's in those small, deliberate steps that the chaos begins to fade, revealing the possibilities underneath. Look for the openings the mess leaves behind. Maybe it's a new skill you've never tried, a relationship you can repair, or simply the attitude shift that says, "I'm still standing, and I still have choices." The storm isn't permanent. And neither is the paralysis that comes with overwhelm. The K.I.S.S. ~ Action detangles chaos! The truth is, strength isn't about never falling. It's about the courage to stand back up every time. To embrace what's in your power, even if it feels tiny. Because those small wins compound. They reclaim your momentum. They carve a path forward when everything else seems impossible. You got this. The chaos around you is fierce, but your resolve can be more ferocious. Go after what you you! Focus on what you can control, and watch how the impossible starts to look a little less scary. It's not about perfection. It's about progress—and the unwillingness to give up on yourself when it matters most. Keep moving. Keep fighting. Keep showing up. Because that's the real definition of strength—and hope. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

The holidays hit your healthy living like a wrecking ball. Sweet desserts, salty snacks, savory feasts—your taste buds get a nonstop assault that leaves them confused and craving more. Add the shorter days and the time change, and suddenly the daily walk feels like climbing Everest after a long day packed with endless commitments. Healthy living during the holidays can feel impossible. But you can still tip the scales. Not just for a quick win, but to build a lifestyle that carries you through the seasons. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Where Are You Right Now? Before you start stacking new habits or chasing perfect routines, stop and take a clear-eyed look at where you are. Too many people try to move mountains when they're actually standing in a valley. Maybe you're tired, off your routine, overwhelmed by social events, or simply don't know where to begin. That's okay—but until you're honest about your starting point, any plan you follow will be a shot in the dark. So ask yourself: What's working? What's not? What do I actually have control over today? That clarity gives you the leverage to tip the scales in your favor. The K.I.S.S. ~ Tip the S.C.A.L.E.S.! Scale It — An Acronym for Holiday Health Wins Think of S.C.A.L.E.S. as a toolkit to nudge your habits in a healthier direction that sticks well beyond the holiday frenzy. S — Simplify Your Goals Forget all-or-nothing. Your goals during the holidays don't have to be massive. Commit to small, clear actions like drinking one extra glass of water a day or taking a five-minute dance break between commitments. These micro-habits add up. C — Choose Movement That Fits You You don't have to hit the gym hard or clock miles on a treadmill. Walk around your neighborhood, play with your kids, try a quick stretch session. It doesn't have to be over the top. Movement is movement—and even small bursts will help your energy and mindset. A — Acknowledge Your Cravings, Then Shift Cravings don't vanish with sheer willpower. Notice them, don't shame yourself, and then redirect. If you want something sweet, grab a piece of fruit or dark chocolate instead of a sugar bomb. If salty comes on you out of the blue, snack on nuts or air-popped popcorn. L — Lean Into Support Healthy living isn't done in a vacuum. Align with friends or family who want similar wins. Share your intentions and encourage accountability. Plus, chatting with someone who "gets it" makes the journey less lonely and more fun. E — Eat With Intention Holiday meals wreck your metabolism when you eat distracted, rush, or scroll on your phone. Become mindful. Savor each bite. Put your fork down between bites. This simple shift can help you avoid overeating and deepen your enjoyment. S — Schedule Self-Care You're the engine that runs your life's mission. Without refueling your body and mind, you stall. Block out time for sleep, meditation, or just breathing deeply. Protect these moments fiercely. The Bigger Picture The real benefit of healthy living isn't just slipping into your jeans or shedding holiday weight. It's not just about looking good for the pictures. It's about showing up for your life's mission. Your work, your relationships, your purpose—they all need you operating at your best. If you're stuck in bed with burnout or trapped by illness, none of what you want is possible. The health habits you build today tip the scales tomorrow, where your dreams are not held hostage by exhaustion or pain. Celebrate Without Sabotage Yes, enjoy the holidays. Eat the pie. Laugh with family. Sip the eggnog. But do it with awareness. You're not depriving yourself; you're choosing to tip the scales toward strength, clarity, and vitality. The choice is yours. This season, don't let the chaos knock you sideways. Start where you are, use the S.C.A.L.E.S. toolkit, and inch your way toward better living—not just for today but every day. You've got what it takes. Now tip those scales. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #WellnessWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

We live in a culture that glorifies complexity and chaos—complicated schedules, endless goals, nonstop hustle. Yet, most of that noise isn't helping you. You're beating yourself up for what you don't have, tangled in past disappointments, and paralyzed by fear that's mostly imagined. None of that moves the needle. What if, for just one moment, you accepted that simplicity is enough? Imagine stripping away the must-dos, the overwhelm, the fears, and the doubts. Too often, though, we create monsters in our heads, just like we did when we were little and the monsters were under the bed. