Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide

Dr. Jessica Higgins
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Jul 23, 2024 • 55min

ERP 434: The Lies People Tell in Relationship & What to Do about It — An Interview with Andrea Beach

Deception in relationships is a common issue that can strain trust and intimacy, leaving partners feeling confused and disconnected. Whether it's through subtle nonverbal cues or drastic changes in communication style, lies—both big and small—can significantly impact the fabric of any relationship. Identifying lies and understanding their underlying causes are crucial steps to fostering a more honest and open partnership. How do you address this deeply ingrained issue? It all starts with awareness and communication. In this episode, we delve into the nuances of recognizing deception, from interpreting nonverbal cues such as tone of voice and fidgeting to understanding the reasons behind why people lie. We'll explore strategies for responding to dishonesty in a non-accusatory way and the importance of self-reflection and open dialogue. By examining case studies, behavioral tips, and psychological insights, listeners will better navigate the complexities of honesty in relationships, paving the way for deeper intimacy and trust. Andrea Beach is a highly acclaimed life and business coach and a leading authority on human behavior. She combines the best techniques from NLP and relational psychology with her "self-made success" strategies as a business leader and entrepreneur to deliver incredible results for both companies and individuals alike. Beach has created dozens of successful programs for relationship transformation. Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 6:58 Andrea's journey: From serial entrepreneurship to balanced life harmony. 12:05 Unveiling the complexity of lies: From business tactics to intimate relationships. 19:34 Navigating expectations and honesty in relationships. 35:01 Recognizing deception: Signs and strategies for authentic communication. 42:56 Strategies for constructive communication. Mentioned ERP 433: The Power Of Radical Honest On Connection — An Interview with Dr. Brad Blanton Relationship Map To Happy, Lasting Love Shifting Criticism For Connected Communication Connect with Andrea Beach Websites: andreabeach.me Facebook: facebook.com/TheAndreaBeach YouTube: youtube.com/@The_Andrea_Beach Instagram: instagram.com/the_andrea_beach LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/andrea-beach TikTok: tiktok.com/@the_andrea_beach Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/ Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins Twitter: @DrJessHiggins Website: drjessicahiggins.com Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the "Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins" button here. Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship. Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here. Thank you! *With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.
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Jul 16, 2024 • 53min

ERP 433: The Power Of Radical Honesty On Intimate Connection — An Interview with Dr. Brad Blanton

Establishing genuine human connections poses a significant challenge in the face of societal expectations and personal inhibitions. The pressure to conform and maintain a carefully constructed image often prevents individuals from expressing their true thoughts and emotions. Consequently, this fear of judgement or rejection fosters relational interactions that lack depth and authenticity. As a result, many find their connections to be superficial, leaving a pervasive sense of disconnection and isolation. In this episode, you'll discover how radical honesty can transform such patterns and lead to deeper, more intimate connections. By examining the intersection of honesty, forgiveness, and vulnerability, this episode offers practical insights and exercises designed to foster genuine contact and warmth in your interactions. Learn about the power of reporting your immediate experience versus relying on preconceived notions, ultimately guiding you toward a more fulfilled and open way of relating. Brad Blanton, psychotherapist, author, and founder of Radical Honesty Enterprises, is known for his unwavering honesty and engaging Southern charm. His bestselling book, "Radical Honesty: How To Transform Your Life By Telling The Truth," has been translated into sixteen languages. Blanton's work explores personal and social transformation, evident in titles like "Practicing Radical Honesty" and "Honest to God." He retired in 2020 after writing extensively, with his final book, "Lying or Living," set for publication in 2024 by Sparrowhawk Publishing. Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 6:22 The philosophy of radical honesty. 8:49 The distinction between genuine perception and ideation. 14:40 Embracing uncertainty and its role in deepening personal connections. 16:55 The power of radical honesty in personal growth and forgiveness. 25:02 The importance of honesty and vulnerability in personal and relational growth. 37:32 Expressing true feelings and thoughts without censoring or editing. 45:36 The balance therapists and clients must achieve between allowing and making things happen. Mentioned Radical Honesty: How to Transform Your Life by Telling the Truth (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Practicing Radical Honesty (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) The Truthtellers (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Honest to God: A Change of Heart That Can Change the World (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) The Power of Radical Honesty - Dr. Anna Lembke (*YouTube link) (video) Dopamine Nation: Finding Balance in the Age of Indulgence (*Amazon affiliate link) (book) ERP 305: The Surprising & Powerful Benefits of Learning to Tolerate Discomfort — An Interview with Dr. Anna Lembke Connect with Dr. Brad Blanton Websites: radicalhonesty.com | lyingorliving.com Facebook: facebook.com/drbradblanton | facebook.com/RadicalHonesty X: twitter.com/drbradblanton | twitter.com/RadicalHonesty YouTube: youtube.com/@radical.honesty Instagram: instagram.com/drbradblanton | instagram.com/radical.honesty LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/dr-brad-blanton | linkedin.com/company/radical-honesty-institute TikTok: tiktok.com/@radical.honesty Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/ Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins Twitter: @DrJessHiggins Website: drjessicahiggins.com Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the "Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins" button here. Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship. Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here. Thank you! *With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.
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Jul 9, 2024 • 52min

