Earn Your Happy

“There is an exact recipe for everything. Whether it is your body, success, creating a business etc…” -Tony Robbins We are all chefs today, here on Earn Your Happy! Looking for the recipe to all of the above?! Yeah…ME TOO! Have you ever heard the saying “too many cooks in the kitchen?” Not this time, baby! I’m here to invite all you cooks out there, to muster up the most beautiful lie recipe, possible. Let's take cupcakes (as a metaphor) for example, of course the quality of ingredients matters, but thats a learning lesson. Give and take, trial and error. I’m most concerned about the intensity you are baking at! “What is the temperature you are baking at? We can all make cupcakes, but what is the enthusiasm level in which you are selling them at? If you aren't sharing with the world how rad your cupcakes are, how well would your bake sale go?!” “People need what you have, they want to be fed these cupcakes!” In This Episode You Will Learn About: The Bliss Habit e-course Blocks in Life Fears Perseverance Connections Tribes Willingness Quality Resources: Learn More About The Bliss Habit online course HERE! Tony Robbins Unleash The Power Within event For The Love of Money Podcast by: Chris Harder Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook. You can also see more at my website: LoriHarder.com

Naturally, especially as woman (although this most definitely can go both ways,) we tend to deflect compliments, which I translate into “blocking your blessings.” Today’s quickie is all about receiving. Accepting and fully embodying what it feels like to be love and be loved. “If someone goes out of their way to compliment you and you deflect it, you may actually be hurting them.” As you know, giving compliments is a brave task. It can be used to break the ice on a first date, or a way to get attention from someone you admire etc…So just as much as it is brave to GIVE the compliment, it is equally as brave if not more, to fully RECEIVE the compliment. “By not accepting a compliment, you are blocking the fact that someone observes something amazing in you and they are wanting to celebrate with you.” As humans, who want to remain “humble,” we try to either turn the compliment completely around and end up complimenting them OR we tend to neutralize the compliment but putting negative talk around it. “Accepting a compliment is a self-love practice!” Stop having to have a reason for why you do something good for yourself. Knowing you are worth it, is reason enough! In This Episode You Will Learn About: Self love Practices Blessing Blocks Complimenting Accepting Receiving Deflecting Knowing your worth Resources: fortheloveofmoney.com For The Love of Money Podcast by: Chris Harder Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook. You can also see more at my website: LoriHarder.com

Starting out in the fitness world doing Body Building competitions, Amanda shares with us how it all began. “I started doing fitness because I wanted to look better and feel better, like anybody else.” Always having a passion for working out and staying fit, Amanda needed the extra push to level up her mindset and her gym routine, if she wanted to reach her goals. Going back and forth on different meal plans and diets was her lifestyle for a bit until she began what is called “flexible dieting.” It is essentially basic nutrition put into your daily practice in terms of changing your body composition. Depending on what your body goals are, either to put on muscle or to lose body fat, there are plenty of ways to do so and to do so HEALTHILY, which Amanda is a prime example of! At the young age of only 23, Amanda is already such an amazing influencer for both the young & older generation! Having an immense following on social media, has made it possible for her to reach her 400k+ followers in an impactful way. “It is not about focusing on your number of followers, it is about spreading a message that people connect to. People want to see how what you’re doing can connect to their life to make it better.” Not only is she knowledgable in the fitness aspect, but after much hard work in the business, her marketing and social media tips and strategies, are the bomb! Speaking with her today, I felt as if I were speaking with someone my own age. Her insights are incredible and inspiring. She is a complete powerhouse! In This Episode You Will Learn About: Fitness Wellness Body Building Training Competition Meal Planning Mindset Flexible Dieting Macros Social Media Business Consistency Resources: Bucci Radio Podcast Loving Amanda’s podcast interview and wanting more? Head to amandabucci.com and youtube.com/amandabuccifit to check out more of her amazing stuff! You can even follow her on Instagram @amandabuccifit Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook. You can also see more at my website: LoriHarder.com

