Dear Future Wifey

When life deals its toughest cards, who will stand beside you? Roy and Shanta Q Williams share their powerful journey through serious health challenges that tested their marriage vows in ways they never imagined. From heart attacks to strokes to cancer, this couple's story isn't just about survival—it's about the extraordinary power of commitment when "in sickness and in health" becomes your daily reality. Their candid conversation reveals how they navigated life's unexpected turns while maintaining their sense of humor and deep connection. What began as a chance meeting between two Denver natives blossomed into a 20-year marriage built on friendship, faith, and unwavering support. Through Shanta Q's multiple misdiagnoses and Roy's prostate cancer battle, they discovered what truly matters in a partnership. ## Key Timestamps: 12:30 - How they met and their unique Denver connection - 25:45 - Shanta Q's resistance to marriage despite their compatibility - 38:20 - The beginning of serious health challenges in 2012 - 45:15 - Shanta Q's heart attack and the fight for proper diagnosis - 1:02:30 - Roy's prostate cancer journey and treatment decisions - 1:08:45 - The value of marriage during life-threatening illness ## Key Takeaways: - Statistics show many husbands leave when wives face terminal illness, but Roy never considered it - True independence isn't about doing everything alone—it's having someone who supports you when you can't support yourself - Communication remains the foundation of their relationship through every challenge - Their health journeys transformed into purpose as Shanta Q now uses humor to advocate for health awareness - Marriage provides a unique partnership where vulnerability becomes strength Listen to this moving episode that will make you laugh, reflect, and perhaps reconsider what it truly means to love someone through life's most difficult moments. This is the kind of love story that reminds us what "till death do us part" really looks like in practice. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/heyshantaq PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON  https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com SUBSCRIBE & LEAVE A REVIEW Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@DearFutureWifey?sub_confirmation=1 🍏 Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dear-future-wifey/id1506095537 🎵 Google Play: https://play.google.com/music/m/Iae4cjudkuuxmjnjza7zputjfuu?t=Dear_Future_Wifey 🧵 Stitcher: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/dear-future-wifey 🎧 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1r3Ba1GxkpwFkWVqmxZNPA FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcast See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this must-hear episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras R. Whitfield sits down with Niya Gonzales, a 31-year-old influencer who recently went viral after making the bold decision to call off her very public engagement.   What sparked widespread conversation—and mixed reactions online—was Niya’s honesty: there was no infidelity, no abuse, no scandal. She simply changed her mind.   In this transparent and emotionally grounded conversation, Niya shares what led to that decision, the internal wrestle of listening to her intuition, and the pressure of making a life-altering choice under the scrutiny of social media. Together, Laterras and Niya unpack the difference between doing what looks right and doing what is right, especially when it comes to marriage.   This episode explores:   The courage it takes to choose clarity over comfort   Why “nothing went wrong” can still be a valid reason to walk away   The emotional toll of public opinion on private decisions   Discernment, self-trust, and honoring your inner voice   Redefining failure, faith, and freedom in relationships   Whether you agreed with her decision or questioned it, this conversation invites you to look deeper—beyond the headlines—and wrestle with what it truly means to choose yourself before saying “I do.”   🎧 This episode is honest, thought-provoking, and necessary.   CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/niyah.gonzalez   CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield   ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S NEW BOOK "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW DEAR FUTURE WIFEY 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this deeply vulnerable episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield sits down with Cora Jakes for one of her most transparent conversations to date. Cora courageously opens up about her decision to speak publicly about her divorce and the abuse her daughter survived, sharing how her family is walking through healing, restoration, and faith in the aftermath. With grace and honesty, she discusses the cost of silence, the power of truth, and what healing looks like when the wounds are personal and public. The conversation also explores what it was like growing up as Bishop T.D. Jakes’ daughter, including the internal struggle of losing her own sense of identity as her father’s name became globally recognized. Cora reflects on carrying expectations, navigating visibility, and finding her voice beyond the weight of a famous last name. Additionally, she shares about her role as the family intercessor—the unseen spiritual labor, the emotional weight it carries, and how prayer became both her refuge and responsibility. This episode is raw, redemptive, and necessary—a powerful reminder that healing is not linear, faith doesn’t eliminate pain, and courage sometimes looks like telling the truth out loud. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/officialcallmecora/ CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTShttps://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfieldhttps://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://www.StudentofLove.com   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this powerful and transparent episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras Whitfield and Ashley sit down with Kenneth & Tasha Cobbs Leonard for a conversation that feels less like a podcast and more like a full-blown marriage seminar. Kenneth and Tasha open up about how friendship became the foundation of their forever, while also diving into real-time cultural and kingdom conversations. Tasha passionately defends Dr. Karri Bryant, shares her heart behind conversations on modesty, and brings wisdom with both grace and clarity. The couple also discusses: 1. How they manage and build their businesses together 2. The “why” behind their healthy lifestyle transformation 3. The vision and heart behind their church, The Purpose Place 4. What it really takes to steward marriage, health, faith, and purpose at the same time By the end of the episode, Laterras and Ashley admit it felt like they’d just attended a marriage seminar — full of practical gems, spiritual insight, and real-life wisdom every couple (and future couple) needs. Whether you’re married, preparing for marriage, or simply believing God for healthy love, this episode will challenge and encourage you. 👉 LIKE, COMMENT, & SUBSCRIBE for more faith-filled relationship conversations. 🎧 Available on all podcast platforms. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/kennethleonardjr https://www.instagram.com/tashacobbsleonard   PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https:/www.StudentofLove.com WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Season 11 of Dear Future Wifey Podcast kicks off with a historic moment. After five years of hosting the podcast solo, Laterras R. Whitfield welcomes his new bride, Ashley R. Whitfield, as his co-host for the very first time. Together, they sit on the iconic yellow couch to introduce a brand-new season and a brand-new dynamic. In this episode, Laterras and Ashley are interviewed by their pre-marital counselor, Love McPherson. They open up about their mystery bride engagement and how their love story unfolded behind the scenes. They dive deep into their inner children, exploring how childhood experiences shape our appetite for love, intimacy, and connection. The couple also shares how they started dating and what it looked like navigating purpose, timing, and trust along the way. And of course, they answer the question everyone’s been wondering since the wedding… how is married life really going? This conversation is honest, reflective, and full of insight for anyone navigating love, healing, and commitment. Welcome to a new era of Dear Future Wifey.   📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/ashleyrwhitfield/ https://www.instagram.com/love_mcpherson/   PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcastSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this special episode of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, Laterras Whitfield shares a heartfelt conversation with Kali Scott about her desire for a partner who shares her values and passions, and how she's learned to prioritize healthy relationships. She also dives into her own experiences with dating, including a humorous take on the challenges of online interactions and the importance of being true to oneself. With vulnerability and humor, Kali shares her hopes and dreams for her future marriage, making this episode a must-listen for anyone navigating love and relationships.   📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/likekaliscott/   PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcast   Hashtag: #dearfuturewifey #dearfuturewife #laterraswhitfield #Podcast #PodcastShow #ViralPodcast #YouTubePodcast #TalkShow #InterviewShow #RelationshipAdvice #Relationshipadvice #Datingtips #communicationskills #lovestatus #love #christianity #marriage #marriagevideo #dear #datingSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, host Laterras R. Whitfield sits down with Rickey Smiley, a comedian and author who shares his personal story of grief and healing. Rickey opens up about the loss of his son and how it led him to write his book, "Side Show." He talks about the importance of community and the role of prayer in his life, as well as his experiences with the power of kindness and generosity. Rickey also shares his thoughts on marriage and relationships, highlighting the value of finding someone you can live without. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/rickeysmileyofficial PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of the Dear Future Wifey podcast, host Laterras talks with Kristina Smith about navigating co-parenting and dating after divorce. Kristina shares her story of staying in the marital home with her ex-husband, citing concerns for their two daughters' normalcy and her own financial uncertainty. They discuss the challenges of dating as a single mom, including her desire for a partner who can provide spiritual covering and support. Kristina also opens up about her past relationships and her current dating life, highlighting her growth and newfound expectations. This conversation offers a raw and honest look at the complexities of modern relationships. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/kristinabowmansmith/   PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcast   Hashtag: #dearfuturewifey #dearfuturewife #laterraswhitfield #Podcast #PodcastShow #ViralPodcast #YouTubePodcast #TalkShow #InterviewShow #RelationshipAdvice #Relationshipadvice #Datingtips #communicationskills #lovestatus #love #christianity #marriage #marriagevideo #dear #datingSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, host Laterras talks with Rob Howard about his journey to finding love and his views on marriage. Rob shares his thoughts on what he's looking for in a partner, including a business partner. He also discusses his past relationships, including a high school girlfriend who cheated on him, and how that experience shaped his views on love and commitment. Additionally, he talks about his current life as a single father and his desire to find a partner who can be a good teammate. 📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/mrhoward365/ PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404 👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com 👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In a culture obsessed with casual relationships, Shakia Seabrook stands as a powerful counternarrative. This episode dives deep into her journey as the founder of The Sexless Tribe, a community dedicated to abstinence and purity that has grown from social media conversations to global meetups with hundreds of attendees.   Shakia shares her remarkable story of maintaining virginity at 37 years old - not from a place of religious upbringing, but from witnessing the emotional toll of casual relationships around her. What makes her perspective unique is her recent awakening to actually desiring marriage after years of contentment in singleness. Through her seven-year wilderness experience where God stripped away everything, she discovered a deeper purpose in creating a movement that's changing lives across continents.   ## Timestamps: - 8:30 - Shakia explains how she maintained purity without religious influence - 22:15 - The birth of The Sexless Tribe and how it grew from Instagram Lives - 36:40 - Her seven-year wilderness experience that shaped her ministry - 48:25 - The double standard between how society views male and female sexuality - 1:01:30 - Her thoughts on dating timeframes and what she's looking for in a partner   ## Key Takeaways: - Purity isn't just for the religiously raised - it can be a personal choice based on witnessing the consequences of casual relationships - Building a community around abstinence creates support systems for those who feel isolated in their convictions - There's often a double standard where men want to "sow wild oats" but expect purity from potential wives - True intimacy requires vulnerability and letting someone fully into your life - something Shakia is now learning to embrace   Ready to be inspired by a woman who's created a global movement around purity while navigating her own journey toward marriage? Listen now to this powerful conversation that challenges cultural norms and celebrates the beauty of waiting.   📸 CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/shakiaseabrook22/ https://www.instagram.com/thesexlesstribe/   PRE-ORDER LATERRAS R. WHITFIELD'S "STUDENT OF LOVE" https://a.co/d/bx0E1iv   WANNA SEE BEHIND-THE-SCENES FOOTAGE? JOIN MY PATREON https://www.Patreon.com/laterrasrwhitfield   SIGN UP FOR THE MAILING LIST https://bit.ly/LRWconnection   PURCHASE "YOU (Dear Future Wifey)" Theme Song http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1729993404   👑 SUPPORT OUR CAUSE Donate to Kingdom Royale: Empowering foster kids to become royalty: https://www.KingdomRoyale.com   👕 MERCH https://www.DearFutureWifey.com   FOLLOW US 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearfuturewifeypodcast | https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield 📘 Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/DearFutureWifey 🐦 Twitter: https://twitter.com/dfwifeypodcast   Hashtag: #dearfuturewifey #dearfuturewife #laterraswhitfield #Podcast #PodcastShow #ViralPodcast #YouTubePodcast #TalkShow #InterviewShow #RelationshipAdvice #Relationshipadvice #Datingtips #communicationskills #lovestatus #love #christianity #marriage #marriagevideo #dear #datingSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.