ERP 432: What Your Sexual Approach In Relationship Can Tell You (Or Teach You) — An Interview With Dr. Corey Allan

Have you ever felt that intimacy in your relationship brings both comfort and discomfort? Why do we feel pressured to conform or seek space when getting too close to someone? In this episode, we delve into these intriguing dynamics of human connection. We explore the pressures of seeking complete unity in relationships and the concept of the 'fusion mindset.' Hear how technology's impact on our interactions can lead to pseudo-connections, affecting the delicate balance between intimacy and loneliness. Gain practical insights on recognizing and communicating your needs, and understand how personal growth often comes through navigating discomfort and anxiety. Learn how to confront and manage relationship tensions, bringing curiosity and openness to the table, especially in sexual intimacy. Dr. Corey Allan is a husband, father, author, speaker, and a Marriage and Family Therapist with a Ph.D. in Family Therapy. He and his wife Pam host a weekly podcast, Sexy Marriage Radio, where they help frame conversations and actions that help couples create a marriage fully alive. Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 06:30 Dr. Corey Allen's journey to helping marriages thrive. 09:58 How sexual intimacy mirrors life and relationships. 16:07 Understanding the elicitation window: Unpacking sexual intimacy and relationship dynamics. 21:02 How past reactions shape present interactions. 25:57 Balancing separateness and togetherness in relationships. 36:27 The importance of tolerating discomfort and anxiety as a pathway to personal and relational growth. 44:15 The importance of identifying and challenging habitual behaviors that may inhibit deeper connection. Mentioned Intimacy & Desire: Awaken The Passion In Your Relationship (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Resurrecting Sex (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Passionate Marriage (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Crucible Institute Dr. David Schnarch Turn Criticism Into Connection | Dr Jessica Higgins #678 https://drjessicahiggins.com/erp-027-asking-for-what-you-want-getting-it-with-dr-corey-allen/ ERP 238: How to Find Your Emotional Balance in Relationship ERP 110: How to Manage Two Majorly Conflicting Needs in Relationship Connect with Dr. Corey Allan Websites: smr.fm Facebook: facebook.com/sexymarriageradio YouTube: youtube.com/@sexymarriageradio Instagram: instagram.com/sexymarriageradio TikTok: tiktok.com/@sexymarriageradio Podcast: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sexy-marriage-radio/id472302597 Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/ Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins Twitter: @DrJessHiggins Website: drjessicahiggins.com Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the "Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins" button here. Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship. Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here. Thank you! *With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.
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Jul 2, 2024 • 56min

ERP 431: How Our Intergenerational Connections Inform Our Ability To Set Limits & Boundaries With Others — An Interview With Johanna Lynn

Setting limits and boundaries with others is a fundamental aspect of healthy interpersonal dynamics. Yet, many people struggle with asserting themselves due to ingrained patterns from childhood or societal expectations that prioritize giving over self-care. This difficulty often leads to overcommitment, resentment, and a pervasive sense of being taken advantage of, all of which can strain relationships and undermine personal well-being. In this episode, you'll discover actionable strategies to set and uphold boundaries in your relationships. Learn how to prioritize self-care without guilt, assert your needs effectively, and cultivate healthier dynamics with others. Gain insights from real-life scenarios and expert guidance to navigate interpersonal challenges with confidence and maintain your well-being. Johanna has been connected to the world of separation and divorce for decades, originally due to her personal situation, then as a systemic therapist focusing on restoring relationships for the past 12 years. Johanna is the founder of The Family Imprint Institute with an international private practice. Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 05:14 Johanna's personal experience to professional expertise. 7:24 The intergenerational influence on boundaries. 15:54 The profound impact of unresolved family trauma on present behaviors. 23:54 Recognizing poor boundaries and their impacts. 27:58 Recognizing and addressing overgiving. 44:09 Healing past patterns for healthier relationships. Mentioned It Didn't Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) ERP 386: How to Identify & Shift Unconscious Patterns in Relationship – An Interview with Johanna Lynn Connect with Johanna Lynn Websites: johannalynn.ca Facebook: facebook.com/groups/1470185283292404 YouTube: youtube.com/@TheFamilyImprint Instagram: instagram.com/thefamilyimprint_institute LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/johannalynn Pinterest: pinterest.ca/family_imprint Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/ Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins Twitter: @DrJessHiggins Website: drjessicahiggins.com Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the "Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins" button here. Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship. Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here. Thank you! *With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.
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Jun 25, 2024 • 51min

