It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

Abbie dissects a tweet that says the following: I'm the kind of girl that says I want a boyfriend but any time a guy tries to get to know me I'm like "nah not you"??? I'm the reason I'm fucking single". Lotsa issues but nothing we can examine!   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Grrr!! This one is full of anger. A listener DMd Abbie a message asking how to deal with her D-Bag of an ex who is attempting to slut shame her. Gross.   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's been a couple of days because Abbie needed a mental health break. Today Abbie rants about anti-vaxxers and conspiracy theorists in a very niche facebook group she is in. She gives advice on how to deal with being ghosted, how to just be "better" in bed (and how to deal with someone not being able to cum or get hard) and how to deal with being bisexual... even though she doesnt really know yet either.  Here is the link to the Ask Abbie mentioned:  https://www.popsugar.com.au/love/how-do-i-ask-for-what-i-really-want-in-bed-47723030    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Abbie talks about the anxiety of that first sexual encounter after a dry spell, and how to ease some of that anxiety!   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Abbie had a break on Saturday so is giving you a 20 minute lockdown episode. She talks about femme men, performative actions that become habits and what that means for the body positivity movement being co-opted by thin white women (perhaps including herself) as well as the low down on going to therapy and finding a therapist for you!   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Abbie has a laugh about a reply to a nude she received, then answers a question about sexting and sending nudes. Here is the link to Abbie's PopSugar article on sexting! https://www.popsugar.com.au/love/how-to-sext-someone-47331817   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Abbie discusses WAP by Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion and all of the reasons why she loves the banger. If you don't agree, check your internalised misogyny.   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Abbie is stuck in Quarantine due to COVID-19 border restrictions in Queensland and because of this, she is going to be uploading daily mini episodes to keep herself sane. Email itsalotpod@gmail.com for questions or topic suggestions   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode is a rollercoaster of juicy relationship head scratchers starting with Abbie chatting to her gorgeous friends Viola and Simon, which then swiftly turns into a “Tell All” Interview conducted by Simon on his friend's sticky relationship status.  Simon's Friend - who remains unnamed, has been thrown into a long distance relationship. Since the move, Simons unnamed friend has found out that her loving partner doesn't think he can commit to a physically monogamous relationship. However his emotion and spiritual commitment is to her.  This episode is a very interesting perspective on modern dating and how to navigate your partners needs, but also a reminder not to forget your own wants, needs and desires.  For more, Join the IT'S A LOT WITH ABBIE CHATFIELD PODCAST GROUP on facebook  Or follow on instagram @itsalotpod If you would like to be on the episode with Abbie, Send a video to itsalotpod@gmail.com  and give an insight into who you are and why you think you would be great on the show.   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week is a little late, and a little different. Abbie had a date, her first date since her most recent break up. After Abbie being turned down multiple times on a drunken night, Danny Clayton finally agreed to a date. This is a big big deal. Learn how Abbie actually is in the dating game, with a play by play recount of Abbie and Danny's first meeting through to the end of their first date.  After their date, they give each other a report card, and have an insightful and funny chat about dating in general from both of their perspectives.  Huge "will they, won't they?" energy in this one. Hope you all enjoy this change from the regular format!    Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.