Coming back from last weekends 3-days of bliss, I wanted to share one of the most important topics I touched on at the event… "Getting rid of the negative story about yourself.” If you truly observe and listen to those around you, especially your tribe, you’ll come to know that SO many of us share that same struggle or “story.” “When you become vulnerable enough to tell this story to others and let your walls down, something beautiful is going to happen!” Releasing these stories will take a weight off your shoulders like you’ll never believe. You’ll begin to grow and elevate in ways you didn't even know were possible and who knows who you may influence around you while you do it…it’s a win/win situation. I t is time to recognize the difference between stories you may have adopted from the people around you and the stories that you, yourself truly believe in. You can ALWAYS choose again. In This Episode You Will Learn About: Clarity Your “story” Self talk Mindset Forgiveness Tribe Support Letting go Perception Affirmations Resources: theblissproject.info Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook. You can also see more at my website: LoriHarder.com

Corey has interviewed, worked with, and spoke with over 3,500 thought leaders including Jack Canfield, Stephen Covey, Deepak Chopra, and Chalene Johnson just to name a few. Resources: ThatSpeakerGuy.com Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook. You can also see more at my website: LoriHarder.com

This episode is from the Panel Question and Answer session from my live event this past weekend, The Bliss Project. The panel was made up of myself, Lindsay Sukornyk from Alive and Awake, Tara Romano from Tone And Tease, and Brittany Brown from Beating Binge Eating. Resources: theblissproject.info Instagram: @loriharder Alive And Awake Tone And Tease Beating Binge Eating Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook. You can also see more at my website: LoriHarder.com

Alyson Charles may not look like your image of a Shaman, but this former national champion athlete’s meditation program was the cover story in Marie Claire Magazine July 2016 issue. Her ability to heal and share ancient, sacred knowledge and divine energy with others has also won her accolades from Oprah, who named hers a "Top Meditation to Try.” Charles is also a top-rated radio and TV host who works and partners with many fellow CEOs and celebrities. Since being called to the Shamanic practice, Alyson has become internationally known and shares her Rockstar Shaman story of awakening, clairvoyant readings and top methods and practices around the globe at speaking engagements, TV shoots, events and healing retreats. She has even headlined at New York Comedy Club. Alyson has worked with renowned brands, including: Oprah, The New York Times, Forbes, Marie Claire, ELLE, Nat Geo Channel, Bloomingdales, ABC Radio, SAMSUNG, Amazon, Yahoo, and many more. Growing up in a small town in the Mid West, Alyson’s upbringing was very fitness-driven. “I ran my first road race before the age of 3!” Being exposed at an early age to acupuncture and hypnotherapy, holistic practices were nothing out of the ordinary to Alyson. Although she was in touch with the holistic and spiritual way, she says it all tied in to her love for running and staying healthy. “I truly feel like I was made to become a long distance runner, to connect to Earth and my physical vessel, quicker.” Fast forwarding to the future (present day) Alyson enlightens us with the knowledge and true meaning of a Shaman and her personal Shamanism ways/beliefs. “Within my Shamanism, I am very connected to Mother Earth, our planet Earth. I ground down into her and she rises up into me.” Alyson shares beautiful, holistic and spiritual knowledge to awaken our spirits and allow us to connect to a higher power, whatever that may mean for you personally. She is insightful and inspiring. truly unstoppable. I am honored today, to bring Alyson onto my podcast to spread stories of her miracles, love and light! “If you want to do something good for planet Earth, then tend to YOU. Tend to your own inner frequencies and vibration. That is the greatest gift you can give so you can emit that light and love.” In This Episode You Will Learn: Divine powers Shamanism Gifts Healing Meditation Energy Clairvoyant Spirituality Frequencies Vibration Resources: To soak in more love, joy, blessings and alignments with your soul visit alysoncharles.com! Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook. You can also see more at my website: LoriHarder.com

Like the old saying, “You are what you eat,” the same applies to “You are what you think.” One of my favorite quotes that I have read lately is by the genius himself, Albert Einstein. “Imagination is more important than knowledge.” Why you ask? Because knowledge is “what is.” It’s the study of factual things and events, but imagination…it’s a world of endless possibilities, it’s the ability to make your dreams a reality. As I prepare for the Bliss Project (which is in less than 24 hours!!) that quote holds a special place in my heart as I create the content to change and ROCK over 350 women’s worlds this weekend! Anyone can teach knowledge and facts but the Bliss event came out of something I personally desired and imagined. It came from a place I wish existed, so I made it exist!It is a safe place to meet and connect with a tribe, unapologetically as yourself! So…as living proof that you can make anything a reality, I am here to shout it from the rooftop, that everything you want in life is on the other side of fear! No one said it would be easy, but let me tell you…once you get to the other side, the feeling is beyond anything that you could possible imagine. “Inspiration for me is something I seek out, every single day. I want to be surrounded by it.” - Lori Harder In This Episode You Will Learn About: Inspiration The good stuff Focus Mindset Thoughts Positivity Possibilites Imagination Knowledge Tribe Safe Place The Bliss Project Resources: theblissproject.info Instagram: @loriharder Love Warrior by: Glennon Melton Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook. You can also see more at my website: LoriHarder.com