ERP 430: What Are Strengths & Considerations Of Age Gap Relationships, Especially Female Lead Relationships — An Interview With Dr. Sarah Hill

Imagine being deeply in love, but constantly feeling the weight of judgment from society merely because of an age difference. Age gap relationships often face challenges beyond the typical trials of love, grappling with stereotypes, stress, and the pressure of public perception. In this episode, we peel back the layers of these complex relationships to reveal the surprising benefits and often-overlooked dynamics at play. Learn how partners can triumph over societal stigma through open communication, humor, and intentionality. Discover the true essence of what makes these relationships thrive, the power of embracing joy and playfulness, and the critical importance of challenging cultural norms to foster deeper connection and satisfaction. Prepare to rethink what you know about age gap relationships, and gain insights that could transform how unconventional love is viewed. Dr. Sarah Hill is an award-winning research psychologist and professor with expertise in women, health, and sexual psychology. At the intersection of evolutionary biology, social psychology, and neuroscience, her research aims to understand how hormones, the immune system, and the environment play in relationships and health behaviors. She appeared in the 2022 Netflix documentary, "The Principles of Pleasure" and is currently a consultant for Cougar Life, a dating site for confident women looking to meet younger men. Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 7:06 Exploring double standards in age gap relationships. 9:48 Debunking stereotypes in female-led age gap relationships. 13:26 Various factors influencing power dynamics in relationships. 17:38 Redefining age gap relationships: Gender dynamics and societal perceptions. 21:08 Unveiling joy and satisfaction: Insights from research. 28:17 Advancing research to challenge stigma and enhance understanding of non-normative relationships. 30:17 The importance of open communication in navigating stereotypes and fostering acceptance. 39:42 The influence of hormones on relationships. Mentioned This Is Your Brain on Birth Control: How the Pill Changes Everything (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Connect with Dr. Sarah Hill Websites: sarahehill.com Facebook: facebook.com/sarahehillphd X: twitter.com/sarahehillphd Instagram: instagram.com/sarahehillphd LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/sarah-hill-39668431 Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/ Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins Twitter: @DrJessHiggins Website: drjessicahiggins.com Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the "Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins" button here. Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship. Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here. Thank you! *With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.
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Jun 18, 2024 • 54min

ERP 429: How To Reprogram Core Wounds For Better Living & Loving — An Interview With Thais Gibson

At the core of many relationship struggles lie deeply ingrained wounds from our past, shaping how we perceive ourselves and interact with others. These wounds, often formed in childhood, can manifest as insecurities, fears, and maladaptive coping mechanisms in adult relationships. As an example, individuals with deep-seated abandonment wounds struggle to trust or embrace intimacy, resulting in clinginess or avoidance behaviors. Similarly, those with worthiness wounds may constantly seek validation or struggle to assert their needs confidently. These patterns sow seeds of conflict, communication breakdowns, and emotional distance, impeding intimacy and connection. In this episode, we delve into how understanding and addressing these core wounds can transform relationship dynamics. By exploring the origins of these wounds and their manifestations in adult relationships, we uncover actionable strategies for healing and growth. Through this insightful conversation, listeners gain valuable tools to navigate their own core wounds and foster healthier, more fulfilling connections. Thais Gibson is a counselor and co-founder of The Personal Development School, with a Ph.D., and over 13 certifications in modalities, such as CBT, NLP, somatic experiencing, internal family systems, and shadow work. She is an expert in attachment theory and her research is extending the frontier of psychology with her modern Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory™, and she is the author of Learning Love: Build the Best Relationships of Your Life Using Integrated Attachment. Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 6:53 Tyese Gibson's journey through adversity and addiction to transformation. 12:12 The importance of addressing deeper emotional layers and primary attachment needs to achieve lasting change. 22:32 Reprogramming the subconscious for better relationships. 27:03 Thais explains her integrative approach to attachment therapy, which combines multiple modalities. 41:36 The power of inner work in relationship dynamics. Mentioned Learning Love: Learning Love: Build the Best Relationships of Your Life Using Integrated Attachment Theory (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Relationship Map To Happy, Lasting Love Connect with Thais Gibson Website: university.personaldevelopmentschool.com Facebook: facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UCHQ4lSaKRap5HyrpitrTOhQ/videos Instagram: instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool Podcast: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/personal-development-school/id1478580185 TikTok: tiktok.com/@thaisgibson?_t=8n6kvwtOLP0&_r=1 Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/ Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins Twitter: @DrJessHiggins Website: drjessicahiggins.com Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the "Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins" button here. Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship. Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here. Thank you! *With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.
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Jun 11, 2024 • 1h 2min

