Let's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari

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Mar 31, 2026 • 44min

A Man Who Trashes His Ex Is Not Over Her — Dating Dilemmas Pt. 2

We’re back for more listener dating dilemmas, and we cover everything. From texting gaps and gut feelings, to dating with kids (and narcissistic exes), intentional dating vs. playing it cool, and how to show interest without overdoing it.We also get into independent women being punished for their independence, overbearing moms, men trashing their exes, co-parenting with narcissists, and how to keep your nervous system regulated when dating (or divorce) dynamics get messy. Plus, dating your husband when you have kids, setting boundaries, and trusting patterns when someone shows you exactly who they are.A word from my sponsors:Upward - Download Upward. The dating app where faith and values meet.ADT - When every second counts, count on ADT. Visit adt.com or call 1-800-ADT-ASAP.Figs - Get 15% off your first order at wearfigs.com with the code FIGSRXLMNT - Right now LMNT is offering a free sample pack with any purchase, That’s 8 single serving packets FREE with any LMNT order. This is a great way to try all 8 flavors or share LMNT with a friend. Get yours at DrinkLMNT.com/HONEST.Kahlua -  Find Kahlúa Dunkin Caramel Swirl at retailers nationwide, including Walmart, Total Wine, Albertsons, Kroger, Ralphs, Safeway, BevMo, Publix, and more. Must be 21 or older to purchase. Please drink responsibly.IQBAR - Text HONEST to 64000 to get 20% off all IQBAR products, plus FREE shipping. Message and data rates may apply.Taylor Farms - Grab a Taylor Farms chopped salad kit. And get your salad together!For more Let's Be Honest, follow along at:@kristincavallari on Instagram@kristincavallari and @dearmedia on TikTokLet's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari on YouTubeProduced by Dear Media.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Mar 24, 2026 • 39min

Red Flags, Gaslighting & Bad Behavior — Dating Dilemmas Pt.1

Listener dating dilemmas are back—and I'm always reminded how crazy it is out there. This episode is packed with your real-life dating questions, from men in relationships following (and liking) other women on social media, to ghosting, exclusivity gone wrong, and major red flags you should never ignore. We’re talking social media behavior, emotional maturity, cheating in the honeymoon phase, and why liking photos is very different than just following.I also get into flirting (how to do it without overthinking), dating younger men, money in relationships, being “too loyal too fast,” and whether it’s okay to have fun with the wrong ones while waiting for the right one. Plus, what it really means when someone won’t talk about their past, why photos of an ex are an immediate no, and how to support a friend who keeps dating the same toxic type.A word from my sponsors:Nutrafol - See thicker, stronger, faster-growing hair with less shedding in just 3-6 months with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code HONESTTaylor Farms - Grab a Taylor Farms chopped salad kit. And get your salad together!Upward - Download Upward. The dating app where faith and values meet.ADT - When every second counts, count on ADT. Visit adt.com or call 1-800-ADT-ASAP.Mill - Try Mill risk-free for 90 days and get $75 off at mill.com/HONEST and use code HONEST at checkout.Revolve - Shop at REVOLVE.com/HONEST and use code HONEST for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartnerKahlua - Find Kahlúa Dunkin Caramel Swirl at retailers nationwide, including Walmart, Total Wine, Albertsons, Kroger, Ralphs, Safeway, BevMo, Publix, and more. Must be 21 or older to purchase. Please drink responsiblyFor more Let's Be Honest, follow along at:@kristincavallari on Instagram@kristincavallari and @dearmedia on TikTokLet's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari on YouTubeProduced by Dear Media.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Mar 17, 2026 • 1h 17min

What Not To Do If You Want To Date a Musician with Tucker Wetmore

This week, I’m joined by country music’s most eligible bachelor, Tucker Wetmore. We talk about how a football injury changed the course of his life, what it was like moving to Nashville without knowing a single soul, and how one song completely flipped everything.A word from my sponsors:Netflix's Age of Attraction - Watch Age of Attraction Wednesdays starting March 11, only on NetflixTaylor Farms - Grab a Taylor Farms chopped salad kit. And get your salad together!ADT - When every second counts, count on ADT. Visit adt.com or call 1-800-ADT-ASAP.Bon Charge - Go to boncharge.com/HONEST and use coupon code HONEST to save 15%.Ritual - Save 25% on your first month at Ritual.com/BEHONESTFIGS - Get 15% off your first order at wearfigs.com with the code FIGSRXVivrelle - Go to www.vivrelle.com and apply for a membership today using referral code HONEST for your first month of membership free - the code will also allow you to skip the Vivrelle waitlist.For more Let's Be Honest, follow along at:@kristincavallari on Instagram@kristincavallari and @dearmedia on TikTokLet's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari on YouTubeProduced by Dear Media.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Mar 10, 2026 • 53min

