Snake on the Table

How do you cultivate a truly masculine church culture? In this episode, we discuss how Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, creates an environment where biblical masculinity thrives. From leading worship to teaching young men the importance of courage, leadership, and godly responsibility, we tackle the practical ways churches can foster a culture that honors divine design for gender roles. We explore how leading, providing, and protecting are central to spiritual masculinity, the importance of men setting the tone in worship, and how engaging in open dialogue strengthens brotherhood. Can a church truly stand firm on scripture without caving to cultural pressures? How does a focus on teaching, accountability, and real-life application of biblical truths elevate both men and families?Join us as we examine the role of pastors, the impact of strong male leadership, and why challenging men to step up in their homes and communities is essential. Got questions or topics you'd like us to explore? Send them our way, and let’s keep the conversation going!#authenticmanhood #masculineenergy #biblicalleadership #biblicalmasculinity #men'sministryCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:44 - Cultivating Masculine Culture in Church01:42 - Masculine Worship Practices06:10 - Preparing Men for Spiritual Warfare08:01 - The Role of Worship in Masculinity09:18 - Biblical Distinction of Gender10:39 - Church's Offensive Approach18:00 - Defining Our Masculine Identity22:20 - Bivocational Pastoring Insights25:14 - Building a Culture of Masculinity28:15 - Foundations in Scripture33:16 - Strategies for Cultivating Masculinity34:40 - Monday Night Bible Study Overview38:58 - Jay Adams Case Studies Explained39:35 - Understanding Masculinity44:55 - Closing Thoughts on Masculinity

Why must pastors choose boldness over popularity in today's culture? In this episode of Snake on the Table, Tanner Cartwright and Jerry Dorris from Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, tackle the challenges pastors face in balancing courage, truth, and cultural pressures. We discuss the dangers of compromising biblical principles, the importance of standing for righteousness in the public square, and how pastors can resist the temptation to prioritize approval over truth.We react to the growing "winsome to woke" mindset among church leaders and explore the concept of biblical masculinity, as highlighted in books like "Masculine Christianity" by Zachary Garris. Are pastors too often steered by fear or by the most sensitive voices in their congregations? What does it truly mean to shepherd boldly while fostering unity among churches?Join us as we share personal experiences, address the realities of pastoral struggles, and call for a renewed commitment to biblical truth and community impact. Have a question or topic for us? Reach out at snakeonthetable.com or email refurchpastor@gmail.com. Don’t forget to find Snake on the Table on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more!Let’s connect and work together for a stronger, Christ-centered community.#unityofthespirit #spiritualgrowth #pastoralboldness #graceoverguilt #unityinthechurchCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:53 - Pastoral Changes in County12:18 - Understanding Cancel Culture17:44 - Issues Hierarchy Explained19:07 - Collaboration Strategies21:04 - Strategies to Combat Evil22:08 - Get in Touch with Us

Do Muslim dreams lead to salvation? In this episode, we tackle this fascinating question from a reformed perspective. Join Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, as we discuss powerful stories of divine providence, biblical truths, and how dreams might play a role in leading individuals to hear the gospel. Can God use extraordinary means, such as dreams or impressions, to draw people to Himself? How do we discern His will through scripture, prayer, and the work of the church?We also share real-life examples, explore cessationism versus continuationism, and reflect on the ultimate authority of God's Word in salvation. This is a thought-provoking conversation about faith, spiritual encounters, and how God moves through His messengers to transform lives. What are your thoughts on this topic? Have questions or reactions? Send them to us at Snake on the Table, and let’s keep the conversation going!#spiritualawakening #spiritualgrowth #islamiclectures #chosenones #darknightofthesoul#israel #reformedtheology #voddiebauchamtruegospel #reformedtheologyexplained #voddiebauchamCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro01:50 - Snake on the Table02:16 - Salvation in Dreams for Muslims05:36 - Identifying Jesus in Dreams11:02 - Spiritual Guidance Through Dreams14:12 - Understanding Providence17:30 - Discerning God's Will22:10 - Normative Practices in Faith23:35 - Understanding Labels in Religion25:28 - What Are We Missing in Spirituality28:16 - Exploring Miracles29:40 - Contact Us for More Information