ERP 428: The Dynamic That 80% Of Distressed Couples Face — An Interview With Jennifer Nurick

Ever wondered why your relationship feels like a never-ending cycle of conflict and distance? In this episode, we delve into the common dynamics experienced by 80% of distressed couples, with a particular focus on the anxious and avoidant attachment styles. This episode provides actionable guidance to regulate emotions, establish safety, and overcome attachment injuries. Discover a five-stage process for fostering intimacy, promoting personal and relational development. Learn practical strategies to address core emotions, halt escalating conflicts, and pave the way for secure, fulfilling connections. Whether you're dealing with an anxious-avoidant dynamic or looking to deepen your understanding of attachment, this episode provides valuable tools and insights to transform your relationship. Jennifer Nurick (Jen) specialises in healing anxious attachment, attachment injuries and childhood trauma. She is a licensed Clinical Psychotherapist, Couple Therapist, Energetic Healer, and author of "Heal Your Anxious Attachment". She is the founder and voice of Psychotherapy Central. She has been working in the healing space for over 20 years, combining Eastern energetic practices and Western psychotherapy. She offers transformational courses to help individuals and couples heal trauma and build secure long-term relationships. Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 09:32 Jennifer Nurick shares her journey of discovery and expertise in the realm of attachment dynamics. 18:10 The complexities of relational wounds and the quest for secure attachment. 25:01 Therapy as a haven for confronting and processing emotional injuries. 32:48 The unburdening process in internal family systems therapy. 38:09 Navigating attachment dynamics in distressed relationships. 51:33 Healing anxious and avoidant attachment styles in relationships. Mentioned Psychotherapy Online Course Catalog Heal Your Anxious Attachment: Release Past Trauma, Cultivate Secure Relationships, and Nurture a Deeper Sense of Self (*Amazon affiliate link) (book) ERP 423: How to Transcend Trauma (And the Effects Experience in Relationship) — An Interview with Dr. Frank Anderson Relationship Map To Happy, Lasting Love Connect with Jennifer Nurick Websites: psychotherapycentral.health Facebook: facebook.com/psychotherapy.central YouTube: youtube.com/@psychotherapycentral Instagram: instagram.com/psychotherapy.central Podcast: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/psychotherapy-central/id1701257974 Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/ Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins Twitter: @DrJessHiggins Website: drjessicahiggins.com Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the "Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins" button here. Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship. Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here. Thank you! *With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.
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Jun 4, 2024 • 51min

ERP 427: How to Construct Questions That Cultivate Deeper Connection — An Interview with Topaz Adizes

In this engaging conversation, Topaz Adizes, an Emmy award-winning writer and director, shares insights on cultivating deeper connections through the art of questioning. He discusses the importance of crafting thoughtful, open-ended questions that foster genuine dialogue. Topaz highlights how discomfort in relationships can lead to growth, emphasizing the need for safe spaces where meaningful discussions can flourish. He also explores playful conversation techniques, such as using card games, to strengthen intimacy and trust. Tune in for transformative strategies to enhance your interactions!
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May 28, 2024 • 45min

ERP 426: How To Consider & Discuss End Of Life Care In Relationship — An Interview With Dr. Bob and Elizabeth Uslander