10 Things To Do Before, During, and After Divorce

If you’ve made the decision to get a divorce (or are about to), this episode is for you. I share the 10 things I wish someone had told me before, during, and after my own divorce — from consulting an attorney and protecting your finances, to handling your ex and navigating co-parenting, to taking care of your emotional and physical well-being.A word from my sponsors:Upward - Download Upward. The dating app where faith and values meet.ADT - When every second counts, count on ADT. Visit adt.com or call 1-800-ADT-ASAP.Taylor Farms - Grab a Taylor Farms chopped salad kit. And get your salad together!Hiya - Receive 50% off your first order. To claim this deal, you must go to hiyahealth.com/HONEST.IQBAR - Text HONEST to 64000 to get 20% off all IQBAR products, plus FREE shipping. Message and data rates may apply.Wayfair - Get last-minute hosting essentials, gifts for all your loved ones, and decor to celebrate the holidays for WAY less. Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home.Netflix's Age of Attraction - Watch Age of Attraction Wednesdays starting March 11, only on NetflixFor more Let's Be Honest, follow along at:@kristincavallari on Instagram@kristincavallari and @dearmedia on TikTokLet's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari on YouTubeProduced by Dear Media.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Mar 3, 2026 • 1h 19min

Inside Family Wounds with Marriage and Family Therapist Vienna Pharaon

I'm joined by Vienna Pharaon, one of the most sought-after family therapists, to dive into how our family dynamics shape all of our relationships, starting in childhood and echoing into adulthood. We explore the five core origin wounds—worthiness, belonging, prioritization, trust, and safety—and how they show up in parenting, romantic relationships, and even conflict with an ex.We talk honestly about the impact of divorce on kids, navigating co-parenting with a narcissistic ex (especially when they trash you to the kids), and how to help children process emotions when they don’t yet have the words. From teens who won’t open up, to kids struggling with step-families, to the emotional whiplash of moving house-to-house—nothing is off-limits.You’ll learn practical ways to support kids through transitions, ease them back into routine after a tense time at the other parent’s house, and show up for them even when they’re pulling away. We also zoom out to remind ourselves: we’re all going to mess up our kids one way or another—but accountability, repair, and nervous-system regulation go a long way.Along the way, we unpack what a healthy romantic relationship actually looks like, how to calm your nervous system when you’re triggered, and how healing yourself changes everything—for you and your kids.A word from my sponsors:• Armra - Go to armra.com/HONEST or enter HONEST to get 30% off your first subscription order.• FX's Love Story: John F. Kennedy Jr. & Carolyn Bessette. Watch now on FX, Hulu, and Hulu on Disney+ for bundle subscribers.Bon Charge - Go to boncharge.com/HONEST and use coupon code HONEST to save 15%.ADT - When every second counts, count on ADT. Visit adt.com or call 1-800-ADT-ASAPTonal - Right now, Tonal is offering our listeners $200 off your Tonal purchase with promo code HONESTKa'Chava - Go to kachava.com and use code HONEST for 15% offRitual - Save 25% on your first month at Ritual.com/BEHONESTThe Quiz: https://viennapharaon.com/origin-wound-quiz/The Origin Healing Method: https://courses.viennapharaon.com/the-origin-healing-methodVienna's IG: https://www.instagram.com/mindfulmft/Vienna's site: https://viennapharaon.com/For more Let's Be Honest, follow along at:@kristincavallari on Instagram@kristincavallari and @dearmedia on TikTokLet's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari on YouTubeProduced by Dear Media.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Feb 24, 2026 • 1h 4min

A Slutty Valentine's Day with Justin Anderson

Justin is back to recap another unhinged LA trip. This week, I'm downloading him on everything- from the slutty Valentine's Day party I went to, to a spray tan that left me feeling vulnerable and exposed. We get into the actors and athletes that I saw on Valentine's Day without their girlfriends, we discuss cheating, aging, and we even touch on more clone/Epstein theories. A word from my sponsors:FX's Love Story: John F. Kennedy Jr. & Carolyn Bessette. Watch now on FX, Hulu, and Hulu on Disney+ for bundle subscribers.ADT - Visit ADT.com to learn more.Taylor Farms - Grab a Taylor Farms chopped salad kit. And get your salad together!FIGS - Get 15% off your first order at wearfigs.com with the code FIGSRXNutrafol - See thicker, stronger, faster-growing hair with less shedding in just 3-6 months with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code HONESTMill - Try Mill risk-free for 90 days and get $75 off at mill.com/HONEST and use code HONEST at checkout.The Real Real - Get $25 off your first purchase when you go to TheRealReal.com/honest.For more Let's Be Honest, follow along at:@kristincavallari on Instagram@kristincavallari and @dearmedia on TikTokLet's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari on YouTubeProduced by Dear Media.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Feb 17, 2026 • 51min