In this episode of Snake on the Table, we discuss a thought-provoking question: Should women hold public offices? Exploring this topic from a biblical perspective, we dive into the roles of men and women in leadership, government, and the church, unpacking scriptural truths and societal challenges. Are men abdicating their responsibilities? What does the Bible say about gender roles and leadership? How can we, as Christians, navigate these complex issues in today’s world?Join hosts Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright, pastors at Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, as we tackle these important questions and share practical insights on biblical masculinity, parenting, and the created order. Whether addressing the story of Deborah or discussing the call for men to step up, this episode is packed with candid, engaging conversation designed to challenge and inspire.We also reflect on how parenting can shape the next generation of leaders, raising resilient sons and supportive daughters to fulfill God’s design. Tune in to hear our take on the intersection of faith, feminism, and societal norms, and don’t miss our thoughts on how Christians can faithfully engage in today’s political and cultural landscape.Have a question or topic for us? Email snake@snakeonthetable.com—we’d love to hear from you! Don’t forget to check out our podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more discussions like this. Let’s grow together in understanding God’s Word and its application to every area of life.#femaleleadershipstyles #womeninleadershipquestions #christianmotivation #bible #tedtalkCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:41 - Women in Public Office: Pros and Cons04:51 - Deborah: A Biblical Leader09:49 - The Sin of Empathy: Understanding Its Impact12:32 - Women in Politics: Challenges and Triumphs17:44 - Raising Future Leaders: Parenting Perspectives19:37 - Raising Sons and Daughters: Different Approaches20:28 - Should Women Resign from Public Office?21:06 - Contact Us

In this episode of Snake on the Table, Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, tackle a hard-hitting question: Is it biblical for a man to hand off his duty to provide while he pursues ministry training?We confront the theological, practical, and pastoral fallout of this trend head-on. Can a man be trusted to shepherd a church if he neglects to shepherd his own home? Does seminary culture sometimes encourage men to abandon biblical masculinity in the name of ministry preparation?We break down what it means for a man to provide, lead, and protect—starting in his own house. Along the way, you'll hear critiques of modern seminary systems, real-life experiences, and practical alternatives for those seeking theological education without compromising their calling as husbands and fathers.👉 Available now on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.Have a question or topic? Drop it on the table—we're not afraid to deal with the snakes.CHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:29 - Overview of Topics02:13 - Seminary is Defunct07:01 - Balancing Work and Ministry10:49 - Education Resources11:14 - Pathways to Ministry14:12 - Entering the Ministry Field20:03 - Ethical Considerations in Ministry22:14 - Importance of Responsibilities24:33 - Final Thoughts and Contact Information

In this episode of "Snake on the Table," we tackle whether Christians should use phrases that mean "man up" to challenge one another. Is it biblical to rib your brothers in Christ, or does it cross the line into sin? We dive into the balance between good-natured teasing, biblical masculinity, and the feminization of culture and the church. Can true Christian friendship include tough love and honest rebukes, or should kindness always rule the day?Join Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright, pastors at Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, as we discuss the role of gender roles, spiritual accountability, and how men can build real, meaningful friendships rooted in faith and strength. We react to cultural trends, reflect on personal experiences, and share what Scripture reveals about authentic Christian masculinity.We want to hear from you! What are your thoughts on this topic? Send us your questions or ideas for future episodes—we’re building this conversation together. Catch the full podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or right here as we continue exploring faith, relationships, and life through a biblical lens.#redpill #toxicchurchculture #culturalrevival #churchimpact #masculineresponsibilityCHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro00:59 - Male Name-Calling: Gay, Pansy, Sissy02:06 - Context of Ribbing Among Friends08:15 - Friendship Dynamics: True Friends and Name-Calling11:02 - Understanding the Term Pantywaist17:00 - Outro

Is avoiding kids unbiblical? In this episode, we tackle this tough and thought-provoking question head-on. Join us as Tanner Cartwright and Jerry Dorris from Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, discuss the biblical purpose of marriage, the command to be fruitful and multiply, and the modern cultural trends like "dinks" (dual income, no kids). We dive into topics such as Christianity, biblical masculinity, parenting, gender roles, and how faithfully raising children impacts the next generation and brings glory to God.We also explore the challenges of family planning, biblical perspectives on contraception, and the sovereignty of God for couples struggling with infertility. Are children a blessing or a burden? Can Christian couples purposefully avoid children and still honor God? Let’s unpack these deep truths together.Got questions or topics for us? Send them through the form at snakeonthetable.com—we’d love to hear from you! Don’t forget to check out our podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts for more engaging discussions. God bless!#theologyofthebody #naturalfamilyplanning #christianfamilyplanning #familyplanning #biblicalmarriage #dink CHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro01:02 - Biblical Perspective on Avoiding Children05:09 - Spacing Children: Is It Acceptable?09:54 - Financial Considerations for Avoiding Children10:32 - Children as an Asset: Understanding Wealth12:31 - Building Generational Wealth Through Family15:02 - Contact Us