Navigating end-of-life conversations can be emotionally challenging and riddled with uncertainties. Many individuals and families struggle to broach topics surrounding preferences for care, leaving them ill-prepared for crucial decisions during times of crisis. In this episode, we embark on a journey to explore practical strategies and insights aimed at facilitating these delicate discussions with compassion and clarity. By providing actionable guidance and fostering a deeper understanding of end-of-life care, this episode equips listeners with the tools needed to approach these conversations thoughtfully, empowering them to honor personal values and preferences with confidence. Dr. Bob and Elizabeth Uslander co-founded Empowered Endings, a unique palliative and end-of-life care model addressing the physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual needs of patients and families. Bob Uslander, MD, received his Medical Degree from the UCLA Geffen School of Medicine and practiced medicine in Emergency, Palliative, and end-of-life care for over 30 years. Elizabeth Uslander, MSW MTS, received her BA cum laude from Georgetown University and earned her Master's degrees at USC and Wesley Theological Seminary. Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 03:49 Bob's transition from emergency medicine to palliative care and the founding of Empowered Endings with Elizabeth. 09:12 Elizabeth's journey in spiritual care and social work shaping palliative and end of life care focus. 11:47 Integrating end-of-life doulas in comprehensive care planning and support. 18:48 The importance of having proactive, intentional discussions about end-of-life preferences within couples. 32:54 The role of spiritual practices and emotional connection in navigating end-of-life conversations within relationships. 38:29 Cultivating readiness and practical tools for end-of-life conversations. Mentioned Relationship Map To Happy, Lasting Love Connect with Dr. Bob and Elizabeth Uslander Websites: empoweredendings.com Facebook: facebook.com/empowerendings YouTube: youtube.com/@Empowered-Endings Instagram: instagram.com/empowered_endings_ LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/empowered-endings Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/ Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins Twitter: @DrJessHiggins Website: drjessicahiggins.com Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the "Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins" button here. Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship. Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here. Thank you! *With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.
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May 21, 2024 • 57min

ERP 425: How To Find The Growth Opportunity In An Argument — An Interview With Linda Bloom

Ever wondered how happy couples navigate irreconcilable differences and still thrive? Arguments in relationships are both inevitable and impactful. While they often stir up feelings of frustration, anger, and sadness, they also hold the potential for profound growth and understanding between partners. When managed with care and intention, conflicts can uncover deep-seated issues, foster better communication, and ultimately strengthen the bond. In this episode, we explore how conflicts can become opportunities for growth and deeper connection. By focusing on emotional regulation, curiosity, and taking responsibility, couples can navigate differences with more understanding and empathy. Learn practical strategies for creating a safe environment and fostering open communication, transforming challenges into stepping stones for a stronger, more empowered relationship. Gain valuable insights and actionable tips to help you and your partner grow together through the ups and downs. Linda Bloom, L.C.S.W. is a psychotherapist and marriage counselor who teaches relationship workshops throughout the world. She and her husband, Charlie Bloom are co-authors of the widely acclaimed book, 101 Things I Wish I Knew When I Got Married, Simple Lessons to Make Love Last, and Secrets of Great Marriages: Real Truths from Real Couples About Lasting Love, An End to Arguing: 101 Valuable Lessons for All Relationships and more. Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 4:20 Cultivating a thirst for growth: Linda Bloom's path to a harmonious relationship with her husband after a rocky beginning. 12:51 Balancing differences: How mutual respect and curiosity foster harmonious relationships. 19:02 Mastering the art of handling differences: A key to achieving optimal relational well-being for couples. 27:24 Strategies for managing heated conversations and building stronger connections in relationships. 37:46 Navigating conflicts through emotional regulation and sincere communication. 44:56 How emotional maturity and practical resources can strengthen your relationship. Mentioned 101 Things I Wish I Knew When I Got Married: Simple Lessons to Make Love Last (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Secrets of Great Marriages: Real Truth from Real Couples about Lasting Love (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) An End to Arguing: 101 Valuable Lessons for All Relationships (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) The Gottman Institute Connect with Linda Bloom Websites: bloomwork.com Facebook: facebook.com/lindaandcharliebloom X (twitter): twitter.com/bloomwork YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UCV3lPZs0gRNYCTQ6vgz4Q6Q Instagram: instagram.com/linda_charlie_bloom LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/lindacbloom Tumblr: tumblr.com/linda-charlie-bloom-blog Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/ Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins Twitter: @DrJessHiggins Website: drjessicahiggins.com Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the "Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins" button here. Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship. Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here. Thank you! *With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.

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