Snake on the Table

Is "alone time" in marriage healthy or harmful? Pastor Tanner Cartwright and Jerry Dorris tackle this sensitive topic with biblical wisdom and practical insight. We explore the difference between needing occasional space for spiritual reflection versus wanting to escape from family life. Learn why some desire for "alone time" might signal deeper marriage issues, while other forms of personal space can actually strengthen your relationship.From managing daily family dynamics to creating healthy boundaries, we share pastoral guidance on building a marriage where both spouses genuinely want to be together. Discover practical tips for wives supporting their husbands' homecoming and husbands creating space for their wives' refreshment.Whether you're struggling with finding balance in your marriage or simply want to strengthen your relationship, this discussion offers biblical perspective on creating a healthy family dynamic where neither spouse wants to escape.Have a question about marriage or family life? Email us at snakeonthetable@gmail.com#selfimprovement #couplestherapy #mentalhealthawareness #healthyrelationshipstraits #howtotalktomyspouseCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:57 - Time Away from Spouse10:46 - Man's Getaway from Family13:08 - Wives Making Husbands Want to Come Home17:50 - Husbands Making Wives Want to Be Home20:10 - Supporting Your Wife21:53 - Responsibility for Quiet Time23:39 - Contact Us

The hidden dangers in women's Bible studies are more common than you might think. Join pastors Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright as they tackle the controversial topic of women's ministries and Bible studies in today's church. Drawing from their pastoral experience at Reformation Church, they explore what Scripture actually teaches about older women mentoring younger women, and why many modern approaches miss the mark.Learn why traditional women's Bible study formats often lead to gossip and division instead of genuine spiritual growth. We discuss the biblical model found in Titus 2, practical alternatives to formal programs, and how authentic mentorship should naturally flow within the church body. This candid conversation addresses:- Biblical roles for women teaching other women- The problems with celebrity women teachers- How organic fellowship trumps formal programs- Practical ways older women can mentor younger women- Why theology should primarily come from the pulpitWhether you're a woman seeking biblical guidance or a church leader evaluating women's ministry approaches, this discussion offers valuable insights into building healthy, Scripture-based women's discipleship.Have questions about this topic? Email us at snakeonthetable@gmail.com#biblestudy #theologyofthebody #thegospelcoalition #therapyandtheology #emotionalabuseCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:35 - Value of Women's Ministries and Bible Studies01:25 - Bible Teachings on Women Teaching Women05:42 - Women's Ministry at Reformation Church12:34 - Activities for Women Together17:21 - Collaborative Opportunities for Women19:53 - Practical Support for Women23:05 - Closing Remarks

Should pastors be overweight? We tackle this challenging question head-on in today's episode of Snake on the Table. Join Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright as we explore what it means for pastors to be "above reproach" when it comes to physical health and self-control.We examine this sensitive topic from multiple angles, discussing historical examples like Spurgeon and modern-day considerations about health, metabolism, and cultural influences. The conversation covers important aspects of pastoral ministry, including the relationship between physical discipline and spiritual leadership, while acknowledging the complexities of health, genetics, and lifestyle factors.This honest discussion addresses the biblical principle of self-control, the challenges of maintaining health in ministry, and practical solutions for those struggling with weight. We share personal experiences and practical tips while maintaining a biblical perspective on pastoral qualifications and the importance of being exemplary leaders in all areas of life.Have questions about this topic or want to suggest future discussion points? Email us at snakeonthetable@gmail.com#pastoralhealth #ministrycoaching #overweightpastors #churchgrowth #pastoralcareCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:55 - Should Pastors Be Fat? 04:21 - Excuses for Being Overweight06:12 - Importance of Pastors' Health12:34 - Practical Weight Loss Tips14:35 - Staying Hopeful in Weight Loss14:57 - Contact Us via Email