Rachel DeAlto is a relationship expert, coach, hypnotherapist, motivational speaker, author, and spokesperson. She believes that relationships are the foundation of everything, and it is essential to learn to navigate those relationships with great communication, a sense of perspective, and self-awareness. Rachel believes in the art of communication, and its inherent value in all aspects of your life. She developed her communications expertise through an undergraduate degree from the S.I. Newhouse School of Public Communications at Syracuse University and later as a practicing trial attorney after receiving her Juris Doctorate at Seton Hall University School of Law. She has also received professional training as a certified coach through the Institute of Professional Excellence in Coaching (IPEC) and is a certified hypnotherapist via the International Association Of Counselors & Therapists (IACT). Rachel is a featured relationship expert on FYI’s Married at First Sight and Second Chances. Rachel has also appeared on a multitude of media outlets and is also a frequent TEDx speaker. Coming from a law background, coaching one’s love life was kind of something that Rachel sort of “feel into.” Continuing her education to become a coach, Rachel once again went back to school, but this time for the polar-opposite subject…love. “Relationship coaching came from my natural desire to help people, as did being a lawyer” As one of my favorite topics to talk about (love and relationships) I got some juicy details out of Rachel! She opens up to us about frequently asked questions in her field along with helpful tips and advice to not only FIND love, but to KEEP love. As powerful women AND men, it’s important to know that “the more you are, the more you expect,” when it comes to finding the one. Understand that the “intimidation factor” is also real, it is very real ladies and gentlemen! Having it all and looking the part to match, isn’t always the easiest to approach. Finding love takes just as much effort on your end, as it does theirs. “I feel like expectations can kind-of be a killer. You can have desires, but don’t expect every man you meet to live up to them.” Rachel also shares with us one of the first steps she goes through with her clients. “I ask them what are the four things they look for in someone that they couldn't live without? I only give them four!” “No one is perfect, but it's more about finding someone who fits with you perfectly.” Looking to find love? Or maybe enhance your current relationship with some extra fire?! Tune in for some of the greatest love advice I’ve ever heard! Rachel is the real deal y’all…you can thank me later ;) In This Episode You Will Learn About: Relationships Love Partnership Coaching Communication Finding “the one” Patience Dating Self-awareness Getting clear Expectations Resources: RachelDeAlto.com If you agree that it is time to have the love life that you deserve, you can find more from Rachel at racheldealto.com and also @racheldealto on social media! Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook. You can also see more at my website: LoriHarder.com

Just when you start to feel overwhelmed (and trust me, we've all felt that way, you are not alone!) Remember that there is always some part of the day or the task that you can be grateful for. Only 7 days out from my biggest event of the year and believe me when I say…I’m feeling a bit overwhelmed. But instead of sinking into the dark hole, my weeks mantra is, “I love that I get to do this!” I can’t even imagine not hosting the Bliss Project. “It is like I would not be fulfilling my life’s calling.” Be conscious and aware that every experience that comes your way is an opportunity. An opportunity to choose love and bliss or to grow and overcome! You can’t “be jealous” of what others have, if you aren't willing to put in the work for it. To go through it and to GROW through it. “Visualization is like a secret handshake with the universe.” Seeing your future, and visualizing/planning your future is the key to creating a life you have always dreamed of. The faster you say YES to your dreams, the faster your blessings will appear. It is about stepping straight into your fear, and letting faith take it from there! In This Episode You Will Learn About: Empowerment Fulfillment Mantras Life’s work Taking action Daily habits Opportunity Overcome Growth Visualization Resources: theblissproject.info Instagram: @loriharder Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook.