It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

They discuss conflicting payment styles in relationships and the ethical complexities of expecting reimbursement privately. They explore the impact of financial responsibility and meddling in others' affairs. They highlight the absurdity of asking for large sums of money in relationships.

In this episode, Abbie discusses the frustration of recurring UTIs and the annoyance of constant suggestions to urinate after sex. She shares her personal experiences with chronic UTIs, kidney infections, and the struggle to find proper medical care. The speakers also delve into the role of the pelvic floor in urinary health and explore the possibilities of celibacy and dating in singlehood.

In this episode, we discuss sexual assault and rape. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 What would you do if the guy you're about to root invites you over only to find that he's laid out a bid in the middle of a room FULL OF HIS FRIENDS. WTF? Chanel and Abbie don't hold back. LINKS Buy Chanel's book 'Consent Laid Bare' https://bit.ly/3QiDHof Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review  Access this episode's transcript here  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Chanel Contos @chanelcExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaCo-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, we discuss sexual assault and rape. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 Consent Queen Chanel Contos has a mission which we're all here for: Ending rape culture. Why are boy mums central to this discussion? Is Chanel anti-porn? And, what are the four types of rapists? LINKS Buy Chanel's book 'Consent Laid Bare' https://bit.ly/3QiDHof Check out Abbie's chat with Dominatrix Lucilla https://bit.ly/3tPyOLX Read Chanel's recco 'Three Women' https://bit.ly/3FAV6Uj Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review  Access this episode's transcript here  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Chanel Contos @chanelcExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaCo-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Abbie's Mummy lives to tell the tales of her unbelievable cockroach encounters in far north Queensland. You'll realise after listening to this what an EPIC storyteller Abbie's mum is. Go Mummy! LINKS Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review  Access this episode's transcript here  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guests: MummyExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaCo-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Abbie's Mum Laura makes her debut on It's A Lot and WE ARE IN LOVE! It's a chaotic episode in true Chatfield fashion where "Mummy" answers Oscar and Lem's questions including: What was Abbie like as a child? What was it like for Abbie growing up without her dad around? How did you feel about your daughter being slutshamed after The Bachelor? LINKS Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review  Access this episode's transcript here  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guests: MummyExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaCo-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, maybe skip this one and please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or call 13 11 14. For First Nations people, please call 13YARN at 13 92 76. FFS, why do politicans keep silencing First Nations voices? Thomas Mayo is a Kaurareg Aboriginal and Kalkalgal, Erubamle Torres Strait Islander man, author and advocate who is more than ready to keep fighting for the rights of the people this land belongs to. *Please note that since the release of this episode, Thomas has changed his last name to "Mayo" instead of "Mayor". LINKS Read Thomas' Books https://www.hardiegrant.com/au/publishing/bookfinder/author/thomas-mayor Follow the Uluru Statement Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ulurustatement/ Check out the Voting Compass tool here https://votecompass.abc.net.au/ Visit the Uluru Statement website here https://fromtheheart.com.au/resources/stories-from-the-heart/ CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield www.instagram.com/abbiechatfield/ Guest: Thomas Mayor https://www.instagram.com/thomasamayor/ Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia https://www.instagram.com/lemzakharia/ Video Producer: Oscar Gordon https://www.instagram.com/oscargordon/ Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/ See www.omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Three of the juiciest Nightmare Fuels chopped up and served as one episode. SO MANY red flags in these ones. Supercut 1: "Titanic Turned Into American Psycho Moment" A Nightmare Fuel with Angela White. Listen to the full episode here Supercut 2: "Try and Beat THIS Nightmare Fuel..." A Solo Nightmare Fuel. Listen to the full episode here Supercut 3: "You Have Exactly 7 Minutes to Cum" A Solo Nightmare Fuel. Listen to the full episode here LINKS Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review  Access this episode's transcript here  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Angela White @theangelawhiteExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaCo-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Does Abbie believe in God? What are her views on white wedding dresses? Why do grey walls upset her so much? Here's a second round of Ask Me Anything! LINKS Listen to the previous AMA episode https://bit.ly/46pWuVg Follow our girl hoolie_r on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@hoolie_r?lang=en  Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review  Access this episode's transcript here  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaCo-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever overmbellished a fact about yourself for someone you were crushing HARD on? Well, TikTok star Jeremy Franco may have taken things a bit too far for one hot man he saw at a pride party 4 months ago... LINKS Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to hello@itsalotpodcast.com  Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review  Access this episode's transcript here  CREDITS  Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Guest: Jeremy Franco @jeremy.francoExecutive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakhariaCo-Creative Producer: Oscar Gordon @oscargordon Social and Video Producer: Amy Code @amycode Managing Producer: Sam Cavanagh  Find more great podcasts like this at www.listnr.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.