Family friction can tear marriages apart. In this episode, we tackle a challenging situation: What should a wife do when her husband refuses to spend time with her family? Through biblical wisdom and practical advice, we explore the delicate balance between honoring your spouse and maintaining family relationships. Pastors Jerry and Tanner dive deep into 1 Peter 3, examining how wives can navigate difficult situations while maintaining their Christian witness. We discuss three potential root causes of family conflict and offer practical solutions for both husbands and wives dealing with in-law tensions.Whether you're facing family friction in your own marriage or want to better understand biblical principles for handling conflict, this episode provides valuable insights for maintaining peace in your home while honoring both your spouse and extended family.Have a question about marriage, family, or faith? Email us at snakeonthetable@gmail.com#marriageturnaround #navigatingmarriagechallenges #familyunity #howtocommunicatewithyourspouse #trustbuildinginmarriageCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:20 - Wife's Dilemma: Husband Dislikes Family03:30 - 1 Peter 3:1-2: Biblical Guidance06:30 - Disobedient to the Word: Extremes Explained09:00 - Disobedient to the Word: The Monster Concept09:30 - Disobedient to the Word: Non-Christian Perspectives11:20 - Disobedient to the Word: Christian Insights12:09 - Can a Christian Woman Have a Disobedient Husband?12:44 - Winning a Husband Without Words: Strategies13:40 - Challenges for Women in Winning Husbands to Christ19:52 - Addressing the Husband's Issues22:43 - The Role of the Pastor in Marital Issues24:16 - Insights from Romans on Relationships25:38 - A fun story: Snakes in Hay Bales

How can Christians love their enemies while also hating the enemies of God? Join Tanner and Jerry as they tackle this seeming paradoxical biblical concept through a practical lens. With real-world examples and biblical wisdom, they discuss how to teach children to hate the enemies of God while showing Christ-like love to them. This episode breaks down how Christians can actively oppose wicked ideologies while maintaining compassionate hearts toward individuals. From dealing with cultural conflicts to sharing the gospel, learn practical ways to balance righteous hatred of evil with Christ's command to love our enemies.Whether you're a parent trying to guide your children or a believer wrestling with these concepts yourself, this discussion offers biblical clarity on this challenging topic. Have a question for us? Email snakeonthetable@gmail.com#lovesinnershatesin #lovethesinnernotthesin #doesgodhatesinners #lovegodhatesin #faithdilemmaCHAPTERS:00:00 - Introducing the Snake00:45 - Teaching Children to Hate Enemies05:20 - Understanding Hatred for God's Enemies11:03 - Loving Your Enemies: A Biblical Perspective15:24 - Loving the Lost: Compassion and Outreach20:47 - Loving the Jewish Community: Respect and Understanding22:10 - Recap and Final Thoughts23:17 - Contact Us

The Antioch Statement has sparked controversy in the Reformed church. What's really going on? We tackle this divisive issue head-on, breaking down the timeline of events and analyzing the statement's implications. Is it truly about combating racism, or is there more beneath the surface? We discuss the role of memes in modern communication, the dangers of elevating historical narratives to gospel-level importance, and the need for clarity in church statements. How should Christians approach conversations about ethnicity and history without falling into extremes?As pastors at Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, we offer our perspective on this complex situation. We react to the responses from key figures and examine the broader impact on church unity. Have questions or thoughts about this topic? Email us at snakeonthetable@gmail.com. Find our podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more discussions on Christianity, biblical masculinity, and navigating today's cultural challenges.#eschatologymatters #dougwilson #jameswhite #kinismracismCHAPTERS:01:36 - Antioch Declaration Context06:21 - Unnecessary Controversy09:46 - Tobias Retraction Explained13:06 - Ezra Institute Statement Overview17:28 - Offering the Benefit of the Doubt20:08 - Christians and Jews Relationship22:40 - Creaky Door Demon Discussion24:39 - Confusion Around Antioch Statement27:04 - James White Insights29:04 - Path to Reconciliation31:14 - Reading Joseph Spurgeon’s Statement33:14 - Closing Remarks