The Life Lessons I Want My Kids to Carry

Today’s episode is advice for my kids — and really, advice for anyone doing life. These are the lessons I’ve learned over the years that I hope to send my kids into the world with. We talk about trusting your gut, living authentically, letting go of people-pleasing, and why other people’s opinions have nothing to do with you. I dive into self-worth, work ethic, energy, fear, comparison, and what it really means to live a fulfilling life.This episode is about growth, resilience, and learning to let life surprise you — even when it’s hard. Whether you’re a parent or just need a reminder of what matters, this one’s meant to be something you keep in your back pocket.A word from my sponsors:Bon Charge - Go to boncharge.com/HONEST and use coupon code HONEST to save 15%.Armra - Go to armra.com/HONEST or enter HONEST to get 30% off your first subscription order.Skims - Shop my favorite bras and underwear at http://www.skims.com/honest #skimspartnerHiya - Receive 50% off your first order. To claim this deal, you must go to hiyahealth.com/HONEST.FX's Love Story: John F. Kennedy Jr. & Carolyn Bessette. Watch now on FX, Hulu, and Hulu on Disney+ for bundle subscribers.Listen to Jay Shetty's new Audible Original series Messy Love: Difficult Conversations for Deeper Connection. Go to Audible.com/MessyLove to start listening today.For more Let's Be Honest, follow along at:@kristincavallari on Instagram@kristincavallari and @dearmedia on TikTokLet's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari on YouTubeProduced by Dear Media.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Feb 10, 2026 • 59min

Chasing Everything With A D*ck with Sarah Shahi

Nothing is off-limits this week with my new girl crush, Sarah Shahi. She opens up about divorce, co-parenting, and being single for the first time in 23 years. We talk about why she’s done chasing men and making the first move—and how she went from shrinking herself in relationships to fully owning her power, fire, and confidence.Sarah gets real about hyping herself up for those steamy Sex/Life scenes, why she’s focusing on herself more than ever, and the truth behind her on-set romance with Adam Demos—including why she said “I love you” first, and why he didn’t say it back. She also shares why she's going for a slow-burn love now, whether she’d date someone without kids again, and why she’s done rushing anything—except her own joy.A word from my sponsors:ADT - Visit ADT.com to learn more.Armra - Go to armra.com/HONEST or enter HONEST to get 30% off your first subscription order.Skims - Shop my favorite bras and underwear at http://www.skims.com/honest #skimspartnerHiya - Receive 50% off your first order. To claim this deal you must go to hiyahealth.com/HONEST.Tonal - Right now, Tonal is offering our listeners $200 off your Tonal purchase with promo code HONESTWayfair - Get last-minute hosting essentials, gifts for all your loved ones, and decor to celebrate the holidays for WAY less. Head to Wayfair.com right now to shop all things home.For more Let's Be Honest, follow along at:@kristincavallari on Instagram@kristincavallari and @dearmedia on TikTokLet's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari on YouTubeProduced by Dear Media.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Feb 3, 2026 • 1h 16min

Call Me Anytime: Answering Listener Voicemails 📞

This week’s episode is all about your questions — and as always, nothing is off-limits. We talk about why I don’t believe in regrets (what’s the point?), the different types of love, and how infatuation has absolutely messed with me more times than I’d like to admit. I open up about why I won’t be saying “I love you” for at least six months, how I’ve learned to break toxic cycles, and why we all deserve more than repeating the same unhealthy patterns. We talk motherhood — surviving the chaos of raising little kids, why I stay out of my kids’ drama, and how I feel about turning 40. Plus, my current workout routine, what I eat in a day, and what adult friendships really look like — including how to make new friends when the ones you have aren’t showing up. A word from my sponsors:Vivrelle - Go to www.vivrelle.com and apply for a membership today using referral code Honest for your first month of membership free - the code will also allow you to skip the Vivrelle waitlist.Bon Charge - Go to boncharge.com/HONEST and use coupon code HONEST to save 15%.CookUnity - Go to cookunity.com/HONEST or enter code HONEST before checkout for 50% off your first week.ADT - Visit ADT.com to learn more.Taylor Farms - Grab a Taylor Farms chopped salad kit. And get your salad together!For more Let's Be Honest, follow along at:@kristincavallari on Instagram@kristincavallari and @dearmedia on TikTokLet's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari on YouTubeProduced by Dear Media.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Jan 27, 2026 • 1h 1min

Can We Just Be Honest About How Hard Motherhood Is? With Stephanie Biegel

My bestie Biegs is back for an honest, unfiltered conversation about what becoming a mom really feels like — the identity shift, the exhaustion, the guilt, and the pressure to love every moment. We discuss having kids younger vs older, how motherhood changes relationships, the mental load no one warns you about, and why two things can be true at once: you can be obsessed with your kids and still find this season incredibly hard.A word from my sponsors:Audible - Go to Audible.com/MessyLove to start listening todayFigs - You can get 15% off your first order at Wearfigs.com with the code FIGS RX.Ka'Chava - Rewild your nutrition at kachava.com and use code HONEST.ADT - Visit ADT.com to learn more.O Positiv - Take proactive care of your health and head to OPositiv.com/HONEST or enter HONEST at checkout for 25% off your first purchase.For more Let's Be Honest, follow along at:@kristincavallari on Instagram@kristincavallari and @dearmedia on TikTokLet's Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari on YouTubeProduced by Dear Media.This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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