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com But these monsters aren't imaginary anymore. They're real enough to freeze your progress, to make you question your worth, your direction, your next move. And that's exactly why you have to stop feeding them. Instead, what if you just figured out what you want? Not the whole grand vision laid out in perfect detail, but the one next small step that nudges you forward. Not a giant leap that crushes your confidence, but a little tip-toe that says, "I'm in." Too often, we let our brains turn "next steps" into an immovable mountain. We pile on what-if scenarios, worst-case fears, and doubts that spiral out of control. But there's a secret. Progress doesn't require tearing down the mountain all at once. It just requires that one first pebble be shifted. What if you paused long enough to try that small new action? What if you let go of the need to solve everything right now and turned your attention to the simple beauty around you? The steady breath, the sound of birds, the quiet moments before the day starts—these are the anchors in chaos. The K.I.S.S. ~ Simplicity is enough! Life will always throw the unpredictable at you. There will be things outside your control. But losing control? That's a choice. You hold power in how you respond, how you break down challenges into something manageable instead of monsters. Today, let simplicity be your strategy. Pick one small task—one thing that will create a ripple effect—and commit to it. This is the mark of real forward movement, the power of incremental gains that add up. It's like taking a minute that stretches into an hour of focused presence—and in that presence, real magic happens. Not because you see all your future wins, but because you show up fully in the here and now. Yesterday, you rushed. Today, slow down to speed up. See the beauty inside the chaos. Make your mark from a place of calm, clarity, and courage. Simplicity is enough. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Too much to do and holidays too close, how do you keep up with all of it the most? Every day can get you down when you keep going around. You claim you're busy, but you're just dizzy. Nothing will change until—you stop running to stand still. Why do we keep trying to convince ourselves that we can do everything? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com The myth of doing it all drains energy, steals joy, and steals our clarity. It's called busy for a reason—but busy isn't always progress. Sometimes it's just noise. It's absolutely okay to ask for help. It's OK to slow down. It's OK to rest. The real question is: will you? Will you be brave enough to face what's not working? Will you shift course before the burnout knocks you down? Or will you keep pushing full throttle into the end of the year, exhausted, with no clear direction for what comes next? The Illusion of Momentum All too often in these busiest months—from November's scramble through to the new year's fresh beginnings—we confuse motion with progress. You cram your schedule with meetings, projects, social obligations. You double down on multitasking, telling yourself this is how you "handle it all." But the truth is, you might just be running in circles. The more you do, the faster you run, and the less you move forward. This constant pace is a trap. It wears you down emotionally and physically. Your work quality dips, your relationships strain, and your soul starves for meaning. This is why the phrase "running to stand still" isn't just poetic—it's a warning; slow down to speed up. The K.I.S.S. ~ Slow down to S.P.E.E.D. up! SPEED: Five Ways to Slow Down to Speed Up To break free from this dizzying cycle, it's time to adjust your tempo. Here's a practical guide, using SPEED as your roadmap, to help you slow down without losing momentum—especially when the pressure is highest. S — Stop and Assess Before you dive into another task, hit pause. Take five minutes each day this season to look at your whole schedule and goals. Are these activities moving you closer to what matters? For example, instead of saying yes to every holiday invite or extra project at work, ask: "Is this necessary? Does this serve my priorities or just fill my calendar?" Being intentional here saves energy for what counts. P — Prioritize Ruthlessly You can't do everything, nor should you try. Make a list not just of tasks, but of outcomes that truly matter. In the holiday season, that might mean focusing on spending quality time with close family over attending every social event, or choosing three key projects to excel at instead of ten half-done commitments. Prioritizing cuts the noise and clears your path. E — Establish Boundaries Busy seasons tempt us to say yes to all requests—but boundaries protect your well-being and focus. Set limits on work hours, screen time, and social media consumption. Maybe this means turning off email notifications after 7 p.m. or blocking out personal time on your calendar for a quiet walk or journaling. Boundaries aren't selfish; they're strategic. E — Engage Support Remember, asking for help is strength, not weakness. Whether it's delegating holiday tasks to family members, hiring extra help at work, or simply sharing your challenges with a trusted friend, support changes everything. This season, don't carry every burden alone. Real people, real help, real relief. D — Digest and Reflect At the end of each day or week, take time to reflect. What went well? What drained you? What could be adjusted? This reflection builds awareness and prevents you from slipping back into frantic running. It also allows you to celebrate small wins, which fuels motivation and resilience. When Will You Find Your Right Tempo? Running faster doesn't guarantee progress. Finding the right speed—the tempo that fits your life and goals—does. When you align your pace with purpose, you don't just survive the busy season; you thrive through it. You'll come out clearer, stronger, and ready to step into what's next with confidence. So when will you stop spinning and start moving forward? When will you decide that your time, energy, and peace are worth more than the lie of endless busyness? "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness." ~ Kristianne Wargo Each pause, each boundary, each ask for help puts you one step closer to a life where busy no longer means dizzy—but deliberate and driven. You choose. Your move. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Your struggle isn't a solo mission. In fact, rest is on the other side of surrender. The apostle Paul writes of this truth in 2 Corinthians 12:9-10: "But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ's sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong." Think about it—how quick are we to shout from the rooftops all the things we're good at? Yet when it comes to admitting where we fall short or struggle, we clam up. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Weakness has become a mark of failure or lack, not something to own. But God flips the script: it's through our weakness that His strength shines brightest. Look inward. Where do you feel weak? Or maybe, where do you want to improve but keep hitting walls? That exact place might be your starting line. When you stop trying to muscle through on your own and instead hand your weakness over to God, that's when real strength shows up. Not because of what you can do, but because of what God can do through you. The K.I.S.S. ~ For when I am weak! Philippians 4:13 puts it plainly: "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." It's not a motivational pep talk—it's a lifeline. Your confidence, your forward momentum, isn't tied up in your skills or willpower. It's rooted in the unshakable strength that Christ offers generously when you lean in. Paul wasn't just being spiritual fluff. He was wrestling with real thorns and struggles, yet he found a reason to be grateful—not for the pain itself, but for whose he was. When you come to that place, your weaknesses don't define you. Jesus does. So challenge yourself: What weakness can you stop fighting against? What struggle can you start handing over? When you do, you'll find that your weakness isn't your downfall—it's the point where God's power moves in and lifts you higher. This is your moment. Rest in the fact that God's grace is enough, and strength will be made perfect because you're weak, not despite it. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Conflict in marriage isn't just about the argument itself. It's about the distance it creates—the silence, the hurt, the confusion about where "we" stand. Coming back together after conflict isn't automatic. It requires intentional, courageous steps that go beyond "Let's just forget it" or "Sorry." It's all about stepping toward each other when it hurts most. Every marriage faces its share of conflict and miscommunication. It's not a sign that something is broken beyond repair—it's simply human nature. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com We come into relationships with our own histories, expectations, and emotional triggers. Small misunderstandings escalate when left unaddressed, assumptions fill in the gaps where clarity is missing, and stress from outside life pressures can spill over in ways neither partner intends. Sometimes, a minor disagreement can spiral into silence. Or harsh words cut deeper than anyone expected. You find yourselves wanting to move forward but stuck—wondering how to rebuild, how to reconnect when everything feels raw and fragile. That's where the toughest part lies: not just wanting peace, but knowing how to get there. So what can a spouse do when the distance after a fight seems too wide? The K.I.S.S. ~ Rebuild the bridge! You can fix what is broken, but only the parts that you control. 1. Own Your Part Without Defensiveness Conflict is never one-sided. When emotions run high, it's tempting to protect yourself by pointing fingers or justifying your actions. But healing begins when you bravely step back and own your role—not with excuses, but with honesty. This doesn't mean taking all the blame; it means acknowledging how your words or actions contributed to the pain. Saying, "I'm sorry for how I hurt you," rather than, "I'm sorry you feel that way," is powerful. It lowers defenses, breaks down walls, and signals willingness to bridge the gap. When you own your part, you invite your partner to do the same—not with judgment, but with empathy. This creates a safe space where real conversations can grow, and healing can begin. 2. Ask Deep Questions—Listen to Understand, Not to Respond After a conflict, it's easy to get caught replaying your version of the story in your head—and mentally preparing your next point. But what your partner really needs is to be heard, not debated. Try asking thoughtful, open-ended questions that invite your spouse to share their feelings and needs. For instance: "What was going through your mind during our argument?" "How did what I said or did affect you?" "What do you need from me so we can move forward?" Then, listen deeply. That means resisting the urge to interrupt or defend yourself. Listen to understand the emotional experience behind their words. When your partner feels genuinely understood, it breeds connection—not defensiveness—and that shared understanding is the bridge back. 3. Rebuild Connection Through Small Acts of Care Big apologies or grand gestures alone won't restore what's lost after conflict. What heals most is consistent, small acts that show you're present and invested. It could be something as simple as making their favorite cup of coffee, sending a heartfelt text during the day, or suggesting a walk together without distractions. These moments remind both of you that, beyond the disagreement, you're a team that cares deeply. Consistency is key. When your spouse sees you making an effort day after day, they begin to trust that the connection will hold—even when times get tough. Conflict Isn't the End—it Can Be the Start of Something Stronger Conflict doesn't have to fracture your marriage. In fact, it can reveal cracks that, when addressed with courage and care, lead to greater intimacy and understanding. Stepping toward each other when it hurts most isn't easy. It requires humility, patience, and intentionality. But every relationship worth fighting for deserves that effort. So when you feel stuck, remember this: not all conflicts lead to the end. Often, they lead to the chance to come back—closer and more connected than before. You just have to take the first step. "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!" ~ Kristianne Wargo "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 💍 The Christmas Ring by Karen Kingsbury: (https://karenkingsbury.com) 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.