Street evangelism isn't complex - it's in simple. There are approachable methods that most churches overlook. In this candid discussion, Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright share practical insights on starting street evangelism ministries, from prayer stations to open-air preaching.Learn how to begin with "spider evangelism" - an accessible approach where anyone in your church can participate. We break down three proven methods: prayer stations for beginners, abortion clinic ministry for those ready to take the next step, and open-air preaching for the biblically qualified.Discover why prayer stations are perfect starting points, how to handle first interactions with law enforcement, and what makes effective gospel tracts. We share real stories of lives changed through these methods, including unexpected conversions and transformative moments for church members who'd never shared their faith before.Whether you're a pastor looking to start evangelism ministry or a church member wanting to share your faith more effectively, this episode provides practical steps to begin reaching your community with the gospel. Send your questions about street evangelism to snakeonthetable@gmail.com.#gospeltracts #lawandgrace #evangelismtips #ministrygrowth #churchoutreachmethodsCHAPTERS:00:42 - Church Evangelism Strategies01:22 - The Prayer Station Concept05:56 - Abortion Clinic Outreach07:16 - Locating Effective Gospel Tracts09:13 - Open Air Preaching Techniques17:34 - Conclusion and Summary19:01 - Submit Your Questions via Email

Should wives confront weak spiritual leadership? We tackle this sensitive topic with biblical truth and practical wisdom. In this episode, we discuss the delicate balance between a wife's biblical submission and her responsibility to address her husband's spiritual leadership shortcomings. We explore Scripture's guidance on confronting sin, the role of prayer, and when to involve church leadership. Whether you're a husband, wife, or future spouse, this discussion will equip you with biblical principles for navigating spiritual leadership in marriage. Don't miss our practical tips for fostering a God-honoring household.Have a question about biblical masculinity, gender roles, or Christian parenting? Email us at snakeonthetable@gmail.com. Listen to our podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more biblical truth on tough topics.#familydevotion #submissionasawife #biblestudy #submissionexplained #howtoleadmyfamilyCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:29 - Spiritual Leadership for Wives01:12 - 1 Peter 3:1-7 Explained04:56 - Importance of Family Worship07:16 - Role of Prayer for Wives10:57 - Encouraging Men to Lead Spiritually13:31 - Contact Us

In this episode of "Snake on the Table," we delve into the question: How Can a Man Be the Spiritual Leader of His Home? Join Tanner Cartwright and Jerry Dorris from Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, as we discuss the essence of being a spiritual leader in your family. We tackle how to evaluate your spiritual leadership, the importance of praying and reading scriptures with your wife, and how to incorporate family worship into daily routines. Are you curious about how biblical masculinity and gender roles shape your spirituality and parenting? We react to the common struggles men face and offer practical, God-honoring advice. We encourage open dialogue, so if you have questions or topics you'd like us to explore, please write to us at snakeinthetable@gmail.com. Tune in to our podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more insightful discussions. Let's embark on this journey of spiritual growth together!CHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro01:17 - Spiritual Leadership in the Home03:18 - Praying with Your Wife05:28 - Scripture Reading Together09:00 - Family Worship Guide11:32 - Leading a Reluctant Wife Spiritually16:40 - Teaching into Existence17:49 - Gentle Approach to Marriage19:07 - Man as Spiritual Leader19:25 - Closing

In this episode of "Snake on the Table," we take a look at God's disposition toward witchcraft. Guest, Austin Keeler from Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, joins Jerry to tackle topics like witchcraft's rise, its impact on society, and what the Bible says about it. We discuss biblical teachings, such as Exodus 22:18, and confront cultural norms head-on, challenging Christians to address the sins of our time. How should believers respond to witchcraft in today's world? Is there a place for punishment? We react to these questions and more, inviting you to be part of the conversation. Send your questions or topics to snakeonthetable@gmail.com. Don't forget to check out our podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more engaging discussions on Christianity, biblical masculinity, gender roles, spirituality, and parenting. Join us as we explore how to be a light in the darkness and faithfully proclaim the Gospel.#folkmagic #witchcraft #officialchristiantv #witchcraft #witchcraftdebateCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro01:18 - Why Are People Wondering?05:24 - What is Witchcraft? 11:28 - Should Witchcraft Be Penalized? 14:04 - God's Disposition Towards Witchcraft 16:29 - Witchcraft and the First and Second Commandments 18:14 - Witchcraft Leads to Other Sins 19:08 - No Distinction Between Black and White Magic 20:28 - Seeking Hidden Knowledge in Witchcraft 21:18 - Witchcraft as a Capital Offense in Israel 22:39 - God's Judgment on Causing Children to Stumble 24:08 - The Church's Role in Addressing Witchcraft 28:03 - Final Answer to Should We Kill Witches?