In this episode of Snake on the Table, Tanner Cartwright and Jerry Dorris from Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, explore The Role of Fathers in Guiding Relationships—but this isn’t just about fathers. Pastors also play a crucial role in shepherding young men and women toward godly marriage.We discuss how Christian men should pursue relationships with confidence, leadership, and spiritual maturity, and how young women can present themselves in a way that aligns with biblical femininity—without falling into worldly distortions. But where do young believers meet a godly spouse? That’s where fathers, pastors, and the local church come in.Should pastors be more proactive in helping young people find a faithful spouse? What role does the church community play in fostering biblical relationships? We tackle these questions and more, offering practical, scriptural insights drawn from years of pastoral ministry.Whether you’re a parent, a single believer looking for direction, or a pastor wondering how to encourage godly marriages in your church, this episode has something for you.📩 Have questions or topics you want us to address? Reach out through the form at snakeonthetable.com. Don’t forget to subscribe and check out Snake on the Table on Spotify and Apple Podcasts to stay connected. Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!CHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro01:01 - Finding a Christian Man for Women07:56 - Attracting a Godly Man: Key Traits12:33 - Importance of Weight in Relationships16:48 - Traits Men Are Attracted To18:01 - Where to Meet Good Men21:06 - Tanner and Laura's Meeting Story24:05 - Involving Friends in Relationships25:50 - Singleness vs. Divorce: A Perspective28:12 - Reformed Singles Mixer Event32:23 - Tips for Finding a Christian Man36:08 - Submitting Questions for the Show36:16 - Closing Remarks

Can Christians speak like Jesus did? In this episode, we explore that question by examining the bold, loving, and often confrontational way Jesus spoke.Join Reformation Church pastors Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright, along with special guest Jon Harris, as we discuss how Christians today can follow Christ’s example in speech and action. This conversation is built on Jon’s new book, Against the Waves—a deep dive into biblical communication, standing firm in truth, and challenging cultural compromise. You can get your copy here: https://amzn.to/4bpZ3dvFrom biblical masculinity to parenting with wisdom, we cover the principles of effective communication, the necessity of godly confrontation, and the misconceptions about love in today’s culture. Whether it’s engaging with opponents, leading your family, or fostering spiritual growth, this discussion will challenge and encourage you.Got questions or topics you’d like us to cover? Send them our way, and don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes of Snake on the Table. Listen now on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, and join the conversation today!CHAPTERS:00:00 - Intro01:30 - Speaking Like Jesus: Christian Perspectives07:55 - John MacArthur’s Upcoming Book Insights11:17 - Addressing Women's Roles in the Church17:00 - Understanding the Concept of a Nation17:54 - Perspectives on Paul Washer's Teachings18:20 - Church's Distance from the Community20:00 - Defining a Masculine Church25:20 - Emulating Jesus: Actions We Should Take26:13 - Immigration: A Christian Perspective30:18 - Book Recommendations and Insights32:53 - Submit Your Questions for Discussion33:27 - John Harris Podcast Overview33:39 - Engaging Conversations That Matter

When should you leave your church? 🚶‍♂️ In this episode, we tackle this important question from a biblical and practical perspective, exploring when it’s time to move on and how to do so with grace. From concerns about shallow teachings to doctrinal issues and cultural pressures, we share personal experiences and offer insights into maintaining unity, pursuing reconciliation, and prioritizing covenant membership. We also discuss the pitfalls of church hopping, bad reasons to leave a church, and the key qualities to look for when joining a new one, including confessional beliefs, cultural engagement, and a heart for evangelism. Does your pastor’s teaching align with Scripture? Are you feeling called to re-evaluate your role in your church? Let’s dive into these tough but necessary conversations. Join Jerry Dorris and Tanner Cartwright of Reformation Church in Shelbyville, Kentucky, as we share wisdom from our own journeys and encourage you to take a thoughtful, gospel-centered approach to your church decisions. Got questions or topics you’d like us to explore? Send them our way, and let’s keep the dialogue going!#membershipcontracts #churchmembership #thelocalchurch #gracecommunitychurch #whatischurchmembershipCHAPTERS:00:00 - Jerry’s Church Experience01:07 - Introduction to Church Dynamics01:36 - Importance of Church Community06:10 - Leaving a Church: A Serious Decision10:38 - Valid Reasons to Leave a Church18:25 - Invalid Reasons for Leaving a Church24:41 - Joining a Church: What to Know29:45 - Finding the Right Church for You32:20 - Steps to Join a Church33:19 - Initiating Conversations in Church